Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in Belleville, ON
“If I really love my partner I should want to have sex with them…right?”; “There must be something wrong with me or with the relationship if I don’t want to have sex.”; “If they aren’t getting sex from me, they’re going to find it somewhere else…” Do any of these sound familiar? Do you have a running counter of the number of days since the last time you had sex, and every day that passes leads to more and more stress “it’s been too long, I’m going to need to do it soon…”
“If I really love my partner I should want to have sex with them…right?”; “There must be something wrong with me or with the relationship if I don’t want to have sex.”; “If they aren’t getting sex from me, they’re going to find it somewhere else…” Do any of these sound familiar? Do you have a running counter of the number of days since the last time you had sex, and every day that passes leads to more and more stress “it’s been too long, I’m going to need to do it soon…”
Do you feel like life is chaos and you’re all alone? Like none of your relationships are working out and that there’s always a crisis to address? Maybe you’ve been told you’re too much or too sensitive and that you need to get over things that have happened to you in the past. Whether you have been diagnosed with BPD, CPTSD, PTSD, or are struggling with feeling chronically suicidal, managing you addiction, or feel emotionally out of control, HopeStart Therapy is dedicated to validating and supporting individuals to address these experiences, figure out what’s going on, and find practical skills to grow into living the life you want.
Do you feel like life is chaos and you’re all alone? Like none of your relationships are working out and that there’s always a crisis to address? Maybe you’ve been told you’re too much or too sensitive and that you need to get over things that have happened to you in the past. Whether you have been diagnosed with BPD, CPTSD, PTSD, or are struggling with feeling chronically suicidal, managing you addiction, or feel emotionally out of control, HopeStart Therapy is dedicated to validating and supporting individuals to address these experiences, figure out what’s going on, and find practical skills to grow into living the life you want.
Welcome to your mental wellness journey. Taking the courageous step towards change is never easy, yet here you are, and I commend you for that. Embracing a compassion-focused approach, my goal is to help alleviate your burdens, soothe your hurts, and lessen your struggles through purposeful conversations. I have extensive experience supporting individuals dealing with issues such as depression, anxiety, grief/loss, anger, stress, and relationship challenges.
Welcome to your mental wellness journey. Taking the courageous step towards change is never easy, yet here you are, and I commend you for that. Embracing a compassion-focused approach, my goal is to help alleviate your burdens, soothe your hurts, and lessen your struggles through purposeful conversations. I have extensive experience supporting individuals dealing with issues such as depression, anxiety, grief/loss, anger, stress, and relationship challenges.
Whatever may have motivated you to seek support, I commend you for having the courage to step into couple's therapy. As human beings, we universally have challenges, struggles and stressors in our relationships, and couple's therapy is a powerful tool to help you strengthen and improve your connection. I assist couples who are facing challenges with communication and emotional distance. My focus is on helping them reshape their communication habits to foster empathy and deepen their connection. Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) is a transformative, though demanding, approach that delivers lasting, real improvements in relationship
Whatever may have motivated you to seek support, I commend you for having the courage to step into couple's therapy. As human beings, we universally have challenges, struggles and stressors in our relationships, and couple's therapy is a powerful tool to help you strengthen and improve your connection. I assist couples who are facing challenges with communication and emotional distance. My focus is on helping them reshape their communication habits to foster empathy and deepen their connection. Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) is a transformative, though demanding, approach that delivers lasting, real improvements in relationship
I am a unique therapeutic service dedicated to recovering what I believe is the essence of psychological treatment: holistic treatment of the entire person. We are not made of bits and pieces; we are not divided into sections and we deserve to feel whole. I work with adolescents, adults, and veterans/first responders. I have extensive experience working with depression, anxiety, PTSD, anger, & attachment issues, however, I can assist you with a variety of other struggles. I am able to conduct assessments (e.g. VAC, WSIB, & Psychoeducational). I also provide supervision required for the college of CPRO and CPBAO.
I am a unique therapeutic service dedicated to recovering what I believe is the essence of psychological treatment: holistic treatment of the entire person. We are not made of bits and pieces; we are not divided into sections and we deserve to feel whole. I work with adolescents, adults, and veterans/first responders. I have extensive experience working with depression, anxiety, PTSD, anger, & attachment issues, however, I can assist you with a variety of other struggles. I am able to conduct assessments (e.g. VAC, WSIB, & Psychoeducational). I also provide supervision required for the college of CPRO and CPBAO.
