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Marianne Cottingham
MA, CCC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Langley, BC V3A
If you are going through a challenging time, it can feel like your life is unraveling. Our mission at Crossroads Collective is to help you navigate the challenges you are facing. Many of us are struggling with family conflict, separation/divorce, blended families, resentments from the past, substance misuse, life transitions, anxiety, among others. No matter what your current struggle is, it is important that you have support.
If you are going through a challenging time, it can feel like your life is unraveling. Our mission at Crossroads Collective is to help you navigate the challenges you are facing. Many of us are struggling with family conflict, separation/divorce, blended families, resentments from the past, substance misuse, life transitions, anxiety, among others. No matter what your current struggle is, it is important that you have support.
(778) 718-2437 View (778) 718-2437
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Michael Elterman
Psychologist, PhD, MBA, RPsych, (BC)
Verified Verified
Vancouver, BC V6S
After a separation and divorce it brings out the best and worst in people.
I have been practicing as a Clinical and Forensic Psychologist in B.C. for 40 years. I was previously the Senior Psychologist at the Vancouver Health Dept. and the Director of Psychology at VGH (Shaughnessy). I was a consultant to the Family Justice Counselling Service (BC Attorney General) for 10 years and the National Parole Board of Canada. My clients these days see me primarily for parenting and post-separation problems. This can take the form of parenting assessments for the Court, consulting, and Parent Coordination. I am registered to practice in BC. Equally importantly I am a husband, father and grandfather.
After a separation and divorce it brings out the best and worst in people.
I have been practicing as a Clinical and Forensic Psychologist in B.C. for 40 years. I was previously the Senior Psychologist at the Vancouver Health Dept. and the Director of Psychology at VGH (Shaughnessy). I was a consultant to the Family Justice Counselling Service (BC Attorney General) for 10 years and the National Parole Board of Canada. My clients these days see me primarily for parenting and post-separation problems. This can take the form of parenting assessments for the Court, consulting, and Parent Coordination. I am registered to practice in BC. Equally importantly I am a husband, father and grandfather.
(778) 655-8634 View (778) 655-8634
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Marcelle Sophia Blancato
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, RSW, RCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Vancouver, BC V6H
Divorce is a challenging time for all family members. For children it can be especially difficult. My philosophical approach when addressing the challenges children face as well as their parents is Two Hearts One Home. If the divorce is high conflict overcoming challenges often require a team approach. The Family Co- Parenting Centre is an association of Independent professionals serving Vancouver, Richmond, Delta and Surrey.
Divorce is a challenging time for all family members. For children it can be especially difficult. My philosophical approach when addressing the challenges children face as well as their parents is Two Hearts One Home. If the divorce is high conflict overcoming challenges often require a team approach. The Family Co- Parenting Centre is an association of Independent professionals serving Vancouver, Richmond, Delta and Surrey.
(778) 200-3584 View (778) 200-3584
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Lesley Holm
Art Therapist, BCATR
Verified Verified
Vancouver, BC V5Y
Some challenges Lesley provides support for include: anxiety, depression, separation and divorce, parenting, child-parent relationships, gifted children and youth, anger and frustration, life transitions, communication skills, self-harm, adolescent and family discord, childhood emotional and behavioural problems and sleep issues.
Lesley Holm is a Registered Art Therapist at the Vancouver Psychology Centre. Over the past twenty years she has provided counselling and art therapy in schools, counselling centres and private practice for individuals, groups, children, youth and adults. Her clinical focus is in working with children and youth with anxiety and their families and providing therapy for children and families impacted by divorce and separation.
Some challenges Lesley provides support for include: anxiety, depression, separation and divorce, parenting, child-parent relationships, gifted children and youth, anger and frustration, life transitions, communication skills, self-harm, adolescent and family discord, childhood emotional and behavioural problems and sleep issues.
Lesley Holm is a Registered Art Therapist at the Vancouver Psychology Centre. Over the past twenty years she has provided counselling and art therapy in schools, counselling centres and private practice for individuals, groups, children, youth and adults. Her clinical focus is in working with children and youth with anxiety and their families and providing therapy for children and families impacted by divorce and separation.
