Sex Therapists in Kingston, ON
Sex & Couples Therapy Ontario | Shaunacy King
Registered Psychotherapist, RP, MACP, MPhil
1 Endorsed
Kingston, ON K7L
You are struggling with sexuality, gender, or intimacy issues, and want to figure them out, either on your own or with your partner/partners.
Therapy holds the hope of transforming your life and relationships into something remarkable. At the Tri Health Clinic, we have many tools to help you, using a combination of evidence-based approaches tailored to your needs and goals. We're knowledgeable and affirming of LGBTQ+, poly/ENM, and kink identities.
You are struggling with sexuality, gender, or intimacy issues, and want to figure them out, either on your own or with your partner/partners.
Therapy holds the hope of transforming your life and relationships into something remarkable. At the Tri Health Clinic, we have many tools to help you, using a combination of evidence-based approaches tailored to your needs and goals. We're knowledgeable and affirming of LGBTQ+, poly/ENM, and kink identities.
“If I really love my partner I should want to have sex with them…right
You don’t want to be ‘that couple’ who only has sex on their anniversary. You want that constant gnawing worry about sex to just go away. you want to cuddle up to your partner without your muscles tensing up and worrying that they are going to ask you for sex and you are going to turn them down yet again. You don’t want to feel like you are sexually broken.
“If I really love my partner I should want to have sex with them…right
You don’t want to be ‘that couple’ who only has sex on their anniversary. You want that constant gnawing worry about sex to just go away. you want to cuddle up to your partner without your muscles tensing up and worrying that they are going to ask you for sex and you are going to turn them down yet again. You don’t want to feel like you are sexually broken.
It may surprise you to learn that sex is NOT supposed to hurt… yet for 20% of women, it does.
The thought of pain free sex feels so far away right now, but find yourself imagining how much easier life would be if it were possible. More than anything, you want relief from this pain. You want to stop worrying that you’ll be told “it’s all in your head” at your next medical appointment. We know your pain is real. And we're here to support you.
It may surprise you to learn that sex is NOT supposed to hurt… yet for 20% of women, it does.
The thought of pain free sex feels so far away right now, but find yourself imagining how much easier life would be if it were possible. More than anything, you want relief from this pain. You want to stop worrying that you’ll be told “it’s all in your head” at your next medical appointment. We know your pain is real. And we're here to support you.
Do you wish you were more into sex, or wonder whether amazing sex and relationships are possible for you?
I’m a Certified Sexuality, Intimacy and Relationship Coach and Sexologist with 20+ years in social services and a passion for coaching others to live their best lives. I offer unique and effective intimacy coaching, aimed at achieving results. I offer a free intro session, after which we'll decide on whether it’s a good fit and make a plan of action.
Do you wish you were more into sex, or wonder whether amazing sex and relationships are possible for you?
I’m a Certified Sexuality, Intimacy and Relationship Coach and Sexologist with 20+ years in social services and a passion for coaching others to live their best lives. I offer unique and effective intimacy coaching, aimed at achieving results. I offer a free intro session, after which we'll decide on whether it’s a good fit and make a plan of action.
So, you’re experiencing difficulties with sex.
Sex is an important part of being human and deserves attention when things are not going the way you’d like. Sex and relationships can be pleasurable, playful, and intimate again.
So, you’re experiencing difficulties with sex.
Sex is an important part of being human and deserves attention when things are not going the way you’d like. Sex and relationships can be pleasurable, playful, and intimate again.
Erectile Dysfunction Ontario | Sam Levang
Pre-Licensed Professional, MSc
1 Endorsed
Kingston, ON K7L
You don’t want to have to worry every time you have sex (“Will I get hard this time?” or “Will I last long enough?” or “Will I even be able to orgasm?”).
