Therapists in Victoria, BC
Melanie Armstrong
Counsellor, MC, RCC, CCC
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Victoria, BC V9B
Now accepting new clients. I'm queer and neurodiverse and I work with individuals, couples, and polycules. My focus areas: LGBTQIA+ support, clients with ADHD & Autism, ENM, polyamory, BDSM/kink, and climate anxiety. I work from an anti-capitalist, anti-oppressive, and trauma-informed foundation. My clients are often people who have already tried a million different ways to manage a particular challenge in their lives and are now feeling stuck and not sure what to do next. Clients say my approach combining traditional talk therapy with somatic/body-focused techniques helped them feel better even in the first session.
Now accepting new clients. I'm queer and neurodiverse and I work with individuals, couples, and polycules. My focus areas: LGBTQIA+ support, clients with ADHD & Autism, ENM, polyamory, BDSM/kink, and climate anxiety. I work from an anti-capitalist, anti-oppressive, and trauma-informed foundation. My clients are often people who have already tried a million different ways to manage a particular challenge in their lives and are now feeling stuck and not sure what to do next. Clients say my approach combining traditional talk therapy with somatic/body-focused techniques helped them feel better even in the first session.
Nina Sloan
Counsellor, MA, RCC, CCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Victoria, BC V9A (Online Only)
My areas of passion are working with 2SLGBTQIA clients, alternative sexual/romantic relationship identities & dynamics (ex. ethically non-monogamy, polyamory, kink, swinging, BDSM, open relationships, sex work, etc.), sex & intimacy, consent & boundaries, religious trauma, chronic pain/illness, neurodiversity, and life transitions. I draw from both education and lived experience to provide deeper insight into supporting you from an open-minded, trauma-informed, sex-positive, and affirming framework. The journey of healing and growth can be messy, challenging, and heart-breaking while also beautifully majestic and worth every effort.
My areas of passion are working with 2SLGBTQIA clients, alternative sexual/romantic relationship identities & dynamics (ex. ethically non-monogamy, polyamory, kink, swinging, BDSM, open relationships, sex work, etc.), sex & intimacy, consent & boundaries, religious trauma, chronic pain/illness, neurodiversity, and life transitions. I draw from both education and lived experience to provide deeper insight into supporting you from an open-minded, trauma-informed, sex-positive, and affirming framework. The journey of healing and growth can be messy, challenging, and heart-breaking while also beautifully majestic and worth every effort.
Sarah Doyle
Counsellor, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Victoria, BC V8V
I'm happy you're here! Life can throw a lot of challenges at us, and I learned the value of having a dedicated counsellor to support us through it all at a young age. As a proud queer-identifying counsellor, I bring my whole self into every session (humour, quirks, cheeky mugs, and all) and I strive to co-create a safe space with everyone I work with so that you are invited to do the same. I'm located on Lekwungen territory (Victoria, BC) and offer in-person, walk-and-talk, and online counselling to folks residing anywhere in BC. I also provide hormone readiness assessments for folks wanting to access gender-affirming healthcare.
I'm happy you're here! Life can throw a lot of challenges at us, and I learned the value of having a dedicated counsellor to support us through it all at a young age. As a proud queer-identifying counsellor, I bring my whole self into every session (humour, quirks, cheeky mugs, and all) and I strive to co-create a safe space with everyone I work with so that you are invited to do the same. I'm located on Lekwungen territory (Victoria, BC) and offer in-person, walk-and-talk, and online counselling to folks residing anywhere in BC. I also provide hormone readiness assessments for folks wanting to access gender-affirming healthcare.
Jess Marie
Registered Social Worker, BA, BSW, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Victoria, BC V8V (Online Only)
I encourage you to bring forward any topics you'd like to explore during our sessions. It is my privilege to get to support you through any number of life experiences with non-judgement, compassion, and authentic interest. My experience spans sexual assault centres, various non-profits, and most recently developing the counselling program of a medical clinic offering sexual health and gender-affirming care.
I encourage you to bring forward any topics you'd like to explore during our sessions. It is my privilege to get to support you through any number of life experiences with non-judgement, compassion, and authentic interest. My experience spans sexual assault centres, various non-profits, and most recently developing the counselling program of a medical clinic offering sexual health and gender-affirming care.
