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Darren Parker
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
London, ON N6A  (Online Only)
I specialize in anxiety, depression, anger, and grief, but I’m more interested in the person than a diagnosis.
Growing up, I just assumed everybody didn’t like themselves. I thought there were people that were open about not liking themselves, and then the rest of us pretending to like ourselves. It was the work I did in therapy that helped me learn there was this wild third option of “actually liking and appreciating myself”. Now I have the joy of sharing that with people as they learn they don’t have to feel so angry, worried, afraid, sad, or guilty all of the time.
I specialize in anxiety, depression, anger, and grief, but I’m more interested in the person than a diagnosis.
Growing up, I just assumed everybody didn’t like themselves. I thought there were people that were open about not liking themselves, and then the rest of us pretending to like ourselves. It was the work I did in therapy that helped me learn there was this wild third option of “actually liking and appreciating myself”. Now I have the joy of sharing that with people as they learn they don’t have to feel so angry, worried, afraid, sad, or guilty all of the time.
(289) 271-1238 View (289) 271-1238
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Susan K Harrison
Registered Psychotherapist, MDiv, RP, CTMH
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London, ON N6A  (Online Only)
If you are experiencing grief, life transitions, trauma, relationship difficulties, anxiety, depression, loneliness and other types of emotional distress or seeking a safe place to explore your concerns around sexuality, gender or spirituality, I hope you will reach out. Together we can get to know the various parts of you that are struggling and find out what you need for self understanding, resilient coping, self compassion, curiosity, calm, access to your creativity and helping you move from survival to thriving.
If you are experiencing grief, life transitions, trauma, relationship difficulties, anxiety, depression, loneliness and other types of emotional distress or seeking a safe place to explore your concerns around sexuality, gender or spirituality, I hope you will reach out. Together we can get to know the various parts of you that are struggling and find out what you need for self understanding, resilient coping, self compassion, curiosity, calm, access to your creativity and helping you move from survival to thriving.
(548) 483-5654 View (548) 483-5654
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Chris Chmielewski
Registered Social Worker, MA, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
London, ON N6A
My background holds 40yr of extensive practice experience and continued learning. Expertise:all relationship concerns; recovery/healing from emotional hurts, losses, trauma. Such events, if in early years, can instill persistent insecurity, fears, loneliness and grief, causing troubled close relationships and inner-life: Restricting our core resilient nature where we keep strong potentials to be more open, creative, confident, realistic/effective persons. Mainly treat “self-regulation” problems: Social anxiety, shame/guilt, anger, depression; Overdependencies; Intimacy-sexuality, Communication; Identity-Personality issues;Selfcare.
My background holds 40yr of extensive practice experience and continued learning. Expertise:all relationship concerns; recovery/healing from emotional hurts, losses, trauma. Such events, if in early years, can instill persistent insecurity, fears, loneliness and grief, causing troubled close relationships and inner-life: Restricting our core resilient nature where we keep strong potentials to be more open, creative, confident, realistic/effective persons. Mainly treat “self-regulation” problems: Social anxiety, shame/guilt, anger, depression; Overdependencies; Intimacy-sexuality, Communication; Identity-Personality issues;Selfcare.
(226) 400-1834 View (226) 400-1834
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Peter Dikih Counselling Services
Registered Psychotherapist, HBSc, MEd, RP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London, ON N6A
My specialty is working with couples and families and helping individuals with issues such as addictions, anger, anxiety, depression, grief, self-esteem, stress, employment and career development.
I have provided psychotherapy, counselling and coaching since 1996. I have worked with a diverse population with many types of issues and challenges. My passion is helping individuals, couples and families to thrive; and helping leaders and organizations to excel. I provide a safe and confidential place where problems can be shared, solutions identified, barriers overcome, progress achieved and success celebrated. I primarily use client-centered, solution-focused and cognitive behavioural approaches.
