Marriage Counselling Therapists in Kingston, ON

Yasmin Goldie - Spear Counselling & Psychotherapy
Registered Psychotherapist, RP, RN
2 Endorsed
Online Only
Has there been a major rupture in your marriage, such as infidelity, that feels impossible to move past?
Yasmin uses approaches such as Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Gottman Method for Couples to help you repair attachment wounds and rebuild trust, create emotional safety with your partner, and enhance feelings of connectedness within you relationship.
Additionally, Yasmin is a trained EMDR therapist with specialized training in EMDR for couples.
Has there been a major rupture in your marriage, such as infidelity, that feels impossible to move past?
Yasmin uses approaches such as Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Gottman Method for Couples to help you repair attachment wounds and rebuild trust, create emotional safety with your partner, and enhance feelings of connectedness within you relationship.
Additionally, Yasmin is a trained EMDR therapist with specialized training in EMDR for couples.

I offer compassionate, confidential counselling sessions and have experience working with individuals and couples in the following areas: Stress, anxiety and depression; Relationship concerns; Grief and loss; Physical and sexual abuse; Self-esteem concerns; Anger management; Parenting/co-parenting concerns; Separation and divorce; Pre- marital education.
I work from a family systems perspective and use a variety of therapeutic modalities including EFT, CBT, narrative therapy and mindfulness. My role is to assist with the development of self-awareness, guide learning to express thoughts and feelings appropriately, problem solve, understand and change behaviours, and gain emotional understanding.
I offer compassionate, confidential counselling sessions and have experience working with individuals and couples in the following areas: Stress, anxiety and depression; Relationship concerns; Grief and loss; Physical and sexual abuse; Self-esteem concerns; Anger management; Parenting/co-parenting concerns; Separation and divorce; Pre- marital education.
I work from a family systems perspective and use a variety of therapeutic modalities including EFT, CBT, narrative therapy and mindfulness. My role is to assist with the development of self-awareness, guide learning to express thoughts and feelings appropriately, problem solve, understand and change behaviours, and gain emotional understanding.

You maybe struggling internally, in your marriage/relationship or as a parent/co-parent.
What do I specialize in? My niche areas are Anxiety/Depression, ADHD, separation/divorce and parenting/co-parenting. We didn't get a manual for living, but together we can start writing your own.
You maybe struggling internally, in your marriage/relationship or as a parent/co-parent.
What do I specialize in? My niche areas are Anxiety/Depression, ADHD, separation/divorce and parenting/co-parenting. We didn't get a manual for living, but together we can start writing your own.

Are constant fights and lack of trust making your relationship or marriage a source of pain and frustration?
We are here to help you. At Feel Your Way Therapy our goal is to use evidence-based approaches to help you become more confident, stop feeling helpless and vulnerable, and move from avoidance, conflict and hurt to freedom and connection. We have helped hundreds of clients to overcome their challenges and live the lives they want.
Are constant fights and lack of trust making your relationship or marriage a source of pain and frustration?
We are here to help you. At Feel Your Way Therapy our goal is to use evidence-based approaches to help you become more confident, stop feeling helpless and vulnerable, and move from avoidance, conflict and hurt to freedom and connection. We have helped hundreds of clients to overcome their challenges and live the lives they want.

I provide individual, relationship and marriage counselling, in a nonjudgmental, relaxed environment.
I believe that self-esteem is at the root of most issues. I work with individuals to help them increase their self-esteem, self acceptance and self love, I use cognitive therapy, Psychotherapy or "talk therapy". I am also trained in psychodramtic body work. I have started using Internal family systems approach as well in the last few years.
I provide individual, relationship and marriage counselling, in a nonjudgmental, relaxed environment.
I believe that self-esteem is at the root of most issues. I work with individuals to help them increase their self-esteem, self acceptance and self love, I use cognitive therapy, Psychotherapy or "talk therapy". I am also trained in psychodramtic body work. I have started using Internal family systems approach as well in the last few years.

I work with individuals and couples on a variety of issues related to mental health, addictions, sex addiction, marriage and couple conflict as well as trauma.
As a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), my specialization is treating those impacted by sex addiction. While I also work with couples who don't face addiction issues, my specialization is in: sex and love addiction, pornography addiction, partner betrayal & compulsive sexual behaviour. I utilize Patrick Carnes’ model “Facing the Shadows”.
I work with individuals and couples on a variety of issues related to mental health, addictions, sex addiction, marriage and couple conflict as well as trauma.
As a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), my specialization is treating those impacted by sex addiction. While I also work with couples who don't face addiction issues, my specialization is in: sex and love addiction, pornography addiction, partner betrayal & compulsive sexual behaviour. I utilize Patrick Carnes’ model “Facing the Shadows”.

