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Rocheny Alexandre, MSW,RSW Social Worker, Psychoth
Registered Social Worker, MSW, BSW, RSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Etobicoke, ON M8Z  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
In my practice, I use several therapeutic approaches, including cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), dialectical behavioural therapy (DBT), solution-focused therapy, emotional focus therapy (EFT), and more.
As a mental health therapist, I help people experiencing distress enhance their sense of personal wellbeing and overall happiness. Over the years I have worked with adults, youth and families experiencing struggles with anxiety, depression, suicidal ideations, stress, relationship conflict, divorce and unresolved family issues.
In my practice, I use several therapeutic approaches, including cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), dialectical behavioural therapy (DBT), solution-focused therapy, emotional focus therapy (EFT), and more.
As a mental health therapist, I help people experiencing distress enhance their sense of personal wellbeing and overall happiness. Over the years I have worked with adults, youth and families experiencing struggles with anxiety, depression, suicidal ideations, stress, relationship conflict, divorce and unresolved family issues.
(289) 272-7331 View (289) 272-7331
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Ganga Daryanani
Registered Social Worker, RSW
Verified Verified
Etobicoke, ON M8X  (Online Only)
Using Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples and Individuals I create an environment where you can feel safe to express your vulnerable feelings.
Has the relaxation of Covid restrictions got you feeling confused, lacking in social skills and identity challenges? The integration back into a normal lifestyle can lead to a feeling of hopelessness, lack of direction and frustration. The goal in therapy is to help my clients improve their emotional wellness, build healthier relationships, find different meaning and purpose in life and develop inner strength. The benefits are: greater emotional resilience, decrease in negative emotions, more stable moods, and a deeper sense of one's self and others. Looking for a change in your current situation? Call me 416.769.6810
Using Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples and Individuals I create an environment where you can feel safe to express your vulnerable feelings.
Has the relaxation of Covid restrictions got you feeling confused, lacking in social skills and identity challenges? The integration back into a normal lifestyle can lead to a feeling of hopelessness, lack of direction and frustration. The goal in therapy is to help my clients improve their emotional wellness, build healthier relationships, find different meaning and purpose in life and develop inner strength. The benefits are: greater emotional resilience, decrease in negative emotions, more stable moods, and a deeper sense of one's self and others. Looking for a change in your current situation? Call me 416.769.6810
(365) 800-6191 View (365) 800-6191
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Morgan Jacqueline
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), RP, Q, MACP, OAMH
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Etobicoke, ON M8X  (Online Only)
You look around the crowded room full of friends, family, colleagues or strangers and think to yourself… How do they make it look so easy? Why can't I find that happiness within myself and surrounded by others? I know I have; it is part of the human experience to feel uncertain or lost at some point in our lives. Whether that be trauma from childhood or the present day, anxiety, depression, a breakup, marital stress or grief - I commend you for making it here onto my profile and courageously taking that first step.
You look around the crowded room full of friends, family, colleagues or strangers and think to yourself… How do they make it look so easy? Why can't I find that happiness within myself and surrounded by others? I know I have; it is part of the human experience to feel uncertain or lost at some point in our lives. Whether that be trauma from childhood or the present day, anxiety, depression, a breakup, marital stress or grief - I commend you for making it here onto my profile and courageously taking that first step.
(289) 210-1199 View (289) 210-1199
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Alan Choi
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Etobicoke, ON M8X
NIHB funding approved. Now accepting remote and in-person clients in Toronto at Islington and Bloor! Also offering in-home sessions and canine assisted counselling. I believe in building on the strengths my clients bring to me by improving their lives and removing barriers such as anxiety, depression and emotional conflict. I have family members who have experienced Schizophrenia, Tardive Dyskinesia, Depression and Anxiety. My clients have areas to improve upon and they are seeking better connections with friends, loved ones and family. I believe in personal growth and lifelong learning. Clinical supervision available as well.
NIHB funding approved. Now accepting remote and in-person clients in Toronto at Islington and Bloor! Also offering in-home sessions and canine assisted counselling. I believe in building on the strengths my clients bring to me by improving their lives and removing barriers such as anxiety, depression and emotional conflict. I have family members who have experienced Schizophrenia, Tardive Dyskinesia, Depression and Anxiety. My clients have areas to improve upon and they are seeking better connections with friends, loved ones and family. I believe in personal growth and lifelong learning. Clinical supervision available as well.