My specialty is working with couples and families and helping individuals with issues such as addictions, anger, anxiety, depression, grief, self-esteem, stress, employment and career development.
I have provided psychotherapy, counselling and coaching since 1996. I have worked with a diverse population with many types of issues and challenges. My passion is helping individuals, couples and families to thrive; and helping leaders and organizations to excel. I provide a safe and confidential place where problems can be shared, solutions identified, barriers overcome, progress achieved and success celebrated. I primarily use client-centered, solution-focused and cognitive behavioural approaches.
(855) 297-8219 View (855) 297-8219
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Selena Buma - Be Still Counselling
Registered Social Worker, MSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London, ON N6A  (Online Only)
I also have extensive experience helping clients age 16+ with stress, anxiety, burnout, depression, trauma, chronic illness, grief, relationships, infertility, pregnancy/postpartum, body image, and perfectionism.
Hello, and welcome! We all know that life can be hard and bring many stressful, difficult, and painful situations. If you are feeling overwhelmed, sad, anxious, lost, alone, or unsure about your purpose and direction, I’m here to help. My counseling practice is founded on building relationships with clients, offering empathy and compassion, and providing a safe place for you to learn about yourself, heal, and grow. Together we can help you understand yourself and identify tools and strategies to help you support yourself through all the challenging circumstances life brings.
I also have extensive experience helping clients age 16+ with stress, anxiety, burnout, depression, trauma, chronic illness, grief, relationships, infertility, pregnancy/postpartum, body image, and perfectionism.
Hello, and welcome! We all know that life can be hard and bring many stressful, difficult, and painful situations. If you are feeling overwhelmed, sad, anxious, lost, alone, or unsure about your purpose and direction, I’m here to help. My counseling practice is founded on building relationships with clients, offering empathy and compassion, and providing a safe place for you to learn about yourself, heal, and grow. Together we can help you understand yourself and identify tools and strategies to help you support yourself through all the challenging circumstances life brings.
(226) 778-3624 View (226) 778-3624
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Emma Sutton
Registered Social Worker, BSW, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
London, ON N6A
Now accepting new clients! Clients are the experts on their own lives, my role being to walk with them in their therapy journey. I offer a non-judgemental, supportive, & affirming space where we can work together towards your goals or navigate difficult life transitions or events. I provide counselling to individuals looking for support with mental health concerns like anxiety and depression, grief and loss, relationship stress, as well as folks exploring gender identity or sexuality, or working on overall wellness. I have the credentials to provide trans folks with a referral letter for bottom surgeries.
Now accepting new clients! Clients are the experts on their own lives, my role being to walk with them in their therapy journey. I offer a non-judgemental, supportive, & affirming space where we can work together towards your goals or navigate difficult life transitions or events. I provide counselling to individuals looking for support with mental health concerns like anxiety and depression, grief and loss, relationship stress, as well as folks exploring gender identity or sexuality, or working on overall wellness. I have the credentials to provide trans folks with a referral letter for bottom surgeries.
(226) 286-4305 View (226) 286-4305
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David Grand
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW, PhD(c)
Verified Verified
London, ON N6A
If you are living with the impacts of trauma, relationship breakdown, or a crisis of identity, you’re not alone. I have over a decade of experience helping individuals and couples with interpersonal trauma, anxiety, depression, abuse recovery, discrimination, loss of meaning in life, and uncertainties of purpose or identity. My work is psychodynamic, somatically-focused, and supports the psychological growth of clients. I want to help you get to the roots of problems and develop greater self-awareness in the process. I believe that long-term wellness ultimately stems from developing insight into the various patterns of our lives.
If you are living with the impacts of trauma, relationship breakdown, or a crisis of identity, you’re not alone. I have over a decade of experience helping individuals and couples with interpersonal trauma, anxiety, depression, abuse recovery, discrimination, loss of meaning in life, and uncertainties of purpose or identity. My work is psychodynamic, somatically-focused, and supports the psychological growth of clients. I want to help you get to the roots of problems and develop greater self-awareness in the process. I believe that long-term wellness ultimately stems from developing insight into the various patterns of our lives.