Sex, Relationship, & Trauma Counselling. Shaunacy is a Registered Psychotherapist (RP) with over twenty years of experience in counselling related services. Her affirmative and client centred services offers a wide range of therapeutic modalities, specializing in: sex, sexuality, and intimacy concerns (AASECT member), relationship concerns and conflict resolution, trauma processing (EMDR, CBT, DBT, Narrative), grief, anxiety and depression, body health and dysmorphia concerns, midlife experiences and change. Her services are offered virtually to all Ontario residents and in-person in Belleville and Kingston.
Sex, Relationship, & Trauma Counselling. Shaunacy is a Registered Psychotherapist (RP) with over twenty years of experience in counselling related services. Her affirmative and client centred services offers a wide range of therapeutic modalities, specializing in: sex, sexuality, and intimacy concerns (AASECT member), relationship concerns and conflict resolution, trauma processing (EMDR, CBT, DBT, Narrative), grief, anxiety and depression, body health and dysmorphia concerns, midlife experiences and change. Her services are offered virtually to all Ontario residents and in-person in Belleville and Kingston.
The neurocomplexity of ADHD and autism can make everyday interactions, let alone therapy, draining and frustrating. Working to decode others' expectations whilst striving to be accurately seen and known can be so isolating. My own lived experience of AuDHD+ allows me to offer therapy deeply rooted in understanding and guided by an anti-oppression lens that acknowledges systemic impacts on personal well-being.
The neurocomplexity of ADHD and autism can make everyday interactions, let alone therapy, draining and frustrating. Working to decode others' expectations whilst striving to be accurately seen and known can be so isolating. My own lived experience of AuDHD+ allows me to offer therapy deeply rooted in understanding and guided by an anti-oppression lens that acknowledges systemic impacts on personal well-being.
Harsimran Kaur
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), MA, PGDCFT, RPQ
1 Endorsed
Belleville, ON K8N
Struggling with life's challenges, past wounds, or big decisions? Navigating life's challenges and emotions can be a daunting journey. I'm a compassionate and creative psychotherapist who believes in the power of psychotherapy to heal past pains and shape a brighter future. I draw from a toolkit of evidence-based therapies, respecting your unique background and cultural influences. My practise is 2SLGBTQ+ friendly and open to adults of all ages, backgrounds, and walks of life committed to guiding you toward better relationships and self-understanding, & I want you to know that you don't have to do it alone.
Struggling with life's challenges, past wounds, or big decisions? Navigating life's challenges and emotions can be a daunting journey. I'm a compassionate and creative psychotherapist who believes in the power of psychotherapy to heal past pains and shape a brighter future. I draw from a toolkit of evidence-based therapies, respecting your unique background and cultural influences. My practise is 2SLGBTQ+ friendly and open to adults of all ages, backgrounds, and walks of life committed to guiding you toward better relationships and self-understanding, & I want you to know that you don't have to do it alone.
I am an experienced trauma informed Social Worker & Certified EMDR Psychotherapist. My priority is to create a warm, nonjudgemental space where you feel secure and supported to make wanted changes in your life. I collaborate with you to grow your inner and outer resources, process painful/traumatic experiences, and foster preferred ways of relating to yourself, others and the world. I work with a wide range of challenges and difficulties, including: trauma symptoms (PTSD/Complex PTSD), grief, dissociation, anxiety, gender identity & sexuality issues, relationship challenges, depression, and trouble regulating emotions.
I am an experienced trauma informed Social Worker & Certified EMDR Psychotherapist. My priority is to create a warm, nonjudgemental space where you feel secure and supported to make wanted changes in your life. I collaborate with you to grow your inner and outer resources, process painful/traumatic experiences, and foster preferred ways of relating to yourself, others and the world. I work with a wide range of challenges and difficulties, including: trauma symptoms (PTSD/Complex PTSD), grief, dissociation, anxiety, gender identity & sexuality issues, relationship challenges, depression, and trouble regulating emotions.
Room for Growth Counselling
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), MEd, MA, BPA, BEd
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I am accepting new clients at this time.
Now offering psychoeducational assessments!
Hello, Aaniin, Bonjour, Ola, Ni-Hao! I am happy you’re here! I am a trauma-focused therapist and offer in-person or virtual therapy. I pride myself on being able to create a safe and trusting environment in which one can work towards their personal goals. My areas of focus are addiction, trauma, managing life stressors and anxiety, educational/learning related challenges.
I am accepting new clients at this time.
Now offering psychoeducational assessments!
Hello, Aaniin, Bonjour, Ola, Ni-Hao! I am happy you’re here! I am a trauma-focused therapist and offer in-person or virtual therapy. I pride myself on being able to create a safe and trusting environment in which one can work towards their personal goals. My areas of focus are addiction, trauma, managing life stressors and anxiety, educational/learning related challenges.