You’ve been under-performing in the bedroom and the doctors aren’t able to help. You find yourself worrying about erections, or how long it will take you to ejaculate. That worry started in the bedroom, but now it’s always there. Maybe you find yourself creating distance from your partner because you’re worried it will happen again. You don’t want to disappoint your partner, but how could they not take it personally? Maybe you avoid dating all together, wondering “who is going to want to be with someone who can’t perform in the bedroom?” You feel like less of a man. You feel like a sexual failure. You think “I must be the only one"
You don’t want to have to worry every time you have sex (“Will I get hard this time?” or “Will I last long enough?” or “Will I even be able to orgasm?”).
You’ve been under-performing in the bedroom and the doctors aren’t able to help. You find yourself worrying about erections, or how long it will take you to ejaculate. That worry started in the bedroom, but now it’s always there. Maybe you find yourself creating distance from your partner because you’re worried it will happen again. You don’t want to disappoint your partner, but how could they not take it personally? Maybe you avoid dating all together, wondering “who is going to want to be with someone who can’t perform in the bedroom?” You feel like less of a man. You feel like a sexual failure. You think “I must be the only one"
Sex Therapy Kingston | Dr. Jenn Bossio
Psychologist, PhD, CPsych, RPsych
5 Endorsed
Kingston, ON K7L
So, sex doesn’t look like it does in the movies for you?
You want sex to be fun, exciting, pleasurable, or easy. You want to feel more confident in the bedroom, and feel more connected to your partner. Maybe you want to last longer, enjoy sex more, want sex more, worry less about sex, perform better in bed, or get back to where you were when sex was good. Whatever it is, I’m here to help.
So, sex doesn’t look like it does in the movies for you?
You want sex to be fun, exciting, pleasurable, or easy. You want to feel more confident in the bedroom, and feel more connected to your partner. Maybe you want to last longer, enjoy sex more, want sex more, worry less about sex, perform better in bed, or get back to where you were when sex was good. Whatever it is, I’m here to help.
Maybe your sex life is not what you imagined it would be.
Whatever your circumstances may be, you find yourself craving meaning in your life and relationships. You want to explore or reconnect with what’s important to you. That could be your partner, other loved ones or activities, or your sensuality. You’re open to growing and working to build a more fulfilling life for yourself, in or outside of the bedroom.
Maybe your sex life is not what you imagined it would be.
Whatever your circumstances may be, you find yourself craving meaning in your life and relationships. You want to explore or reconnect with what’s important to you. That could be your partner, other loved ones or activities, or your sensuality. You’re open to growing and working to build a more fulfilling life for yourself, in or outside of the bedroom.
Whether you're struggling with your sexuality, gender identity, depression, anxiety, or just having a hard time managing stress and life changes - I'm here to help!
I work primarily with the queer community, and specifically with transgender folks navigating their identity and the transition process. I have a wealth of experience with other populations and difficulties as well, including OCD, anxiety, workplace issues, interpersonal issues, life transitions, and more.
Whether you're struggling with your sexuality, gender identity, depression, anxiety, or just having a hard time managing stress and life changes - I'm here to help!
I work primarily with the queer community, and specifically with transgender folks navigating their identity and the transition process. I have a wealth of experience with other populations and difficulties as well, including OCD, anxiety, workplace issues, interpersonal issues, life transitions, and more.
I also specialize and have had training in: sex, intimacy, & relationship therapy; self esteem & self worth; body image & disordered food relationships; grief, death, & loss; and spiritual/existential concerns.
To me, therapy is a warm, comfortable space we build together; it’s an hour outside of your everyday life, a shared place we can process whatever needs to be processed from the safety of. Care, compassion, non-judgement, and a genuine therapeutic relationship are the foundations of our work together and are my main priorities. My focus is always holistic: we have to look at every layer - from the cues your body and nervous system are giving you to the systemic messages surrounding you - to reach not just the bandaids but the deeper roots of distress and, ultimately, growth. I work from an actively affirming and anti-oppressive lens.
I also specialize and have had training in: sex, intimacy, & relationship therapy; self esteem & self worth; body image & disordered food relationships; grief, death, & loss; and spiritual/existential concerns.