(587) 850-2735 View (587) 850-2735
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Faith Christine Bergevin
Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
Victoria, BC V8R
I like to help clients with these issues: depression, anxiety, relationships, divorce, dating, loneliness, talking about childhood, and purpose.
You are wondering about getting counselling. You may feel anxious or depressed. It could feel like low mood, longing or sadness, or no feeling at all. You may struggle with an inner critic, which makes you feel on edge. However you describe it, something doesn’t feel quite right and it’s affecting your work or relationships. Or maybe some moments from the past are influencing you now, or are still fresh in your mind, stopping you from having the life you want to have.
I like to help clients with these issues: depression, anxiety, relationships, divorce, dating, loneliness, talking about childhood, and purpose.
You are wondering about getting counselling. You may feel anxious or depressed. It could feel like low mood, longing or sadness, or no feeling at all. You may struggle with an inner critic, which makes you feel on edge. However you describe it, something doesn’t feel quite right and it’s affecting your work or relationships. Or maybe some moments from the past are influencing you now, or are still fresh in your mind, stopping you from having the life you want to have.
(778) 901-6791 View (778) 901-6791
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Dr. Lisa Ferrari
Psychologist, RPsych
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Vancouver, BC V5Y
She offers expertise in child and adolescent mental health, family therapy, individual counselling, art/play therapy, separation and divorce, collaborative divorce, and psychological/diagnostic assessment.
Dr. Lisa Ferrari is a registered clinical psychologist who has been providing psychological services and counselling for over 18 years. In addition to her private practice, she has worked in clinical settings such as child and youth mental health, and child and family counselling centres. Dr. Ferrari has also held positions as an Adjunct Faculty member position at the Adler School for Professional Psychology and Clinical Supervisor for community child and family trauma counselling programs. She has also consulted with school personnel, on supporting children and youth with various behavioural, and emotional difficulties.
She offers expertise in child and adolescent mental health, family therapy, individual counselling, art/play therapy, separation and divorce, collaborative divorce, and psychological/diagnostic assessment.
Dr. Lisa Ferrari is a registered clinical psychologist who has been providing psychological services and counselling for over 18 years. In addition to her private practice, she has worked in clinical settings such as child and youth mental health, and child and family counselling centres. Dr. Ferrari has also held positions as an Adjunct Faculty member position at the Adler School for Professional Psychology and Clinical Supervisor for community child and family trauma counselling programs. She has also consulted with school personnel, on supporting children and youth with various behavioural, and emotional difficulties.
(866) 535-0261 View (866) 535-0261
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Gizella Nagy - Start Again Counselling
Counsellor, RTC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
In my therapy sessions, I draw my tools from Transpersonal and Humanistic Psychology, AEDP, Relationship and Family Systems Theories, and CBT, I provide evidence-based support for individuals, couples, and families navigating challenges such as relationship issues, betrayal, divorce, parent/child mediation, grief, anxiety disorders, and undesired behaviors.
Do you want to break free from painful cycles of repetitive conflicts and find out what's missing & why it hurts so much? I've been there too; feeling disconnected, frustrated, helpless, & confused for loving them so deeply at the same time. Let me introduce you to the life-changing tools that transformed my own relationships & now help my clients reconnect with their loved ones. Together, we'll build new awareness, recognize & change maladaptive strategies, cultivate healthy boundaries and learn to negotiate your desires. Experience the power of self-accountability crucial for nurturing mature, respectful relationships."
In my therapy sessions, I draw my tools from Transpersonal and Humanistic Psychology, AEDP, Relationship and Family Systems Theories, and CBT, I provide evidence-based support for individuals, couples, and families navigating challenges such as relationship issues, betrayal, divorce, parent/child mediation, grief, anxiety disorders, and undesired behaviors.
Do you want to break free from painful cycles of repetitive conflicts and find out what's missing & why it hurts so much? I've been there too; feeling disconnected, frustrated, helpless, & confused for loving them so deeply at the same time. Let me introduce you to the life-changing tools that transformed my own relationships & now help my clients reconnect with their loved ones. Together, we'll build new awareness, recognize & change maladaptive strategies, cultivate healthy boundaries and learn to negotiate your desires. Experience the power of self-accountability crucial for nurturing mature, respectful relationships."