I aim to create a therapeutic space that is anti-oppressive, sex/ kink-positive, trauma-informed, and values the principles of harm reduction.
In my work, I am both warm and compassionate while also being irreverent and frank when required. I aim to provide a therapeutic space that is supportive, non-judgemental and collaborative. In my practice, I typically draw from a few clinical modalities, particularly DBT, CPT, CBT, Solution-Focused, and Motivational Interviewing.
I aim to create a therapeutic space that is anti-oppressive, sex/ kink-positive, trauma-informed, and values the principles of harm reduction.
In my work, I am both warm and compassionate while also being irreverent and frank when required. I aim to provide a therapeutic space that is supportive, non-judgemental and collaborative. In my practice, I typically draw from a few clinical modalities, particularly DBT, CPT, CBT, Solution-Focused, and Motivational Interviewing.
To me, therapy is a process of reconnection. Re-connecting to yourself, your heart, and to others. This holds true for both individuals and couples. When space is held for all parts of you, or your partner, to express themselves and be heard, things that were stuck can begin to move. It’s simple, but it’s not easy- fear, shame, and anger can make it so hard to accept ourselves and our situations. Therapy is a way to undo long-held narratives and heal from past hurts, so that we can navigate the emotional waters inside us. It can be challenging, but you don’t have to do this alone.
To me, therapy is a process of reconnection. Re-connecting to yourself, your heart, and to others. This holds true for both individuals and couples. When space is held for all parts of you, or your partner, to express themselves and be heard, things that were stuck can begin to move. It’s simple, but it’s not easy- fear, shame, and anger can make it so hard to accept ourselves and our situations. Therapy is a way to undo long-held narratives and heal from past hurts, so that we can navigate the emotional waters inside us. It can be challenging, but you don’t have to do this alone.
Trauma changes you, but it does not have to define you. It is a chapter in your story, but it does not have to be your entire story. With 14 years of experience working with survivors of childhood abuse, sexual violence, and emotional neglect, I understand the complexity and depth of the pain you may carry. Sometimes that pain manifests itself as complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder and/or dissociation, leading to feelings of helplessness or hopelessness. Healing from trauma can feel like an overwhelming journey, but you don’t have to walk that path alone.
Trauma changes you, but it does not have to define you. It is a chapter in your story, but it does not have to be your entire story. With 14 years of experience working with survivors of childhood abuse, sexual violence, and emotional neglect, I understand the complexity and depth of the pain you may carry. Sometimes that pain manifests itself as complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder and/or dissociation, leading to feelings of helplessness or hopelessness. Healing from trauma can feel like an overwhelming journey, but you don’t have to walk that path alone.
Does it feel like you’re barely holding it together some days? Are you tired of feeling overwhelmed, stuck, and stressed? Do you want to feel differently but feel stumped as to how? If so, I have some good news - change and feeling different is possible! If you’re looking for more ease in your life and ways to manage the emotional bumps along the way, we can work together to make that happen. I work with my clients to identify goals and find creative strategies that work for them because you deserve strategies and ideas as unique as you are!
Does it feel like you’re barely holding it together some days? Are you tired of feeling overwhelmed, stuck, and stressed? Do you want to feel differently but feel stumped as to how? If so, I have some good news - change and feeling different is possible! If you’re looking for more ease in your life and ways to manage the emotional bumps along the way, we can work together to make that happen. I work with my clients to identify goals and find creative strategies that work for them because you deserve strategies and ideas as unique as you are!
Human beings are also sexual beings&everyone has the right to pleasure…affirmative support for LGBTQ+community,building intimacy skills with couples,navigating polyamory,exploring kink,aging&
adjustment to sex,how to be successfully single,surviving sexual trauma,sex education for all…
I am Jennifer Whalen,please feel free to be yourself…Stressed? Tearful? Worries racing in your mind? Angry? Feeling lonely? Seeking a more pleasurable sex life? Wanting more joy in your life? Confused? It's ok to ask for help! I offer comfortable and compassionate psychotherapy and sex therapy with therapeutic approaches that are right for your individual needs with focus on your strengths and experiences to build insight and increase self awareness so you feel seen, heard and understood to achieve your counselling hopes and goals. Let's connect so you can get closer to feeling the way you want and living the life you desire…
Human beings are also sexual beings&everyone has the right to pleasure…affirmative support for LGBTQ+community,building intimacy skills with couples,navigating polyamory,exploring kink,aging&
adjustment to sex,how to be successfully single,surviving sexual trauma,sex education for all…
I am Jennifer Whalen,please feel free to be yourself…Stressed? Tearful? Worries racing in your mind? Angry? Feeling lonely? Seeking a more pleasurable sex life? Wanting more joy in your life? Confused? It's ok to ask for help! I offer comfortable and compassionate psychotherapy and sex therapy with therapeutic approaches that are right for your individual needs with focus on your strengths and experiences to build insight and increase self awareness so you feel seen, heard and understood to achieve your counselling hopes and goals. Let's connect so you can get closer to feeling the way you want and living the life you desire…
So, sex doesn’t look like it does in the movies for you? Your body isn’t cooperating. You can’t keep your mind in the game. You’re unable to enjoy yourself the way you want. Maybe you avoid sex all together. You wonder: “What is everyone talking about when they say sex is great? What am I missing?” You worry: “If I really loved my partner, if we were really compatible, we wouldn’t be having sexual problems.” You ask: “Maybe I’m sexually broken?”
