Counselling in BN7

Hello and welcome! I am an accredited and experienced Integrative Humanistic counsellor, offering counselling sessions in East Sussex as well as online. Working integratively means, I combine multiple therapeutic modalities and theories, such as Person-Centred, Gestalt, Existential Therapy and aspects of Transactional Analysis, in order to create an individual way of working that best suits you.
Hello and welcome! I am an accredited and experienced Integrative Humanistic counsellor, offering counselling sessions in East Sussex as well as online. Working integratively means, I combine multiple therapeutic modalities and theories, such as Person-Centred, Gestalt, Existential Therapy and aspects of Transactional Analysis, in order to create an individual way of working that best suits you.

I have over 30 years of experience working with people who wish to explore their mental health and wellbeing. I work with people who are 18+ experiencing challenges including anxiety, phobias, PTSD, depression and low self-esteem. I am also more than happy to work with people who wouldn’t define themselves using these categories who wish to get to know and understand their internal landscape better.
I have over 30 years of experience working with people who wish to explore their mental health and wellbeing. I work with people who are 18+ experiencing challenges including anxiety, phobias, PTSD, depression and low self-esteem. I am also more than happy to work with people who wouldn’t define themselves using these categories who wish to get to know and understand their internal landscape better.

I work both face to face in a therapy room in central Lewes and flexibly online. There is lots I can say about me and my practice, for example I have worked for decades in different roles within the 'helping professions' in the NHS, in a hospice & in the local authority. I am also a University Professor. I specialise in loss and bereavement and am a recognised expert on child death. However, perhaps the best way to help you decide if I am the right therapist for you is through the voices of people I have worked with: 'Denise was brilliant and helped me immensely through a very challenging time. I am so very grateful to her.'
I work both face to face in a therapy room in central Lewes and flexibly online. There is lots I can say about me and my practice, for example I have worked for decades in different roles within the 'helping professions' in the NHS, in a hospice & in the local authority. I am also a University Professor. I specialise in loss and bereavement and am a recognised expert on child death. However, perhaps the best way to help you decide if I am the right therapist for you is through the voices of people I have worked with: 'Denise was brilliant and helped me immensely through a very challenging time. I am so very grateful to her.'

My approach is warm, gentle and understanding. I strive to create an inclusive environment that welcomes clients from all backgrounds, including LGBTQ+. Most importantly, I want to help make positive changes in your life, specialising in issues arising from childhood. We all experience ups and downs in our relationships. Still, if one or both people in the relationship are having mental health problems, this often brings extra challenges, and we may underestimate the impact this can have on the strongest of relationships, either at home or at work. I work with individuals and couples, helping with a full range of issues.
My approach is warm, gentle and understanding. I strive to create an inclusive environment that welcomes clients from all backgrounds, including LGBTQ+. Most importantly, I want to help make positive changes in your life, specialising in issues arising from childhood. We all experience ups and downs in our relationships. Still, if one or both people in the relationship are having mental health problems, this often brings extra challenges, and we may underestimate the impact this can have on the strongest of relationships, either at home or at work. I work with individuals and couples, helping with a full range of issues.

In challenging and often uncertain times, where we often neglect ourselves, I offer a professional, non-judgemental space to explore what may be troubling you and help you reach your potential. I am a very experienced, accredited UKCP and BACP psychotherapist with a long-standing private practice. I am told I am professional, focussed, reflective and caring. I work both online and face-to-face in a safe, pleasant space. As an integrative therapist, I bring together different models as are helpful to you; one size doesn't fit all. Feel free to contact me if you would like to discuss undertaking therapy.
In challenging and often uncertain times, where we often neglect ourselves, I offer a professional, non-judgemental space to explore what may be troubling you and help you reach your potential. I am a very experienced, accredited UKCP and BACP psychotherapist with a long-standing private practice. I am told I am professional, focussed, reflective and caring. I work both online and face-to-face in a safe, pleasant space. As an integrative therapist, I bring together different models as are helpful to you; one size doesn't fit all. Feel free to contact me if you would like to discuss undertaking therapy.

Hi, I'm Joe. Whatever you've got gong on, let's have a conversation to see if we can work on it together. I offer a first free session so you can meet me and decide before you commit.
Hi, I'm Joe. Whatever you've got gong on, let's have a conversation to see if we can work on it together. I offer a first free session so you can meet me and decide before you commit.