Miki Hotel
Counsellor, MC, RCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Victoria, BC V8W (Online Only)
Hey there! Sometimes, it can feel like you missed that day at school when they taught you how to be a ‘social human being’. It might seem like you have to hide your authentic self outside of your chosen ‘people’. Well, I’m here to tell you that you don’t need to ‘fit in’ or ‘be like other people’. In fact, I thrive on the kind of counselling that invites your quirks to the party, instead of leaving them at home feeling lonely. I understand the challenges of living in a world that often neglects your unique needs. You possess unique strengths and resources that we’ll learn to harness together.
Hey there! Sometimes, it can feel like you missed that day at school when they taught you how to be a ‘social human being’. It might seem like you have to hide your authentic self outside of your chosen ‘people’. Well, I’m here to tell you that you don’t need to ‘fit in’ or ‘be like other people’. In fact, I thrive on the kind of counselling that invites your quirks to the party, instead of leaving them at home feeling lonely. I understand the challenges of living in a world that often neglects your unique needs. You possess unique strengths and resources that we’ll learn to harness together.
Mountain Gate Psychotherapy
Counsellor, PhD(c), MSc, BSc
Verified Verified
Victoria, BC V9A
I specialize in working with adults and teenagers experiencing depression and anxiety. I also work with people experiencing trauma, spiritual crisis, relationship issues, loneliness, problems due to medication, and stress in many forms. A block of time in my practice is kept open daily for those in crisis, who cannot find adequate support through the public system. I also work with couples wishing to heal relational concerns, and those with an inclination towards spiritual practice/life. I am LGBTQ2S+ friendly and welcome people from all faith backgrounds and walks of life. Sessions are available in-person, by email, and via video.
I specialize in working with adults and teenagers experiencing depression and anxiety. I also work with people experiencing trauma, spiritual crisis, relationship issues, loneliness, problems due to medication, and stress in many forms. A block of time in my practice is kept open daily for those in crisis, who cannot find adequate support through the public system. I also work with couples wishing to heal relational concerns, and those with an inclination towards spiritual practice/life. I am LGBTQ2S+ friendly and welcome people from all faith backgrounds and walks of life. Sessions are available in-person, by email, and via video.
Rhiannon Webb
Counsellor, ACS, RTC, SSE, RPCc
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Victoria, BC V8V
You've been feeling disconnected, frustrated, or unfulfilled when it comes to your experiences with sexuality, relationships, or parenting. You're finally ready to invest in any of these important parts of your life because you want a more satisfying, connected, nourishing existence and you don't want to keep putting it off or wishing things would just get better on their own. You're ready to understand what's holding you back, and to take action. You want to feel connected to yourself, your vitality, and to your loved ones, and now is the time to make it happen!
You've been feeling disconnected, frustrated, or unfulfilled when it comes to your experiences with sexuality, relationships, or parenting. You're finally ready to invest in any of these important parts of your life because you want a more satisfying, connected, nourishing existence and you don't want to keep putting it off or wishing things would just get better on their own. You're ready to understand what's holding you back, and to take action. You want to feel connected to yourself, your vitality, and to your loved ones, and now is the time to make it happen!
Dana Clavette
Counsellor, MA, CCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Victoria, BC V8T (Online Only)
Have you lived overseas, experienced trauma, PTSD, burn out, or would like to be living a life that you dream of? I believe in your resiliency and capacity to overcome challenges and create dynamic, transformative changes in your own life and in the world around you, no matter how big or small you want them to be. Taking the time to rest, recognize new shifts and steps can be an impactful momentum builder to help work towards the change that you would like to happen. By working through your barriers or creating a clear vision, you can bring your life into closer alignment with your dreams.
Have you lived overseas, experienced trauma, PTSD, burn out, or would like to be living a life that you dream of? I believe in your resiliency and capacity to overcome challenges and create dynamic, transformative changes in your own life and in the world around you, no matter how big or small you want them to be. Taking the time to rest, recognize new shifts and steps can be an impactful momentum builder to help work towards the change that you would like to happen. By working through your barriers or creating a clear vision, you can bring your life into closer alignment with your dreams.