So, sex doesn’t look like it does in the movies for you? Your body isn’t cooperating. You can’t keep your mind in the game. You’re unable to enjoy yourself the way you want. Maybe you avoid sex all together. You wonder: “What is everyone talking about when they say sex is great? What am I missing?” You worry: “If I really loved my partner, if we were really compatible, we wouldn’t be having sexual problems.” You ask: “Maybe I’m sexually broken?”
Hi there, I'm Erin. I've been a psychotherapist in private practice for 11 years now, working predominantly with individuals who suffer from the effects of abuse and trauma, especially in childhood, and are wanting to take steps on their personal journey. The people I seem to work best with are those who may identify as highly sensitive to the world around them - those who think, perceive, or feel deeply. My clinical experience includes working with anxiety and depression, complex trauma, grief, eating disorders, relationship issues, sexual trauma, adult children of alcoholics, and BPD.
Hi there, I'm Erin. I've been a psychotherapist in private practice for 11 years now, working predominantly with individuals who suffer from the effects of abuse and trauma, especially in childhood, and are wanting to take steps on their personal journey. The people I seem to work best with are those who may identify as highly sensitive to the world around them - those who think, perceive, or feel deeply. My clinical experience includes working with anxiety and depression, complex trauma, grief, eating disorders, relationship issues, sexual trauma, adult children of alcoholics, and BPD.
Do you feel overwhelmed by the expectations and demands of life and find yourself struggling to keep up?
Do you try endlessly to achieve your potential and feel happy, or at least satisfied, but nothing seems to be working?
Have you tried everything you can think of but still can't seem to find peace of mind or even the capacity to relax?
Do you feel overwhelmed by the expectations and demands of life and find yourself struggling to keep up?
Do you try endlessly to achieve your potential and feel happy, or at least satisfied, but nothing seems to be working?
Have you tried everything you can think of but still can't seem to find peace of mind or even the capacity to relax?
You’ve been searching for a couple’s therapist who can accommodate you and your partner’s busy schedules, but it feels impossible. Look no further. Kate offers evening and weekend appointments virtually and in person to suit the needs of high-achieving, busy couples. Are you ready to stop feeling so disconnected from your partner? Maybe you find yourself fantasizing about the way things were in the beginning of the relationship. Maybe you’re just staying together because of the kids. You don’t even recognize the person you are with; or worse, you don’t recognize yourself when you are with them.
You’ve been searching for a couple’s therapist who can accommodate you and your partner’s busy schedules, but it feels impossible. Look no further. Kate offers evening and weekend appointments virtually and in person to suit the needs of high-achieving, busy couples. Are you ready to stop feeling so disconnected from your partner? Maybe you find yourself fantasizing about the way things were in the beginning of the relationship. Maybe you’re just staying together because of the kids. You don’t even recognize the person you are with; or worse, you don’t recognize yourself when you are with them.
Whether you're feeling stuck, wanting to improve your mental health, or looking to process a difficult experience, I will provide a safe space for you to explore your lived experiences and current challenges. The process of talk therapy can be both difficult and rewarding and I firmly believe that all people can benefit from therapy. Therapy can help you gain a deeper understanding of your thoughts, emotions, and behaviours, help you to feel more prepared to handle life's challenges, and bring about a greater sense of fulfilment.
Whether you're feeling stuck, wanting to improve your mental health, or looking to process a difficult experience, I will provide a safe space for you to explore your lived experiences and current challenges. The process of talk therapy can be both difficult and rewarding and I firmly believe that all people can benefit from therapy. Therapy can help you gain a deeper understanding of your thoughts, emotions, and behaviours, help you to feel more prepared to handle life's challenges, and bring about a greater sense of fulfilment.
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counsellors
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialised knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organisations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.
How can individuals recognise a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognise a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.