Couples Counselling Therapists in Newmarket, ON

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Charlene Blanchard
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, RP
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Newmarket, ON L3Y  (Online Only)
I work with couples from an emotion focused perspective and have a special interest in helping couples understand the unique conflict cycle and individual attachment styles that are keeping them stuck in painful patterns of communication.
I have a passion for long-term change in mindset. Crippling negative self-talk fuels low-confidence, anxiety, depression, eating disorders and other mental health challenges that leave us feeling stuck: keeping us angry, alone and unable to reach our potential. A negative mindset impedes communication style, causing us to feel disconnected and destroys our personal relationships. I work with individuals from an evidence based cognitive behavioural perspective, while integrating emotions focused and narrative therapy. A healthy mindset is essential for emotional regulation, personal growth, healthy relationships and overall success!
I work with couples from an emotion focused perspective and have a special interest in helping couples understand the unique conflict cycle and individual attachment styles that are keeping them stuck in painful patterns of communication.
I have a passion for long-term change in mindset. Crippling negative self-talk fuels low-confidence, anxiety, depression, eating disorders and other mental health challenges that leave us feeling stuck: keeping us angry, alone and unable to reach our potential. A negative mindset impedes communication style, causing us to feel disconnected and destroys our personal relationships. I work with individuals from an evidence based cognitive behavioural perspective, while integrating emotions focused and narrative therapy. A healthy mindset is essential for emotional regulation, personal growth, healthy relationships and overall success!
(289) 803-8378 View (289) 803-8378
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Mary Charron Therapy
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Newmarket, ON L3Y
With 20 years in the field and a columnist with Metroland News and Newmarket Today, I work with children, adults, couples and families, supporting their mental health. Difficult experiences both past and present can anchor us, keeping us trapped in a space of anxiety, depression, anger and hurt. These emotions can be exhausting and overwhelming. As a therapist, I envision my role as the support to guide you toward making a shift in healing. We do not need to stay in our past, in our traumas and in our pain. We can move forward and thrive; we deserve to do so.
With 20 years in the field and a columnist with Metroland News and Newmarket Today, I work with children, adults, couples and families, supporting their mental health. Difficult experiences both past and present can anchor us, keeping us trapped in a space of anxiety, depression, anger and hurt. These emotions can be exhausting and overwhelming. As a therapist, I envision my role as the support to guide you toward making a shift in healing. We do not need to stay in our past, in our traumas and in our pain. We can move forward and thrive; we deserve to do so.
(647) 697-5572 View (647) 697-5572
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Newmarket Psychotherapy Team, Inc.
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Newmarket, ON L3Y
We happily accommodate individuals, couples and families of all ages.
Are you in a place in your life where you require emotional support? Perhaps you know someone who does? We have all struggled, or are struggling, and it is important to remember that as human beings, it is common to experience a variety of hardships at different times in life. Newmarket Psychotherapy Team is a growing team of collaborative therapists with a nurturing space for you to visit, where a therapist of your choice can provide you with the kind of support that you require and deserve. Our Collective welcomes everyone, at anytime. It is never too late to reach out for support.
We happily accommodate individuals, couples and families of all ages.
Are you in a place in your life where you require emotional support? Perhaps you know someone who does? We have all struggled, or are struggling, and it is important to remember that as human beings, it is common to experience a variety of hardships at different times in life. Newmarket Psychotherapy Team is a growing team of collaborative therapists with a nurturing space for you to visit, where a therapist of your choice can provide you with the kind of support that you require and deserve. Our Collective welcomes everyone, at anytime. It is never too late to reach out for support.
(289) 768-8386 View (289) 768-8386
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Online Therapy Centre
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), RP (Q), MA, BA, MEd BEd
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Newmarket, ON L3X  (Online Only)
IN-PERSON or ONLINE sessions! OTC is home to a skilled team of psychologists, psychotherapists and social workers dedicated to providing psychological assessments/evaluations and counselling treatments in a convenient and accessible online format. Our goal is to help children, individuals, couples and families improve their mental health and well-being through support from our experienced team. OTC offers a range of evidence-based therapies to address a variety of mental health concerns, including anxiety, depression, relationship issues, trauma, addiction, anger management, emotion regulation, mood/behavioural disorders and more.
