I actually feel sorry for your husband. He has only complained about his "real" pain for 2 weeks and you're angry to the point of exploding at him. Your complaints against him when he is down make you sound so insensitive and narcissistic. It's all about YOU. You have to pick up the slack everywhere else. Geez! Heaven forbid if he was terminally ill, you'd probably off the poor guy or dump him in a convalescent home.