Sex Therapists in Ottawa, ON

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Richard Merrill Haney
Verified Verified
Ottawa, ON K1S
I provide warm, heart-connected and empathetic counselling, coaching, mediation and hypnotherapy services to individuals, couples and families. I concentrate on "wholistic" healing and empowerment rather than on being clinical and "helping". Basically, I form what I call a "Healing Partnership" with the people who come for my services. I tend to be quite eclectic and bring a wide range of skills, techniques, modalities and wisdom to each counselling interaction. Please contact me to enhance your life and to make the most of each moment. My favourite slogan is: "Listening well is the most eloquent sign of caring."
I provide warm, heart-connected and empathetic counselling, coaching, mediation and hypnotherapy services to individuals, couples and families. I concentrate on "wholistic" healing and empowerment rather than on being clinical and "helping". Basically, I form what I call a "Healing Partnership" with the people who come for my services. I tend to be quite eclectic and bring a wide range of skills, techniques, modalities and wisdom to each counselling interaction. Please contact me to enhance your life and to make the most of each moment. My favourite slogan is: "Listening well is the most eloquent sign of caring."
(613) 909-4399 View (613) 909-4399
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Melanie Laura Bakker
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I also offer sex therapy.
I am a Registered Social Worker, Psychotherapist located in Eastern Ontario. I have over 20 years’ experience in the field of social work. All of my sessions are virtual at this time.
I also offer sex therapy.
I am a Registered Social Worker, Psychotherapist located in Eastern Ontario. I have over 20 years’ experience in the field of social work. All of my sessions are virtual at this time.
(613) 522-0625 View (613) 522-0625
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Angeline Antonakos Boswell
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, RP, CCC
5 Endorsed
Online Only
I also specialize and have had training in: couples therapy; sex therapy; self esteem & self worth; body image & disordered food relationships; grief, death, & loss; and spiritual/existential concerns.
To me, therapy is a warm, comfortable space we build together; it’s an hour outside of your everyday life, a shared place we can process whatever needs to be processed from the safety of. Care, compassion, non-judgement, and a genuine therapeutic relationship are the foundations of our work together and are my main priorities. My focus is always holistic: we have to look at every layer - from the cues your body and nervous system are giving you to the systemic messages surrounding you - to reach not just the bandaids but the deeper roots of distress and, ultimately, growth. I work from an actively affirming and anti-oppressive lens.
I also specialize and have had training in: couples therapy; sex therapy; self esteem & self worth; body image & disordered food relationships; grief, death, & loss; and spiritual/existential concerns.
To me, therapy is a warm, comfortable space we build together; it’s an hour outside of your everyday life, a shared place we can process whatever needs to be processed from the safety of. Care, compassion, non-judgement, and a genuine therapeutic relationship are the foundations of our work together and are my main priorities. My focus is always holistic: we have to look at every layer - from the cues your body and nervous system are giving you to the systemic messages surrounding you - to reach not just the bandaids but the deeper roots of distress and, ultimately, growth. I work from an actively affirming and anti-oppressive lens.
(343) 308-1578 View (343) 308-1578
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Noémie Mary Irène Kyryluk
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, MCA, RP
4 Endorsed
Online Only
My areas of speciality are in sex therapy and alternative relationship styles, mental health and addictions.
My approach to counselling is a very integrative one, which tailors itself depending on the needs and goals of the client. You, as the client, are the most integral part for what fits best. The therapeutic alliance is of utmost importance and it is very important that you feel comfortable.
My areas of speciality are in sex therapy and alternative relationship styles, mental health and addictions.
My approach to counselling is a very integrative one, which tailors itself depending on the needs and goals of the client. You, as the client, are the most integral part for what fits best. The therapeutic alliance is of utmost importance and it is very important that you feel comfortable.
(343) 633-3813 View (343) 633-3813
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David Rubinstein
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, RP
1 Endorsed
Ottawa, ON K1L
I specialize in intensive couple therapy to create safe, and secure-functioning relationships. I explore attachment styles (developed early in life) so that couples understand why they say and do the things they do. With my guidance, couples define mutually-shared agreements that will provide a framework for operating as a team. And with this shared vision, they can learn to successfully manage any disagreements or disappointments that life may bring. My goal is to help each couple feel they are safe and secure, in each other's care, no matter the issue. I am a Level 11 PACT therapist.