To begin counselling can be a life-changing decision. You may want to address thoughts and feelings or specific challenges that can be hard to speak to others about, or perhaps made a decision to address the impact of past trauma, loss or shame. By sharing your story and emotional journey within the therapeutic space, it can be heard in a new way, as though for the first time. In this way, different narratives can be explored, allowing you to take greater ownership of your life and your future.
To begin counselling can be a life-changing decision. You may want to address thoughts and feelings or specific challenges that can be hard to speak to others about, or perhaps made a decision to address the impact of past trauma, loss or shame. By sharing your story and emotional journey within the therapeutic space, it can be heard in a new way, as though for the first time. In this way, different narratives can be explored, allowing you to take greater ownership of your life and your future.

From time to time everyone experiences stress, sadness, anger, relational conflict and grief which we often suffer alone. Accepting help from others can be difficult but maybe you feel you’ve toughing it out on your own for too long. Whether you are struggling with an identifiable trauma or you’ve reached a point where recurring feelings are becoming unmanageable; a course of psychotherapeutic counselling may help you make sense of what is happening and enable you to gain and maintain some stability. Feelings of fear, anger, rejection and lack of confidence are difficult areas and discussing them with friends too raw and personal.
From time to time everyone experiences stress, sadness, anger, relational conflict and grief which we often suffer alone. Accepting help from others can be difficult but maybe you feel you’ve toughing it out on your own for too long. Whether you are struggling with an identifiable trauma or you’ve reached a point where recurring feelings are becoming unmanageable; a course of psychotherapeutic counselling may help you make sense of what is happening and enable you to gain and maintain some stability. Feelings of fear, anger, rejection and lack of confidence are difficult areas and discussing them with friends too raw and personal.

I am a psychodynamic psychotherapist with over 10 years experience. I work full-time seeing individual adult clients and I hope that my approach is experienced as warm, non-judgmental and relational. Whatever has led you to look for a therapist today, my own view is that current persistent difficulties in life have their roots in the past. And I believe that it is only by getting underneath these symptoms and trying to understand where they come from that real and lasting change can take place. But just to sit with someone who will listen attentively and without judgement can be a completely new experience for many people.
I am a psychodynamic psychotherapist with over 10 years experience. I work full-time seeing individual adult clients and I hope that my approach is experienced as warm, non-judgmental and relational. Whatever has led you to look for a therapist today, my own view is that current persistent difficulties in life have their roots in the past. And I believe that it is only by getting underneath these symptoms and trying to understand where they come from that real and lasting change can take place. But just to sit with someone who will listen attentively and without judgement can be a completely new experience for many people.

I am a qualified psychotherapist. My practise offers a safe, supportive and confidential space to work through the material you bring to the session. I work within a range of areas. A few of these include trauma, difficult relationships, addictions, family issues, anxiety, depression and abuse (see below for more). We navigate together, at your pace, and unpick gently past wounds or present emotional states that effect your everyday. We seek to change negative patterns and encourage different ways of approaching problems. With empathetic exploration at the front of our work, we allow for healing.
I am a qualified psychotherapist. My practise offers a safe, supportive and confidential space to work through the material you bring to the session. I work within a range of areas. A few of these include trauma, difficult relationships, addictions, family issues, anxiety, depression and abuse (see below for more). We navigate together, at your pace, and unpick gently past wounds or present emotional states that effect your everyday. We seek to change negative patterns and encourage different ways of approaching problems. With empathetic exploration at the front of our work, we allow for healing.

There are many reasons you may be seeking counselling but I imagine you are wanting something to change. My aim is to facilitate a relationship that is tailored to you and created with you. This provides the conditions for you to freely and safely explore the challenges you may face as well as the trauma or difficulties you have experienced. Counselling is not only about what we think of ourselves and our life but more importantly, our felt sense of ourselves and our visceral experience of life. Giving space and awareness to our experience is what informs us of what is needed for healing, growth and change.
There are many reasons you may be seeking counselling but I imagine you are wanting something to change. My aim is to facilitate a relationship that is tailored to you and created with you. This provides the conditions for you to freely and safely explore the challenges you may face as well as the trauma or difficulties you have experienced. Counselling is not only about what we think of ourselves and our life but more importantly, our felt sense of ourselves and our visceral experience of life. Giving space and awareness to our experience is what informs us of what is needed for healing, growth and change.
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Are you experiencing challenges in your relationships that you'd like to address? I have a particular focus on working with clients wanting to have better relationships in their lives.
You may feel you put so much energy into your relationships - keeping the peace, meeting expectations and making sure everyone is okay. Perhaps you feel guilty for saying no, stuck in a pattern of people pleasing, scared of rejection if you speak honestly about what you need. But lately you're feeling exhausted. Deep down, you want to feel more like yourself again but the fear of upsetting others or losing relationships makes that feel impossible.
Are you experiencing challenges in your relationships that you'd like to address? I have a particular focus on working with clients wanting to have better relationships in their lives.
You may feel you put so much energy into your relationships - keeping the peace, meeting expectations and making sure everyone is okay. Perhaps you feel guilty for saying no, stuck in a pattern of people pleasing, scared of rejection if you speak honestly about what you need. But lately you're feeling exhausted. Deep down, you want to feel more like yourself again but the fear of upsetting others or losing relationships makes that feel impossible.

