Gottman Method Therapists in T3K
Rovena Magidin
Counsellor, RTC, CCTP
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T3K
Your relationship is great but you struggle in the bedroom. You (or your partner) have no desire anymore. When you do try it, it’s awkward and unfulfilling. Maybe you experience pain, or feel disconnected. You don’t know how to talk about it, and when you try it turns into a fight or disappointment. You are good friends (and parents) but you feel more like roommates than lovers. You can't remember the last time sex was easy and fun. Or maybe it's the other way around, sex is great, but you can't stop fighting. Or maybe it's both. I'd love to help. I love working with couples who feel they are stuck. Let's get you unstuck.
Your relationship is great but you struggle in the bedroom. You (or your partner) have no desire anymore. When you do try it, it’s awkward and unfulfilling. Maybe you experience pain, or feel disconnected. You don’t know how to talk about it, and when you try it turns into a fight or disappointment. You are good friends (and parents) but you feel more like roommates than lovers. You can't remember the last time sex was easy and fun. Or maybe it's the other way around, sex is great, but you can't stop fighting. Or maybe it's both. I'd love to help. I love working with couples who feel they are stuck. Let's get you unstuck.
Vicki Park
Registered Provisional Psychologist, BEd/BPE, MA
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T3K
It takes a lot of courage to reach out for support in processing our experiences, thoughts, and emotions, and I am honored by the opportunity to walk through this journey with you, reflecting and guiding as appropriate. I believe in a collaborative and strength-based approach based on client's values and goals. Working primarily with adults and teens, I use a variety of modalities including Accelerated Resolution Therapy to address issues such as trauma, addiction, depression, anxiety, and stress management. Using Gottman approaches I also support couples in their journey in the growth, and often healing, of their relationship.
It takes a lot of courage to reach out for support in processing our experiences, thoughts, and emotions, and I am honored by the opportunity to walk through this journey with you, reflecting and guiding as appropriate. I believe in a collaborative and strength-based approach based on client's values and goals. Working primarily with adults and teens, I use a variety of modalities including Accelerated Resolution Therapy to address issues such as trauma, addiction, depression, anxiety, and stress management. Using Gottman approaches I also support couples in their journey in the growth, and often healing, of their relationship.
Matthew James Miller
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, RCSW, MSW
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T3K
I am accepting new clients. Services are available province-wide via Zoom video, in-person in Calgary, or by telephone. I specialize in relationships and communication skills within couples, and families with children/teens. Also PTSD/CPTSD, trauma, anxiety, depression, borderline personality (BPD), and OCD. I also work with Canadian Veterans, Canadian Armed Forces members, and First Responders. For those with financial challenges I offer interest-free payment plans. I am LGBTQ friendly, accepting, and an ally. I also have experience with ethical non-monogamy (ENM), poly/ open/ swinging relationship dynamics.
I am accepting new clients. Services are available province-wide via Zoom video, in-person in Calgary, or by telephone. I specialize in relationships and communication skills within couples, and families with children/teens. Also PTSD/CPTSD, trauma, anxiety, depression, borderline personality (BPD), and OCD. I also work with Canadian Veterans, Canadian Armed Forces members, and First Responders. For those with financial challenges I offer interest-free payment plans. I am LGBTQ friendly, accepting, and an ally. I also have experience with ethical non-monogamy (ENM), poly/ open/ swinging relationship dynamics.
Harjot Khakh
Psychologist, BSc, MA, RPsych
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T3K (Online Only)
I collaborate with clients as they learn and apply skills, challenge themselves, and help them achieve a more authentic way of being. I would be honoured to facilitate the process of your self discovery and healing. My values of integrity, empathy, and acceptance are mirrored in my work with clients. I believe prioritizing client preferences and exploring their experiences foster a safe and validating environment. My diversified personal and professional experiences have me well equipped to manage a range of clientele concerns. I cater my services to those with varying cultural backgrounds, age, sexual orientation, etc.
I collaborate with clients as they learn and apply skills, challenge themselves, and help them achieve a more authentic way of being. I would be honoured to facilitate the process of your self discovery and healing. My values of integrity, empathy, and acceptance are mirrored in my work with clients. I believe prioritizing client preferences and exploring their experiences foster a safe and validating environment. My diversified personal and professional experiences have me well equipped to manage a range of clientele concerns. I cater my services to those with varying cultural backgrounds, age, sexual orientation, etc.
Simply Counselling Services Inc.
Psychologist, BA, MC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T3K
Simply Counselling Services wants to support you. As you search for solutions in your life, we offer the right support to make it simple. Through a strong working relationship, you will feel empowered to discover the solutions in your life that you are seeking. With a strong background in working with adolescents, families and couples, Simply Counselling Services offers a safe environment to begin your simplified journey. You have made the decision to discover the solutions in your life, simplify it with us.