For 25 years, I have worked as an Intensive Marriage and Couples Therapist with my husband David Rubinstein, MA, RP.
In private and secure online video-conference sessions, I will help you gain a deeper understanding of how your early childhood experiences unconsciously frame the way you see the world. I will work with you to relieve stress, overcome past hurts, and let go of limiting beliefs that may keep you from living your life to the fullest.
For 25 years, I have worked as an Intensive Marriage and Couples Therapist with my husband David Rubinstein, MA, RP.
In private and secure online video-conference sessions, I will help you gain a deeper understanding of how your early childhood experiences unconsciously frame the way you see the world. I will work with you to relieve stress, overcome past hurts, and let go of limiting beliefs that may keep you from living your life to the fullest.

Lunn Family Counselling offers comprehensive counselling services for addictions, mental health, marriage, and parenting.
I provide a safe and supportive environment for individuals to address their concerns and work towards positive change. I offer a variety of services, including individual and family therapy, parent coaching, and couples counselling.
Lunn Family Counselling offers comprehensive counselling services for addictions, mental health, marriage, and parenting.
I provide a safe and supportive environment for individuals to address their concerns and work towards positive change. I offer a variety of services, including individual and family therapy, parent coaching, and couples counselling.

Are you contemplating marriage/commitment, wondering what the future may bring?
Counselling is a great gift to give yourself. I’ll support you to learn strategies and skills to i) enhance your communication so you feel heard/understood; ii) manage conflict; iii) process recurring problems; iv) compromise in ways that honour your and your partner’s needs; v) establish/rekindle the connection necessary for emotional/ physical intimacy.
Are you contemplating marriage/commitment, wondering what the future may bring?
Counselling is a great gift to give yourself. I’ll support you to learn strategies and skills to i) enhance your communication so you feel heard/understood; ii) manage conflict; iii) process recurring problems; iv) compromise in ways that honour your and your partner’s needs; v) establish/rekindle the connection necessary for emotional/ physical intimacy.

Yes life can be terribly difficult and complicated sometimes. Yes it's hard to ask for help. But with honesty, hard work and time-Yes things can get better. If you're struggling with circumstances that seem overwhelming, don't give up. Reach out and try to take it day by day. You'll find allies along the way. Trusting your own resilience and inner wisdom can be difficult-but gets easier and with some guidance and consistent practice.
Yes life can be terribly difficult and complicated sometimes. Yes it's hard to ask for help. But with honesty, hard work and time-Yes things can get better. If you're struggling with circumstances that seem overwhelming, don't give up. Reach out and try to take it day by day. You'll find allies along the way. Trusting your own resilience and inner wisdom can be difficult-but gets easier and with some guidance and consistent practice.

At all stages of life individuals and families can find themselves wanting change. Approaches to counselling need to fit the needs of the individuals looking for support. My practice focuses primarily on supporting children, teens and young adults navigate issues related to relationships, family dynamics, self identity, anxiety and stress. Young children often have difficulty expressing themselves verbally. Children are invited to express themselves in counselling through art, puppetry, sand and play.
At all stages of life individuals and families can find themselves wanting change. Approaches to counselling need to fit the needs of the individuals looking for support. My practice focuses primarily on supporting children, teens and young adults navigate issues related to relationships, family dynamics, self identity, anxiety and stress. Young children often have difficulty expressing themselves verbally. Children are invited to express themselves in counselling through art, puppetry, sand and play.

I have over twenty-five years of experience as a client-centered therapist working with both adults and adolescents. I have particular expertise in the areas of relationships, workplace stress, anxiety and OCD. My approach is eclectic, drawing upon evidence-based treatments such as CBT, mindfulness, and other strategies for reducing anxiety, improving well-being, and building personal confidence and strength. I see people from age 14 onwards. To make an appointment, please email rather than call me; that way I will be able to get back to you quickly!
I have over twenty-five years of experience as a client-centered therapist working with both adults and adolescents. I have particular expertise in the areas of relationships, workplace stress, anxiety and OCD. My approach is eclectic, drawing upon evidence-based treatments such as CBT, mindfulness, and other strategies for reducing anxiety, improving well-being, and building personal confidence and strength. I see people from age 14 onwards. To make an appointment, please email rather than call me; that way I will be able to get back to you quickly!

