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Leila Rashidi
Registered Psychotherapist, MACP, RP, CCPA, CHyp, CRPO
Verified Verified
Ottawa, ON K2G
I offer individual and couples therapy in the following specializations: • Anxiety and Depression • Interpersonal/Relationship issues • Life transitions • Goal setting • Work/Life balance • Anger Management • Domestic Violence • Family Conflict • Infidelity • Marital and Premarital • Self Esteem • Stress • Trauma and PTSD • Women's Issues
I offer individual and couples therapy in the following specializations: • Anxiety and Depression • Interpersonal/Relationship issues • Life transitions • Goal setting • Work/Life balance • Anger Management • Domestic Violence • Family Conflict • Infidelity • Marital and Premarital • Self Esteem • Stress • Trauma and PTSD • Women's Issues
(365) 400-7279 View (365) 400-7279
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Shannon Azzarello - Betrayal Trauma Support For Infidelity
Registered Psychotherapist, RP, MACP, CCPS-C
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Ottawa, ON K1S  (Online Only)
Hello! I'm Shannon, a therapist specializing in healing betrayal trauma. I support those affected by infidelity and partners of sex/porn addiction. Navigating the aftermath of betrayal is complex, isolating and overwhelming. This can profoundly disrupt one's sense of trust and safety leading to physical, mental, and emotional impacts. Often follows is an overarching pressure to decide what to do next. Such experiences can shake one's very foundation, leading to concerns with trust, intimacy, attachment and self-esteem. If you are experiencing the aftermath of being cheated on, you deserve specialized trauma-informed care & support.
Hello! I'm Shannon, a therapist specializing in healing betrayal trauma. I support those affected by infidelity and partners of sex/porn addiction. Navigating the aftermath of betrayal is complex, isolating and overwhelming. This can profoundly disrupt one's sense of trust and safety leading to physical, mental, and emotional impacts. Often follows is an overarching pressure to decide what to do next. Such experiences can shake one's very foundation, leading to concerns with trust, intimacy, attachment and self-esteem. If you are experiencing the aftermath of being cheated on, you deserve specialized trauma-informed care & support.
(249) 495-5439 View (249) 495-5439
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Elizabeth Kelen
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ottawa, ON K2P  (Online Only)
I offer a relational, depth-oriented approach to individuals looking for help with self-actualization, difficult life transitions, and social anxiety and avoidance. I am accepting new clients for virtual sessions only as of April 2024. I am also available for couples work using an Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) framework, particularly around infidelity.
I offer a relational, depth-oriented approach to individuals looking for help with self-actualization, difficult life transitions, and social anxiety and avoidance. I am accepting new clients for virtual sessions only as of April 2024. I am also available for couples work using an Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) framework, particularly around infidelity.
(343) 312-6561 View (343) 312-6561
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Jennifer Williams
Registered Social Worker, BA, MSW
Verified Verified
Ottawa, ON K1Y
I enjoy working with clients who are experiencing a difficult life transition, a mental health struggle such as anxiety or depression or who want to heal from past trauma. I enjoy working collaboratively with clients to develop treatment goals for personal growth, and to help individuals live a more authentic life. Evidence-based individual therapy can increase self-awareness, resiliency and overall happiness. I work with couples experiencing turbulence in their relationship, to recover from infidelity, to recreate that spark or improve communication. I also specialize in family therapy and work with children and youth.
I enjoy working with clients who are experiencing a difficult life transition, a mental health struggle such as anxiety or depression or who want to heal from past trauma. I enjoy working collaboratively with clients to develop treatment goals for personal growth, and to help individuals live a more authentic life. Evidence-based individual therapy can increase self-awareness, resiliency and overall happiness. I work with couples experiencing turbulence in their relationship, to recover from infidelity, to recreate that spark or improve communication. I also specialize in family therapy and work with children and youth.
(343) 312-7422 View (343) 312-7422
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The Centre for Couples and Relationships
Registered Social Worker, RP, CCC, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ottawa, ON K2B
At The Centre for Couples and Relationships, we believe that intimate relationships are central to human connection, attachment, and well-being. As we go through life stressors and challenges, so do our relationships. If your relationship is in need of improved communication, deeper connection, or repair, we can help. We work with couples and partners struggling with issues such as communication, disconnection, intimacy, infidelity, and family dynamics. We provide a safe and supportive environment for you to explore your relationship dynamics and to repair previous patterns of conflict or hurt.