(226) 640-5252 View (226) 640-5252
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Paul Rivest
Registered Social Worker, BSc, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
London, ON N6A
Finding a Therapist can sometimes feel daunting, even overwhelming. Trying to find the right fit when you only have a few lines and a picture to go by feels a bit like gambling. However, I am a big believer in listening to your instincts and that when you are open to healing, you will somehow be directed to where you need to be. Hello, my name is Paul and I have been a Registered Social Worker for over 24 years. My life purpose is to help others to find peace and healing with their emotional and mental well-being.
Finding a Therapist can sometimes feel daunting, even overwhelming. Trying to find the right fit when you only have a few lines and a picture to go by feels a bit like gambling. However, I am a big believer in listening to your instincts and that when you are open to healing, you will somehow be directed to where you need to be. Hello, my name is Paul and I have been a Registered Social Worker for over 24 years. My life purpose is to help others to find peace and healing with their emotional and mental well-being.
(226) 407-8534 View (226) 407-8534
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Megan Brooke Phillips
Registered Psychotherapist, RP, DAC, RSSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London, ON N6A
Struggling with Addiction? Living with Anxiety and/or Depression? The impacts are real and the compassionate and respectful support you need to recover and regain functionality is available now. Finding help for mental health challenges can be a challenge in it's own right. A strong therapist with a keen eye for details, I pride myself on my ability to mix education and therapy to ensure each client is empowered through their knowledge and an active participant in their healing. With an eclectic and dynamic approach to therapy, I will be with you every step of the way.
Struggling with Addiction? Living with Anxiety and/or Depression? The impacts are real and the compassionate and respectful support you need to recover and regain functionality is available now. Finding help for mental health challenges can be a challenge in it's own right. A strong therapist with a keen eye for details, I pride myself on my ability to mix education and therapy to ensure each client is empowered through their knowledge and an active participant in their healing. With an eclectic and dynamic approach to therapy, I will be with you every step of the way.
(226) 641-0689 View (226) 641-0689
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Strength Counselling Services
Counsellor, MEd, RCC, CCC, RSW, RP
Verified Verified
London, ON N6A  (Online Only)
We are an online counselling agency so do not provide services in person. Strength Counselling Services has licensed, experienced therapists who use evidence-based practices, prioritize client needs, and maintain ethical standards. We offer culturally sensitive, affordable services in a supportive environment. We offer a comprehensive goals assessment, regularly assess progress, and collaborate with other professionals. We provide transparency in our fees and for thirteen years now have held a positive reputation of trust, and client success. Lastly, ensuring our clients' privacy and confidentiality are of utmost importance to us.
We are an online counselling agency so do not provide services in person. Strength Counselling Services has licensed, experienced therapists who use evidence-based practices, prioritize client needs, and maintain ethical standards. We offer culturally sensitive, affordable services in a supportive environment. We offer a comprehensive goals assessment, regularly assess progress, and collaborate with other professionals. We provide transparency in our fees and for thirteen years now have held a positive reputation of trust, and client success. Lastly, ensuring our clients' privacy and confidentiality are of utmost importance to us.
(249) 202-2308 View (249) 202-2308
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Deb McLachlin
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London, ON N6A
In addressing your concerns, I listen carefully to what you want. Couple therapy is dynamic in considering both perspectives, & my focus is on attachment & Emotionally Focused Therapy. We work on the relationship, so that you as a couple can handle your issues at home, in positive and supportive ways. Sex therapy involves addressing intimate concerns with information, sensitivity and understanding.
In addressing your concerns, I listen carefully to what you want. Couple therapy is dynamic in considering both perspectives, & my focus is on attachment & Emotionally Focused Therapy. We work on the relationship, so that you as a couple can handle your issues at home, in positive and supportive ways. Sex therapy involves addressing intimate concerns with information, sensitivity and understanding.