Flowa Grace Therapy
Counsellor, MPsych, BA, CHN
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Victoria, BC V8V
Working from a body-mind framework, you are able to move through and release blocks that are holding you back from living your most authentic and purposeful life. Online, in-office, and nature therapy for individuals, couples, and families is offered. "I felt heard as I talked with her. I was a able to let go and fully express what I needed to say and I felt comfortable and safe." - FL “I would recommend Flowa to anyone. She is an expert at creating a warm and accepting space; allowing you to heal and release the thoughts and energies you need." - SC
Working from a body-mind framework, you are able to move through and release blocks that are holding you back from living your most authentic and purposeful life. Online, in-office, and nature therapy for individuals, couples, and families is offered. "I felt heard as I talked with her. I was a able to let go and fully express what I needed to say and I felt comfortable and safe." - FL “I would recommend Flowa to anyone. She is an expert at creating a warm and accepting space; allowing you to heal and release the thoughts and energies you need." - SC
Healthy Relationships BC
MEd, RCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Victoria, BC V8T
Relationships troubles affect us all and I am here to help guide you through the tough issues and get you back on track. Whether you have a past trauma re surfacing, sexual desire problems or intimacy issues, I am here to talk with you and give you some exercises to get you back to satisfying sex. I am an accredited sex therapist and I have 10 years of experience working with people in relationships. I also work with individuals on a host of other issues such as social anxiety or sexual preference, and gender variance. I enjoy working with an inclusive range of clients.
Relationships troubles affect us all and I am here to help guide you through the tough issues and get you back on track. Whether you have a past trauma re surfacing, sexual desire problems or intimacy issues, I am here to talk with you and give you some exercises to get you back to satisfying sex. I am an accredited sex therapist and I have 10 years of experience working with people in relationships. I also work with individuals on a host of other issues such as social anxiety or sexual preference, and gender variance. I enjoy working with an inclusive range of clients.
Miranda Harvey
Counsellor, MC, RCC
Verified Verified
13 Endorsed
Victoria, BC V8W
I am honoured your journey has led you here. Welcome. Whether you’re a young adult or elder, interested in individual or partnered counselling, I can help you manage stress, depression, anxiety, trauma, and pain; improve your relationships; navigate grief and loss; and become better friends with yourself. I enjoy working with people of diverse backgrounds to situate problems in systems of influence, unveiling your inner resources by collaborating with you to connect your values and interests with your goals for meaningful transformation and life management.
I am honoured your journey has led you here. Welcome. Whether you’re a young adult or elder, interested in individual or partnered counselling, I can help you manage stress, depression, anxiety, trauma, and pain; improve your relationships; navigate grief and loss; and become better friends with yourself. I enjoy working with people of diverse backgrounds to situate problems in systems of influence, unveiling your inner resources by collaborating with you to connect your values and interests with your goals for meaningful transformation and life management.
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Licensed Professional Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Victoria, BC V8W (Online Only)
People with ADHD are bright, empathetic, and creative. We often struggle with harnessing our uniquely wired brains to fit into a world built for neurotypicals. We know we are capable of so much more, but we're functioning well under that capacity. Examples of the issues we experience include time management, organization, remembering things and motivating ourselves to do things. Other forms of mental illness may accompany our ADHD. However, with some support, we can improve our systems for functioning in ways that are actually fun. We can also improve our intimate relationships, which makes life better all-round.
People with ADHD are bright, empathetic, and creative. We often struggle with harnessing our uniquely wired brains to fit into a world built for neurotypicals. We know we are capable of so much more, but we're functioning well under that capacity. Examples of the issues we experience include time management, organization, remembering things and motivating ourselves to do things. Other forms of mental illness may accompany our ADHD. However, with some support, we can improve our systems for functioning in ways that are actually fun. We can also improve our intimate relationships, which makes life better all-round.
Jake McPhee
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Victoria, BC V9B
You’ve made the decision to choose change! Growth is essential to the human experience and I look forward to helping you make positive changes to your life. I have extensive history working with substance addictions & all forms of mental health. I aim to create a space where you can have a real, intentional, meaningful experience; I will meet you where you are at and work with you to reveal your strengths and goals. I approach my work with care, compassion and a dash of humour! I use a variety of modalities (such as CBT, ACT, MI) that I cater to your needs and situation. My counselling is collaborative and prioritizes your needs.
You’ve made the decision to choose change! Growth is essential to the human experience and I look forward to helping you make positive changes to your life. I have extensive history working with substance addictions & all forms of mental health. I aim to create a space where you can have a real, intentional, meaningful experience; I will meet you where you are at and work with you to reveal your strengths and goals. I approach my work with care, compassion and a dash of humour! I use a variety of modalities (such as CBT, ACT, MI) that I cater to your needs and situation. My counselling is collaborative and prioritizes your needs.