(289) 512-5100 View (289) 512-5100
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Anumeet Bhandal
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Etobicoke, ON M8X  (Online Only)
Are you struggling with overwhelming feelings of anxiety or fear? Do you feel lost or disconnected from your true self? If so, know that you are not alone. I understand how challenging it can be to navigate life's ups and downs, and I am here to help you on your journey toward healing and self-love. Having personally experienced the chaos of my mind being on overdrive, I have learned to quiet my mind and now I am passionate about helping others find their way back to a place of inner peace and happiness. I offer a safe and judgment-free space. Where you'll learn to fall in love with yourself and start living your best life.
Are you struggling with overwhelming feelings of anxiety or fear? Do you feel lost or disconnected from your true self? If so, know that you are not alone. I understand how challenging it can be to navigate life's ups and downs, and I am here to help you on your journey toward healing and self-love. Having personally experienced the chaos of my mind being on overdrive, I have learned to quiet my mind and now I am passionate about helping others find their way back to a place of inner peace and happiness. I offer a safe and judgment-free space. Where you'll learn to fall in love with yourself and start living your best life.
(289) 278-9791 View (289) 278-9791
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Hande Dumanogullari
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), RP(Q), MACP, BSc
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Etobicoke, ON M9B
Have you been feeling overwhelmed lately by your emotions and life demands? Do you sometimes feel like you have exhausted your coping resources and are stuck with where you are? Life can throw us many challenges and obstacles. Emotions, memories and thoughts - it can all be so overwhelming when we are trying to make change happen. I GET it and I'm here for you! I take a holistic approach to counselling therapy. I offer individual and couple's counselling for people struggling with a variety of issues, including depression, anxiety, addiction, trauma, loss of identity, grief, etc.
Have you been feeling overwhelmed lately by your emotions and life demands? Do you sometimes feel like you have exhausted your coping resources and are stuck with where you are? Life can throw us many challenges and obstacles. Emotions, memories and thoughts - it can all be so overwhelming when we are trying to make change happen. I GET it and I'm here for you! I take a holistic approach to counselling therapy. I offer individual and couple's counselling for people struggling with a variety of issues, including depression, anxiety, addiction, trauma, loss of identity, grief, etc.
(289) 276-7899 View (289) 276-7899
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Yasamin Zia Saidi
Pre-Licensed Professional, MSW, BSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Etobicoke, ON M9C
The Tessellate Child and Family Therapy team and I are here to support all children ages 3 to 18 years old, their caregivers, and their families. I am committed to creating a comfortable, understanding, and non-judgmental space for my clients to truly feel empowered. I strongly recognizes the importance of the client/therapist relationship and focus on building rapport and incorporating creativity and fun into my sessions with children and their families, allowing all clients to openly and comfortably navigate and explore their unique experiences and circumstances.
The Tessellate Child and Family Therapy team and I are here to support all children ages 3 to 18 years old, their caregivers, and their families. I am committed to creating a comfortable, understanding, and non-judgmental space for my clients to truly feel empowered. I strongly recognizes the importance of the client/therapist relationship and focus on building rapport and incorporating creativity and fun into my sessions with children and their families, allowing all clients to openly and comfortably navigate and explore their unique experiences and circumstances.
(365) 607-0723 View (365) 607-0723
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Break Free Family Centre
PhD, EdD, OACCPP, CPCA, OCA
Verified Verified
Etobicoke, ON M9W
I counsel children (16 years and older), youth, and adults through individual and or group sessions. I am in good standing and have been awarded Full membership with the designation of Registered Counsellor (RCC) with CPCA as well as a member in good standing of the Ontario Association of Consultants, Counsellors, Psychometrics and Psychotherapists (OACCPP), and Bereavement Ontario Network (BON). Canadian Addiction Counsellors (CACCF) I provide psychological services under the supervision of a Registered Psychologist of Dalton Associates. I work in collaboration with clients to build upon their strength(s) to solve family issues.
I counsel children (16 years and older), youth, and adults through individual and or group sessions. I am in good standing and have been awarded Full membership with the designation of Registered Counsellor (RCC) with CPCA as well as a member in good standing of the Ontario Association of Consultants, Counsellors, Psychometrics and Psychotherapists (OACCPP), and Bereavement Ontario Network (BON). Canadian Addiction Counsellors (CACCF) I provide psychological services under the supervision of a Registered Psychologist of Dalton Associates. I work in collaboration with clients to build upon their strength(s) to solve family issues.