(519) 871-8956 View (519) 871-8956
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Darryl DeRoches
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
London, ON N6A
I believe that our lives are best lived with a sense of purpose, and my purpose is to be of service to others. As such I work with people to help support them in identifying and addressing their challenges and assist them with being present in their lives. I am grateful to work with: First Responders addressing work, incurred trauma and personal issues related to their service. Persons who identify as part of the LGBTQ +, Kink and ENM communities in a culturally sensitive and sex positive environment. An important focus of my practice is working with men regarding their sexual health/functioning. Especially post cancer diagnosis.
I believe that our lives are best lived with a sense of purpose, and my purpose is to be of service to others. As such I work with people to help support them in identifying and addressing their challenges and assist them with being present in their lives. I am grateful to work with: First Responders addressing work, incurred trauma and personal issues related to their service. Persons who identify as part of the LGBTQ +, Kink and ENM communities in a culturally sensitive and sex positive environment. An important focus of my practice is working with men regarding their sexual health/functioning. Especially post cancer diagnosis.
(226) 780-8662 View (226) 780-8662
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Roxanne McFadzean
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London, ON N6A
You want and deserve to feel better. Starting counselling can seem difficult but I am here to understand you and your experiences and provide help and hope. I am easy to talk to, non-judgmental, and empathetic. I have over 15 years of counselling experience working with clients from diverse and varied lived experiences. I am here to help you find healing and understanding in difficult situations. Are you seeking to improve your mental health, adjusting to changes at home, work or school, or looking to address relationship difficulties? Together, we will work on strategies that allow you to build a happier and more satisfying life.
You want and deserve to feel better. Starting counselling can seem difficult but I am here to understand you and your experiences and provide help and hope. I am easy to talk to, non-judgmental, and empathetic. I have over 15 years of counselling experience working with clients from diverse and varied lived experiences. I am here to help you find healing and understanding in difficult situations. Are you seeking to improve your mental health, adjusting to changes at home, work or school, or looking to address relationship difficulties? Together, we will work on strategies that allow you to build a happier and more satisfying life.
(226) 407-6310 View (226) 407-6310
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Kristie Brassard
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London, ON N6A  (Online Only)
Hi, it’s nice to virtually meet you! I’m Kristie, a clinical director, a registered social worker, and a psychotherapist with over 17+ years of experience in the field. I work from a client-centered, trauma-informed, and anti-oppressive lens and do my best to greet my clients with authenticity, compassion, and from time-to-time a little humour. I support folks who are overwhelmed with emotions, feeling unsatisfied with various aspects of their lives, and with folks who are wanting to explore and navigate shifts in sexuality, gender and in their relationships. I help clients heal from the past and engage in personal growth.
Hi, it’s nice to virtually meet you! I’m Kristie, a clinical director, a registered social worker, and a psychotherapist with over 17+ years of experience in the field. I work from a client-centered, trauma-informed, and anti-oppressive lens and do my best to greet my clients with authenticity, compassion, and from time-to-time a little humour. I support folks who are overwhelmed with emotions, feeling unsatisfied with various aspects of their lives, and with folks who are wanting to explore and navigate shifts in sexuality, gender and in their relationships. I help clients heal from the past and engage in personal growth.
(844) 612-6505 View (844) 612-6505
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Madelyn Whittle
Registered Psychotherapist, BASc, MC, RP
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
London, ON N6A  (Online Only)
I believe therapy can be a safe and creative space for self-exploration and discovery! Whether you are experiencing relational or mental/physical health challenges, processing a recent diagnosis, or discovering your unique and preferred Self, I am here to support you in a compassionate and affirming way. As a queer, neuro-divergent woman (she/her), I believe in the value of shared humanity, inclusivity, empathy, and empowerment in the therapy space. I aim to create a welcoming, collaborative atmosphere where you can develop coping tools & move toward your goals with intention.
