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Available both in-person and online
Victoria, BC V8R
Most people don’t come to therapy because life is “fine.” They come because they’re exhausted from pretending it is. I work with people who are high-functioning on paper and quietly falling apart in private. The overthinkers. The burned out professionals. The people who can hold everyone else together but can’t remember the last time they felt calm in their own body. Therapy with me is not clinical wallpaper and robotic nodding. I’m an actual human being in the room with you. I’ll challenge you when needed, laugh with you when appropriate, and help you untangle the patterns that keep pulling you back into the same painful loops.
I specialize in working with teens, offering a supportive space where they can be themselves without pressure or judgment. I focus on building genuine connection while helping teens develop practical tools for emotional regulation, self-expression, and resilience as they navigate identity, relationships, and change.
If you’re feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or unsure where to begin, you’re not alone. Reaching out can feel vulnerable, especially when you’ve been carrying a lot. I offer a compassionate, grounded space to explore what’s going on. When you’re ready, I invite you to reach out. I am rooting for you!
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My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

The Budding Elm

Victoria, BC V8R

(249) 501-0992
My website
I am available in-person and virtually with The Budding Elm; as well as solely virtually with Copperwood Counselling
$172 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  
Let's Connect (249) 501-0992
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My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

The Budding Elm

Victoria, BC V8R

(249) 501-0992
My website
I am available in-person and virtually with The Budding Elm; as well as solely virtually with Copperwood Counselling
$172 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $172
  • Couple Sessions $205

Payment Methods

ACH Bank transfer, Mastercard, Visa
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Laura Bates
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Laura Bates
Counsellor, BCYC, MC, RCC
Check fees and, if listed, ask to verify your insurance coverage. or (249) 501-0992

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by Province of British Columbia / 20011 Laura Kathleen Bates
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 4 years
  • Attended City University of Seattle , Master of Counselling , Graduated 2022
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I earned my degree from City University, where the program centers social justice in mental health. The curriculum explored how factors like race, poverty, gender, sexuality, immigration, and belief systems shape a person's wellbeing.
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Laura Bates
Counsellor, BCYC, MC, RCC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (249) 501-0992
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I earned my degree from City University, where the program centers social justice in mental health. The curriculum explored how factors like race, poverty, gender, sexuality, immigration, and belief systems shape a person's wellbeing.
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Laura Bates
Counsellor, BCYC, MC, RCC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (249) 501-0992

Specialties and Expertise

Expertise

  • Addiction
  • ADHD
  • Anxiety
  • Autism
  • Bipolar Disorder
  • Body Image
  • Borderline Personality (BPD)
  • Chronic Illness
  • Chronic Pain
  • Codependency
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Education and Learning Disabilities
  • Emotional Disturbance
  • Family Conflict
  • Grief
  • Infidelity
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Parenting
  • Polyamory & ENM
  • Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
  • Stress
  • Substance Use
  • Transgender
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI)
  • Veterans
  • Women's Issues
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Counsellor, BCYC, MC, RCC
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4 Endorsements

Scott Cameron
Scott Cameron
CounsellorRCCMCBA
Laura is an exceptionally insightful, skilled, and caring counsellor. She respects her clients and understands their concerns well. She has helped me before and I highly recommend her as a counsellor!
Kelly Houlahan
Kelly Houlahan
CounsellorMACPRCC
Laura creates a welcoming, judgment-free space where it's easy to be yourself. Her genuine interest builds trust and openness. As a colleague, I've seen the care and presence she brings to her work, making clients feel truly supported.
Shelby De Nat
Shelby De Nat
CounsellorMCRCC
Laura is incredibly personable, compassionate, and warm; she has a unique ability to support individuals to feel truly safe and understood. Laura's knowledge, skill, and natural disposition create an environment of safety and meaningful exploration.

Client Focus

Age

Children (6 to 10)
Preteen
Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Single Parent
Transgender Allied

Age

Children (6 to 10)
Preteen
Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Single Parent
Transgender Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
  • Attachment-based
  • Cognitive Behavioural (CBT)
  • Compassion Focused
  • Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
  • EMDR
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Feminist
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Narrative
  • Person-Centered
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
  • Strength-Based
  • Trauma Focused
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My goal is for each client to feel validated, respected, and heard within each session. I pride myself on my clients leaving each session with tangible tools to carry them forward along their journey of self-discovery.
Photo of Laura Bates, Counsellor, BCYC, MC, RCC
Laura Bates
Counsellor, BCYC, MC, RCC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (249) 501-0992
"
My goal is for each client to feel validated, respected, and heard within each session. I pride myself on my clients leaving each session with tangible tools to carry them forward along their journey of self-discovery.
Photo of Laura Bates, Counsellor, BCYC, MC, RCC
Laura Bates
Counsellor, BCYC, MC, RCC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (249) 501-0992

Location

Primary Location

The Budding Elm

Victoria, BC V8R

(249) 501-0992

Nearby Areas

Postal Codes

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I am available in-person and virtually with The Budding Elm; as well as solely virtually with Copperwood Counselling
Photo of Laura Bates, Counsellor, BCYC, MC, RCC
Laura Bates
Counsellor, BCYC, MC, RCC
Call for a free consultation now - (249) 501-0992
"
I am available in-person and virtually with The Budding Elm; as well as solely virtually with Copperwood Counselling
Photo of Laura Bates, Counsellor, BCYC, MC, RCC
Laura Bates
Counsellor, BCYC, MC, RCC
Call for a free consultation now - (249) 501-0992