Photo of Lisa Boag-Guidi, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Calgary, AB
Lisa Boag-Guidi
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, RCSW, RMFT-SQ
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T3E
Waitlist for new clients
Are you tired of dealing with life's challenges and feeling stuck or overwhelmed, unsure how to move forward? Do you want to explore new understanding about your experiences, and the experiences you share with others to create changes you desire? Are you looking for supervision of your relational practice? Our collaborative relationship will allow you to achieve these goals at a pace you feel comfortable with. Through examining your inner world, your life experiences, and your relationships with others, we can uncover inherent strengths, understanding, and connections, allowing for new and enriched ways of being to take shape.
Are you tired of dealing with life's challenges and feeling stuck or overwhelmed, unsure how to move forward? Do you want to explore new understanding about your experiences, and the experiences you share with others to create changes you desire? Are you looking for supervision of your relational practice? Our collaborative relationship will allow you to achieve these goals at a pace you feel comfortable with. Through examining your inner world, your life experiences, and your relationships with others, we can uncover inherent strengths, understanding, and connections, allowing for new and enriched ways of being to take shape.
(587) 803-8052 View (587) 803-8052
Photo of Kyle Graham, Psychologist in Calgary, AB
Kyle Graham
Psychologist, MC, RPsych
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T2R
Clients seeking treatment for symptoms related to anxiety, depression, trauma, and/or relationship issues will benefit from my integrated approach which draws from evidence based best practices including: Gestalt interventions; grief/loss models; Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT); EMDR; the Gottman Method; and the principles of emotional focused therapy.
During times of heightened stress symptoms related to anxiety, panic, and depression worsen and it can be very hard to maintain hope and positivity during this global crisis. Self-isolating, social distancing, and quarantine are helpful to keep everyone as safe as possible during COVID19, but this also puts added pressure on individuals residing alone, on relationships, and on families. I am passionate about mental and emotional health, and I am available to help you and your loved ones throughout this pandemic and beyond.
Clients seeking treatment for symptoms related to anxiety, depression, trauma, and/or relationship issues will benefit from my integrated approach which draws from evidence based best practices including: Gestalt interventions; grief/loss models; Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT); EMDR; the Gottman Method; and the principles of emotional focused therapy.
During times of heightened stress symptoms related to anxiety, panic, and depression worsen and it can be very hard to maintain hope and positivity during this global crisis. Self-isolating, social distancing, and quarantine are helpful to keep everyone as safe as possible during COVID19, but this also puts added pressure on individuals residing alone, on relationships, and on families. I am passionate about mental and emotional health, and I am available to help you and your loved ones throughout this pandemic and beyond.
(587) 329-8566 View (587) 329-8566
Photo of Chantai Minet, Psychologist in Calgary, AB
Chantai Minet
Psychologist, MSc
Verified Verified
9 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T3E
Take a deep breath, pour a cup of tea, keep it real. I am here to help you slow down, connect with yourself, and trust your intuitive wisdom. I work from a holistic perspective and I believe that relationality is essential to our well-being. That's why I show up to our time together just as you show up — fully human. I invite genuine connection, creativity, and the full range of emotion within our therapeutic relationship. This means your humour, tears, and dance moves are always welcome. My focus in session is to be present, curious, and courageous with you as we build relationship, embody emotions, and work with your stories.
Take a deep breath, pour a cup of tea, keep it real. I am here to help you slow down, connect with yourself, and trust your intuitive wisdom. I work from a holistic perspective and I believe that relationality is essential to our well-being. That's why I show up to our time together just as you show up — fully human. I invite genuine connection, creativity, and the full range of emotion within our therapeutic relationship. This means your humour, tears, and dance moves are always welcome. My focus in session is to be present, curious, and courageous with you as we build relationship, embody emotions, and work with your stories.
View
Photo of Joanna Jewell, Psychologist in Calgary, AB
Joanna Jewell
Psychologist, MA, RPsych, CSAT, CMAT
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T2R
I am a trained and experienced counsellor for relationship struggles, trauma, grief, chronic pain and health loss, body image and disordered eating concerns, a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist and an experienced Gottman and EFT trained couples therapist who helps couples enrich and strengthen relationships, intimacy and communication.