I specialize in intensive couple therapy to create safe, and secure-functioning relationships. I explore attachment styles (developed early in life) so that couples understand why they say and do the things they do. With my guidance, couples define mutually-shared agreements that will provide a framework for operating as a team. And with this shared vision, they can learn to successfully manage any disagreements or disappointments that life may bring. My goal is to help each couple feel they are safe and secure, in each other's care, no matter the issue. I am a Level 11 PACT therapist.
(877) 897-2333 View (877) 897-2333
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Dino Zuccarini
Psychologist, PhD, CPsych
2 Endorsed
Ottawa, ON K2P
I can help you deal with couple problems (e.g., intimacy, communication), repair your relationship after injuries, such as affairs or betrayals, and improve your sex life.
I offer you a respectful, caring, compassionate, non-judgemental and confidential therapeutic relationship to help you to explore and deal with your distressing thoughts, emotions and behaviors. Together, we'll set out treatment goals, and I will employ the best evidence-based treatment approaches to help you succeed.
I can help you deal with couple problems (e.g., intimacy, communication), repair your relationship after injuries, such as affairs or betrayals, and improve your sex life.
I offer you a respectful, caring, compassionate, non-judgemental and confidential therapeutic relationship to help you to explore and deal with your distressing thoughts, emotions and behaviors. Together, we'll set out treatment goals, and I will employ the best evidence-based treatment approaches to help you succeed.
(343) 304-5625 View (343) 304-5625
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Bruno Jung-Millen
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
2 Endorsed
Ottawa, ON K2P
I specialize in couples and sex therapy using a blend of systemic sex therapy, CBT, ACT, emotionally focused therapy, and the Gottman Method.
I work with couples and individuals, including LGBTQ+ and BIPOC communities, facing intimacy challenges, communication breakdowns, and complex relationship dynamics. My clients often seek to rebuild trust, enhance sexual satisfaction, or resolve conflicts. They may struggle with emotional disconnection, desire mismatches, or cultural pressures, and are looking for a safe space to strengthen their bonds, rediscover closeness, and address unique relationship hurdles.
I specialize in couples and sex therapy using a blend of systemic sex therapy, CBT, ACT, emotionally focused therapy, and the Gottman Method.
I work with couples and individuals, including LGBTQ+ and BIPOC communities, facing intimacy challenges, communication breakdowns, and complex relationship dynamics. My clients often seek to rebuild trust, enhance sexual satisfaction, or resolve conflicts. They may struggle with emotional disconnection, desire mismatches, or cultural pressures, and are looking for a safe space to strengthen their bonds, rediscover closeness, and address unique relationship hurdles.
(343) 342-2248 View (343) 342-2248
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Samantha Whittle
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Ottawa, ON K2P
I work with clients navigating trauma, relationship challenges, gender exploration, or struggles around sex and intimacy.
You are not broken and you don’t need to be “fixed”. I know sometimes it might feel hard to shake that story, and there are probably even times where you find yourself believing it. But I promise you that story isn’t true, and it doesn’t have to define your path forward. Trauma, oppression, anxiety and many other things can shape how we move through the world — how we feel in our bodies, understand ourselves and how we show up in relationships. In therapy, I offer a space to begin gently untangling the stories and strategies that no longer serve you, so that you can live a life that’s richer in joy, meaning and connection
I work with clients navigating trauma, relationship challenges, gender exploration, or struggles around sex and intimacy.
You are not broken and you don’t need to be “fixed”. I know sometimes it might feel hard to shake that story, and there are probably even times where you find yourself believing it. But I promise you that story isn’t true, and it doesn’t have to define your path forward. Trauma, oppression, anxiety and many other things can shape how we move through the world — how we feel in our bodies, understand ourselves and how we show up in relationships. In therapy, I offer a space to begin gently untangling the stories and strategies that no longer serve you, so that you can live a life that’s richer in joy, meaning and connection
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Fiona MacDonell
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, RP
1 Endorsed
Ottawa, ON K2P
Everyone encounters periods in their life that challenge their ability to cope and, as such, people come to therapy for a number of different reasons. My aim is to create a safe and supportive environment where my clients can comfortably explore the issues in their lives that are causing them difficulty. I approach therapy in a holistic way, recognizing the complex and diverse facets of one's life. I am open-minded and maintain a person-focused lens, recognizing the effects that one's socialization can have on their sense of self and way of being in the world.
Everyone encounters periods in their life that challenge their ability to cope and, as such, people come to therapy for a number of different reasons. My aim is to create a safe and supportive environment where my clients can comfortably explore the issues in their lives that are causing them difficulty. I approach therapy in a holistic way, recognizing the complex and diverse facets of one's life. I am open-minded and maintain a person-focused lens, recognizing the effects that one's socialization can have on their sense of self and way of being in the world.