(844) 332-2287 View (844) 332-2287
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LifeCycle Counselling
Registered Psychotherapist
Verified Verified
Etobicoke, ON M8X
Accepting New Clients - No Waitlist! When you feel stuck, we can help. At LifeCycle Counselling we recognize how difficult it is to take the first step towards therapy, speak about your difficulties and explore uncomfortable emotions. We are a BIPOC clinic in the GTA that is culturally sensitive. We use client-centered approaches as it is LifeCycles top priority to empower you for you! We understand that everyone has their own battles. We are a team of psychotherapists, who specialize in various areas and offer treatment using evidence-based approaches. You can read each of the therapist’s bio on our website lifecyclecounselling.ca
Accepting New Clients - No Waitlist! When you feel stuck, we can help. At LifeCycle Counselling we recognize how difficult it is to take the first step towards therapy, speak about your difficulties and explore uncomfortable emotions. We are a BIPOC clinic in the GTA that is culturally sensitive. We use client-centered approaches as it is LifeCycles top priority to empower you for you! We understand that everyone has their own battles. We are a team of psychotherapists, who specialize in various areas and offer treatment using evidence-based approaches. You can read each of the therapist’s bio on our website lifecyclecounselling.ca
(289) 207-7614 View (289) 207-7614
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Lucie Ritchie & Heal Psychotherapy Inc.
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), MA
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Etobicoke, ON M9A
The impacts of trauma rewire the brain and nervous system to experience the world as a threatening place. This adaptation alters how we relate to ourselves and others, and it leads us away from authentic identity. Trauma, whether big or small, includes events like past childhood abuse, emotional neglect, violence, grief, rejection, chronic pain and illness, to name a few. You may become stressed, anxious, experience intrusive thoughts, fear, and rage. You may feel alone, easily triggered, trapped, and like there’s a void within—like you just can’t be yourself again. Yet, you have no clue that it all stems from unprocessed trauma.
The impacts of trauma rewire the brain and nervous system to experience the world as a threatening place. This adaptation alters how we relate to ourselves and others, and it leads us away from authentic identity. Trauma, whether big or small, includes events like past childhood abuse, emotional neglect, violence, grief, rejection, chronic pain and illness, to name a few. You may become stressed, anxious, experience intrusive thoughts, fear, and rage. You may feel alone, easily triggered, trapped, and like there’s a void within—like you just can’t be yourself again. Yet, you have no clue that it all stems from unprocessed trauma.
(289) 271-1845 View (289) 271-1845
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FVB Psychologists
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Etobicoke, ON M8V
Our assessment and therapy services are conducted by an experienced team of clinicians who joined Fleming Vigna Balmer after gaining many years of valuable experience in the public sector; for example, working in hospitals, universities, rehabilitation centres, social service agencies, and community-based clinics. As a team, we are able to offer a rich, experience-based range of clinical services. All of our clinicians are psychologists or psychological associates registered with the College of Psychologists of Ontario. This means we are independent practitioners licenced to assess, diagnose, and treat the full range of psychological disorders ranging from problems in living to serious mental health issues. In addition, we are consulting psychologists to the pilot recruitment programmes of a number of airlines including Air Canada, Jazz Aviation LP, and Sky Regional Airlines. At Fleming Vigna Balmer services are provided in English, French, Italian, Vietnamese, and Afrikaans.
Our assessment and therapy services are conducted by an experienced team of clinicians who joined Fleming Vigna Balmer after gaining many years of valuable experience in the public sector; for example, working in hospitals, universities, rehabilitation centres, social service agencies, and community-based clinics. As a team, we are able to offer a rich, experience-based range of clinical services. All of our clinicians are psychologists or psychological associates registered with the College of Psychologists of Ontario. This means we are independent practitioners licenced to assess, diagnose, and treat the full range of psychological disorders ranging from problems in living to serious mental health issues. In addition, we are consulting psychologists to the pilot recruitment programmes of a number of airlines including Air Canada, Jazz Aviation LP, and Sky Regional Airlines. At Fleming Vigna Balmer services are provided in English, French, Italian, Vietnamese, and Afrikaans.