Is your life all you want it to be? Are you struggling to make changes on your own and it just ISN'T working? I offer skilled and compassionate counselling in a non-judgmental, safe and confidential environment where you can share your concerns, gain perspective and learn specific, targeted tools to help you navigate life's challenges, improve wellness and heal and move past life's difficulties. Working from a person-centered, holistic approach I blend cognitive-behavioral, psychodynamic (including attachment focused) and interpersonal therapies to individualize the best care for you.
I am a trained and experienced counsellor for relationship struggles, trauma, grief, chronic pain and health loss, body image and disordered eating concerns, a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist and an experienced Gottman and EFT trained couples therapist who helps couples enrich and strengthen relationships, intimacy and communication.
Is your life all you want it to be? Are you struggling to make changes on your own and it just ISN'T working? I offer skilled and compassionate counselling in a non-judgmental, safe and confidential environment where you can share your concerns, gain perspective and learn specific, targeted tools to help you navigate life's challenges, improve wellness and heal and move past life's difficulties. Working from a person-centered, holistic approach I blend cognitive-behavioral, psychodynamic (including attachment focused) and interpersonal therapies to individualize the best care for you.
(587) 412-2710 View (587) 412-2710
Photo of Alshaba Billawala, Psychologist in Calgary, AB
Alshaba Billawala
Psychologist, RPsych
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T2S  (Online Only)
If you are experiencing anxiety, depression, or have been through trauma, you might be feeling frustrated, hopeless, or overwhelmed trying to figure out how to address these difficulties. Or maybe you are in a relationship and are finding it difficult to communicate, resolve conflict, or connect with your partner and you've tried everything you can think of. In my practice, I can support you in identifying any patterns/behaviours that may keep you or your partner stuck and help you learn tools and strategies to work towards improving your mental health, well-being, and your relationship.
If you are experiencing anxiety, depression, or have been through trauma, you might be feeling frustrated, hopeless, or overwhelmed trying to figure out how to address these difficulties. Or maybe you are in a relationship and are finding it difficult to communicate, resolve conflict, or connect with your partner and you've tried everything you can think of. In my practice, I can support you in identifying any patterns/behaviours that may keep you or your partner stuck and help you learn tools and strategies to work towards improving your mental health, well-being, and your relationship.
(587) 507-8565 View (587) 507-8565
Photo of Hanita R Dagan, Psychologist in Calgary, AB
Hanita R Dagan
Psychologist, MA, RPsych, RMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T2P
I specialize in working with relationship issues in general and high conflict families in particular, utilizing my expertise through dispute resolution including, Mediation and Parenting Coordination, as well as Therapy for Marital and Relationship concerns.
I am a Registered Psychologist and Registered Marriage and Family Therapist with over 25 years of experience working with individuals, couples and families. I am committed to implementing evidence based treatment and staying current with best practices through attending national and international conferences, as well as keeping up-to-date with the latest research in the field. I believe that positive, meaningful relationships form the foundation of our well-being and the resolution of conflict can improve these relationships for the benefit of the couples, children and families involved.
I specialize in working with relationship issues in general and high conflict families in particular, utilizing my expertise through dispute resolution including, Mediation and Parenting Coordination, as well as Therapy for Marital and Relationship concerns.
I am a Registered Psychologist and Registered Marriage and Family Therapist with over 25 years of experience working with individuals, couples and families. I am committed to implementing evidence based treatment and staying current with best practices through attending national and international conferences, as well as keeping up-to-date with the latest research in the field. I believe that positive, meaningful relationships form the foundation of our well-being and the resolution of conflict can improve these relationships for the benefit of the couples, children and families involved.
