Therapists in Etobicoke, ON
Julia Kundakci
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Etobicoke, ON M8X
If you're feeling stuck and looking for a safe space to gain clarity, explore and/or resolve some of the challenges you're facing, I am invested in co-creating relationships in therapy that value compassion, honesty, curiosity and respect. I bring a warm and gentle presence and listen deeply to what you bring. I have worked as a therapist for over 15 years helping clients address a wide range of issues including relationship difficulties, stress, anxiety, depression, early trauma and loss.
If you're feeling stuck and looking for a safe space to gain clarity, explore and/or resolve some of the challenges you're facing, I am invested in co-creating relationships in therapy that value compassion, honesty, curiosity and respect. I bring a warm and gentle presence and listen deeply to what you bring. I have worked as a therapist for over 15 years helping clients address a wide range of issues including relationship difficulties, stress, anxiety, depression, early trauma and loss.
LifeCycle Counselling
Registered Psychotherapist
Verified Verified
Etobicoke, ON M8X
Accepting New Clients - No Waitlist! When you feel stuck, we can help. At LifeCycle Counselling we recognize how difficult it is to take the first step towards therapy, speak about your difficulties and explore uncomfortable emotions. We are a BIPOC clinic in the GTA that is culturally sensitive. We use client-centered approaches as it is LifeCycles top priority to empower you for you! We understand that everyone has their own battles. We are a team of psychotherapists, who specialize in various areas and offer treatment using evidence-based approaches. You can read each of the therapist’s bio on our website lifecyclecounselling.ca
Accepting New Clients - No Waitlist! When you feel stuck, we can help. At LifeCycle Counselling we recognize how difficult it is to take the first step towards therapy, speak about your difficulties and explore uncomfortable emotions. We are a BIPOC clinic in the GTA that is culturally sensitive. We use client-centered approaches as it is LifeCycles top priority to empower you for you! We understand that everyone has their own battles. We are a team of psychotherapists, who specialize in various areas and offer treatment using evidence-based approaches. You can read each of the therapist’s bio on our website lifecyclecounselling.ca
Hazim Al-Faouri
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), CCC, MA, HBA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Etobicoke, ON M9W (Online Only)
Accepting NEW Clients - Ready to conquer stress, anxiety, or sadness and reclaim "feeling like yourself"? Overwhelmed by life's pressures, past traumas, or relationship challenges? Eager to grasp how your thoughts and feelings today connect to your overall sense of self? Seeking a therapist who gets your values and background, connecting you to your past, present, and future experiences? Let's team up to explore your struggles or dive into understanding yourself better. I'm here for both individuals and couples, guiding you through past, present, and future explorations.
Accepting NEW Clients - Ready to conquer stress, anxiety, or sadness and reclaim "feeling like yourself"? Overwhelmed by life's pressures, past traumas, or relationship challenges? Eager to grasp how your thoughts and feelings today connect to your overall sense of self? Seeking a therapist who gets your values and background, connecting you to your past, present, and future experiences? Let's team up to explore your struggles or dive into understanding yourself better. I'm here for both individuals and couples, guiding you through past, present, and future explorations.
Soulscape Services: Psychotherapy & Wellness Hub
Registered Psychotherapist, BAHon, MA, RP
Verified Verified
Etobicoke, ON M8W
Life is nothing short of amazing. It's amazing how much we can go through and live to tell about it. It's amazing how fast kids grow up and time flies, how angry a co-worker can make you, how much compassion we can seem to have for others when we struggle to offer any to ourselves. It's amazing how much we put on our plates when all we need is to rest. It's amazing how much we can long for understanding and connection and how much opportunity can be missed right in front of our eyes. It's amazing how short life is. It's also amazing how much we can learn in the time we have, and how little steps can amount to such massive change.
Life is nothing short of amazing. It's amazing how much we can go through and live to tell about it. It's amazing how fast kids grow up and time flies, how angry a co-worker can make you, how much compassion we can seem to have for others when we struggle to offer any to ourselves. It's amazing how much we put on our plates when all we need is to rest. It's amazing how much we can long for understanding and connection and how much opportunity can be missed right in front of our eyes. It's amazing how short life is. It's also amazing how much we can learn in the time we have, and how little steps can amount to such massive change.
Angela Kojok
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), RP
Verified Verified
Etobicoke, ON M8V (Online Only)
Do you have negative thoughts about your body image and have restricted your food intake to lose weight? Are you an emotional eater and find yourself binging on comfort foods? Are you someone who has witnessed your loved one struggle with the complexities of an eating disorder? I'm Angela, I work with individuals and their families, of those who struggle with problematic eating or an eating disorder, to feel better. I am able to provide skill building workshops, individual and family therapy, as well as group therapy.