IN-PERSON or ONLINE sessions! OTC is home to a skilled team of psychologists, psychotherapists and social workers dedicated to providing psychological assessments/evaluations and counselling treatments in a convenient and accessible online format. Our goal is to help children, individuals, couples and families improve their mental health and well-being through support from our experienced team. OTC offers a range of evidence-based therapies to address a variety of mental health concerns, including anxiety, depression, relationship issues, trauma, addiction, anger management, emotion regulation, mood/behavioural disorders and more.
(289) 512-2670 View (289) 512-2670
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Online Therapy Centre
Psychologist, PhD, CPsych
Verified Verified
Newmarket, ON L3X
IN-PERSON or ONLINE sessions! OTC is home to a skilled team of psychologists, psychotherapists and social workers dedicated to providing psychological assessments/evaluations and counselling treatments in a convenient and accessible online format. Our goal is to help children, individuals, couples and families improve their mental health and well-being through support from our experienced team. OTC offers a range of therapies to address a variety of mental health concerns, including anxiety, depression, relationship issues, trauma, addiction, anger management, emotion regulation, mood/behavioural disorders and more.
IN-PERSON or ONLINE sessions! OTC is home to a skilled team of psychologists, psychotherapists and social workers dedicated to providing psychological assessments/evaluations and counselling treatments in a convenient and accessible online format. Our goal is to help children, individuals, couples and families improve their mental health and well-being through support from our experienced team. OTC offers a range of therapies to address a variety of mental health concerns, including anxiety, depression, relationship issues, trauma, addiction, anger management, emotion regulation, mood/behavioural disorders and more.
(289) 723-1654 View (289) 723-1654
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Sajel Bellon Ed.D, RP, CTSS at SOS Psychotherapy
Registered Psychotherapist
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Newmarket, ON L3X
Sajel specializes in serving individuals & couples in high-stress occupations, such as first responders, healthcare, frontlines, other professional leaders, CEO's or people experiencing major life transitions, like divorce or retirement & relationship issues.
Become the best version of You! The goal at SOS Psychotherapy is to help you move from your pain and step into your possibilities. Opening up about trauma, mental health, stress and the suicidal mind is not yet widely accepted, making it more difficult to seek help and support when it is most critical to your wellbeing. This is what Sajel is best known for…her expertise, human connection and comfortable conversation! With guided practice with evidence-based tools, learn how to gain perspective, leverage your pain points and move towards your preferred possibilities. You have found a Safe Space...take the next step.
Sajel specializes in serving individuals & couples in high-stress occupations, such as first responders, healthcare, frontlines, other professional leaders, CEO's or people experiencing major life transitions, like divorce or retirement & relationship issues.
Become the best version of You! The goal at SOS Psychotherapy is to help you move from your pain and step into your possibilities. Opening up about trauma, mental health, stress and the suicidal mind is not yet widely accepted, making it more difficult to seek help and support when it is most critical to your wellbeing. This is what Sajel is best known for…her expertise, human connection and comfortable conversation! With guided practice with evidence-based tools, learn how to gain perspective, leverage your pain points and move towards your preferred possibilities. You have found a Safe Space...take the next step.
(647) 697-5317 View (647) 697-5317
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Online Therapy Centre
Psychologist, PhD, CPsych
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Newmarket, ON L3X
IN-PERSON or ONLINE sessions! OTC is home to a skilled team of psychologists, psychotherapists and social workers dedicated to providing psychological assessments/evaluations and counselling treatments in a convenient and accessible online format. Our goal is to help children, individuals, couples and families improve their mental health and well-being through support from our experienced team. OTC offers a range of evidence-based therapies to address a variety of mental health concerns, including anxiety, depression, relationship issues, trauma, addiction, anger management, emotion regulation, mood/behavioural disorders and more.
IN-PERSON or ONLINE sessions! OTC is home to a skilled team of psychologists, psychotherapists and social workers dedicated to providing psychological assessments/evaluations and counselling treatments in a convenient and accessible online format. Our goal is to help children, individuals, couples and families improve their mental health and well-being through support from our experienced team. OTC offers a range of evidence-based therapies to address a variety of mental health concerns, including anxiety, depression, relationship issues, trauma, addiction, anger management, emotion regulation, mood/behavioural disorders and more.
(289) 302-8225 View (289) 302-8225
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Mateo Salazar
Registered Psychotherapist, MDiv
Verified Verified
Newmarket, ON L3Y
Mateo is a Registered Psychotherapist with the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario. He has provided treatment for many individuals, couples, and families from a variety of cultural backgrounds, challenging life experiences, and complex mental health concerns all over Toronto and the GTA. Mateo’s clinical work can be described as an eclectic therapeutic approach primarily rooted in modalities including Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Psychodynamic Therapy, and Narrative Therapy.