Jude Marleau
Counsellor, MEd, RCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Victoria, BC V8R (Online Only)
My counselling practice focuses on helping people heal from the effects of relational trauma and PTSD. I specialize in helping people whose trauma occurred because of historical and recent sexualized violence, intimate relationship abuse (including same-sex abuse and women's use of violence) as well as helping people heal from family-of-origin issues and dynamics. I also support people who are exploring sexual issues, sexuality and sexual orientation, gender diversity and expressions, self-esteem, and boundaries within relationships. I am trained in EMDR and Somatic Attachment Psychotherapy. I also offer Clinical Supervision.
My counselling practice focuses on helping people heal from the effects of relational trauma and PTSD. I specialize in helping people whose trauma occurred because of historical and recent sexualized violence, intimate relationship abuse (including same-sex abuse and women's use of violence) as well as helping people heal from family-of-origin issues and dynamics. I also support people who are exploring sexual issues, sexuality and sexual orientation, gender diversity and expressions, self-esteem, and boundaries within relationships. I am trained in EMDR and Somatic Attachment Psychotherapy. I also offer Clinical Supervision.
Amy Gordichuk
Counsellor, MA, CCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Victoria, BC V8T (Online Only)
Hi! I'm Amy - a Canadian Certified Counsellor (CCC) specializing in sex therapy. I started my practice to help others increase authenticity, playfulness, and connection within their intimate relationships. I know talking about sex can be hard... That's where I come in! Together, we will co-create a relaxed, open space to honestly explore your questions, needs, and wants. I support my clients to cultivate pleasure and nurture erotic energy by examining and challenging the unhelpful beliefs and social messages that often prevent us from accessing desire.
Hi! I'm Amy - a Canadian Certified Counsellor (CCC) specializing in sex therapy. I started my practice to help others increase authenticity, playfulness, and connection within their intimate relationships. I know talking about sex can be hard... That's where I come in! Together, we will co-create a relaxed, open space to honestly explore your questions, needs, and wants. I support my clients to cultivate pleasure and nurture erotic energy by examining and challenging the unhelpful beliefs and social messages that often prevent us from accessing desire.
Becca Shears - There's Counselling For That!
Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Victoria, BC V8X
Waitlist for new clients
I find hope in what seems to be hopeless situations and clients trust that I can help without judgment. Listening to my clients' personal stories is both an honour and a privilege; feeling heard and understood is often their first significant step towards change. Mostly what I've found is that in my 30 years in the field of psychology and mental health, most of us can work through most of life's little challenges. When you have a challenge that you can't quite get past on your own - There's Counselling for That!
I find hope in what seems to be hopeless situations and clients trust that I can help without judgment. Listening to my clients' personal stories is both an honour and a privilege; feeling heard and understood is often their first significant step towards change. Mostly what I've found is that in my 30 years in the field of psychology and mental health, most of us can work through most of life's little challenges. When you have a challenge that you can't quite get past on your own - There's Counselling for That!
Mercedes Cepeda
Pre-Licensed Professional, RPC-C
Verified Verified
Victoria, BC V8R
Are you ready to start your life? If you feel as if you have been sitting on the sidelines watching others live life to the fullest while waiting for yours to start, then I can help. I specialize in sexuality, religeous trauma, body image and neurodiversity. I you are a survivor of purity culture, struggle with your own sexuality or sexual identity, or are deconstructing a religeous upbringing, we can work together to conquer them. I have extensive experience with neurodiversity, including ADHD, autism, cognitive decline, and brain injuries. Our brains are amazing and different, lets understand yours better so you can thrive.
Are you ready to start your life? If you feel as if you have been sitting on the sidelines watching others live life to the fullest while waiting for yours to start, then I can help. I specialize in sexuality, religeous trauma, body image and neurodiversity. I you are a survivor of purity culture, struggle with your own sexuality or sexual identity, or are deconstructing a religeous upbringing, we can work together to conquer them. I have extensive experience with neurodiversity, including ADHD, autism, cognitive decline, and brain injuries. Our brains are amazing and different, lets understand yours better so you can thrive.