Couples Therapy Ontario | Jessica Fiebig
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
2 Endorsed
Kingston, ON K7L
You love your partner, but find yourself wondering “what happened to us?”. You just keep waiting for things to get better on their own, but they don’t. You barely recognize yourself or your partner anymore. Maybe you find yourself fantasizing about leaving the relationship all together. Things in the bedroom are even worse. Maybe you and your partner are trying to find a way back from infidelity. You’re lonely. You feel embarrassed. Maybe you’re staying together for the kids. You or your partner are worried about going to couples therapy because of fear that the therapist is going to pick a side…
You love your partner, but find yourself wondering “what happened to us?”. You just keep waiting for things to get better on their own, but they don’t. You barely recognize yourself or your partner anymore. Maybe you find yourself fantasizing about leaving the relationship all together. Things in the bedroom are even worse. Maybe you and your partner are trying to find a way back from infidelity. You’re lonely. You feel embarrassed. Maybe you’re staying together for the kids. You or your partner are worried about going to couples therapy because of fear that the therapist is going to pick a side…

I work with professionals, parents, and overextended hearts who carry the weight of it all quietly. Maybe you’re doing okay—managing work, showing up for others—but life feels busy, distracted, and a little disconnected. You want to take better care of yourself, build healthier habits, feel more connected in your relationships, and live more intentionally… but it’s hard to find the time or energy to follow through. Productivity and constant doing have been glorified—often at the expense of rest, connection, and the deeper parts of ourselves. We’ve lost sight of what truly matters.
I work with professionals, parents, and overextended hearts who carry the weight of it all quietly. Maybe you’re doing okay—managing work, showing up for others—but life feels busy, distracted, and a little disconnected. You want to take better care of yourself, build healthier habits, feel more connected in your relationships, and live more intentionally… but it’s hard to find the time or energy to follow through. Productivity and constant doing have been glorified—often at the expense of rest, connection, and the deeper parts of ourselves. We’ve lost sight of what truly matters.

Jennifer L. Ashton (Liesen)
Registered Psychotherapist, MSc-MHC, BSc-Psy
Kingston, ON K7L
Waitlist for new clients
Complex/Relational Trauma Therapy: Jennifer works with adults who have experienced intergenerational and interpersonal traumas in their upbringing and in adult relationships. We may have had unavailable caregivers whom did not have the tools to provide essential emotional support, which then shaped our sense of shame and other core beliefs about our worth. We needed to feel safe and protected, to be guided with the appropriate balance of security and independence to develop self-trust and confidence in our decision making. We learned to adapt and survive with coping strategies that continue to exist and may no longer be helpful.
Complex/Relational Trauma Therapy: Jennifer works with adults who have experienced intergenerational and interpersonal traumas in their upbringing and in adult relationships. We may have had unavailable caregivers whom did not have the tools to provide essential emotional support, which then shaped our sense of shame and other core beliefs about our worth. We needed to feel safe and protected, to be guided with the appropriate balance of security and independence to develop self-trust and confidence in our decision making. We learned to adapt and survive with coping strategies that continue to exist and may no longer be helpful.

My main area of focus is helping eliminate abuse in interpersonal relationships, from as seemingly "light" as bickering to more escalated confrontations. I've worked with perpetrators (males and females) of domestic violence for nine years, helping people as they work to re-establish healthier relationships with partners and family members again, or start new relationships better. Much of this is developing communication and empathy skills, all in the context of understanding yourself better and, often, your life experiences you've had that have brought you to this point.
My main area of focus is helping eliminate abuse in interpersonal relationships, from as seemingly "light" as bickering to more escalated confrontations. I've worked with perpetrators (males and females) of domestic violence for nine years, helping people as they work to re-establish healthier relationships with partners and family members again, or start new relationships better. Much of this is developing communication and empathy skills, all in the context of understanding yourself better and, often, your life experiences you've had that have brought you to this point.

