Marriage Counselling Therapists in Thunder Bay, ON

Are you overwhelmed managing family stressors, couple conflict or struggling as a parent? Experiencing feelings of depression, anxiety or anger? Current crisis or life changing events or decisions? Work-Life balance? Please allow me the opportunity to work with you to overcome these difficulties. My 30 years experience working in the mental health field, both as a clinical therapist, as well as, providing clinical supervision to mental health practitioners underpins a strong, therapeutic foundation to aid in assisting you to overcome personal and relationship struggles.

John has been a clinical social worker for over thirty years, completing my degrees at York University. I have obtained advanced training in Emotion Focused Couple Therapy, as well as being informed by the work of Daniel Wile and Terrence Real. Additionally, I have had extensive training in Family Therapy, primarily adopting a Structural/Strategic Approach. Of course, I also provide individual therapy both with adults and teens/children. I am very comfortable and well trained in treating mood disorders, trauma and loss issues, and all behavorial addictions. We have been operating our private practice successfully since 1999.

Change is a difficult and humbling process. Being patient, kind, and forgiving of ourselves is not usually something we learned as children. Talk therapy is not advice or guidance: it's learning to hear your own decision-making processes, noticing feelings and what needs your trying to meet, discovering your value systems, and moving forward with small deliberate changes. Together in session we will tailor the work we do to suit your specific concerns. Researching therapists, going to therapy, looking at our least helpful patterns, or deliberating on whether to stay or leave a difficult situation takes courage. I congratulate you.

Feeling disconnected from you partner has got you feeling discouraged and frustrated in relationship. You are tired of having the same arguments continue to happen in your relationship with no understanding. Being stuck in miscommunication patterns between you and your partner that lead to disconnection between you both, is holding you back from creating a secure loving bond with your partner. You can ensure I will offer a safe place for you to become unstuck in these patterns and move towards the growth you are longing for. I will work with you on devising the how to overcome these stuck patterns and create the love you want.

Currently accepting new clients for in-person and virtual therapy. Are you feeling overwhelmed, alone, or have difficulty coping? If so, you are not alone or to blame. Life has endless challenges and I provide a safe and therapeutic space for you to feel better. Some of the areas I help with are: perinatal mental health, infertility, grief and bereavement support and health related anxiety. I offer many different treatment modalities including EMDR (eye movement desensitization and reprocessing therapy), hypnosis, talk therapy, CBT and more.

The most important relationship we have is with ourselves - and sometimes that relationship can be the most challenging to heal. Maybe you’re struggling to adjust to unfamiliar situations and feel uncertain about the future. Maybe you’re feeling ‘stuck’. Or maybe you’re curious and open to self-exploration! I have experience supporting individuals with life transitions (i.e., job loss/new employment, divorce/separation, pregnancy/prepartum/postpartum, return to education, relocation), anxiety, stress and burnout, ADHD, trauma, interpersonal challenges, and relationship and intimacy challenges.

What are you trying to accomplish? Do you think that this never-ending rat race that we call life is meaningless? What even constitutes a meaningful life? In my role as your therapist, I'm here to help you overcome any obstacles that are preventing you from leading the best possible life, whether they be personal or professional. Whether you're having problems with relationships, depression, or anxiety. My goal is to assist you in achieving growth and positive transformation in your life. In order to provide you the ability to make decisions that result in a more purposeful and happy life my approach is customized to your needs.

I support individuals and couples on their journey to self-discovery and healing. I help those who are struggling with issues related to mental health, stress, low self-esteem and challenging relationships. I offer a safe and non-judgmental space where you can explore your emotions, gain insights into your patterns of thinking, and develop coping strategies. Together, we work towards helping you rebuild your self-confidence and establish healthier relationships, ultimately empowering you to lead a more fulfilling life.

