Nicole Tollenaar
Pre-Licensed Professional (she, they)
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
1 Endorsed
Near Woodbine and Danforth, Toronto, ON M4C
Let's Connect (289) 779-1676

Hello, stranger. Welcome to the journey of finding a therapist. I tend to work with folks who, like me, are creative, neurodivergent, queer, and spiritually or politically minded - those grappling with how to live, how to love, and how to stay tender in a complicated world. I’m interested in exploring how we’ve come to tell the stories that we do, and how we can challenge, resist, and expand these narratives in order to challenge, embrace, and expand ourselves and one another. My style is relational, curious, and exploratory, and makes room for whatever comes; from the heavy and painful to the joyful and absurd.
My approach is rooted in somatic therapy, mindfulness, attachment theory, and parts work. Attachment and parts work can help us make sense of that which we’ve carried, and that what still needs care, whereas embodied awareness and practices can enable us to tune into our experiences, and to move through stuck patterns with curiosity and compassion.
Coming to this work shaped by a decade of frontline social service work, I practice from a trauma-informed, harm-reduction oriented, and intersectional framework. I believe that personal healing, community, and collective liberation are deeply intertwined - and that therapy, at its best, helps us build capacity to show up for ourselves and for one another.
Call or Email Nicole Tollenaar now for a free 15 minute consultation - (289) 779-1676
Let's Connect (289) 779-1676

Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $80
Payment Methods
e-Transfer, Mastercard, Visa
Nicole Tollenaar
Pre-Licensed Professional
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (289) 779-1676
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Supervised by Becca Pearl (Ontario / 007588) Nicole Tollenaar
- Attended OISE Psychotherapy Program, 2024 - Present
- Degree/Diploma from Humber Psychosocial Rehabilitation / 2016
Education and Years In Practice
Additional Credentials
Nicole Tollenaar
Pre-Licensed Professional
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (289) 779-1676
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Life Transitions
- Trauma and PTSD
- Relationship Issues
Expertise
- Addiction
- ADHD
- Attachment Wounds
- Bisexual
- Body Image
- Codependency
- Depression
- Drug Abuse
- Emotional Disturbance
- Grief
- LGBTQ+
- Mood Disorders
- Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
- Parentification
- Self Esteem
- Self-Harming
- Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
- Spirituality
- Stress
- Substance Use
- Women's Issues
Nicole Tollenaar
Pre-Licensed Professional
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (289) 779-1676
Endorsement
Client Focus
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
HIV / AIDS Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied ,
Transgender Allied
Religion
Buddhist
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
HIV / AIDS Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied ,
Transgender Allied
Religion
Buddhist
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Attachment-based
- Existential
- Feminist
- Internal Family Systems (IFS)
- Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
- Motivational Interviewing
- Parts Work
- Relational
- Somatic
- Strength-Based
- Trauma Focused
Nicole Tollenaar
Pre-Licensed Professional
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. Email or (289) 779-1676