To me, therapy is a warm, comfortable space we build together; it’s an hour outside of your everyday life, a shared place we can process whatever needs to be processed from the safety of. Care, compassion, non-judgement, and a genuine therapeutic relationship are the foundations of our work together and are my main priorities. My focus is always holistic: we have to look at every layer - from the cues your body and nervous system are giving you to the systemic messages surrounding you - to reach not just the bandaids but the deeper roots of distress and, ultimately, growth. I work from an actively affirming and anti-oppressive lens.
Her affirmative and client centred services offers a wide range of therapeutic modalities, specializing in: Sex, sexuality, and intimacy concerns (AASECT member), Relationship concerns and conflict resolution, Trauma processing (EMDR, CBT, DBT, Narrative), Grief, Anxiety and depression, Body health and dysmorphia concerns, Midlife experiences and change.
Shaunacy provides an intentional practice that focuses on a person-centred approach and the ongoing professional advocacy of affirmative and accessible mental health support. She uses an integrative approach, guided by the clients needs and goals. EMDR, Narrative Therapy, CBT, DBT, Compassion, and Expressive Therapies are often discussed and used.
Her affirmative and client centred services offers a wide range of therapeutic modalities, specializing in: Sex, sexuality, and intimacy concerns (AASECT member), Relationship concerns and conflict resolution, Trauma processing (EMDR, CBT, DBT, Narrative), Grief, Anxiety and depression, Body health and dysmorphia concerns, Midlife experiences and change.
Shaunacy provides an intentional practice that focuses on a person-centred approach and the ongoing professional advocacy of affirmative and accessible mental health support. She uses an integrative approach, guided by the clients needs and goals. EMDR, Narrative Therapy, CBT, DBT, Compassion, and Expressive Therapies are often discussed and used.
You are in the right spot if you’re feeling lost in navigating your relationships; if you feel as though your needs aren’t being met; if you’re having difficulties engaging with sex and intimacy; or if you don’t know how to get “unstuck” from unhelpful patterns.
I aim to meet you where you are at in your journey with a compassionate, non-judgemental, and light-hearted stance. This would entail equipping you with tools to manage what you’re going through in the moment as well as digging deeper to explore the various parts of us that make up who we are to cultivate a better understanding of ourselves going forward.
You are in the right spot if you’re feeling lost in navigating your relationships; if you feel as though your needs aren’t being met; if you’re having difficulties engaging with sex and intimacy; or if you don’t know how to get “unstuck” from unhelpful patterns.
I aim to meet you where you are at in your journey with a compassionate, non-judgemental, and light-hearted stance. This would entail equipping you with tools to manage what you’re going through in the moment as well as digging deeper to explore the various parts of us that make up who we are to cultivate a better understanding of ourselves going forward.
I am a sex therapist, working with all couples and individuals.
I believe that self-esteem is at the root of most issues. I work with individuals to help them increase their self-esteem, self acceptance and self love, I use cognitive therapy, Psychotherapy or "talk therapy". I am also trained in psychodramtic body work. I have started using Internal family systems approach as well in the last few years.
I am a sex therapist, working with all couples and individuals.
I believe that self-esteem is at the root of most issues. I work with individuals to help them increase their self-esteem, self acceptance and self love, I use cognitive therapy, Psychotherapy or "talk therapy". I am also trained in psychodramtic body work. I have started using Internal family systems approach as well in the last few years.
SL Psychotherapy and Wellness - Shannon Lawless
Registered Psychotherapist, RP, RMFT-S
3 Endorsed
Serves Area
We work with themes of sexuality, relational challenges (individual, couple/poly or family context), communication, addiction and substance use, disordered eating, non-monogamy, interethnic partnership, grief and loss, and mental health issues.
Our therapists utilize a client-centered, systemic and trauma-informed practice based in collaborative work with clients. Through collaboration therapists will devise a tailored treatment plan that might pull from any of the following: Narrative, CBT, DBT, IFS, EMDR, Attachment, Sex therapy, Gottman Couples therapy, Mindfulness, and Emotion Focused therapy.