At The Centre for Couples and Relationships, we believe that intimate relationships are central to human connection, attachment, and well-being. As we go through life stressors and challenges, so do our relationships. If your relationship is in need of improved communication, deeper connection, or repair, we can help. We work with couples and partners struggling with issues such as communication, disconnection, intimacy, infidelity, and family dynamics. We provide a safe and supportive environment for you to explore your relationship dynamics and to repair previous patterns of conflict or hurt.
(343) 306-5497 View (343) 306-5497
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Chantal Jennifer Anne Campeau
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), RP(Q)
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ottawa, ON K2J
I focus on clients with relationship or sexuality concerns. This encompasses all types of relationships, including those that are ethically non-monogamous or LGBTQ+. I am also inclusive of BDSM and kink in sexuality. Currently, I am working with people from a diverse cultural background who are dealing with issues surrounding infidelity, relationship conflict, pornography, sex work, non-monogamy, and gender/sexual identity.
I focus on clients with relationship or sexuality concerns. This encompasses all types of relationships, including those that are ethically non-monogamous or LGBTQ+. I am also inclusive of BDSM and kink in sexuality. Currently, I am working with people from a diverse cultural background who are dealing with issues surrounding infidelity, relationship conflict, pornography, sex work, non-monogamy, and gender/sexual identity.
(613) 604-9085 View (613) 604-9085
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First Step Men's Therapy
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ottawa, ON K2P
Our specialities include: addiction, alcohol use, depression, sex therapy, OCD, ADHD, trauma, grief, divorce, infidelity, anxiety, men's issues, self-esteem, stress, and relationship issues.
Feeling disconnected lately? Doubting your role as a father, son, or partner? Maybe you're dealing with anger, feeling stuck, or overwhelmed, and it's starting to weigh on you. You're not alone in this struggle. We understand! We know that men face unique challenges and sometimes find it hard to reach out for help. But staying silent can lead to even bigger issues like addiction, anxiety, or depression. Don't let these feelings control you. Take the first step towards a brighter tomorrow. Our therapy sessions offer a safe, supportive environment for you to heal & grow. Click "Website" for a free consultation. Services en français!
Our specialities include: addiction, alcohol use, depression, sex therapy, OCD, ADHD, trauma, grief, divorce, infidelity, anxiety, men's issues, self-esteem, stress, and relationship issues.
Feeling disconnected lately? Doubting your role as a father, son, or partner? Maybe you're dealing with anger, feeling stuck, or overwhelmed, and it's starting to weigh on you. You're not alone in this struggle. We understand! We know that men face unique challenges and sometimes find it hard to reach out for help. But staying silent can lead to even bigger issues like addiction, anxiety, or depression. Don't let these feelings control you. Take the first step towards a brighter tomorrow. Our therapy sessions offer a safe, supportive environment for you to heal & grow. Click "Website" for a free consultation. Services en français!
(343) 307-9734 View (343) 307-9734
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Lorraine Jaksic
Marriage & Family Therapist, RP, RMFT
Verified Verified
Ottawa, ON K1R
A few of my specialties include couple work (healing after affairs, communication, anger), post-traumatic stress, sexual abuse, military families, and family of origin issues.
I work with individuals, couples and families of all cultural/spiritual backgrounds. I use an eclectic treatment approach to address anxiety, depression, anger, communication issues and relationship recovery, addictions, work/life balance, self-esteem, post-traumatic stress, career and many other issues. I believe that active listening is at the heart of effective therapy, and I work to help my clients find their own hidden strengths, empowering them to effectively resolve their issues. My personal life mission is to assist my clients in identifying solutions to the problems that prevent them from enjoying their lives to the fullest extent possible.
A few of my specialties include couple work (healing after affairs, communication, anger), post-traumatic stress, sexual abuse, military families, and family of origin issues.
I work with individuals, couples and families of all cultural/spiritual backgrounds. I use an eclectic treatment approach to address anxiety, depression, anger, communication issues and relationship recovery, addictions, work/life balance, self-esteem, post-traumatic stress, career and many other issues. I believe that active listening is at the heart of effective therapy, and I work to help my clients find their own hidden strengths, empowering them to effectively resolve their issues. My personal life mission is to assist my clients in identifying solutions to the problems that prevent them from enjoying their lives to the fullest extent possible.