Do you have negative thoughts about your body image and have restricted your food intake to lose weight? Are you an emotional eater and find yourself binging on comfort foods? Are you someone who has witnessed your loved one struggle with the complexities of an eating disorder? I'm Angela, I work with individuals and their families, of those who struggle with problematic eating or an eating disorder, to feel better. I am able to provide skill building workshops, individual and family therapy, as well as group therapy.
Justin the Therapist
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, MSc, RP, RMFT
Verified Verified
14 Endorsed
Etobicoke, ON M9C
***STILL OPEN FOR IN-PERSON GUELPH/MISSISSAUGA*** I believe that there is good in every person, and hope in every situation. I have helped hundreds of individuals, couples, and families heal, grow, and connect. As a relational therapist, I appreciate the impact that our relationships have on our well-being. I do not see clients as having something wrong with their minds that necessarily needs to be fixed. Rather, I see my clients as unique individuals, each with their own stories and perspectives, embedded in important relationships and contexts that impact them. I see strengths and I see hope, even when it feels like there is none.
***STILL OPEN FOR IN-PERSON GUELPH/MISSISSAUGA*** I believe that there is good in every person, and hope in every situation. I have helped hundreds of individuals, couples, and families heal, grow, and connect. As a relational therapist, I appreciate the impact that our relationships have on our well-being. I do not see clients as having something wrong with their minds that necessarily needs to be fixed. Rather, I see my clients as unique individuals, each with their own stories and perspectives, embedded in important relationships and contexts that impact them. I see strengths and I see hope, even when it feels like there is none.
Hala Abdul
Registered Psychotherapist, MCP, RP, RCC
Verified Verified
Etobicoke, ON M8Y (Online Only)
In my therapeutic work, I'm a straight shooter and believe in the power of candid conversations. Whether you’re struggling with stress and burnout, relationship issues, or communication and boundaries, you're not alone. You might have a vision in your life, but not sure what the next steps are or you might be looking at your life and not liking what you see. My role is to work with you to explore what's getting in your way while also paving the path ahead to move forward. Together, we work towards identifying any patterns that you get stuck in to create ways to manage stress, build confidence, and cultivate healthier relationships.
In my therapeutic work, I'm a straight shooter and believe in the power of candid conversations. Whether you’re struggling with stress and burnout, relationship issues, or communication and boundaries, you're not alone. You might have a vision in your life, but not sure what the next steps are or you might be looking at your life and not liking what you see. My role is to work with you to explore what's getting in your way while also paving the path ahead to move forward. Together, we work towards identifying any patterns that you get stuck in to create ways to manage stress, build confidence, and cultivate healthier relationships.
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Hanan Hanna
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, RP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Mississauga, ON L5C (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
هل تشعر بالاكتئاب وتشعر بأنك وحدك؟ هل تشعر أحيانًا بالتوتر واليأس؟ هل انت حزين طوال الوقت؟ هل تشعر بالقلق في مواقف اجتماعية جديدة؟ في بعض الأحيان يحتاج الشخص إلى يد المساعدة. أستطيع أن أراك أنت أو طفلك أو أنت وشريكك في الحياة. سواء كانت مشكلة شخصية أو علاقة تحتاج إلى اهتمام ، سواء كان القلق أو الاكتئاب هو الذي يزعجك ، فأنا أؤمن بقدرتك على إحداث تغيير في حياتك. إنه علاج فردي يدرك ثقافتك ، وهو العلاج الذي سيساعدك على تحقيق أهدافك
هل تشعر بالاكتئاب وتشعر بأنك وحدك؟ هل تشعر أحيانًا بالتوتر واليأس؟ هل انت حزين طوال الوقت؟ هل تشعر بالقلق في مواقف اجتماعية جديدة؟ في بعض الأحيان يحتاج الشخص إلى يد المساعدة. أستطيع أن أراك أنت أو طفلك أو أنت وشريكك في الحياة. سواء كانت مشكلة شخصية أو علاقة تحتاج إلى اهتمام ، سواء كان القلق أو الاكتئاب هو الذي يزعجك ، فأنا أؤمن بقدرتك على إحداث تغيير في حياتك. إنه علاج فردي يدرك ثقافتك ، وهو العلاج الذي سيساعدك على تحقيق أهدافك
The Counselling Group
Psychologist, MSW RSW, PhD, CCC, RP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Toronto, ON M6C
الأخصائيون في فريق عملنا، والذين يحملون شهادات الماجستير والدكتوراه، يتمتعون بالخبرة في مجال الصحة النفسية، ويقدمون خدمات التقييم النفسي و الاستشارة النفسية و الدعم و الإرشاد للأطفال و المراهقين، و المتزوجين و الأفراد، و العائلات و المجموعات، تهدف لدعم التغيير و النمو الإيجابي في حياتك. اثناء المشورة المجانية على الهاتف، سنقوم بمطابقتك مع أحد مستشارينا الأربعين، بناءً على احتياجاتك والوقت المناسب لك. نقدم خدماتنا باللغات الإنجليزية والفرنسية والاسبانية و العربية، و عدد من اللغات الأخرى.