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Prof. Oxford York
Registered Psychotherapist, PhD, CCC, CIMHP, RPDR, CAGCS
3 Endorsed
Ottawa, ON K2P
Canadian International Institute of Applied Negotiation (CIIAN), Certified Canadian Counsellor (CCC)- CCPA, Certified Advanced Grief Counselling Specialist (CAGSC), Certified Clinical Trauma Treatment Professional (CCTP), Certified Sex Informed Therapist (CSITP)
Are you struggling to stay motivated? Suffering alone in silence? Do you feel judged, lost or alone with your emotions? Are you feeling "stuck" without any direction on how to exit your present situation? Are you questioning current or past relationships in your life? Dealing with betrayal & mistrust? Trying to cope through infidelity? Are you managing illness, disease or pain alone? Having concerns about who you have become after a major life transition? Are you ready to learn about yourself? If answering yes to any, then the time is NOW to SLOW down, and CONNECT to begin a supportive healing journey!
Canadian International Institute of Applied Negotiation (CIIAN), Certified Canadian Counsellor (CCC)- CCPA, Certified Advanced Grief Counselling Specialist (CAGSC), Certified Clinical Trauma Treatment Professional (CCTP), Certified Sex Informed Therapist (CSITP)
Are you struggling to stay motivated? Suffering alone in silence? Do you feel judged, lost or alone with your emotions? Are you feeling "stuck" without any direction on how to exit your present situation? Are you questioning current or past relationships in your life? Dealing with betrayal & mistrust? Trying to cope through infidelity? Are you managing illness, disease or pain alone? Having concerns about who you have become after a major life transition? Are you ready to learn about yourself? If answering yes to any, then the time is NOW to SLOW down, and CONNECT to begin a supportive healing journey!
(343) 801-0172 View (343) 801-0172
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Relationship Bliss
Verified Verified
Ottawa, ON K2M
World Sex Coach (WASC) & Gottman's Therapy Level 2.
Are you experiencing a “rough patch” with your partner? Are you having challenges with bickering & arguments, intimacy, sexual, trust, parenting & financial issues? It is so tricky when you may feel like roommates instead of a loving, connected couple. How about engaging in positive & respectful communication? Wouldn't you love to find that initial spark that you once had? Marie-Claire is a seasoned coach who offers evidence-based solutions and ENGAGING and FUN solutions to some of the most common problems couples face. Check out this testimonial: https://bit.ly/3qZvNFa Book a free 15 min call.
World Sex Coach (WASC) & Gottman's Therapy Level 2.
Are you experiencing a “rough patch” with your partner? Are you having challenges with bickering & arguments, intimacy, sexual, trust, parenting & financial issues? It is so tricky when you may feel like roommates instead of a loving, connected couple. How about engaging in positive & respectful communication? Wouldn't you love to find that initial spark that you once had? Marie-Claire is a seasoned coach who offers evidence-based solutions and ENGAGING and FUN solutions to some of the most common problems couples face. Check out this testimonial: https://bit.ly/3qZvNFa Book a free 15 min call.
(343) 312-6392 View (343) 312-6392
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Jason Taylor Ph.d
Registered Psychotherapist, PhD, C-IRT
9 Endorsed
Ottawa, ON K2C
I specialize in relationship dynamics, sex therapy, and life transitions.
There are moments when we may feel alone in what we’re carrying. When our circumstances consistently fail to meet our needs, feelings of frustration can naturally arise. In session with me, I take on a holistic approach to your life. I provide a safe, non-judgmental space for you to openly discuss what you are going through and the goals/dreams you wish to move closer to. I often consider myself like a coach on a team. I will always be in your corner, cheering you on, but that doesn't mean that I am not going to help push you towards the goals that you set for yourself.
I specialize in relationship dynamics, sex therapy, and life transitions.
There are moments when we may feel alone in what we’re carrying. When our circumstances consistently fail to meet our needs, feelings of frustration can naturally arise. In session with me, I take on a holistic approach to your life. I provide a safe, non-judgmental space for you to openly discuss what you are going through and the goals/dreams you wish to move closer to. I often consider myself like a coach on a team. I will always be in your corner, cheering you on, but that doesn't mean that I am not going to help push you towards the goals that you set for yourself.