(844) 245-7821 View (844) 245-7821
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Counselling 2 Wellness
Registered Psychotherapist, MSW, RSW, MEd, RP
Verified Verified
Etobicoke, ON M8X
Are your feeling consumed by your emotions and thoughts? Have you wanted to start therapy for some time, and feeling ready to take the next step to gain direction and support. Are you interested in exploring talk therapy as opposed to taking medication? As a leading organization in treating depression and anxiety disorders, Counselling2Wellness can help you reach your emotional goals. All extended health benefits will be accepted
Are your feeling consumed by your emotions and thoughts? Have you wanted to start therapy for some time, and feeling ready to take the next step to gain direction and support. Are you interested in exploring talk therapy as opposed to taking medication? As a leading organization in treating depression and anxiety disorders, Counselling2Wellness can help you reach your emotional goals. All extended health benefits will be accepted
(647) 360-0676 View (647) 360-0676
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Harrison Mungal Bth. Msw. McC. Ph.d. Psy.d. Rsw.
Registered Social Worker, PhD, PsyD
Verified Verified
Etobicoke, ON M9W
With dual doctorates in Clinical Psychology and Philosophy in Social Work, as well as master's degrees in Social Work and Counselling, Harrison is a seasoned therapist specializing in mental health, addictions, and family dynamics. Recognized as a leading cognitive therapy workshop presenter, he has spoken globally and authored over 30 books. Harrison employs a science-backed, creative approach to treatment, providing training and consultations to various community partners, including universities, medical professionals, police officers, EMS, firefighters, nurses, SWs, psychotherapists, psychologists, LGBTQ, and the general public.
With dual doctorates in Clinical Psychology and Philosophy in Social Work, as well as master's degrees in Social Work and Counselling, Harrison is a seasoned therapist specializing in mental health, addictions, and family dynamics. Recognized as a leading cognitive therapy workshop presenter, he has spoken globally and authored over 30 books. Harrison employs a science-backed, creative approach to treatment, providing training and consultations to various community partners, including universities, medical professionals, police officers, EMS, firefighters, nurses, SWs, psychotherapists, psychologists, LGBTQ, and the general public.
(844) 382-8975 View (844) 382-8975
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Debbie Papadakis
Registered Psychotherapist, RP, CHT, CI
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Etobicoke, ON M9P
Hello, my name is Debbie Papadakis. My goal is to empower you to unfold your inherent potential by accessing the subconscious mind using a combination of psychotherapy with hypnotherapy to help you live a healthy, wealthy, productive and happy life. For more than 25 years, I have worked with a wide variety of individuals, couples and groups from diverse backgrounds to help empower them to overcome limiting beliefs, unwanted behaviours, negative thoughts and emotions, addictions and/or afflictions, fears and phobias that were hindering them from achieving their goals, unleashing their full potential, and living in harmony.
Hello, my name is Debbie Papadakis. My goal is to empower you to unfold your inherent potential by accessing the subconscious mind using a combination of psychotherapy with hypnotherapy to help you live a healthy, wealthy, productive and happy life. For more than 25 years, I have worked with a wide variety of individuals, couples and groups from diverse backgrounds to help empower them to overcome limiting beliefs, unwanted behaviours, negative thoughts and emotions, addictions and/or afflictions, fears and phobias that were hindering them from achieving their goals, unleashing their full potential, and living in harmony.
(855) 982-1391 View (855) 982-1391
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Natasha Huff
Registered Social Worker, MSW RSW
Verified Verified
Etobicoke, ON M9C
I offer individual, couple and family therapy for a wide range of issues including; divorce/separation, trauma, grief, co-parenting, substance abuse, school refusal, family conflict, eating disorders and mental health (specifically, anxiety and depression). I have assisted many couples and families in improving their relationships with one another, providing them with the ability to communicate, respect and understand each other better using Collaborative Problem Solving and Emotion-focussed therapy.
I offer individual, couple and family therapy for a wide range of issues including; divorce/separation, trauma, grief, co-parenting, substance abuse, school refusal, family conflict, eating disorders and mental health (specifically, anxiety and depression). I have assisted many couples and families in improving their relationships with one another, providing them with the ability to communicate, respect and understand each other better using Collaborative Problem Solving and Emotion-focussed therapy.
(647) 696-7276 View (647) 696-7276
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Mena Ibrahim
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), RSSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Etobicoke, ON M8V
Welcome to my profile! I'm Mena Ibrahim, a dedicated therapist on a mission to help you uncover your inner strength and resilience. With over 5 years of experience in mental health, I've had the privilege of witnessing countless transformations as clients heal, grow, and connect. I deeply value each person's unique story, strengths, and perspectives, viewing them as individuals with immense potential. My approach focuses on fostering hope and possibility, empowering you to overcome challenges and thrive. Let's embark on a journey of self-discovery and growth together, creating positive change and unlocking your full potential.