الأخصائيون في فريق عملنا، والذين يحملون شهادات الماجستير والدكتوراه، يتمتعون بالخبرة في مجال الصحة النفسية، ويقدمون خدمات التقييم النفسي و الاستشارة النفسية و الدعم و الإرشاد للأطفال و المراهقين، و المتزوجين و الأفراد، و العائلات و المجموعات، تهدف لدعم التغيير و النمو الإيجابي في حياتك. اثناء المشورة المجانية على الهاتف، سنقوم بمطابقتك مع أحد مستشارينا الأربعين، بناءً على احتياجاتك والوقت المناسب لك. نقدم خدماتنا باللغات الإنجليزية والفرنسية والاسبانية و العربية، و عدد من اللغات الأخرى.
Nokha Dakroub
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Mississauga, ON L4Z
I am a Registered Social Worker, Psychotherapist and Family Mediator with over 10 years of combined experience in hospitals, primary care and community settings. I practice from a trauma informed eclectic approach employing tools from multiple modalities including CBT, DBT and EFT.
I am a Registered Social Worker, Psychotherapist and Family Mediator with over 10 years of combined experience in hospitals, primary care and community settings. I practice from a trauma informed eclectic approach employing tools from multiple modalities including CBT, DBT and EFT.
Samer Lazkani
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), MEd, HBSc
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Toronto, ON M4Y
I combine deep care and empathy while drawing from different clinical orientations that include Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), Narrative Therapy, and Psychodynamic Therapy.
I completed an Honours Bachelor of Science in Psychology from University of Toronto Scarborough in 2017 and a Master of Education in Counselling and Psychotherapy at the Ontario Institute for Studies in Education (OISE) in 2023. I am a Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying) with the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario (CRPO). I volunteered in several organization that supported various populations including Toronto Distress Centres and YMCA’s Newcomer Information Centre. I also worked at the HIV Prevention Lab supporting sexual health of gay and bisexual men and other men who have sex with men.
I combine deep care and empathy while drawing from different clinical orientations that include Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), Narrative Therapy, and Psychodynamic Therapy.
I completed an Honours Bachelor of Science in Psychology from University of Toronto Scarborough in 2017 and a Master of Education in Counselling and Psychotherapy at the Ontario Institute for Studies in Education (OISE) in 2023. I am a Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying) with the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario (CRPO). I volunteered in several organization that supported various populations including Toronto Distress Centres and YMCA’s Newcomer Information Centre. I also worked at the HIV Prevention Lab supporting sexual health of gay and bisexual men and other men who have sex with men.
The Therapy Centre
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Toronto, ON M4S
The Therapy Centre is a full service psychology practice. We offer services to children, teens, adults, couples, and families. We offer psychological and neuropsychological assessment and treatment services for a wide variety of issues listed below. All of our clinicians are well trained in empirically validated treatment models, including: Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT), Relational Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) and EMDR. Each of our clinicians has an area of expertise and tailors treatment to target therapeutic goals.
The Therapy Centre is a full service psychology practice. We offer services to children, teens, adults, couples, and families. We offer psychological and neuropsychological assessment and treatment services for a wide variety of issues listed below. All of our clinicians are well trained in empirically validated treatment models, including: Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT), Relational Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) and EMDR. Each of our clinicians has an area of expertise and tailors treatment to target therapeutic goals.
Tala Barrage
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, RP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Mississauga, ON L4X
As a psychotherapist and registered yoga teacher (RYT200), I use a variety of mindfulness-based approaches and somatic techniques in my sessions along with elements from CBT, DBT, IFS, EFT, and somatic experiencing.