Mateo is a Registered Psychotherapist with the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario. He has provided treatment for many individuals, couples, and families from a variety of cultural backgrounds, challenging life experiences, and complex mental health concerns all over Toronto and the GTA. Mateo’s clinical work can be described as an eclectic therapeutic approach primarily rooted in modalities including Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Psychodynamic Therapy, and Narrative Therapy.
(289) 278-8336 View (289) 278-8336
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Anna Sagalchik
Registered Psychotherapist, OAMHP , BA, MA, CRPO
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Newmarket, ON L3Y
We are all going through some tough times right now. Some of us have less energy or feel anxious and hopeless. Words like "anxiety", "stress", "depression" or "sadness" may come to mind. This is a unique period in time and it is natural to feel uneasy. I use a psychodynamic, solution-focused approach, thus, acknowledging your complexity and inherent strengths. Together, we will develop solutions from your unique perspective. I have provided therapy for individuals, teens and couples. I strive to be honest and non-judgmental, enjoy working with everyone and can offer supportive and realistic strategies to improve your life.
We are all going through some tough times right now. Some of us have less energy or feel anxious and hopeless. Words like "anxiety", "stress", "depression" or "sadness" may come to mind. This is a unique period in time and it is natural to feel uneasy. I use a psychodynamic, solution-focused approach, thus, acknowledging your complexity and inherent strengths. Together, we will develop solutions from your unique perspective. I have provided therapy for individuals, teens and couples. I strive to be honest and non-judgmental, enjoy working with everyone and can offer supportive and realistic strategies to improve your life.
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Christine Kim
Registered Psychotherapist, MDiv
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Newmarket, ON L3Y
Or go to the Rock of Peace website and get our free book chapter for couples, “Over the Walls of Depression and Anxiety.
Life can be unpredictable and complex, which makes us feel stuck in the spot that we are standing on. We may be able to cope momentarily, but realize that we are cycling through the same patterns unable to find solid ground. This can feel overwhelming, frustrating, and lonely. One of the first steps you can take from where you are standing is the ability to reach out for support through therapy. In this space, you can begin the process toward greater healing and freedom, turning your hopeless end into endless hope. While our past and circumstances have influenced our present, it does not have to dictate our future.
Or go to the Rock of Peace website and get our free book chapter for couples, “Over the Walls of Depression and Anxiety.
Life can be unpredictable and complex, which makes us feel stuck in the spot that we are standing on. We may be able to cope momentarily, but realize that we are cycling through the same patterns unable to find solid ground. This can feel overwhelming, frustrating, and lonely. One of the first steps you can take from where you are standing is the ability to reach out for support through therapy. In this space, you can begin the process toward greater healing and freedom, turning your hopeless end into endless hope. While our past and circumstances have influenced our present, it does not have to dictate our future.
(289) 207-7532 View (289) 207-7532
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Amy Taylor
Registered Social Worker, RSW
Verified Verified
Newmarket, ON L3X
I warmly welcome both individuals and couples.
As a Registered Social Worker and a passionate Indigenous Woman, I provide a non-judgemental space in which you can feel free to be your authentic self to explore difficult thoughts and emotions. As unique as every person is, so are the struggles we face. How we process and navigate these experiences is just as unique. Through an integrative trauma-informed approach to therapy, I will assist you in identifying your strengths, overcoming challenges, learning effective coping mechanisms, and working together collectively to bring about positive changes that, in turn, can help to bring you inner peace.
I warmly welcome both individuals and couples.
As a Registered Social Worker and a passionate Indigenous Woman, I provide a non-judgemental space in which you can feel free to be your authentic self to explore difficult thoughts and emotions. As unique as every person is, so are the struggles we face. How we process and navigate these experiences is just as unique. Through an integrative trauma-informed approach to therapy, I will assist you in identifying your strengths, overcoming challenges, learning effective coping mechanisms, and working together collectively to bring about positive changes that, in turn, can help to bring you inner peace.
(289) 763-9898 View (289) 763-9898
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Iris Benrubi
Counsellor, MA, RP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Newmarket, ON L3Y
Do you feel overwhelmed? Stressed? Are you in a relationship that doesn’t give you joy & don't know what to do? I can help. I specialize in working with individuals & couples who are feeling overwhelmed, frustrated & stressed to create a life and relationships that fulfill you, give you a greater sense of inner peace, joy and feeling of mastery over life circumstances. You deserve to be happy! Take action today, just click on my 2 minute video on www.therapysolutions.ca or call 905-709-8185.