(587) 812-0952 View (587) 812-0952
Photo of Robyn Rilett, Psychologist in Calgary, AB
Robyn Rilett
Psychologist, PhD, RPsych
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T2V  (Online Only)
Loss, trauma, life changes, illness, or relational problems can cause difficulties that impact one's quality of life. Although time can sometimes help, meaningful resolution of problems and personal growth takes place within the context of a supportive relationship. Quality of life and contentment increase as the ability to process issues develops. I help my clients resolve emotional difficulties related to life circumstances and struggles with family, friends or co-workers. Building on current areas of strength and, when necessary, tackling new areas of competence we work together to rebuild or develop your sense of inner strength.
Loss, trauma, life changes, illness, or relational problems can cause difficulties that impact one's quality of life. Although time can sometimes help, meaningful resolution of problems and personal growth takes place within the context of a supportive relationship. Quality of life and contentment increase as the ability to process issues develops. I help my clients resolve emotional difficulties related to life circumstances and struggles with family, friends or co-workers. Building on current areas of strength and, when necessary, tackling new areas of competence we work together to rebuild or develop your sense of inner strength.
(587) 800-3489 View (587) 800-3489
Photo of Laura Grier, Psychologist in Calgary, AB
Laura Grier
Psychologist, MA, RPsych
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T2G
We can become stuck in old patterns that get in the way of authentic connection with ourselves and others, keeping us from feeling peace and happiness. I am passionate about helping clients discover their capacity for growth and healing. I have been counselling for over 20 yrs and specialize in stress management, relationship issues, grief & loss, personal growth, life transitions, depression, anxiety, and trauma. Using a holistic and collaborative approach, I will support you to skillfully navigate through the difficulties that life brings, and connect with your resiliency for emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual well-being.
We can become stuck in old patterns that get in the way of authentic connection with ourselves and others, keeping us from feeling peace and happiness. I am passionate about helping clients discover their capacity for growth and healing. I have been counselling for over 20 yrs and specialize in stress management, relationship issues, grief & loss, personal growth, life transitions, depression, anxiety, and trauma. Using a holistic and collaborative approach, I will support you to skillfully navigate through the difficulties that life brings, and connect with your resiliency for emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual well-being.
(844) 325-8105 View (844) 325-8105
Photo of Keira Shendaruk in Calgary, AB
Keira Shendaruk
MACP, BSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T3B
I nurture these parts of myself through nature, adventure, movement, relationship, and art.
You may be here because you are hurting, burdened by shame, feeling isolated, or are experiencing struggles in relationships. Maybe you are just trying to make sense of things and find your way forward. The fact that you're here tells me you have hope and that's where change begins. I'd like to offer to walk this path of change with you, with a presence of unconditional positive regard and a collaborative approach. I will strive to help you gain clarity and healing in your life and to experience growth. Areas I often work in are: trauma and abuse, relational issues, anxiety and stress, neurodiversity, grief, and spirituality.
I nurture these parts of myself through nature, adventure, movement, relationship, and art.
You may be here because you are hurting, burdened by shame, feeling isolated, or are experiencing struggles in relationships. Maybe you are just trying to make sense of things and find your way forward. The fact that you're here tells me you have hope and that's where change begins. I'd like to offer to walk this path of change with you, with a presence of unconditional positive regard and a collaborative approach. I will strive to help you gain clarity and healing in your life and to experience growth. Areas I often work in are: trauma and abuse, relational issues, anxiety and stress, neurodiversity, grief, and spirituality.
(825) 250-3689 View (825) 250-3689
Photo of Shezlina Haji, Psychologist in Calgary, AB
Shezlina Haji
Psychologist, MA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T2E
They say that for therapy to be effective, the relationship between client and therapist plays a massive role.
Challenges and suffering are a part of everyone’s journey. To be human is to feel the full range of emotions - the good, the bad and the ugly. But emotions can be confusing and cause a great of distress. I can help you understand what you're feeling and why you're feeling it, so you can use your emotions as a guide to living a full and meaningful life. When you sit across from me, you get an authentic, genuine person. I’ll laugh with you and cry with you. Because there is power in being able to share your emotional experience with someone, so you know you’re not alone.
They say that for therapy to be effective, the relationship between client and therapist plays a massive role.