(613) 727-4455 View (613) 727-4455
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Esra Magsoud
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Ottawa, ON K1V
I particularily enjoy supporting kids in regulating their emotions as well as couples with relationship issues, infidelity & meditation.
I provide individual, couples & family therapy to children, youth & adults. Deciding to seek therapy is an important step forward & I look forward to supporting you on your journey of personal growth. Whether you desire to make strides in your emotional, personal, social, or mental health, I will facilitate positive changes to improve your quality of life. I believe that safely & openly exploring your emotions in a positive & helpful environment is crucial. We will collaboratively create treatment plans & goals together, according to your unique needs, preferences & values. I apply an intersectional lens to promote cultural safety.
I particularily enjoy supporting kids in regulating their emotions as well as couples with relationship issues, infidelity & meditation.
I provide individual, couples & family therapy to children, youth & adults. Deciding to seek therapy is an important step forward & I look forward to supporting you on your journey of personal growth. Whether you desire to make strides in your emotional, personal, social, or mental health, I will facilitate positive changes to improve your quality of life. I believe that safely & openly exploring your emotions in a positive & helpful environment is crucial. We will collaboratively create treatment plans & goals together, according to your unique needs, preferences & values. I apply an intersectional lens to promote cultural safety.
(289) 272-9509 View (289) 272-9509
Photo of Sophia Khan Wolsfeld | Relational Trauma Therapist | Support For C-Ptsd, Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying) in Ottawa, ON
Sophia Khan Wolsfeld | Relational Trauma Therapist | Support For C-Ptsd
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), BSc, MA, RD, CCC, RYT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ottawa, ON K0A  (Online Only)
Experiencing trauma does not have to hold you back. I specialize in supporting those who are navigating how past childhood, relational, betrayal, intergenerational, or complex trauma may have impacted their relationship with themselves, their body, and with others. This may present itself as struggling with self-esteem, body image, emotional/binge eating, attachment, relationship struggles, people pleasing, anxiety, perfectionism, or with just feeling “enough”. Together, we can process past trauma, nurture our unique nervous systems, break patterns that keep us feeling stuck, and move towards a life of self-trust and embodiment.
Experiencing trauma does not have to hold you back. I specialize in supporting those who are navigating how past childhood, relational, betrayal, intergenerational, or complex trauma may have impacted their relationship with themselves, their body, and with others. This may present itself as struggling with self-esteem, body image, emotional/binge eating, attachment, relationship struggles, people pleasing, anxiety, perfectionism, or with just feeling “enough”. Together, we can process past trauma, nurture our unique nervous systems, break patterns that keep us feeling stuck, and move towards a life of self-trust and embodiment.
(306) 400-5661 View (306) 400-5661
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Chynna Markoff
Registered Psychotherapist
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Ottawa, ON K1C  (Online Only)
I focus on working with individuals who have difficulties with anxiety, emotion regulation, trauma, grief, relationship issues and those who simply wish to learn more about themselves. I am extremely passionate about helping individuals figure out why they are the way that they are, and simultaneously help them move into the person they want to be. I additionally work with couples to help improve relationships struggling with infidelity, trust issues, communication issues, blended families and parenting conflicts.
I focus on working with individuals who have difficulties with anxiety, emotion regulation, trauma, grief, relationship issues and those who simply wish to learn more about themselves. I am extremely passionate about helping individuals figure out why they are the way that they are, and simultaneously help them move into the person they want to be. I additionally work with couples to help improve relationships struggling with infidelity, trust issues, communication issues, blended families and parenting conflicts.
(226) 702-8239 View (226) 702-8239
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Yasmin Goldie
Registered Psychotherapist, RP, RN
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Ottawa, ON K1K  (Online Only)
I work with couples struggling with communication challenges, infidelity, and family situations.
Take the first step towards healing. I work to help clients reframe their negative thinking patterns and learn to use kinder and more compassionate self-talk. I work with clients to end the tug-of-war with painful emotions. My practice focuses on providing cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) for individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, addiction, trauma, personality disorders, or emotional dysregulation. The practical interventions from these theories can be tailored to your unique situation. Reach out today to find out how I can help.
I work with couples struggling with communication challenges, infidelity, and family situations.
Take the first step towards healing. I work to help clients reframe their negative thinking patterns and learn to use kinder and more compassionate self-talk. I work with clients to end the tug-of-war with painful emotions. My practice focuses on providing cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) for individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, addiction, trauma, personality disorders, or emotional dysregulation. The practical interventions from these theories can be tailored to your unique situation. Reach out today to find out how I can help.