(343) 338-4568 View (343) 338-4568
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Nicolas Paradis
Registered Psychotherapist, MEd, RP, CCC
2 Endorsed
Ottawa, ON K2P
Waitlist for new clients
Life has its challenging moments, and sometimes those challenging moments are more intense than usual or last longer than we’d like. Over time, this may impact your mood, your energy, your relationships, your decisions, your behaviour and your health. Perhaps you’ve noticed yourself having more conflicts in your relationships, longing for a deeper connection and more intimacy with your partner, struggling to find meaning in what you do, or generally, losing a sense of self. If any of this resonates with you and you’ve been feeling overwhelmed and disconnected, I’m here to help. You don’t have to go through it alone.
Life has its challenging moments, and sometimes those challenging moments are more intense than usual or last longer than we’d like. Over time, this may impact your mood, your energy, your relationships, your decisions, your behaviour and your health. Perhaps you’ve noticed yourself having more conflicts in your relationships, longing for a deeper connection and more intimacy with your partner, struggling to find meaning in what you do, or generally, losing a sense of self. If any of this resonates with you and you’ve been feeling overwhelmed and disconnected, I’m here to help. You don’t have to go through it alone.
(343) 338-3605 View (343) 338-3605
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Ariele Jacobson
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, RP
1 Endorsed
Ottawa, ON K1Y
Specifically, I am passionate about helping people with their sexuality, sexual dysfunction, sexual trauma, and gender issues.
I offer an integrative approach to therapy consisting of the psychodynamic approach, attachment theory, family systems, CBT, narrative therapy, emotionally focused therapy, and more. The specific approach I use will depend on the unique needs of the client. I do not strictly adhere to one approach to therapy for every client; unique people have unique needs.
Specifically, I am passionate about helping people with their sexuality, sexual dysfunction, sexual trauma, and gender issues.
I offer an integrative approach to therapy consisting of the psychodynamic approach, attachment theory, family systems, CBT, narrative therapy, emotionally focused therapy, and more. The specific approach I use will depend on the unique needs of the client. I do not strictly adhere to one approach to therapy for every client; unique people have unique needs.
(343) 453-7432 View (343) 453-7432
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Katherine Wilson
Psychologist, MSc, CPysch, RPsych
Ottawa, ON K1Y
I provide individual, couple, sex therapy, and ADHD assessments for adults (18+), and I am the clinical director at Mintleaf Psychology.
I am passionate about mental wellness and helping people make and maintain positive changes in their lives. I feel strongly that therapy is not a one-size-fits-all endeavor, and I prioritize collaboration in my therapeutic approach. Therapy doesn't have to be all doom and gloom - humour can be an important catalyst to self-insight! I make sure to consider how your identity, culture, context may be affecting your experience and worldview. In every case, we decide together what works best for you; I believe that this gives you the best opportunity to achieve self-understanding and create meaningful and lasting changes.
I provide individual, couple, sex therapy, and ADHD assessments for adults (18+), and I am the clinical director at Mintleaf Psychology.
I am passionate about mental wellness and helping people make and maintain positive changes in their lives. I feel strongly that therapy is not a one-size-fits-all endeavor, and I prioritize collaboration in my therapeutic approach. Therapy doesn't have to be all doom and gloom - humour can be an important catalyst to self-insight! I make sure to consider how your identity, culture, context may be affecting your experience and worldview. In every case, we decide together what works best for you; I believe that this gives you the best opportunity to achieve self-understanding and create meaningful and lasting changes.
(343) 313-1462 View (343) 313-1462
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Marly - Relationship Stress & Intimacy Concerns
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)
2 Endorsed
Online Only
I draw from EFT, CBT, mindfulness, and narrative therapy, as well as sex therapy strategies.
My name is Marly, and I work with individuals navigating stress and anxiety in their relationships. Maybe communication feels harder than it should, or you’ve noticed a loss of closeness, intimacy, or desire. You might struggle with low desire, mismatched desire, or sexual concerns like performance, arousal, or satisfaction. Past hurt, trust issues, or unresolved conflicts can linger and make it difficult to feel fully present with a partner. Stress, anxiety, or shame may get in the way of feeling connected or confident. Therapy is a space to sort through these struggles and create change that feels real and lasting.
I draw from EFT, CBT, mindfulness, and narrative therapy, as well as sex therapy strategies.