Welcome! I commend you for taking the incredibly courageous and inspiring decision to seek support despite feeling overwhelmed and intimidated! I aim to cultivate a culturally sensitive safe space in which you can explore and better understand yourself, as well as address challenges you may be facing such as anxiety, depression, anger, trauma, grief, relationship difficulties, and low self-esteem. In using a holistic and client-centered approach, I work collaboratively with you as a unique individual with your own unique needs wanting to live a more purposeful, connected, and fulfilling life.
As a psychotherapist and registered yoga teacher (RYT200), I use a variety of mindfulness-based approaches and somatic techniques in my sessions along with elements from CBT, DBT, IFS, EFT, and somatic experiencing.
Welcome! I commend you for taking the incredibly courageous and inspiring decision to seek support despite feeling overwhelmed and intimidated! I aim to cultivate a culturally sensitive safe space in which you can explore and better understand yourself, as well as address challenges you may be facing such as anxiety, depression, anger, trauma, grief, relationship difficulties, and low self-esteem. In using a holistic and client-centered approach, I work collaboratively with you as a unique individual with your own unique needs wanting to live a more purposeful, connected, and fulfilling life.
Aseel Al-Saheb
Registered Psychotherapist, CCC, MA
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Mississauga, ON L5B (Online Only)
I utilize techniques from various evidence-based therapies, CBT, DBT, EFT, IFS, Person-Centred, Attachment-Based Therapy, Psychodynamic, CPT, and Gottman Method.
I am a Registered Psychotherapist and Canadian Certified Counsellor. I believe each person has their own distinct life experiences and qualities that call for a tailored approach to meet their individual needs. Each obstacle presents a chance for personal growth, and with guidance, you can develop greater self-awareness. With that, we work collaboratively to explore the Past and the Present to Unravel themes and patterns within your life that could operate as obstacles to help you reach your goals.
I utilize techniques from various evidence-based therapies, CBT, DBT, EFT, IFS, Person-Centred, Attachment-Based Therapy, Psychodynamic, CPT, and Gottman Method.
I am a Registered Psychotherapist and Canadian Certified Counsellor. I believe each person has their own distinct life experiences and qualities that call for a tailored approach to meet their individual needs. Each obstacle presents a chance for personal growth, and with guidance, you can develop greater self-awareness. With that, we work collaboratively to explore the Past and the Present to Unravel themes and patterns within your life that could operate as obstacles to help you reach your goals.
Home of Wellness
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), MA
Verified Verified
Toronto, ON M5C (Online Only)
I have assisted individuals from diverse backgrounds, faiths, and cultures, and I would look forward to offering you a variety of modalities, such as CBT/DBT, mindfulness, solution focused, psychodynamic, and EFT.
Are you struggling with past traumas, depression, anxiety, and/or low self-esteem? At times life’s stressors and struggles can get in the way of us feeling joy. My goal as a psychotherapist is to walk by your side as you explore issues that may be holding you back from feeling your best. As your therapist, I will provide a safe space for you to explore who you are and who you want to be. I believe we must care as much for our soul as we do our body. As your therapist, I will provide a safe space for you to explore who you are and who you want to be. I believe we must care as much for our soul as we do our body.
I have assisted individuals from diverse backgrounds, faiths, and cultures, and I would look forward to offering you a variety of modalities, such as CBT/DBT, mindfulness, solution focused, psychodynamic, and EFT.
Are you struggling with past traumas, depression, anxiety, and/or low self-esteem? At times life’s stressors and struggles can get in the way of us feeling joy. My goal as a psychotherapist is to walk by your side as you explore issues that may be holding you back from feeling your best. As your therapist, I will provide a safe space for you to explore who you are and who you want to be. I believe we must care as much for our soul as we do our body. As your therapist, I will provide a safe space for you to explore who you are and who you want to be. I believe we must care as much for our soul as we do our body.
Ghada Hassan
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Mississauga, ON L5B (Online Only)
I use trauma based approaches that is emotionally focused to help you heal and make the changes you want.
Have you been dealing with big changes in your life, trauma that are causing stress, anxiety, sadness, or feeling overwhelmed? I'm here to empower you by working together to overcome these challenges and teach you new ways of thinking to make positive changes in your life. My safe, non-judgmental space is here to support you on your journey towards healing and a better quality of life. As an immigrant Muslim woman who has lived in multiple multicultural countries, and my unique background as a doctor greatly impact how I can support you. I am available also in Arabic Language.
I use trauma based approaches that is emotionally focused to help you heal and make the changes you want.
Have you been dealing with big changes in your life, trauma that are causing stress, anxiety, sadness, or feeling overwhelmed? I'm here to empower you by working together to overcome these challenges and teach you new ways of thinking to make positive changes in your life. My safe, non-judgmental space is here to support you on your journey towards healing and a better quality of life. As an immigrant Muslim woman who has lived in multiple multicultural countries, and my unique background as a doctor greatly impact how I can support you. I am available also in Arabic Language.