Effective May 21st, I am welcoming new clients. With over 20 years experience, I help adults, teens and pre-teens (9+) find hope and regain balance. Perhaps you're tired of feeling so anxious, stressed, or depressed all the time or you've suffered a loss that has rocked your world. Work stress, relationship and self-esteem issues, or mood instability may be front and center. Maybe you're just wanting to learn to cope with the tough feelings that keep showing up and seemingly have nowhere to go. Whatever it is, if your feelings are overwhelming lately, or you're looking for help for your child, please allow me to support you.
Effective May 21st, I am welcoming new clients. With over 20 years experience, I help adults, teens and pre-teens (9+) find hope and regain balance. Perhaps you're tired of feeling so anxious, stressed, or depressed all the time or you've suffered a loss that has rocked your world. Work stress, relationship and self-esteem issues, or mood instability may be front and center. Maybe you're just wanting to learn to cope with the tough feelings that keep showing up and seemingly have nowhere to go. Whatever it is, if your feelings are overwhelming lately, or you're looking for help for your child, please allow me to support you.

I am a Registered Psychotherapist with the College of Psychotherapists of Ontario (CRPO). I completed my MA in Counselling Psychology at Yorkville University and completed an MSc in Neuroscience and a BSc in Neuroscience and Mental Health from Carleton University where my research focused on understanding the influence of genetics, trauma, and social support in the development of depression and resilience in adults. I provide psychotherapy to adolescents, adults, and seniors. I have significant experience working with clients who are experiencing anxiety, depression, trauma, eating disorders, relationship issues, life transitions.
I am a Registered Psychotherapist with the College of Psychotherapists of Ontario (CRPO). I completed my MA in Counselling Psychology at Yorkville University and completed an MSc in Neuroscience and a BSc in Neuroscience and Mental Health from Carleton University where my research focused on understanding the influence of genetics, trauma, and social support in the development of depression and resilience in adults. I provide psychotherapy to adolescents, adults, and seniors. I have significant experience working with clients who are experiencing anxiety, depression, trauma, eating disorders, relationship issues, life transitions.

I provide support to individuals hoping to improve their mental health, family conflicts and trauma responses. I am passionate about providing support to women navigating anxiety, depression, self-esteem, trauma, life transitions and faith/spirituality. I also bring valuable experience in working with grief and loss.
I provide support to individuals hoping to improve their mental health, family conflicts and trauma responses. I am passionate about providing support to women navigating anxiety, depression, self-esteem, trauma, life transitions and faith/spirituality. I also bring valuable experience in working with grief and loss.

Are you experiencing grief from loss of a loved one, ending of a relationship or medical diagnosis? Struggling with the demands of life? Feeling overwhelmed? Mixed emotions as a competitive athlete, parent, caregiver? Let me help you! My calm approach will keep you at the centre of therapy sessions as we work together to resolve your issue. Let me help you regain your sense of self using a humanistic approach.
Are you experiencing grief from loss of a loved one, ending of a relationship or medical diagnosis? Struggling with the demands of life? Feeling overwhelmed? Mixed emotions as a competitive athlete, parent, caregiver? Let me help you! My calm approach will keep you at the centre of therapy sessions as we work together to resolve your issue. Let me help you regain your sense of self using a humanistic approach.
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Marriage Counselling
How does marriage counseling work?
Marriage counseling works by teaching couples concrete skills to communicate with one another and solve disagreements in healthy ways. A trained mental health professional works with both members of a couple to explore difficulties the couple may be having and helps them develop skills to address these matters. Couples who don’t have any difficulties but want to prepare for marriage may develop skills for the future.
How long does marriage counseling typically last?
Marriage counseling is a short-term form of therapy; the process may last between four and eight sessions. Other forms of relationship guidance from mental health professionals, such as couples therapy, are longer lasting, may focus on the past rather than just the present, and are tailored to the individual couple and their emotions, history, and patterns in the relationship. Couples therapy often lasts for 12 weeks or longer.
Is marriage counseling effective?
Marriage counseling helps many couples develop relationship skills that may not have been acquired or tested in a relationship; partners may be better able to communicate and address conflict following counseling. However, there are many different forms of marriage counseling, and this form of counseling does not have as strong an evidence base as other modalities such as couples therapy.
Is marriage counseling effective if only one partner wants to go?
Yes, marriage counseling can still be effective if one partner convinces the other to engage in the process. Of course, whether counseling is effective depends on the couple’s commitment to work on their relationship; however, the short-term, skills-based nature of marriage counseling makes it a relatively easy “ask” of a partner, and the hesitant individual may see its value once counseling begins.