Simply Counselling Services wants to support you. As you search for solutions in your life, we offer the right support to make it simple. Through a strong working relationship, you will feel empowered to discover the solutions in your life that you are seeking. With a strong background in working with adolescents, families and couples, Simply Counselling Services offers a safe environment to begin your simplified journey. You have made the decision to discover the solutions in your life, simplify it with us.
Arin Clarke
Counsellor, BHSc, MCPAT, CCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T3K (Online Only)
Hey, I’m Arin! I am a Canadian Certified Counsellor with a dual Master’s Degree in Counselling Psychology and Art Therapy. This means I am trained to work with traditional talk therapy in combination with creative arts-based interventions. My approach is casual and authentic, and I find deep meaning in the work I do with my clients. I mostly work with somatic, arts-based and feminist philosophies in order to help you integrate and rediscover personal strength in the face of adversity.
Hey, I’m Arin! I am a Canadian Certified Counsellor with a dual Master’s Degree in Counselling Psychology and Art Therapy. This means I am trained to work with traditional talk therapy in combination with creative arts-based interventions. My approach is casual and authentic, and I find deep meaning in the work I do with my clients. I mostly work with somatic, arts-based and feminist philosophies in order to help you integrate and rediscover personal strength in the face of adversity.
Amanda Hoang
Psychologist, MC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T3K
Life is not without its challenges. Especially during a pandemic, day-to-day life can be even more overwhelming. The good news is that I am here to help. Whether you are experiencing low mood, anxiety, relationship problems, or trauma, my goal is to assist you in working towards the future you desire. I believe all individuals have the capacity to grow from their current circumstances. My priority is ensuring that my clients feel safe, valued, and heard, while also providing exceptional clinical support. I strive to create an atmosphere that is welcoming for all individuals from diverse backgrounds, and I am LGBTQ+ affirming.
Life is not without its challenges. Especially during a pandemic, day-to-day life can be even more overwhelming. The good news is that I am here to help. Whether you are experiencing low mood, anxiety, relationship problems, or trauma, my goal is to assist you in working towards the future you desire. I believe all individuals have the capacity to grow from their current circumstances. My priority is ensuring that my clients feel safe, valued, and heard, while also providing exceptional clinical support. I strive to create an atmosphere that is welcoming for all individuals from diverse backgrounds, and I am LGBTQ+ affirming.
Shelley Skelton Psychological Service Inc.
Psychologist, R, Psych
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T3K
The resiliency of individuals who have experienced trauma in their childhood humbles me. When speaking with clients with childhood trauma, clients often say that this is the first time that they are talking about their traumatic experience. The reason that they are choosing to address the trauma now is because it continues to get in the way and they want to create change in order to move forward with family, relationships, work, or quality of life. I can help process the trauma so that moving forward is possible.
The resiliency of individuals who have experienced trauma in their childhood humbles me. When speaking with clients with childhood trauma, clients often say that this is the first time that they are talking about their traumatic experience. The reason that they are choosing to address the trauma now is because it continues to get in the way and they want to create change in order to move forward with family, relationships, work, or quality of life. I can help process the trauma so that moving forward is possible.
Melody Lien
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T3K
Noticing behavioural changes in your child? Are you observing anxiousness, sadness, anger, negativity, or stress? Are you currently having difficulty connecting with your child?
Noticing behavioural changes in your child? Are you observing anxiousness, sadness, anger, negativity, or stress? Are you currently having difficulty connecting with your child?
Counselling for the Health of It
Marriage & Family Therapist, EFTCP, CICP, RPC, MPCC
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T3K
Are you overwhelmed, anxious, depressed? Hidden core beliefs keeping you stuck? I have developed an innovative & effective treatment, Anxiety Re-patterning Therapy (ART) along with my Bestseller workbook, 'Anxiety Therapy at Home: Dancing with Your Shadow. My comprehensive approach, with both the conscious and the subconscious, has changed my clients' lives. I began formal training in 1994. I am passionate about what I do. My counselling approach uses the breadth and depth of my education, training and life experience. Let me help you find clarity and embrace inspired change along with sustainable choices. Because you're worth it:-)
Are you overwhelmed, anxious, depressed? Hidden core beliefs keeping you stuck? I have developed an innovative & effective treatment, Anxiety Re-patterning Therapy (ART) along with my Bestseller workbook, 'Anxiety Therapy at Home: Dancing with Your Shadow. My comprehensive approach, with both the conscious and the subconscious, has changed my clients' lives. I began formal training in 1994. I am passionate about what I do. My counselling approach uses the breadth and depth of my education, training and life experience. Let me help you find clarity and embrace inspired change along with sustainable choices. Because you're worth it:-)
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Gottman Method Counsellors
How does the Gottman method work?
One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.
Is the Gottman method evidence-based?
Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analysed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.
How long does the Gottman method take?
The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.
Is the Gottman method effective?
Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomised controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.