Challenges and suffering are a part of everyone’s journey. To be human is to feel the full range of emotions - the good, the bad and the ugly. But emotions can be confusing and cause a great of distress. I can help you understand what you're feeling and why you're feeling it, so you can use your emotions as a guide to living a full and meaningful life. When you sit across from me, you get an authentic, genuine person. I’ll laugh with you and cry with you. Because there is power in being able to share your emotional experience with someone, so you know you’re not alone.
(587) 840-6099 View (587) 840-6099
Photo of Jeannine Crofton, Psychologist in Calgary, AB
Jeannine Crofton
Psychologist, MA, FMC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T3G
Clients resonate with the ideas of Relationship Redesign, Relationship Crisis or Transition to a new type of Relationship.
I am a Registered Psychologist in Alberta and Ontario. I offer online and in-person sessions. I am also a Divorce Mediator and provide Marital Mediation services. I teach in the Psychology department at Mount Royal University (MRU). I work with people who need guidance to redesign their relationship, work through a crisis or are transitioning into a co-parenting relationship with their spouse.
Clients resonate with the ideas of Relationship Redesign, Relationship Crisis or Transition to a new type of Relationship.
I am a Registered Psychologist in Alberta and Ontario. I offer online and in-person sessions. I am also a Divorce Mediator and provide Marital Mediation services. I teach in the Psychology department at Mount Royal University (MRU). I work with people who need guidance to redesign their relationship, work through a crisis or are transitioning into a co-parenting relationship with their spouse.
(587) 328-5545 View (587) 328-5545
Photo of Laura Doney at Larchwood Counselling, Counsellor in Calgary, AB
Laura Doney at Larchwood Counselling
Counsellor, MA, CCC
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T2J
I am passionate and skilled in working with clients who have experiences of trauma, PTSD, family conflict, marital conflict, parent-child issues, emotional or behavioural disturbances, depression, anxiety, and relationship problems. I enjoy working with clients who are interested in making long-lasting changes and improvements to their life.
I am passionate and skilled in working with clients who have experiences of trauma, PTSD, family conflict, marital conflict, parent-child issues, emotional or behavioural disturbances, depression, anxiety, and relationship problems. I enjoy working with clients who are interested in making long-lasting changes and improvements to their life.
(587) 802-3200 View (587) 802-3200
Photo of Connie Wong, Registered Social Worker in Calgary, AB
Connie Wong
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW, CCC, RC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T3G  (Online Only)
If you experiencing a difficult or challenging time right now, is feeling stuck in a relationship, or is going through a transition and yearning for something more in your life, finding an experienced and effective counsellor to work with can be extremely helpful. I offer a safe and supportive space for us to work together so that you can gain insight, learn skills & strategies to help you feel more empowered and confident navigating your current challenges and difficulties.
If you experiencing a difficult or challenging time right now, is feeling stuck in a relationship, or is going through a transition and yearning for something more in your life, finding an experienced and effective counsellor to work with can be extremely helpful. I offer a safe and supportive space for us to work together so that you can gain insight, learn skills & strategies to help you feel more empowered and confident navigating your current challenges and difficulties.
(825) 602-5549 View (825) 602-5549
Photo of Anthony Grey, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Calgary, AB
Anthony Grey
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, RSW, TITC-CT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T2R
I am a Certified Clinical Traumatologist and have worked with individuals diagnosed with anxiety, depression, PTSD, substance use issues, and relationship conflict .
Accepting new clients. My practice welcomes individuals and families from different cultural backgrounds and offers a safe place to work together, share experiences, and reconnecting to relationships that are meaningful. I believe that everybody has goals and dreams that they want to accomplish in life. However, sometimes we encounter stressors which interfere with our daily activities and relationships. I will work with you, using different approaches, to enable you to cope with the stressors that are getting in the way. I believe in resolving conflict, pursuing happiness, and preserving relationships.
I am a Certified Clinical Traumatologist and have worked with individuals diagnosed with anxiety, depression, PTSD, substance use issues, and relationship conflict .