My name is Esmo Sleyster and I am a Clinical Child Psychologist with 38 years’ experience assessing and supporting children with emotional, behavioural, social, and mental health difficulties. I work collaboratively with families and carers to support them with difficult situations and relationships. I help adults better understand their child and themselves, implement practical strategies to manage behaviours and emotions constructively, and improve relationships. I offer a child-focused, compassionate, and confidential space where your child's and family's needs are carefully evaluated and met by using evidence-based approaches.
My name is Esmo Sleyster and I am a Clinical Child Psychologist with 38 years’ experience assessing and supporting children with emotional, behavioural, social, and mental health difficulties. I work collaboratively with families and carers to support them with difficult situations and relationships. I help adults better understand their child and themselves, implement practical strategies to manage behaviours and emotions constructively, and improve relationships. I offer a child-focused, compassionate, and confidential space where your child's and family's needs are carefully evaluated and met by using evidence-based approaches.

Are you are anxious, depressed, stressed and struggling to cope? Are you feeling that old issues and feelings are overwhelming you? As an EMDR Practitioner, I can help with these unmanageable feelings. In an initial session we can discuss your problems, your goals and work out a treatment plan. I offer EMDR and we target specific traumatic experiences and symptoms. A large body of neuroscience research has found that working at a subcortical level, using EMDR, effectively reprocesses experiences that are stuck in your body and your nervous system. After EMDR you are likely to feel much less dys-regulated.
Are you are anxious, depressed, stressed and struggling to cope? Are you feeling that old issues and feelings are overwhelming you? As an EMDR Practitioner, I can help with these unmanageable feelings. In an initial session we can discuss your problems, your goals and work out a treatment plan. I offer EMDR and we target specific traumatic experiences and symptoms. A large body of neuroscience research has found that working at a subcortical level, using EMDR, effectively reprocesses experiences that are stuck in your body and your nervous system. After EMDR you are likely to feel much less dys-regulated.

Hello, my name is Tara and I am here to hear you. I am a Person Centred Counsellor which means I create a safe space so you are able to freely talk about anything you want. The focus is on you, whether it's present day troubles or something bothering you from your past. Do you feel like something or some one has stolen your joy? Sometimes we are feeling anxious, sad or angry with ourselves, other people or just life in general. I am able to help you explore those feelings and identify ways to the joy again in everyday life. I am also a Christian and happy to incorporate prayer and Biblical input into our sessions.
Hello, my name is Tara and I am here to hear you. I am a Person Centred Counsellor which means I create a safe space so you are able to freely talk about anything you want. The focus is on you, whether it's present day troubles or something bothering you from your past. Do you feel like something or some one has stolen your joy? Sometimes we are feeling anxious, sad or angry with ourselves, other people or just life in general. I am able to help you explore those feelings and identify ways to the joy again in everyday life. I am also a Christian and happy to incorporate prayer and Biblical input into our sessions.

I am a Senior Child and Adolescent Psychotherapist with over twenty years experience working in the NHS and independently. I usually work with children and young people up to the age of 25. I also offer consultations and therapeutic parenting sessions to parents and other family members who may be caring for a child. I see children and young people with a range of needs, including trauma, anxiety and low mood. I often work with clients who are neurodiverse or have a learning difficulty. I am experienced at working with clients with histories of self harm and eating disorders.
I am a Senior Child and Adolescent Psychotherapist with over twenty years experience working in the NHS and independently. I usually work with children and young people up to the age of 25. I also offer consultations and therapeutic parenting sessions to parents and other family members who may be caring for a child. I see children and young people with a range of needs, including trauma, anxiety and low mood. I often work with clients who are neurodiverse or have a learning difficulty. I am experienced at working with clients with histories of self harm and eating disorders.

