Rita Onwunali - Betrayal Trauma & Affair Therapy

Registered Social Worker, MSW, BSc, RSW

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Rita Onwunali - Betrayal Trauma & Affair Therapy

Registered Social Worker, MSW, BSc, RSW

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Available both in-person and online

Abbotsford, BC V2T

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Reeling from infidelity or betrayal trauma in Abbotsford, Kelowna, or anywhere in BC? Whether you were betrayed or you were the one unfaithful, the pain can feel unbearable. I provide one-on-one therapy for individuals healing from physical, emotional, financial, and online cheating. Together we'll slow things down, make sense of what happened, and find clarity, accountability, and emotional safety, without rushing you toward any decision before you're ready. You don't have to carry this alone, and healing after an affair is possible.

I specialize in infidelity and betrayal trauma, drawing on EMDR, trauma-focused, and emotionally focused approaches proven to help you process the shock, anger, grief, guilt, and shame an affair can stir up. My style is calm, honest, and non-judgmental, a safe space where your story is met with care and respect.

At Betrayal Care, infidelity and betrayal are all we treat, and that depth of focus is what I bring to every session. Whether you were betrayed or the one who strayed, there is hope. Book a free 15-minute consultation with our client care coordinator through the website button and take the first step today. You're not alone in this.

Call or Email Rita Onwunali - Betrayal Trauma & Affair Therapy now for a free 15 minute consultation - (236) 774-9398

Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Abbotsford, BC V2T

(236) 774-9398

Coquitlam, BC V3B

Website

I'm accepting new clients for secure online sessions across BC. Book your free consultation with our client care coordinator today.

I specialize in Infidelity, Marital and Premarital and Relationship Issues

I accept insurance

Please watch my video to learn more about me and my practice.

Rita Onwunali - Betrayal Trauma & Affair Therapy

Let's Connect (236) 774-9398

Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Abbotsford, BC V2T

(236) 774-9398

Coquitlam, BC V3B

Website

I'm accepting new clients for secure online sessions across BC. Book your free consultation with our client care coordinator today.

I specialize in Infidelity, Marital and Premarital and Relationship Issues

I accept insurance

Please watch my video to learn more about me and my practice.

Finances

Insurance

Alberta Blue Cross
Alberta School Employee
Blue Cross
Blue Shield
BlueCross and BlueShield
Canada Life | Great-West Life
Desjardins
Empire Blue Cross Blue Shield
Great-West Life
Green Shield Canada
iA Financial Group
Insurance Corporation of British Columbia
Johnson
Johnston Group
LifeWise
Manulife
Medavie Blue Cross
Pacific Blue Cross
SunLife

Direct receipts are provided for reimbursement through most major insurers, including Pacific Blue Cross, Canada Life, Sun Life, Manulife, Green Shield, and Medavie Blue Cross, where Registered Social Worker services are covered. Visa, Mastercard, and Amex accepted.

Rita Onwunali - Betrayal Trauma & Affair Therapy

Registered Social Worker, MSW, BSc, RSW

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (236) 774-9398

Rita Onwunali - Betrayal Trauma & Affair Therapy

Registered Social Worker, MSW, BSc, RSW

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (236) 774-9398

Qualifications

Registered Social Worker: Rita Onwunali

Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by Province of British Columbia / 16006 Rita Onwunali

Education and Years In Practice

In Practice for 10 years

Attended Wilfrid Laurier, MSW, Graduated 2016

In practice for over ten years as an RSW, licensed in British Columbia, Alberta, and Ontario. Holding an MSW from Wilfrid Laurier University, with specialized training in EMDR and EFT and a focused practice in betrayal trauma and affair recovery at Betrayal Care.

Rita Onwunali - Betrayal Trauma & Affair Therapy

Registered Social Worker, MSW, BSc, RSW

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (236) 774-9398

Rita Onwunali - Betrayal Trauma & Affair Therapy

Registered Social Worker, MSW, BSc, RSW

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (236) 774-9398

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

Infidelity
Marital and Premarital
Relationship Issues

Expertise

Anxiety
Codependency
Depression
Divorce
Emotional Regulation
Grief
Men's Issues
Sex Therapy
Sexual Addiction
Stress
Trauma and PTSD
Women's Issues

At Betrayal Care, infidelity and betrayal trauma are all we treat. Working one-on-one with individuals in Abbotsford, Langley, Coquitlam, Kelowna, and online across BC, I use EMDR and trauma-focused therapy to process the pain and help you decide your next step at your own pace.

Rita Onwunali - Betrayal Trauma & Affair Therapy

Registered Social Worker, MSW, BSc, RSW

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (236) 774-9398

Rita Onwunali - Betrayal Trauma & Affair Therapy

Registered Social Worker, MSW, BSc, RSW

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (236) 774-9398

9 Endorsements

Elliott Kemmet - Infidelity & Betrayal Therapy

Registered Social Worker, MSW, BSW, RSW

Rita is a thoughtful and steady presence in depression counselling. She meets clients with empathy and clinical skill, helping them move from heaviness and isolation toward hope, clarity, and practical steps forward.

Joanna He - Couples, & Relationship Therapy

Registered Provisional Psychologist, CCC, MC, MEng

Rita is someone I would confidently refer individuals facing betrayal and broken trust to. She helps clients sort through painful emotions without losing focus on what matters most.

Joanna He - Infidelity & Betrayal Trauma Therapy

Registered Provisional Psychologist, CCC, MC, MEng

Rita is the person you want by your side when your world's been turned upside down. She guides you through the mess of infidelity with a grounded, sincere perspective. You'll find the clarity and safety you need to move forward with your life.

Tolu Folarin- Infidelity & Betrayal Trauma Therapy

Registered Social Worker, MSW, BSW, RSW

Rita helps couples navigate betrayal without becoming stuck in blame or defensiveness. Her approach encourages openness, responsibility, and emotional awareness.

Maria Glover -Betrayal Trauma & Infidelity Therapy

Registered Provisional Psychologist, Bsc, MA, CCC

Rita supports individuals through painful relationship challenges with steadiness and professionalism. She helps clients move toward healthier communication and repair.

Alisha Mann - Infidelity, Affair & Betrayal Trauma

Registered Provisional Psychologist, M.Psyc, RP

Rita helps individuals better understand the emotional impact of betrayal and disconnection. Her approach supports meaningful reflection and lasting growth.

Zoe Klein - Infidelity & Betrayal Trauma Therapy

Registered Social Worker, MSW, MEd, RSW

Rita helps individuals navigate betrayal without becoming trapped in blame or defensiveness. She supports healthier communication and stronger emotional connection.

Zoe Klein - Infidelity & Betrayal Trauma Therapy

Registered Social Worker, RSW, MSW, MEd

Rita helps individuals facing betrayal move toward more open and connected communication. She creates space for both accountability and emotional support.

Maria Glover - Couples & Infidelity Counselling

Registered Provisional Psychologist, Bsc, MA, CCC

Rita helps individuals work through infidelity with care and strong relational insight. She helps clients build skills for reconciliation and emotional safety.

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
Cognitive Behavioural (CBT)
Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
EMDR
Emotionally Focused
Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
Motivational Interviewing
Person-Centered
Strength-Based
Trauma Focused

I draw on EMDR and trauma-focused therapy to process the shock, flashbacks, and intrusive thoughts that follow discovery, and person-centered and mindfulness-based work to steady you. Sessions are calm, structured, and paced to your nervous system.

Rita Onwunali - Betrayal Trauma & Affair Therapy

Registered Social Worker, MSW, BSc, RSW