I'm so sorry for your losses. Having one come so soon after another is almost unimaginable. It is understandable that it would take you time to grieve. You've mentioned some great steps you have taken to remain engaged with friends and family, which is bound to help you with this process.
Just wanted to reach out and tell you that my thoughts are with you---and I'm hoping that over time, you'll be able to find new joys and opportunities for intimacy.

Best, Irene