Gottman Method Therapists in Lindsay, ON

Located in the Kawartha Lakes region, I offer both online and in-person therapeutic counselling services. My approach to healing includes providing an inclusive and person-centred environment. Whether you are experiencing life-changing circumstances that are causing feelings of anxiety or depression, or if you are noticing trouble in your relationships and wonder how to feel closer to those you care about, I provide a safe space for you to share your experiences. Together, we can explore new strategies to successfully navigate life's changing circumstances.

Accepting new clients! Congratulations on starting your healing journey! Therapy through natural conversation with an experienced, relatable and personable counsellor can make your experience feel less isolating and daunting. This is your safe space to express yourself fully and understand that you are never alone in working through your life challenges.

Every challenge is an opportunity to find ourselves, see things differently, and self-actualize. When you're stuck, stressed, or struggling (grief, relationships, life altering events, work or academic stress, general health and wellbeing), I guide you to reconnect with your inner strength, recognize your talents, make meaningful connections, and see new possibilities—walking forward with new perspective. I listen with compassion, work with transparency, and provide creative therapy.

I am Dr. Alan McAllister. I have over 40 years of experience providing psychological services. I work with the dedicated team at Attentive Mind Therapy to provide individual, couple, and family counselling. We integrate gold standard, evidence-based cognitive-behavioral therapies with innovative mind/body techniques like hypnosis, meditation, biofeedback, and neurofeedback. From navigating stressful situations to fostering healthier relationships, tackling work challenges, and overcoming emotional and mental health obstacles, we are here to guide and support you on your path to optimal functioning and a more fulfilling life.

Have you suffered trauma and wonder if it’s possible to heal? Are you anxious and worried, struggling to cope? Do you push people away before they hurt you? Or chase after someone, terrified to lose them? Do you question your worth, sure that you will never be enough? Have you ever wondered “is there hope for me”? YES! There is hope! It is possible to heal, to learn how to have healthier relationships, to feel good about yourself instead of feeling bad. You can learn how to manage emotions so that anxiety doesn’t stop you from doing things you want to do. You CAN gain more control of your life and emotions and feel more confident!

If you're feeling disconnected, distracted, and detached from your life, it may be time to look at why. Why can't I connect, why am I not able to just "get over" my past, or why does it all feel so meaningless? Maybe there are other questions, like “what am I doing with my life” or “who do I want to be?”. It’s okay to take time that's just for you, to look at your life and see both the big picture and explore the often overlooked details. With the right support, you can feel more present, connected, and in control of your life.

Welcome! Are you feeling lost, disconnected, exhausted or burnt out? Do you feel alone or a sense of disconnect for yourself or partner? Whatever your concern is, know you are not alone! I specialize in helping couples, families, and individuals through life's changes and conflicts. Relationships can be hard, but I'm here to meet you where you are. Together, we'll create a safe space for growth, discovery, and healing. My hope is that through our work you will gain a deeper perspective and apply tools beyond the therapeutic setting. I look forward to working with you as you embark on your therapeutic journey.