I believe therapy can be a safe and creative space for self-exploration and discovery! Whether you are experiencing relational or mental/physical health challenges, processing a recent diagnosis, or discovering your unique and preferred Self, I am here to support you in a compassionate and affirming way. As a queer, neuro-divergent woman (she/her), I believe in the value of shared humanity, inclusivity, empathy, and empowerment in the therapy space. I aim to create a welcoming, collaborative atmosphere where you can develop coping tools & move toward your goals with intention.
(226) 408-4517 View (226) 408-4517
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Krystal Kellington
Registered Social Worker, MA, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
London, ON N6A  (Online Only)
Feeling underwhelmed or stuck in your life? Burnt out and exhausted? Do you get a sense of disappointment, sadness, or confusion, or one of purpose, motivation, and contentment? Our careers, families, friends, partners, and our own interests, can help us feel connected and content. They can also wreck emotional havoc - exposing our unmet needs and wounds, keeping us stuck in patterns that keep the misery going. Had enough of stress, exhaustion, and dissatisfaction? With my assistance, you can regain your balance and peace of mind to live a productive, purposeful, and content life.
Feeling underwhelmed or stuck in your life? Burnt out and exhausted? Do you get a sense of disappointment, sadness, or confusion, or one of purpose, motivation, and contentment? Our careers, families, friends, partners, and our own interests, can help us feel connected and content. They can also wreck emotional havoc - exposing our unmet needs and wounds, keeping us stuck in patterns that keep the misery going. Had enough of stress, exhaustion, and dissatisfaction? With my assistance, you can regain your balance and peace of mind to live a productive, purposeful, and content life.
(226) 241-8376 View (226) 241-8376
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Rochelle Brandt @ Welcome2Wellness
Registered Psychotherapist, BCYC, TITC-TC, MACP, RP
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
London, ON N6A  (Online Only)
Seeing a therapist can be a nerve-racking experience. I applaud you for taking this first step towards healing. Have you been feeling off lately? Experiencing overwhelm at work, or in your relationships? Are you having challenges regulating your emotions or processing a difficult life transition? As a wife, mother, and fellow human, I understand the deep demands of our lives and the stress and challenges that can accompany it. Together, in a safe and judgement free space, we will work towards exploring your strengths and inner resources to develop the necessary skills and tools that it takes to meet and overcome personal concerns.
Seeing a therapist can be a nerve-racking experience. I applaud you for taking this first step towards healing. Have you been feeling off lately? Experiencing overwhelm at work, or in your relationships? Are you having challenges regulating your emotions or processing a difficult life transition? As a wife, mother, and fellow human, I understand the deep demands of our lives and the stress and challenges that can accompany it. Together, in a safe and judgement free space, we will work towards exploring your strengths and inner resources to develop the necessary skills and tools that it takes to meet and overcome personal concerns.
(647) 931-3608 View (647) 931-3608
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Molly Heffernan
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
London, ON N6A  (Online Only)
You deserve to feel better. I am a Registered Social Worker who is excited about and honoured to provide effective therapy services. In my practice, I see all kinds of humans, who show up struggling with all kinds of human issues. These often include anxiety, depression, sadness, shame, people pleasing, and relationship challenges. I have training in many modalities (ways of doing therapy, like CBT) and nearly twelve years experience working in our mental health system. Our work is informed by my experience, knowledge, and certifications, and is tailored to what you need to feel better as soon as possible.
You deserve to feel better. I am a Registered Social Worker who is excited about and honoured to provide effective therapy services. In my practice, I see all kinds of humans, who show up struggling with all kinds of human issues. These often include anxiety, depression, sadness, shame, people pleasing, and relationship challenges. I have training in many modalities (ways of doing therapy, like CBT) and nearly twelve years experience working in our mental health system. Our work is informed by my experience, knowledge, and certifications, and is tailored to what you need to feel better as soon as possible.
