Nicole Lam

Counsellor, MC, RCC

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Nicole Lam

Counsellor, MC, RCC (she, her)

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Available both in-person and online

Burnaby, BC V3N

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Hello! My counselling approach focuses on helping you feel more secure and less anxious in your relationships. Focusing on attachment theory, IFS, EMDR, emotion regulation, solution-focused strategies, enneagram, mindfulness, interventions to help you create an empowered relationship with yourself, your partner, friends and family. I specialize in relationship anxiety, setting boundaries, communication skills, family issues, anxious, disorganized and avoidant attachment dynamics, conflict resolution, break ups, career changes, building self esteem & confidence. I believe in empathy matched with concrete strategies to move forward.

I support clients who find themselves in unfulfilling relationships and a desire to prioritize their well-being but don't know how to start. I hope to create a space for children of immigrant parents, BIPOC communities who experience difficult relationships with their family through a multicultural lens, holding space for past traumas and emotional neglect.

I believe that having the right support on a healing journey is the most important factor to self-transformation. In sessions with me, you can expect complete non-judgement and feel comfortable to show up exactly as you are. I am accepting new clients. Feel free to reach out for next steps!

Call or Email Nicole Lam now for a free 15 minute consultation - (365) 601-6782

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Emergence Counselling & Wellness Inc.

Ren Therapy

Burnaby, BC V3N

(365) 601-6782

My website

I primarily offer virtual sessions on most weekdays and weekends during the afternoon. In person sessions may be available upon request.

I specialize in Relationship Issues, Relationship Anxiety and Family Conflict

$168 Per Session, I accept insurance

I see individuals, couples and groups

Hi there! I'm Nicole - I help clients navigate relationship conflicts, setting boundaries, and feel confident to express themselves.

Let's Connect (365) 601-6782

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Emergence Counselling & Wellness Inc.

Ren Therapy

Burnaby, BC V3N

(365) 601-6782

My website

I primarily offer virtual sessions on most weekdays and weekends during the afternoon. In person sessions may be available upon request.

I specialize in Relationship Issues, Relationship Anxiety and Family Conflict

$168 Per Session, I accept insurance

I see individuals, couples and groups

Hi there! I'm Nicole - I help clients navigate relationship conflicts, setting boundaries, and feel confident to express themselves.

Finances

Fees

Individual Sessions $168
Couple Sessions $185

Payment Methods

American Express, Cash, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Paypal, Visa

Insurance

Alberta Blue Cross
Alliance
Any/Out-of-network Insurance
Blue Cross
Blue Shield
BlueCross and BlueShield
Canada Life | Great-West Life
Desjardins
Empire Blue Cross Blue Shield
Equitable Life of Canada
Great-West Life
Green Shield Canada
iA Financial Group
Insurance Corporation of British Columbia
LifeWise
Manulife
Pacific Blue Cross
SunLife
TELUS Health

I will provide you with a receipt that can be submitted to your health insurance provider for reimbursement. Most insurances cover RCC services as part of their plans.

Nicole Lam

Counsellor, MC, RCC

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (365) 601-6782

I will provide you with a receipt that can be submitted to your health insurance provider for reimbursement. Most insurances cover RCC services as part of their plans.

Nicole Lam

Counsellor, MC, RCC

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (365) 601-6782

Qualifications

Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by Province of British Columbia / 20723 Nicole Lam

Education and Years In Practice

Attended City University of Seattle, Master of Counselling

Additional Credentials

License: BCACC 20723 / 2026

I have experience supporting adults with a broad range of mental health concerns with a focus on relationships, family issues, and attachment trauma.

Nicole Lam

Counsellor, MC, RCC

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (365) 601-6782

I have experience supporting adults with a broad range of mental health concerns with a focus on relationships, family issues, and attachment trauma.