The Therapy Centre
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Toronto, ON M4S
The Therapy Centre is a full service psychology practice. We offer services to children, teens, adults, couples, and families. We offer psychological and neuropsychological assessment and treatment services for a wide variety of issues listed below. All of our clinicians are well trained in empirically validated treatment models, including: Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT), Relational Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) and EMDR. Each of our clinicians has an area of expertise and tailors treatment to target therapeutic goals.
The Therapy Centre is a full service psychology practice. We offer services to children, teens, adults, couples, and families. We offer psychological and neuropsychological assessment and treatment services for a wide variety of issues listed below. All of our clinicians are well trained in empirically validated treatment models, including: Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT), Relational Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) and EMDR. Each of our clinicians has an area of expertise and tailors treatment to target therapeutic goals.
4D Health Services
Registered Psychotherapist, MD, MSc, RP
Verified Verified
Mississauga, ON L4W
Our work incorporates a variety of approaches including: Solution Focused Therapy (SFT) Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness-based Cognitive Therapy.
If you are looking for help to cope with stress, anxiety, depression, PTSD, personality disorders, phobias, anger management or behavioural issues, we provide professional assistance whether it's personal growth, low self-esteem, or relationship issues we support you through our coaching services and accompany you throughout the process. You can approach us from any part of the world through online services. We speak you're native tongue English, Urdu, Hindi, Punjabi, Arabic and many more. It assists us to understand you and lessens the communication gap, hence being able to meet your expectations.
Our work incorporates a variety of approaches including: Solution Focused Therapy (SFT) Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness-based Cognitive Therapy.
If you are looking for help to cope with stress, anxiety, depression, PTSD, personality disorders, phobias, anger management or behavioural issues, we provide professional assistance whether it's personal growth, low self-esteem, or relationship issues we support you through our coaching services and accompany you throughout the process. You can approach us from any part of the world through online services. We speak you're native tongue English, Urdu, Hindi, Punjabi, Arabic and many more. It assists us to understand you and lessens the communication gap, hence being able to meet your expectations.
Jennifer Boldt
Registered Psychotherapist, BAPsyc, MDiv, MTS, RP
Verified Verified
Mississauga, ON L4T (Online Only)
Drawing on my training in Narrative Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Trauma-informed Therapy I seek to offer a direct and compassionate, client-centered approach to help you achieve your therapeutic goals.
You don't need to deal with depression, anxiety, grief, mental illness, addiction or relational and family issues alone. I am here as a safe presence to help you navigate through your thoughts, feelings, circumstances and relationships. You can connect and book a session immediately on : Boldtpsychotherapy.com email :jennifer@boldtpsychotherapy.com or call or text at 289-324-0789.
Drawing on my training in Narrative Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Trauma-informed Therapy I seek to offer a direct and compassionate, client-centered approach to help you achieve your therapeutic goals.
You don't need to deal with depression, anxiety, grief, mental illness, addiction or relational and family issues alone. I am here as a safe presence to help you navigate through your thoughts, feelings, circumstances and relationships. You can connect and book a session immediately on : Boldtpsychotherapy.com email :jennifer@boldtpsychotherapy.com or call or text at 289-324-0789.
Building Bridges Psychotherapy
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, MSc, RP
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Mississauga, ON L4Z
***ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS: IN-PERSON & PHONE/VIDEO*** We believe that there is good in every person, and hope in every situation. We have helped individuals, couples, and families heal, grow, and connect. As relational therapists, we appreciate the impact that our relationships have on our well-being. We do not see clients as having something wrong with their minds that necessarily needs to be fixed. Rather, we see our clients as unique individuals, each with their own stories and perspectives, embedded in important relationships and contexts that impact them. We see strengths and we see hope, even when it feels like there is none.
***ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS: IN-PERSON & PHONE/VIDEO*** We believe that there is good in every person, and hope in every situation. We have helped individuals, couples, and families heal, grow, and connect. As relational therapists, we appreciate the impact that our relationships have on our well-being. We do not see clients as having something wrong with their minds that necessarily needs to be fixed. Rather, we see our clients as unique individuals, each with their own stories and perspectives, embedded in important relationships and contexts that impact them. We see strengths and we see hope, even when it feels like there is none.
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Who is emotionally focused therapy for?
Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.
Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?
People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.
What happens in emotionally focused therapy?
Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.
What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?
EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.