(289) 312-4113 View (289) 312-4113
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Counselling For Men
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ottawa, ON K1R
We're men who work with men to help deal with things like anger, infidelity, relationship issues and any other issues that men deal with.
Most of us men have been taught that we have to manage things by ourselves. To hide our feelings. Or we don't have feelings. Guess what that leads to? Anger, irritability, relationship issues, work problems, and trouble connecting with our kids, friends, and partners. Maybe drinking too much and checking out, too. Or cheating on our partner, because it's easier than trying to figure out what's going on at home. Maybe you don't even realize how bad things have gotten until your partner tells you that you "can't communicate", you're messing up, and now you have no idea what to do and you're defensive and confused.
We're men who work with men to help deal with things like anger, infidelity, relationship issues and any other issues that men deal with.
Most of us men have been taught that we have to manage things by ourselves. To hide our feelings. Or we don't have feelings. Guess what that leads to? Anger, irritability, relationship issues, work problems, and trouble connecting with our kids, friends, and partners. Maybe drinking too much and checking out, too. Or cheating on our partner, because it's easier than trying to figure out what's going on at home. Maybe you don't even realize how bad things have gotten until your partner tells you that you "can't communicate", you're messing up, and now you have no idea what to do and you're defensive and confused.
(226) 457-2074 View (226) 457-2074
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Ping Chen, MSW, RSW, EMDR II
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW, EMDRII
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Ottawa, ON K1N
As a trauma therapist, I am also an NIHB provider that provides free counselling to those who are registered status First Nations and Inuit people, as well as a provider with Medavie Blue Cross that offers free counselling for Veterans who are registered with Veterans Affairs Canada.
Currently accepting new clients. "Therapy really works!” This is my experience with therapy as well as many other people’s therapy experience with me. I believe that you can have a similar experience - an experience that you will feel understood and empowered. Part of the reasons that makes therapy work is because as a therapist, I am non-judgmental, emphatic, compassionate, and genuine. I am also trained in many different psychotherapy modalities that I will tailor our therapy sessions to your unique needs. I can use practical approaches as well as insight oriented approaches.
As a trauma therapist, I am also an NIHB provider that provides free counselling to those who are registered status First Nations and Inuit people, as well as a provider with Medavie Blue Cross that offers free counselling for Veterans who are registered with Veterans Affairs Canada.
Currently accepting new clients. "Therapy really works!” This is my experience with therapy as well as many other people’s therapy experience with me. I believe that you can have a similar experience - an experience that you will feel understood and empowered. Part of the reasons that makes therapy work is because as a therapist, I am non-judgmental, emphatic, compassionate, and genuine. I am also trained in many different psychotherapy modalities that I will tailor our therapy sessions to your unique needs. I can use practical approaches as well as insight oriented approaches.
(647) 795-3732 View (647) 795-3732
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Ivan Pityk
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, RP
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Ottawa, ON K2B
My philosophy is that the past builds our being through the experiences we had and the lessons we learned. These experiences help to shape our sense of meaning and personal fulfilment through our journey. Therefore, I believe that it is important to explore the past and see how it shapes our experience in relation to ourselves and others. I incorporate this perspective in my work with clients and help to emphasize the power of choice, explore unmet needs and help to explore important areas for boundary setting.
My philosophy is that the past builds our being through the experiences we had and the lessons we learned. These experiences help to shape our sense of meaning and personal fulfilment through our journey. Therefore, I believe that it is important to explore the past and see how it shapes our experience in relation to ourselves and others. I incorporate this perspective in my work with clients and help to emphasize the power of choice, explore unmet needs and help to explore important areas for boundary setting.
