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Jeff Hay

Counsellor, RCC, MACP

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Kelowna, BC V1W
You deserve and need more connection and joy in your primary relationship. You want better communication so you can stop having the same arguments over and over again. All relationships have times when connection is easy, passion is alive, and love abounds, but also times when trust is broken, regrettable incidents linger, and friendship is barely possible. I help couples and also individuals who are struggling to thrive in relationships. Like a growing garden, relationships need nurturing and focused attention. I want to share new ideas, skills, and tools to enhance your relationship to increase your quality of life.
I specialize in relationships and connection. I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC). In addition to my Masters in Counselling Psychology, I am a Level 3 Gottman Couples Therapist. I use interventions from Terry Real's Relational Life Therapy, Sue Johnson’s Emotion Focused work, and Brene Brown's work around vulnerability, shame, and self-compassion.
Making the choice to reach out to me today is a brave first step you can make on this new journey. Let's setup your FREE 15 minute phone consult to see if I am a good fit for you and what you need, either individually for you or for both of you in your relationship. I look forward to exploring how I can help you meet your relationship goals.
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My Practice at a Glance

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Kelowna, BC V1W

(778) 654-5983
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Hello! I love meeting clients in my office in the Lower Mission in Kelowna but can also happily connect online.
I specialize in Relationship Issues, Infidelity and Parenting 
$160 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  
Let's Connect (778) 654-5983
Photo of Jeff Hay, Counsellor, RCC, MACP

My Practice at a Glance

Waitlist. Contact to join the list for in-person and online therapy.

Kelowna, BC V1W

(778) 654-5983
My website
Hello! I love meeting clients in my office in the Lower Mission in Kelowna but can also happily connect online.
I specialize in Relationship Issues, Infidelity and Parenting 
$160 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $160
  • Couple Sessions $175
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

ACH Bank transfer, Cash, Paypal
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Jeff Hay
Counsellor, RCC, MACP
Check fees and, if listed, ask to verify your insurance coverage. or (778) 654-5983
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Jeff Hay
Counsellor, RCC, MACP
Check fees and, if listed, ask to verify your insurance coverage. or (778) 654-5983

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by Province of British Columbia / 15923 Jeff Hay
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 8 years
  • Attended Yorkville, Graduated 2018
  • Additional Credentials

  • Certificate from Gottman Institute Level 3 / 2018
  • Certificate from BCACC 15923 / 2018
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I have trained with the Gottmans, Sue Johnson, and Terry Real. I hung out with Brene Brown briefly before she was Oprah's buddy (she is funny). I'm inspired by many amazing people and bring all of those ideas and wisdom to my sessions. I don't think one model or set of ideas solves every issue!
Photo of Jeff Hay, Counsellor, RCC, MACP
Jeff Hay
Counsellor, RCC, MACP
or call with questions - (778) 654-5983
"
I have trained with the Gottmans, Sue Johnson, and Terry Real. I hung out with Brene Brown briefly before she was Oprah's buddy (she is funny). I'm inspired by many amazing people and bring all of those ideas and wisdom to my sessions. I don't think one model or set of ideas solves every issue!
Photo of Jeff Hay, Counsellor, RCC, MACP
Jeff Hay
Counsellor, RCC, MACP
or call with questions - (778) 654-5983

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Relationship Issues
  • Infidelity
  • Parenting

Expertise

  • Anxiety
  • Bisexual
  • Couples Counselling
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Family Conflict
  • Lesbian
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Coaching
  • Life Transitions
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Men's Issues
  • Peer Relationships
  • Stress
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I work with couples and individuals to show up better in relationships. I work with you to better understanding your relational patterns and stances. I especially love helping people identify the triggers of their adaptive child (Terry Real). I can't save every relationship but I can help end misery. I will be authentic and call out good and bad behaviour and choices from a caring place.
Photo of Jeff Hay, Counsellor, RCC, MACP
Jeff Hay
Counsellor, RCC, MACP
or call with questions - (778) 654-5983
"
I work with couples and individuals to show up better in relationships. I work with you to better understanding your relational patterns and stances. I especially love helping people identify the triggers of their adaptive child (Terry Real). I can't save every relationship but I can help end misery. I will be authentic and call out good and bad behaviour and choices from a caring place.
Photo of Jeff Hay, Counsellor, RCC, MACP
Jeff Hay
Counsellor, RCC, MACP
or call with questions - (778) 654-5983

3 Endorsements

Kinga Robinson
Kinga Robinson
CounsellorMARCC
Jeff is a caring, thoughtful, and compassionate therapist who has his client's best interest at heart. His passion for working with couples is a true gift.
Brian Howard
Brian Howard
CounsellorBAMACRCC
Jeff is an great person inside and outside of the counselling office. He has helped many couples rekindle their love and find their connection. He provides a genuinely safe space for clients to open up and share what they are going through.
Robyn Springer
Robyn Springer
CounsellorRCCMACPBScN
I love referring couples to Jeff because I know that he will be curious to understand couple dynamics as well as a trusted guide to reach repair and growth. He is committed to personal and professional development and brings a lot of energy to his work.

Client Focus

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Coaching
  • Cognitive Behavioural (CBT)
  • Compassion Focused
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Family / Marital
  • Family Systems
  • Gottman Method
  • Imago
  • Interpersonal
  • Positive Psychology
  • Relational
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
  • Strength-Based
  • Structural Family Therapy
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I pull from the ideas of Terry Real (RLT), Brene Brown, Sue Johnson (EFT), and the Gottmans. I don't think one person or model can solve every issue. We humans are complex people but if we can identify the patterns and cycles, then pivotal change can happen! First we need to join in the truth of what is happening, then learn skills to be better!
Photo of Jeff Hay, Counsellor, RCC, MACP
Jeff Hay
Counsellor, RCC, MACP
or call with questions - (778) 654-5983
"
I pull from the ideas of Terry Real (RLT), Brene Brown, Sue Johnson (EFT), and the Gottmans. I don't think one person or model can solve every issue. We humans are complex people but if we can identify the patterns and cycles, then pivotal change can happen! First we need to join in the truth of what is happening, then learn skills to be better!
Photo of Jeff Hay, Counsellor, RCC, MACP
Jeff Hay
Counsellor, RCC, MACP
or call with questions - (778) 654-5983

Location

Primary Location

Kelowna, BC V1W

(778) 654-5983

Nearby Areas

Postal Codes

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Hello! I love meeting clients in my office in the Lower Mission in Kelowna but can also happily connect online.
Photo of Jeff Hay, Counsellor, RCC, MACP
Jeff Hay
Counsellor, RCC, MACP
Take the first step to help. Call now - (778) 654-5983
"
Hello! I love meeting clients in my office in the Lower Mission in Kelowna but can also happily connect online.
Photo of Jeff Hay, Counsellor, RCC, MACP
Jeff Hay
Counsellor, RCC, MACP
Take the first step to help. Call now - (778) 654-5983