(226) 779-4493 View (226) 779-4493
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Brittani Ali
Registered Social Worker, BA, BSW, RSW, MSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
London, ON N6A
Now welcoming new clients (offering in person, virtual, evening/ weekends, pay what you can & sliding scale options). We prioritize a compassionate, judgment free space. We offer a client-centred, trauma-focused & attachment-based approach to supporting mental and relational health. We believe that we all come to therapy with complex experiences that often connect and impact us, therefore, our approach will always honour your story and how the parts of it weave together. Britt has gained experience supporting individuals & families over the last 10 years working in the social services field. Britt also provides some supervision.
Now welcoming new clients (offering in person, virtual, evening/ weekends, pay what you can & sliding scale options). We prioritize a compassionate, judgment free space. We offer a client-centred, trauma-focused & attachment-based approach to supporting mental and relational health. We believe that we all come to therapy with complex experiences that often connect and impact us, therefore, our approach will always honour your story and how the parts of it weave together. Britt has gained experience supporting individuals & families over the last 10 years working in the social services field. Britt also provides some supervision.
(226) 781-0988 View (226) 781-0988
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Richard Lyke, RP, RMFT
Registered Psychotherapist, RP, RMFT
Verified Verified
London, ON N6A  (Online Only)
Not accepting new clients
I help clients identify and work toward their specific goals to address a wide range of issues, including; anxiety, depression, addictions, life transitions, personal and work-related stress, relationship conflict and distress, separation, reconciliation, relationship building, and recovery from childhood and adult trauma. My approach is confidential, friendly and non-judgmental; facilitating happier, healthier, more engaged, relaxed and satisfying lives. I provide psychotherapy and counseling for people of all sexual orientations and cultural backgrounds, couples and families.
I help clients identify and work toward their specific goals to address a wide range of issues, including; anxiety, depression, addictions, life transitions, personal and work-related stress, relationship conflict and distress, separation, reconciliation, relationship building, and recovery from childhood and adult trauma. My approach is confidential, friendly and non-judgmental; facilitating happier, healthier, more engaged, relaxed and satisfying lives. I provide psychotherapy and counseling for people of all sexual orientations and cultural backgrounds, couples and families.
(226) 771-5302 View (226) 771-5302

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How long does therapy take for grief?

There is no exact timeline for grief counseling. Some people may start to feel better after just a few sessions, while others may take months or longer to feel relief. Some specific approaches, including some types of CBT, may involve a set number of sessions, or therapy may be open-ended until the patient determines they are ready to wrap up. Just as there is no right or wrong way to grieve, there is no right or wrong way to seek therapy for grief.

When should you seek therapy for grief?

Many people mistakenly believe that their grief needs to be debilitating or all-encompassing to warrant therapy. This is not the case. While people who experience severe, prolonged grief—particularly those who are considering self-harm or engaging in unhealthy substance use—are especially likely to benefit from therapy, so too are people whose grief is less intense but still interfering with well-being or daily functioning. In practice, almost anyone struggling to process a loss could benefit from grief counseling.

Can grief be managed without therapy?

Oftentimes, yes. Grief is a near-universal part of being human, and many find that their grief, while profound, does not stop them from participating in day-to-day life and steadily eases over time without outside help. For others, however, the harsh pain of early grief persists for months or years or leaves them unable to function. This group is especially likely to benefit from seeing a therapist, who can guide them through their grief and help them reconnect with the world.

What happens if grief is left untreated?

Because grief does not in itself necessitate therapy, untreated grief will often resolve on its own. However, for some people—particularly those who would qualify for a diagnosis of prolonged grief disorder—untreated grief can be a source of seemingly endless pain or lead them to withdraw from the world. In such cases, treatment can be indispensable, as it can help an individual adapt to the loss and start living again.