Do you feel overwhelmed? Stressed? Are you in a relationship that doesn’t give you joy & don't know what to do? I can help. I specialize in working with individuals & couples who are feeling overwhelmed, frustrated & stressed to create a life and relationships that fulfill you, give you a greater sense of inner peace, joy and feeling of mastery over life circumstances. You deserve to be happy! Take action today, just click on my 2 minute video on www.therapysolutions.ca or call 905-709-8185.
(289) 677-1575 View (289) 677-1575
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Kelly Brown
Registered Social Worker, BSW, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Newmarket, ON L3Y
I believe in you. Whether you’re a teen, adult or young at heart, I will listen and walk with you on your healing journey. If you are struggling with the relationship with yourself, parents, partner or others, I will support you with learning new coping strategies and behaviours on how to best take care of yourself in those relationships.
I believe in you. Whether you’re a teen, adult or young at heart, I will listen and walk with you on your healing journey. If you are struggling with the relationship with yourself, parents, partner or others, I will support you with learning new coping strategies and behaviours on how to best take care of yourself in those relationships.
(249) 495-5482 View (249) 495-5482
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Rucha Patel 🌻 Feel-Good Therapy
Registered Psychotherapist, MSc, RP
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Newmarket, ON L3X
Using tools from evidence-based therapy modalities - including cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) for individual growth and the Gottman method for couples work - we will strive to overcome the barriers that are keeping you from living the life that you want.
Hello! I aim to create a safe and comfortable space for you to explore your thoughts, feelings, and challenges. I am here to listen and to help you access your inner resources and hidden strengths - as well as to provide tools and practical strategies that you can start using right now.
Using tools from evidence-based therapy modalities - including cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) for individual growth and the Gottman method for couples work - we will strive to overcome the barriers that are keeping you from living the life that you want.
Hello! I aim to create a safe and comfortable space for you to explore your thoughts, feelings, and challenges. I am here to listen and to help you access your inner resources and hidden strengths - as well as to provide tools and practical strategies that you can start using right now.
(289) 207-7769 View (289) 207-7769
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Dr. Tatyana Ashtree - ON Social Counselling Center
Registered Social Worker, PhD, LCSW
Verified Verified
Newmarket, ON L3Y
Resonable $50/99$ pricing. While pain is inevitable in our lives, counselling can provide you the support you need to help reduce the suffering you are experiencing. The relationship between a counsellor and client is the most important indicator of success in therapy, and with me you will find a counsellor that is compassionate, genuine, non-judgmental, and transparent. Together we can explore the larger context of your current difficulties to help you better understand your experience, feel more agency and ability to cope, and build upon your strengths and resilience.
Resonable $50/99$ pricing. While pain is inevitable in our lives, counselling can provide you the support you need to help reduce the suffering you are experiencing. The relationship between a counsellor and client is the most important indicator of success in therapy, and with me you will find a counsellor that is compassionate, genuine, non-judgmental, and transparent. Together we can explore the larger context of your current difficulties to help you better understand your experience, feel more agency and ability to cope, and build upon your strengths and resilience.
(289) 275-7998 View (289) 275-7998
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Tina Weidelich
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), MDiv
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Newmarket, ON L3Y
Are you struggling with relationship issues, depression, anxiety or traumatic experiences? Or do you feel stuck or are going through a really tough time? Hi, I’m Tina, and I would be honoured to journey with you and/or your loved one(s) to help provide healing - pointing out your strengths, discovering your passions, and supporting you with therapeutic modalities that are well researched and tailored to fit your needs and meet your goals. I have specialized training in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing Therapy (EMDR), Flash, loss/grief, trauma, addictions and premarital counselling.
Are you struggling with relationship issues, depression, anxiety or traumatic experiences? Or do you feel stuck or are going through a really tough time? Hi, I’m Tina, and I would be honoured to journey with you and/or your loved one(s) to help provide healing - pointing out your strengths, discovering your passions, and supporting you with therapeutic modalities that are well researched and tailored to fit your needs and meet your goals. I have specialized training in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing Therapy (EMDR), Flash, loss/grief, trauma, addictions and premarital counselling.