We work with themes of sexuality, relational challenges (individual, couple/poly or family context), communication, addiction and substance use, disordered eating, non-monogamy, interethnic partnership, grief and loss, and mental health issues.
Our therapists utilize a client-centered, systemic and trauma-informed practice based in collaborative work with clients. Through collaboration therapists will devise a tailored treatment plan that might pull from any of the following: Narrative, CBT, DBT, IFS, EMDR, Attachment, Sex therapy, Gottman Couples therapy, Mindfulness, and Emotion Focused therapy.
Sex is no longer fun, it is simply a method to conceive/means to finally seeing that double pink line…
You don’t want to feel your breath catch in your throat every time you see a pregnant belly. You want to stop wondering if your friend didn’t order a glass of wine with dinner because maybe she's expecting? You know that infertility impacts 1 in 8 people, but you wonder where they heck is everyone else? How is it that I feel like I’m the only one?
Sex is no longer fun, it is simply a method to conceive/means to finally seeing that double pink line…
You don’t want to feel your breath catch in your throat every time you see a pregnant belly. You want to stop wondering if your friend didn’t order a glass of wine with dinner because maybe she's expecting? You know that infertility impacts 1 in 8 people, but you wonder where they heck is everyone else? How is it that I feel like I’m the only one?
With specialized training in couples and sex therapy, I will help you address all sides of the problem.
You love your partner, but find yourself wondering “what happened to us?”. You just keep waiting for things to get better on their own, but they don’t. You barely recognize yourself or your partner anymore. Maybe you find yourself fantasizing about leaving the relationship all together. Things in the bedroom are even worse. Maybe you and your partner are trying to find a way back from infidelity. You’re lonely. You feel embarrassed. Maybe you’re staying together for the kids. You or your partner are worried about going to couples therapy because of fear that the therapist is going to pick a side…
With specialized training in couples and sex therapy, I will help you address all sides of the problem.
You love your partner, but find yourself wondering “what happened to us?”. You just keep waiting for things to get better on their own, but they don’t. You barely recognize yourself or your partner anymore. Maybe you find yourself fantasizing about leaving the relationship all together. Things in the bedroom are even worse. Maybe you and your partner are trying to find a way back from infidelity. You’re lonely. You feel embarrassed. Maybe you’re staying together for the kids. You or your partner are worried about going to couples therapy because of fear that the therapist is going to pick a side…
I have certifications in couples therapy (Gottman Level 1), sex therapy (Tammy Nelson Integrative Couples and Sex), and advanced certifications in perinatal mental health (Postpartum Support International Components of Care & Perinatal Psychotherapy)
Hello, I'm Ro! I'm a Master of Counselling Psychology student at Yorkville University. I am available in Ottawa and Kingston for both in-person and virtual sessions. I work with trauma-informed and attachment-based therapies to support individuals, couples, and parents navigating life transitions, identity exploration, relational struggles, and healing from past wounds. I bring lived experience, cultural sensitivity, and over a decade of work in caregiving to our sessions. Whether you're overwhelmed, stuck, or seeking clarity, we'll work together at your pace. You are not alone, and healing is possible.
I have certifications in couples therapy (Gottman Level 1), sex therapy (Tammy Nelson Integrative Couples and Sex), and advanced certifications in perinatal mental health (Postpartum Support International Components of Care & Perinatal Psychotherapy)
Hello, I'm Ro! I'm a Master of Counselling Psychology student at Yorkville University. I am available in Ottawa and Kingston for both in-person and virtual sessions. I work with trauma-informed and attachment-based therapies to support individuals, couples, and parents navigating life transitions, identity exploration, relational struggles, and healing from past wounds. I bring lived experience, cultural sensitivity, and over a decade of work in caregiving to our sessions. Whether you're overwhelmed, stuck, or seeking clarity, we'll work together at your pace. You are not alone, and healing is possible.
First Step Men's Therapy (New Year, New You!)