(343) 307-4994 View (343) 307-4994
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New Horizons Counselling-Suzanne Kerr & Assocs
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, RP, CCC
Verified Verified
Ottawa, ON K2P  (Online Only)
Therapy is about becoming unstuck, connecting with a deeper sense of what's important to you, what really matters, what you really want deeply for yourself in your life. Letting go of stale, habitual, suffocating stories which restrict you. And opening to new, gentler, friendlier narratives of possibility. guiding purposeful action in support of what you passionately value and really want for yourself. ....NOTE I ask you to please email me first either to go ahead and set up an appointment with me or, if you prefer, to arrange a 10-15 min phone conversation
Therapy is about becoming unstuck, connecting with a deeper sense of what's important to you, what really matters, what you really want deeply for yourself in your life. Letting go of stale, habitual, suffocating stories which restrict you. And opening to new, gentler, friendlier narratives of possibility. guiding purposeful action in support of what you passionately value and really want for yourself. ....NOTE I ask you to please email me first either to go ahead and set up an appointment with me or, if you prefer, to arrange a 10-15 min phone conversation
(844) 332-2492 View (844) 332-2492
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Coretta Rego
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, CCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Ottawa, ON K2G  (Online Only)
Are you feeling stuck in life? Have you worked hard and done all the right things but life has not turned out the way you had expected? Perhaps the relationship that you invested your emotional energy in was unsuccessful? Or you find yourself in a career that while financially lucrative is burning you out. Maybe you look at your life and are disappointed at where you find yourself in this stage of life. If you are unhappy in your relationships, career or life direction, you are not alone. You do not have to stay in a place that makes you unhappy. Change is possible!
Are you feeling stuck in life? Have you worked hard and done all the right things but life has not turned out the way you had expected? Perhaps the relationship that you invested your emotional energy in was unsuccessful? Or you find yourself in a career that while financially lucrative is burning you out. Maybe you look at your life and are disappointed at where you find yourself in this stage of life. If you are unhappy in your relationships, career or life direction, you are not alone. You do not have to stay in a place that makes you unhappy. Change is possible!
(289) 207-7986 View (289) 207-7986
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Rose Robbins
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Ottawa, ON K1S  (Online Only)
Currently accepting new patients. I offer virtual psychotherapy services in English and French to adult residents of Ontario within the context of a warm, nonjudgmental therapeutic environment. I work with individuals presenting with anxiety, depression, insomnia, stress, panic attacks, and difficulties adjusting to chronic health issues. As a clinical health and rehabilitation psychologist, I also have a special interest in reproductive psychology, including issues related to fertility, as well psychological wellbeing during pregnancy and beyond.
Currently accepting new patients. I offer virtual psychotherapy services in English and French to adult residents of Ontario within the context of a warm, nonjudgmental therapeutic environment. I work with individuals presenting with anxiety, depression, insomnia, stress, panic attacks, and difficulties adjusting to chronic health issues. As a clinical health and rehabilitation psychologist, I also have a special interest in reproductive psychology, including issues related to fertility, as well psychological wellbeing during pregnancy and beyond.
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Dr. Jane Blouin
Psychologist, PhD, CPsych
Verified Verified
Ottawa, ON K2H
Are you finding it a challenge to find the right therapist match for you? I am the Clinical Director at the Ottawa Centre for Cognitive Therapy, with over 30 years of experience as a Clinical Psychologist. I will match you with one of the 14 therapists in our group who best fits your personality and therapeutic needs. If you do find the therapist who I choose for you is not the best fit, I will reassign you based on your feedback.
Are you finding it a challenge to find the right therapist match for you? I am the Clinical Director at the Ottawa Centre for Cognitive Therapy, with over 30 years of experience as a Clinical Psychologist. I will match you with one of the 14 therapists in our group who best fits your personality and therapeutic needs. If you do find the therapist who I choose for you is not the best fit, I will reassign you based on your feedback.
(613) 729-0801 View (613) 729-0801
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Reynaldo Valerio
Registered Psychotherapist, MFT, RP, CCC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Ottawa, ON K1V  (Online Only)
In my over 14 years of experience as a counsellor it has been my privilege to conduct over 10,000 sessions with clients, teens and adults, in English and Spanish. I work with individuals to develop better coping skills and find ways to grow from the inside out, and feel stronger. With couples in building or renovating the foundation of their relationship. With family members in gaining a better understanding of their dynamics, supporting one another and working through specific situations. I also offer group therapy as collaborative spaces for learning strategies, overcoming common challenges and work in achieving shared goals.
In my over 14 years of experience as a counsellor it has been my privilege to conduct over 10,000 sessions with clients, teens and adults, in English and Spanish. I work with individuals to develop better coping skills and find ways to grow from the inside out, and feel stronger. With couples in building or renovating the foundation of their relationship. With family members in gaining a better understanding of their dynamics, supporting one another and working through specific situations. I also offer group therapy as collaborative spaces for learning strategies, overcoming common challenges and work in achieving shared goals.
(343) 314-1408 View (343) 314-1408

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Infidelity Counsellors

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.