Do you ever think that your life could be so much happier or more satisfying than it is? Counselling could be the first step towards making it so. Many of us grow up with negative influences around us: indifference, criticism, insecurity, rejection, sometimes even hostility and aggression. As we grow up we find ourselves absorbing these energies, and in adult life they show up as low self-esteem, as anxiety, as outbursts of rage or as depression. They interfere with our work, with our relationships and with our ability to enjoy and make the most of our lives.
Do you ever think that your life could be so much happier or more satisfying than it is? Counselling could be the first step towards making it so. Many of us grow up with negative influences around us: indifference, criticism, insecurity, rejection, sometimes even hostility and aggression. As we grow up we find ourselves absorbing these energies, and in adult life they show up as low self-esteem, as anxiety, as outbursts of rage or as depression. They interfere with our work, with our relationships and with our ability to enjoy and make the most of our lives.

Sometimes, life can feel overwhelming, leaving us uncertain if we have the energy or skills to handle its challenges. Stress and anxiety might take over, making it hard to see a way forward. I’m here to support you—offering a safe, confidential space where you can share your experiences and begin to explore how you’re responding to life’s events. Together, we can work toward creating a clearer, calmer experience that helps you rediscover confidence in your ability to cope.
Sometimes, life can feel overwhelming, leaving us uncertain if we have the energy or skills to handle its challenges. Stress and anxiety might take over, making it hard to see a way forward. I’m here to support you—offering a safe, confidential space where you can share your experiences and begin to explore how you’re responding to life’s events. Together, we can work toward creating a clearer, calmer experience that helps you rediscover confidence in your ability to cope.

Fed up of feeling low, overwhelmed or disconnected? Want to explore what's weighing you down in a down to earth and supportive space where all your feelings are welcome? By allowing you to feel truly seen and heard I can help you find new perspectives and move on from whatever it is that’s been holding you back. Whatever it is you don’t have to figure everything out on your own.
Fed up of feeling low, overwhelmed or disconnected? Want to explore what's weighing you down in a down to earth and supportive space where all your feelings are welcome? By allowing you to feel truly seen and heard I can help you find new perspectives and move on from whatever it is that’s been holding you back. Whatever it is you don’t have to figure everything out on your own.

If you’re feeling sad, anxious or lost, struggling with relationships, or stuck in familiar negative patterns of thoughts or behaviour, please contact me to see how counselling can help.
If you’re feeling sad, anxious or lost, struggling with relationships, or stuck in familiar negative patterns of thoughts or behaviour, please contact me to see how counselling can help.
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How does your Counsellor compare?
Number of Counsellors in BN7
100+
Average cost per session
£60
Counsellors in BN7 who prioritize treating:
89% | Anxiety |
86% | Self Esteem |
85% | Relationship Issues |
85% | Depression |
72% | Bereavement |
72% | Stress |
67% | Trauma and PTSD |
Average years in practice
10 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
52% | AXA PPP |
48% | Bupa |
43% | Aviva |
How Counsellors in BN7 see their clients
91% | In Person and Online | |
9% | Online Only |
Gender breakdown
79% | Female | |
20% | Male | |
1% | Non-Binary |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counselling
How can I find a therapist in BN7?
Search for nearby therapists or counsellors by inputting your city, postcode, or a provider’s name into the search bar. From there, you can filter providers by the issues they treat, cost, insurance, gender, and other factors to find providers who are well-suited to your needs. To navigate between locations within the same country, enter a new city or postcode into the search bar.
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
Counsellors and Psychotherapists listed in the directory are members of the main professional associations, mainly the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP). Most Psychologists in the directory are accredited members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and/or are registered in the Health and Care Professions Council (HPCP).
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counsellor?
Counsellors, psychotherapists and psychologists can all provide counselling or talking therapy and have credentials and experience that enable them to do so in the UK. Psychologists have earned a degree in psychology and many are members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and have completed a postgraduate qualification in a specialism. Counsellors and Psychotherapists are not required to have a psychology degree, but to belong to a professional organisation such as the BACP or UKCP, they are required to have completed a training course as well as clinical and supervision hours.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the UK could be between £30 - £60 when seeing a counsellor and £60 - £150 and up when seeing a clinical psychologist. If you have private insurance, your plan may cover some if not all of your sessions. You should contact your insurance provider to determine if they provide coverage for therapy sessions and to determine what, if any, requirements they might have in order for your sessions to be covered, such as a referral from your GP or medical specialist.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your postcode.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Therapists who are part of a professional organisation such as the BACP, the UKCP, or BPS are bound by an ethical framework that requires them to uphold a confidentiality agreement. Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship and only under specific circumstances, such as when there has been participation in a criminal act or act of terror, or if there is potential or known harm to the client or others, will a therapist be obligated to break the agreement. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed during the initial consultation.