Accepting new clients. My practice welcomes individuals and families from different cultural backgrounds and offers a safe place to work together, share experiences, and reconnecting to relationships that are meaningful. I believe that everybody has goals and dreams that they want to accomplish in life. However, sometimes we encounter stressors which interfere with our daily activities and relationships. I will work with you, using different approaches, to enable you to cope with the stressors that are getting in the way. I believe in resolving conflict, pursuing happiness, and preserving relationships.
(587) 802-0954 x109 View (587) 802-0954 x109
Photo of Natalie Forcier, Psychologist in Calgary, AB
Natalie Forcier
Psychologist, MEd, RPsych
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T2G
I work with concerns related to emotional, interpersonal & relationship difficulties, anxiety, stress, trauma, PTSD, CPTSD, self-esteem, boundaries, communication, skin picking (dermatillomania/excoriation) and hair pulling (trichotillomania).
I am a Registered Psychologist offering compassionate care by video or in person in Calgary, and online in the Northwest Territories and across Alberta. With dignity and respect we can approach the troublesome barriers, pain, or patterns keeping you stuck. Together we can explore and restore what is valued and meaningful, whether that be related to improving your personal well-being or your relationships. I strive to offer a safe and confidential space for diverse individuals including sexual & gender minorities (LGBTQ2S+), as well as individuals from all religious, spiritual, ethnic, cultural, and racialized identities.
I work with concerns related to emotional, interpersonal & relationship difficulties, anxiety, stress, trauma, PTSD, CPTSD, self-esteem, boundaries, communication, skin picking (dermatillomania/excoriation) and hair pulling (trichotillomania).
I am a Registered Psychologist offering compassionate care by video or in person in Calgary, and online in the Northwest Territories and across Alberta. With dignity and respect we can approach the troublesome barriers, pain, or patterns keeping you stuck. Together we can explore and restore what is valued and meaningful, whether that be related to improving your personal well-being or your relationships. I strive to offer a safe and confidential space for diverse individuals including sexual & gender minorities (LGBTQ2S+), as well as individuals from all religious, spiritual, ethnic, cultural, and racialized identities.
(587) 400-0835 View (587) 400-0835
Photo of Marlena Pedersen, Psychologist in Calgary, AB
Marlena Pedersen
Psychologist, RPsych, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T2S
I am honoured and privileged to build and develop a therapeutic relationship with you, based on trust, safety, and connection. I believe this is essential for supporting you in your journey of healing, as you navigate the complexities of this world. I use a brain-based and relational approach to therapy. I realize that our brain patterns are shaped by our relationships, and they can cause us to experience shame. I am passionate about working with teens, young adults, adults, couples and families, and helping them transform into confident and successful people with effective life skills.
I am honoured and privileged to build and develop a therapeutic relationship with you, based on trust, safety, and connection. I believe this is essential for supporting you in your journey of healing, as you navigate the complexities of this world. I use a brain-based and relational approach to therapy. I realize that our brain patterns are shaped by our relationships, and they can cause us to experience shame. I am passionate about working with teens, young adults, adults, couples and families, and helping them transform into confident and successful people with effective life skills.
(587) 844-2271 View (587) 844-2271
Photo of Willa Litvack, Psychologist in Calgary, AB
Willa Litvack
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T2W
Some are grappling with depression or anxiety, others with relationship difficulties, historic issues, or life transitions.
These are unprecedented times, rife with unprecedented challenges. The uncertainty of the situation, the lack of a map for understanding the present and envisioning the future, is a source of chronic stress for almost everyone one, and takes a particularly heavy toll on some. Its impacts are being felt at every level, experienced in ways that continue to evolve and that may be overwhelming. We are all new to this situation, but we are not new to grappling with unforeseen problems or having to pick our way though the unknown. Helping people to do that, even in ordinary times, is what my work is all about.
Some are grappling with depression or anxiety, others with relationship difficulties, historic issues, or life transitions.
These are unprecedented times, rife with unprecedented challenges. The uncertainty of the situation, the lack of a map for understanding the present and envisioning the future, is a source of chronic stress for almost everyone one, and takes a particularly heavy toll on some. Its impacts are being felt at every level, experienced in ways that continue to evolve and that may be overwhelming. We are all new to this situation, but we are not new to grappling with unforeseen problems or having to pick our way though the unknown. Helping people to do that, even in ordinary times, is what my work is all about.