(289) 768-8749 View (289) 768-8749
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Melinda Bandak
Registered Psychotherapist, MDiv, RP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Newmarket, ON L3Y
I am a Registered Psychotherapist with 25 years of experience, specializing in helping individuals, couples, and families face life challenges. It can be a daunting task to take the first step toward seeking counseling, but finding the right therapist is crucial. In my practice, I facilitate a therapy experience where clients feel secure, validated, and empowered to address their concerns openly. My years of professional training and experience gives me a strong foundation of knowledge to draw on when addressing clients' needs.
I am a Registered Psychotherapist with 25 years of experience, specializing in helping individuals, couples, and families face life challenges. It can be a daunting task to take the first step toward seeking counseling, but finding the right therapist is crucial. In my practice, I facilitate a therapy experience where clients feel secure, validated, and empowered to address their concerns openly. My years of professional training and experience gives me a strong foundation of knowledge to draw on when addressing clients' needs.
(289) 210-7466 View (289) 210-7466
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Glenda Dekkema-Burkholder
Registered Psychotherapist, MDiv, RP
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Newmarket, ON L3Y
Waitlist for new clients
Hi! Would you like your relationship to be so much more than it is? Or perhaps you're in the middle of a divorce, or you've experienced some other tragic loss and you feel so lonely and misunderstood. Are you hiding in shame and want a way out? Are you wondering where God is in all of this, as many of us do? Do you envision a life full of hope and joy where you can be your best and truest self? I specialize in Christian counselling, relationship issues, self confidence, and shame. I would be honored if you would be willing to collaborate with me to work towards a happier, healthier you.
Hi! Would you like your relationship to be so much more than it is? Or perhaps you're in the middle of a divorce, or you've experienced some other tragic loss and you feel so lonely and misunderstood. Are you hiding in shame and want a way out? Are you wondering where God is in all of this, as many of us do? Do you envision a life full of hope and joy where you can be your best and truest self? I specialize in Christian counselling, relationship issues, self confidence, and shame. I would be honored if you would be willing to collaborate with me to work towards a happier, healthier you.
(289) 205-1168 View (289) 205-1168
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Nicole Notarfonzo
Psychologist, MEd, CPsych
Verified Verified
Newmarket, ON L3Y
Life can be beautiful, filled with joy and meaningful experiences. Life can also be messy, confusing and very painful. When we don’t know how to navigate these experiences, we can be left feeling either disconnected or overwhelmed by our emotions and unable to show up effectively in our lives and in our relationships. I want you to know that you are not alone. For over a decade, I have provided assessment and psychotherapy to individuals struggling with mental health and relationship challenges. I’m particularly passionate about the area of relationships – the parenting relationship, couple relationship, and relationship to self.
Life can be beautiful, filled with joy and meaningful experiences. Life can also be messy, confusing and very painful. When we don’t know how to navigate these experiences, we can be left feeling either disconnected or overwhelmed by our emotions and unable to show up effectively in our lives and in our relationships. I want you to know that you are not alone. For over a decade, I have provided assessment and psychotherapy to individuals struggling with mental health and relationship challenges. I’m particularly passionate about the area of relationships – the parenting relationship, couple relationship, and relationship to self.
(289) 301-8876 View (289) 301-8876
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Jessica Squilloni
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, RP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Newmarket, ON L3Y
A strong therapeutic relationship can improve your quality of life and help to increase resilience.
I am a Registered Psychotherapist through the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario with a Masters degree in Counselling Psychology. I provide evidence-based therapy and skills training in dialectical behaviour therapy. I specialize in issues related to emotion regulation and impulsivity which include borderline personality disorder and other personality disorders, PTSD, suicide as well as mood, anxiety and eating disorders. I have international training with DBT experts from locations including Italy and New York. I have formal training in Cognitive Processing Therapy for PTSD and CBT for anxiety.
A strong therapeutic relationship can improve your quality of life and help to increase resilience.
I am a Registered Psychotherapist through the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario with a Masters degree in Counselling Psychology. I provide evidence-based therapy and skills training in dialectical behaviour therapy. I specialize in issues related to emotion regulation and impulsivity which include borderline personality disorder and other personality disorders, PTSD, suicide as well as mood, anxiety and eating disorders. I have international training with DBT experts from locations including Italy and New York. I have formal training in Cognitive Processing Therapy for PTSD and CBT for anxiety.
(249) 495-5310 View (249) 495-5310

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Couples Counselling

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.