Angela Cara
Counsellor, MA, RCC, FOT
Verified Verified
12 Endorsed
Victoria, BC V8R
I'm Angela and I've been told that I'm approachable, warm and down-to-earth. Many of my clients come in saying that they had a "pretty good" upbringing. I create a space for you to explore whether it might be more complex. Relational wounds need relational repair. It’s essential to have a trustworthy guide in the journey back to your own inner wisdom. I believe that a good guide can help you to identify where nurturance, protection and guidance were lacking when you needed them most and also help you look at how this might still affect your relational patterns today and invite you towards more satisfaction in love, work and sex.
I'm Angela and I've been told that I'm approachable, warm and down-to-earth. Many of my clients come in saying that they had a "pretty good" upbringing. I create a space for you to explore whether it might be more complex. Relational wounds need relational repair. It’s essential to have a trustworthy guide in the journey back to your own inner wisdom. I believe that a good guide can help you to identify where nurturance, protection and guidance were lacking when you needed them most and also help you look at how this might still affect your relational patterns today and invite you towards more satisfaction in love, work and sex.
Frances Kinloch
Counsellor, RCC, MACP
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Victoria, BC V8S
Waitlist for new clients
As a counsellor and sex therapist, I embrace a holistic and intersectional approach to addressing concerns. My therapeutic philosophy is grounded in person-centred care, promoting inclusivity and challenging oppressive systems. I aim to create a safe and non-judgmental space where cultural humility is practiced, acknowledging that you are the ultimate authority on your life. By considering your bio-psycho-social-sexual aspects and valuing the diverse identities you hold, we embark on a collaborative therapeutic journey.
As a counsellor and sex therapist, I embrace a holistic and intersectional approach to addressing concerns. My therapeutic philosophy is grounded in person-centred care, promoting inclusivity and challenging oppressive systems. I aim to create a safe and non-judgmental space where cultural humility is practiced, acknowledging that you are the ultimate authority on your life. By considering your bio-psycho-social-sexual aspects and valuing the diverse identities you hold, we embark on a collaborative therapeutic journey.
Deanna Leippi
Counsellor, BA, MA, CCC, RCC
Verified Verified
Victoria, BC V8T
*Accepting new clients virtually and in person* Hello my name is Deanna and I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor. I am passionate about supporting people who struggle with feelings of depression, anxiety, anger, overwhelm, worry, low self-esteem, grief and loss. Perhaps you are struggling in your relationships with partners, children, family or friends. I can help with the challenges of life transitions and managing stress.
*Accepting new clients virtually and in person* Hello my name is Deanna and I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor. I am passionate about supporting people who struggle with feelings of depression, anxiety, anger, overwhelm, worry, low self-esteem, grief and loss. Perhaps you are struggling in your relationships with partners, children, family or friends. I can help with the challenges of life transitions and managing stress.
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Open Relationships Non-Monogamy Counsellors
Why might an individual want to see a therapist specialising in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?
A client seeking help with an open or consensually non-monogamous relationship will prefer to talk with a professional whom they can count on to be nonjudgmental. Talking with a supportive therapist may on its own help relieve some of the stigma and challenges partners face. That said, the most important factor in the success of any type of therapy is the ability of the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond. For this reason, an individual or couple could find success with a therapist who does not specialise in non-monogamous relationships but with whom they can build trust.
When should open or consensually non-monogamous partners seek counselling?
Like other couples, polyamorous partners typically seek counseling when they face relationship challenges they can’t solve themselves. In non-monogamous relationships, this could include breaches of trust, including infidelity; unclear rules or violations of boundaries; jealousy of outside partners; the stress of juggling the needs of multiple partners; or the effect of high partner turnover on children. Like those of other couples, polyamorous bonds can be threatened by increasingly frequent arguments, poor or dysfunctional communication, diminished emotional or physical intimacy, or the feeling that something is wrong, even if they don’t know what it is.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?
No, but individuals seeking help with non-monogamous relationships would most likely consult a licensed professional with specific training in couples counseling or couples therapy. Couples counselling and couples therapy both involve teaching concrete strategies to navigate conflict in relationships. A good therapist can engage both partners as they explain these approaches but can also work with a single partner.
How long does therapy for consensually non-monogamous couples typically last?
Couples therapy for any type of couple, tends to be relatively time-limited, lasting around 12 weeks on average. A good therapist will tailor sessions to the individual partners’ emotions and sometimes their past, along with patterns found to be repeating in the relationship. In many cases, clients should expect their therapist to assign “homework” between weekly sessions.