(403) 800-0759 View (403) 800-0759
Photo of Meyen Hertzsprung, Psychologist in Calgary, AB
Meyen Hertzsprung
Psychologist, PhD, RPsych
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T2N
Beyond tools, tasks, and techniques, the experience of a healing and affirming therapeutic relationship is also key to becoming 'unstuck' and to moving in the direction of health.
Welcome! Having been one of the first in Calgary to be certified in sex addiction therapy, the bulk of my practice consists of individuals and couples in various stages of sex and other addiction recovery. Do you need help in the struggle to remain sober? Would you benefit from guidance in the formulation and maintenance of an effective recovery plan? Do you need a compassionate listener as you make sense of the trauma of discovery? My goal is to promote awareness of your emotional life; to help you establish and negotiate appropriate boundaries; and to enhance trust in all your relationships.
Beyond tools, tasks, and techniques, the experience of a healing and affirming therapeutic relationship is also key to becoming 'unstuck' and to moving in the direction of health.
Welcome! Having been one of the first in Calgary to be certified in sex addiction therapy, the bulk of my practice consists of individuals and couples in various stages of sex and other addiction recovery. Do you need help in the struggle to remain sober? Would you benefit from guidance in the formulation and maintenance of an effective recovery plan? Do you need a compassionate listener as you make sense of the trauma of discovery? My goal is to promote awareness of your emotional life; to help you establish and negotiate appropriate boundaries; and to enhance trust in all your relationships.
(587) 800-0176 View (587) 800-0176
Photo of Mo Bamuwagun - Layers Mental Health, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Calgary, AB
Mo Bamuwagun - Layers Mental Health
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, RSW, MMP, CCTPII
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T3R  (Online Only)
Why: I believe life is a journey, the people and experiences we engage with along the way shape who we are and who we become. I have had intimate encounters with addiction and mental health and the people who walked with me through those journeys were, are still important to me. What ever your reason for reaching out, whether it is a relationship concern, life goals, loss/grief or adjusting to life stressors. Maybe it’s a concern that impacts your mood, personality, and keeps you in a triggered anxious and depressive place, Lets journey together.
Why: I believe life is a journey, the people and experiences we engage with along the way shape who we are and who we become. I have had intimate encounters with addiction and mental health and the people who walked with me through those journeys were, are still important to me. What ever your reason for reaching out, whether it is a relationship concern, life goals, loss/grief or adjusting to life stressors. Maybe it’s a concern that impacts your mood, personality, and keeps you in a triggered anxious and depressive place, Lets journey together.
(825) 809-5415 View (825) 809-5415
Photo of Maggie Lindsay, Psychologist in Calgary, AB
Maggie Lindsay
Psychologist, MEd, RPsych
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T2N
I enjoy assisting youth and adults become empowered as they heal from symptoms of stress, anxiety, grieving, depression and low self-esteem. These symptoms often arise from a trauma, a crisis, a loss, or stressful life experiences. I help clients enhance their strengths by learning new coping and communication skills. Self confidence increases as we develop new perspectives & behaviors. I work with individuals, couples and families who are also struggling with relationship and life transitions. I work collaboratively with my clients in goal setting and developing action plans that fit for their lifestyle. Please visit my website for more details.
I enjoy assisting youth and adults become empowered as they heal from symptoms of stress, anxiety, grieving, depression and low self-esteem. These symptoms often arise from a trauma, a crisis, a loss, or stressful life experiences. I help clients enhance their strengths by learning new coping and communication skills. Self confidence increases as we develop new perspectives & behaviors. I work with individuals, couples and families who are also struggling with relationship and life transitions. I work collaboratively with my clients in goal setting and developing action plans that fit for their lifestyle. Please visit my website for more details.
(587) 600-0396 View (587) 600-0396

See more therapy options for Calgary

Relationship Issues Counsellors
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.