Welcome! I offer private in-person, phone, or online individual and couples therapy. I understand that reaching out for support can be difficult and intimidating. Therapy can help you improve relationships with yourself and others, process grief, discover solutions, cope with crises, heal from betrayal, infidelity & past trauma, learn healthier coping mechanisms, reduce stress and anxiety, and even prevent future emotional and mental health issues. I will provide a safe and non-judgmental space where you can process your thoughts and emotions, grieve, and work towards better understanding yourself to improve your overall well-being.

We help people who are struggling with the disconnect between how things are and how things should be. We understand the isolation that comes with feeling misunderstood and we help to cultivate insight and acceptance with a healthy dose of strategy and skills to rebuild one's sense of control, and to move forward feeling lighter and more connected with the world.

Have you seen a therapist before and received cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT) to help with anxiety, depression, and/or ptsd/trauma? Are you still finding that you have remaining symptoms or continue to struggle?

You’re a man who pushes through, keeps things in, and exploring emotions and feelings is for other people. You’re just not good with the emotional stuff. You’re starting to see that this hard-shell, outwardly confident self is getting in the way of relationships. You’re either completely keeping your stress inside or leaning too heavily on your partner to vent. This leads to either shutting yourself away for a while or exploding with anger and frustration (sometimes both). You care so so deeply for your important people and you want to be with them without irritation brewing underneath.

You are worth the time it takes to heal, in whatever way feels right for you. Do you ever wonder if there's more to life? Maybe you feel an ache inside, like you have so much potential... but something is getting in the way. You might long for more clarity, fulfillment, and inner peace. But what is the path to get there? Sometimes this requires support (which can be hard to ask for or prioritize). The first step is the most important - and the path may be closer than you think.

Finding the right counsellor can be difficult- it can be hard to find someone you naturally click with. I pride myself on being the same person in-office as you would meet on the street. I value authenticity and am very much a “what you see is what you get” kind of person. I am more than willing to be a compassionate ear, but I am most interested in equipping you with the skills you need so that you no longer need to rely on therapy to get through. My goal is to help you become as self-sufficient as possible by exploring CBT and DBT-based skills to help you address emotional distress, life transitions, or relationship struggles.

I don’t know what experiences you have had in your life that brought you to the decision to seek support - but I’m glad you are here. Thank you for being courageous. Thank you for choosing hope. Thank you for considering me as someone that you might trust enough to share the parts of your life that maybe you would rather not share.

Depression & anxiety psychotherapist - In our day to day lives, it is common to feel stressed, worried, sad, and maybe even confused about your current situation, perhaps you’re scared about what the future has in store for you and aren’t sure which route to take. You find yourself constantly overthinking your problems, causing you to feel overwhelmed, angry, or avoidant. These concerns can impact your life daily, making you lose interest in the things you previously enjoyed and causing you to feel isolated. If you’re ready to reconnect with yourself and take the next steps towards improving your well-being, I’m here to help.

I'm the right fit for you if therapy seems daunting and you need a gentle approach. Maybe this is your first time in counselling, you've had a bad experience with a counsellor, or you haven't been to counselling since childhood. I can help if you're curious about counselling but struggle to find the words to describe what's going on.

Whether you are coming to therapy in a moment of crisis, after years of stress and pain, or just needing another person to share your more guarded thoughts with - therapy is for you. I work with individuals experiencing grief and loss, anxiety, depression, and other mental health concerns such as trauma, stress, and low self-esteem/self-confidence. I have a special interest in working with couples who are struggling with major life stages, recovering from an affair, or looking to enhance their communication and strengthen their relationship.

It's not just you, life HAS gotten harder in the last few years. If you've been powering through, staying strong and carrying on, but now you're barely getting by and you're tired of feeling like you're not really living your life, it might be time for outside support. The benefit of therapy is that it's a time where you get to focus on yourself, to look at your life, and to get an outside perspective on how it could be different. You don't have to just endure, with the right support, you can heal from the past, and move forward towards a better future.