Registered Psychotherapist, MACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Our therapists have a diverse training background in OCD, ADHD, sex and porn addiction, trauma, couples, alcohol and drug addiction, and other issues.
Disconnected? Lost? Stuck? Hopeless? Feeling "broken"? Wondering what your purpose or meaning is in life? You may question whether you are a good father, son, or partner. Many men struggle with their mental health without seeking help or reaching out for support. Often, this struggle may lead to addiction, anxiety, depression, shame, guilt, poor relationships, OCD, low self-esteem, or low self-worth. It's time to normalize men seeking support. First Step Men's Therapy offers a safe, warm, and inviting space for men to heal, learn, and grow. Book a free 20-minute consultation - No waitlist - Click the "website" button to learn more.
Our therapists have a diverse training background in OCD, ADHD, sex and porn addiction, trauma, couples, alcohol and drug addiction, and other issues.
Disconnected? Lost? Stuck? Hopeless? Feeling "broken"? Wondering what your purpose or meaning is in life? You may question whether you are a good father, son, or partner. Many men struggle with their mental health without seeking help or reaching out for support. Often, this struggle may lead to addiction, anxiety, depression, shame, guilt, poor relationships, OCD, low self-esteem, or low self-worth. It's time to normalize men seeking support. First Step Men's Therapy offers a safe, warm, and inviting space for men to heal, learn, and grow. Book a free 20-minute consultation - No waitlist - Click the "website" button to learn more.
We have associates accepting new referrals for individual, couple's, and sex therapy, as well as offering adult ADHD assessments.
Our main goal as a practice is to work with adults to improve the quality of their lives and relationships. We focus on helping clients discover self-understanding, self-awareness, and self-compassion, and then transforming this insight into meaningful and lasting change. We integrate several evidence-based modalities into our work with clients, though this is always grounded in authenticity and collaboration, leaving space for the client's uniqueness and individuality. Our clinic values inclusivity and equity, and we enjoy working with clients from all walks of life; no matter what, you are welcome, valued, and appreciated here.
We have associates accepting new referrals for individual, couple's, and sex therapy, as well as offering adult ADHD assessments.
Our main goal as a practice is to work with adults to improve the quality of their lives and relationships. We focus on helping clients discover self-understanding, self-awareness, and self-compassion, and then transforming this insight into meaningful and lasting change. We integrate several evidence-based modalities into our work with clients, though this is always grounded in authenticity and collaboration, leaving space for the client's uniqueness and individuality. Our clinic values inclusivity and equity, and we enjoy working with clients from all walks of life; no matter what, you are welcome, valued, and appreciated here.
I use strength-focused approaches such as mindfulness, Narrative, EFT, CBT, DBT, sex therapy, and EMDR to help you live a more fulfilling life.
Accepting New Clients. Life can present its share of challenges, and we all encounter bumps along the road, whether in our personal lives, relationships, family, or careers. These hurdles might feel overwhelming at times, making it tough to discover joy in everyday moments. But with the right support, healing and embracing peace and happiness are absolutely within reach. I genuinely believe that each of us carries inner wisdom that can light our way through life's journey. By partnering together, we can tap into your unique strengths and insights, helping you gain clarity, heal from past experiences, enhance your mental well-being,
I use strength-focused approaches such as mindfulness, Narrative, EFT, CBT, DBT, sex therapy, and EMDR to help you live a more fulfilling life.
Accepting New Clients. Life can present its share of challenges, and we all encounter bumps along the road, whether in our personal lives, relationships, family, or careers. These hurdles might feel overwhelming at times, making it tough to discover joy in everyday moments. But with the right support, healing and embracing peace and happiness are absolutely within reach. I genuinely believe that each of us carries inner wisdom that can light our way through life's journey. By partnering together, we can tap into your unique strengths and insights, helping you gain clarity, heal from past experiences, enhance your mental well-being,
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Sex Therapy Counsellors
Who is sex therapy for?
Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.
Why do people need sex therapy?
Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.
What happens in sex therapy?
People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.
What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?
Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.