Welcome to my profile! I'm Mena Ibrahim, a dedicated therapist on a mission to help you uncover your inner strength and resilience. With over 5 years of experience in mental health, I've had the privilege of witnessing countless transformations as clients heal, grow, and connect. I deeply value each person's unique story, strengths, and perspectives, viewing them as individuals with immense potential. My approach focuses on fostering hope and possibility, empowering you to overcome challenges and thrive. Let's embark on a journey of self-discovery and growth together, creating positive change and unlocking your full potential.
(289) 512-2708 View (289) 512-2708
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Ashley Chiappetta
Registered Psychotherapist, BA, MACP, RP
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Etobicoke, ON M8V  (Online Only)
Thank you for being here! My commitment is to create a safe and supportive space for your personal growth and healing journey and my approach is rooted in the belief that a strong therapeutic relationship can be the foundation for meaningful change. I strive to be a relatable and understanding presence in your life, fostering an environment where you feel heard, valued, and truly understood. My passion lies in the transformative power of healing – whether that be your inner child, past trauma or going through change or life transitions.
Thank you for being here! My commitment is to create a safe and supportive space for your personal growth and healing journey and my approach is rooted in the belief that a strong therapeutic relationship can be the foundation for meaningful change. I strive to be a relatable and understanding presence in your life, fostering an environment where you feel heard, valued, and truly understood. My passion lies in the transformative power of healing – whether that be your inner child, past trauma or going through change or life transitions.
(365) 305-0168 View (365) 305-0168
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Parag Ray
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW, CAMS-II
Verified Verified
Etobicoke, ON M9B
Going through a crisis or grappling with anger? Have you been mandated or advised by your counsel for anger management therapy? You've found a friend in Parag Ray. She has vast experience in domestic violence cases, violent outbursts and those involved in conflicts in the community. If you need this service to lower charges or show a willingness to improve your situation, Parag can help.
Going through a crisis or grappling with anger? Have you been mandated or advised by your counsel for anger management therapy? You've found a friend in Parag Ray. She has vast experience in domestic violence cases, violent outbursts and those involved in conflicts in the community. If you need this service to lower charges or show a willingness to improve your situation, Parag can help.
(289) 723-1953 View (289) 723-1953

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Phoenix Counselling Services Canada
Registered Social Worker, MSW, BSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Etibicoke, ON M9C
If trauma, abuse, and mental illness have left you feeling like you’re lost in the darkness, you’re not alone. It’s perfectly natural that the difficult emotions and loneliness you feel have cast a shadow over your life. But though the darkness may feel crushing, there is hope and light. The truth is your painful past does not mean that you are stuck with an unhappy future, and though your mental health might feel like it has taken charge of your life, it does not define you. As we work together, I’ll help you discover that you are much more than your circumstances, that your life matters, and that you have a powerful purpose.
If trauma, abuse, and mental illness have left you feeling like you’re lost in the darkness, you’re not alone. It’s perfectly natural that the difficult emotions and loneliness you feel have cast a shadow over your life. But though the darkness may feel crushing, there is hope and light. The truth is your painful past does not mean that you are stuck with an unhappy future, and though your mental health might feel like it has taken charge of your life, it does not define you. As we work together, I’ll help you discover that you are much more than your circumstances, that your life matters, and that you have a powerful purpose.
(844) 912-2201 View (844) 912-2201
Photo of Jupiter Vaughan, Registered Psychotherapist in Etobicoke, ON
Jupiter Vaughan
Registered Psychotherapist, RP
Verified Verified
14 Endorsed
Toronto, ON M6S  (Online Only)
Sometimes life can become overwhelming. In the midst of the many challenges we face, it can be difficult to remember that it is okay to feel confused, frustrated, angry, sad, or apathetic. As a Registered Psychotherapist (RP), my approach is client-centred. I assist people with discovering and accepting all the unique aspects of themselves, encouraging self-care and to speak freely without fear of judgement. The simple act of sharing our experiences and trials in our lives in a safe, comfortable space can help to begin the healing process.
Sometimes life can become overwhelming. In the midst of the many challenges we face, it can be difficult to remember that it is okay to feel confused, frustrated, angry, sad, or apathetic. As a Registered Psychotherapist (RP), my approach is client-centred. I assist people with discovering and accepting all the unique aspects of themselves, encouraging self-care and to speak freely without fear of judgement. The simple act of sharing our experiences and trials in our lives in a safe, comfortable space can help to begin the healing process.
(647) 699-4296 View (647) 699-4296

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Emotionally Focused Counsellors

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.