Nicole Lam

Counsellor, MC, RCC

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (365) 601-6782

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

Relationship Issues
Relationship Anxiety
Family Conflict

Expertise

Anxiety
Body Image
Career Guidance
Childhood Neglect from Immigrant Parents
Codependency
Coping Skills
Depression
Divorce
Emotional Disturbance
Grief
LGBTQ+
Life Coaching
Life Transitions
Parenting
Peer Relationships
Racial Identity
Self Esteem
Stress
Women's Issues

I work with clients who may be struggling with anxiety or trauma related to their relationships or family. During our initial sessions, we will delve deeply into uncover core issues and collaborate to create a plan for addressing them in a way that helps you get your life back in control. Most clients see a gradual lifting of symptoms within the first month and sustained improvement thereafter.

Nicole Lam

Counsellor, MC, RCC

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (365) 601-6782

Nicole Lam

Counsellor, MC, RCC

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (365) 601-6782

6 Endorsements

Tricia Jeranie

Counsellor, RCC

Nicole emits a passion for her work and a warmth for her clients in the therapy room. Her unique perspective allows her to see her client's reality in a profound way.

Renu Nijjar

Counsellor, RCC, BA, MC

Nicole has a unique ability to guide individuals toward healing and self-discovery!

Ciara Toddington

Counsellor, BA, MC

Nicole is an empathetic and skilled professional. She is deeply knowledgeable about counselling theory and practice, and has an exceptional understanding of attachment theory. She is exceptional at helping individual's identify and reach their goals.

Celia (Xiaojun) Du

Counsellor, MC

Nicole is a bright young counsellor, she is very quick at identifying the issues and apply the appropriate modelities. She is an expert in attachment theory, mindfulness, somatic therapy, just to name a few.

Alexandra Pesa

Counsellor, RCC, MC

Nicole is a skilled and compassionate counsellor who especially excels in supporting clients through relationship anxiety and self-esteem work, offering empowering guidance.

Melissa Ko

Counsellor, MCP, RCC

Nicole blends warmth with skill, drawing on attachment theory and solution-focused tools to support lasting change. Her practice is inclusive, socially aware, and empowering-a space where your strengths are acknowledged and heard.

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Client Focus

Age

Teen ,

Adults

Participants

Individuals ,

Couples ,

Group

Communities

Bisexual Allied ,

Gay Allied ,

Lesbian Allied ,

Non-Binary Allied ,

Queer Allied ,

Racial Justice Allied ,

Single Parent ,

Transgender Allied

Ethnicity

Asian

I also speak

Cantonese

Age

Teen ,

Adults

Participants

Individuals ,

Couples ,

Group

Communities

Bisexual Allied ,

Gay Allied ,

Lesbian Allied ,

Non-Binary Allied ,

Queer Allied ,

Racial Justice Allied ,

Single Parent ,

Transgender Allied

Ethnicity

Asian

I also speak

Cantonese

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
Attachment-based
Coaching
Cognitive Behavioural (CBT)
Culturally Sensitive
EMDR
Family Systems
Internal Family Systems (IFS)
Interpersonal
LENS Neurofeedback, Enneagram, Astrology
Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
Relational
Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
Somatic
Trauma Focused

I use an integrated approach in my practice. We spend the first few sessions exploring past and current experiences to create a plan together on themes to process. You will learn how to regulate your nervous system, manage conflict, set boundaries and show up in your life and relationships more empowered. Therapies I use are attachment focused, family system, solution focused, somatic, and EMDR.

Nicole Lam

Counsellor, MC, RCC

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (365) 601-6782

Nicole Lam

Counsellor, MC, RCC

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (365) 601-6782

Location

Primary Location

Ren Therapy

Burnaby, BC V3N

(365) 601-6782

Email Me

My website

Group Practice

Emergence Counselling & Wellness Inc.

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Towns/Cities

Postal Codes

Neighborhoods

I primarily offer virtual sessions on most weekdays and weekends during the afternoon. In person sessions may be available upon request.

Nicole Lam

Counsellor, MC, RCC

Call for a free consultation now - (365) 601-6782

I primarily offer virtual sessions on most weekdays and weekends during the afternoon. In person sessions may be available upon request.

Nicole Lam

Counsellor, MC, RCC

Call for a free consultation now - (365) 601-6782

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