My name is Marly, and I work with individuals navigating stress and anxiety in their relationships. Maybe communication feels harder than it should, or you’ve noticed a loss of closeness, intimacy, or desire. You might struggle with low desire, mismatched desire, or sexual concerns like performance, arousal, or satisfaction. Past hurt, trust issues, or unresolved conflicts can linger and make it difficult to feel fully present with a partner. Stress, anxiety, or shame may get in the way of feeling connected or confident. Therapy is a space to sort through these struggles and create change that feels real and lasting.
(647) 955-7385 View (647) 955-7385
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Relationship | Intimacy Concerns | Couples - Allie
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)
Online Only
Intimacy might feel strained- low or mismatched desire, performance anxiety, pain, difficulty reaching arousal, or avoiding sex altogether because it brings up stress, shame, or old hurt.
I specialize in couples therapy with a focus on intimacy and sex concerns. I support partners who want to rebuild trust, communication, and emotional safety- so connection feels real again. I’m LGBTQ+ affirming and also comfortable supporting clients navigating OCD, self-esteem struggles, and major life transitions that impact relationships.
Intimacy might feel strained- low or mismatched desire, performance anxiety, pain, difficulty reaching arousal, or avoiding sex altogether because it brings up stress, shame, or old hurt.
I specialize in couples therapy with a focus on intimacy and sex concerns. I support partners who want to rebuild trust, communication, and emotional safety- so connection feels real again. I’m LGBTQ+ affirming and also comfortable supporting clients navigating OCD, self-esteem struggles, and major life transitions that impact relationships.
(343) 505-5784 View (343) 505-5784
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Chantal Jennifer Anne Campeau
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), RP(Q), MA
2 Endorsed
Ottawa, ON K2B
Accepting New Clients+ I focus on clients with relationship or sexuality concerns.
I combine a wide range of theoretical approaches and intervention techniques depending on the unique needs of my clients. We start by developing clarity of needs and identifying the underlying issues in order to increase self-awareness and build collaborative targeted solutions.
Accepting New Clients+ I focus on clients with relationship or sexuality concerns.
I combine a wide range of theoretical approaches and intervention techniques depending on the unique needs of my clients. We start by developing clarity of needs and identifying the underlying issues in order to increase self-awareness and build collaborative targeted solutions.
(873) 710-4488 View (873) 710-4488
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Dr. Kevin G. Alderson
Psychologist, PhD
Online Only
I am also an expert in sexuality and relationship concerns.
I am here to help. I embrace the "4C's" of my profession, an acronym that stands for caring, compassionate, competent, and well connected. You deserve the best, and that is all I offer. My ideal client is someone serious about improving, growing, and overcoming (or least better managing) whatever it is you need help with now. Please note that I live in Calgary and I offer live in-person sessions here, but I do see clients across Ontario via high-quality video software. BOOK APPOINTMENT: Click icon called "Website" on left side. My 83-second promotional video is at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-vOKqotpeaM
I am also an expert in sexuality and relationship concerns.
I am here to help. I embrace the "4C's" of my profession, an acronym that stands for caring, compassionate, competent, and well connected. You deserve the best, and that is all I offer. My ideal client is someone serious about improving, growing, and overcoming (or least better managing) whatever it is you need help with now. Please note that I live in Calgary and I offer live in-person sessions here, but I do see clients across Ontario via high-quality video software. BOOK APPOINTMENT: Click icon called "Website" on left side. My 83-second promotional video is at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-vOKqotpeaM
(343) 304-6293 View (343) 304-6293
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Claire Pecora
Registered Psychotherapist, BA, MA, RP, CCC
1 Endorsed
Online Only
You're in the right spot if you’re feeling lost in navigating your relationships; if you feel as though your needs aren’t being met; if you’re having difficulties engaging with sex and intimacy; or if you don’t know how to get “unstuck” from unhelpful patterns.
I aim to meet you where you are at in this moment with a compassionate, non-judgemental, and light-hearted stance. Our work would entail equipping you with tools to manage what you’re going through in the moment as well as digging deeper to explore and understand how you got here in the first place.
You're in the right spot if you’re feeling lost in navigating your relationships; if you feel as though your needs aren’t being met; if you’re having difficulties engaging with sex and intimacy; or if you don’t know how to get “unstuck” from unhelpful patterns.
I aim to meet you where you are at in this moment with a compassionate, non-judgemental, and light-hearted stance. Our work would entail equipping you with tools to manage what you’re going through in the moment as well as digging deeper to explore and understand how you got here in the first place.
(343) 312-5359 View (343) 312-5359

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Sex Therapy Therapists
Who is sex therapy for?
Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?
Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?
People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?
Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.