(249) 444-3124 View (249) 444-3124
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Zinat Sajadi
Registered Social Worker, MA, MSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Burnaby, BC V5H
Going through separation and divorce is a rough process. The yelling, the tears or the fights that happen in the house is keeping you up at night and/or make you worry about your future. It is already difficult to discuss what belongs to who at this point, not to mention there are children involved. You want your children to be ok, but not sure how. Things that your partner said or did in the past seem to be stuck in your head and make you angry or sad. You want peace, you want no conflict and a way out of this emotional disaster. Talk to me, I am here to listen.
Going through separation and divorce is a rough process. The yelling, the tears or the fights that happen in the house is keeping you up at night and/or make you worry about your future. It is already difficult to discuss what belongs to who at this point, not to mention there are children involved. You want your children to be ok, but not sure how. Things that your partner said or did in the past seem to be stuck in your head and make you angry or sad. You want peace, you want no conflict and a way out of this emotional disaster. Talk to me, I am here to listen.
(778) 743-2911 View (778) 743-2911
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Yaletown Counselling
Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Vancouver, BC V6B
Jessica is a skilled and experienced counsellor committed to helping individuals, couples, and families create effective and lasting change. She is experienced with a variety of presenting issues. These issues include relationship struggles, separation and divorce, stress, anxiety and depression, life transitions, parenting, grief/loss, and personal growth.
Jessica is a skilled and experienced counsellor committed to helping individuals, couples, and families create effective and lasting change. She is experienced with a variety of presenting issues. These issues include relationship struggles, separation and divorce, stress, anxiety and depression, life transitions, parenting, grief/loss, and personal growth.
(249) 503-8533 View (249) 503-8533
Photo of Shelley Lisa Behr, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in British Columbia
Shelley Lisa Behr
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Richmond, BC V6Y
As a divorce coach, I work with families to develop effective plans that put the children first, revise existing plans, improve communication , and help with co-parent decision making.
One of the most difficult things to do in life is to ask for help. I understand that making the first call is stressful, and I am open to hearing your concerns as soon as we connect. I encompass a non judgmental approach, based on strength and resilience. I work collaboratively with my clients to empower them to make important changes in their lives. As a counselor, I support each client's own experience of their story. I take a holistic approach to understand the many layers that surround life challenges, to create connections and promote change.
As a divorce coach, I work with families to develop effective plans that put the children first, revise existing plans, improve communication , and help with co-parent decision making.
One of the most difficult things to do in life is to ask for help. I understand that making the first call is stressful, and I am open to hearing your concerns as soon as we connect. I encompass a non judgmental approach, based on strength and resilience. I work collaboratively with my clients to empower them to make important changes in their lives. As a counselor, I support each client's own experience of their story. I take a holistic approach to understand the many layers that surround life challenges, to create connections and promote change.
(604) 273-3451 View (604) 273-3451
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Strong Ties - Child & Family Services
Counsellor, MA, RCC, ACS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Coquitlam, BC V3B
In cases of separation and divorce, our Clinical Director is trained to provide co-parenting counselling and divorce coaching.
Parenting is not an easy task! You love your children, only want the best for them, and have probably tried a whole variety of strategies to help them. Still, your children and your whole family might be dealing with difficult emotions and challenging behaviour. Maybe, as parents, you are also re-shaping: adding new members, responding to new challenges and in need of new arrangements.
In cases of separation and divorce, our Clinical Director is trained to provide co-parenting counselling and divorce coaching.
Parenting is not an easy task! You love your children, only want the best for them, and have probably tried a whole variety of strategies to help them. Still, your children and your whole family might be dealing with difficult emotions and challenging behaviour. Maybe, as parents, you are also re-shaping: adding new members, responding to new challenges and in need of new arrangements.
(604) 862-8763 View (604) 862-8763
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Dr. Elena Starr
Counsellor, PsyD, CCC
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Coquitlam, BC V3B
It is tough to see your child in emotional pain without knowing how to help. I have over 20 years of experience as a counsellor and have helped children like yours find their joy again. I have helped kids with issues like anxiety, depression, grief, trauma, divorce, school refusal, and behaviour problems. I have a warm, supportive, and non-judgmental approach when working with children and their families.
It is tough to see your child in emotional pain without knowing how to help. I have over 20 years of experience as a counsellor and have helped children like yours find their joy again. I have helped kids with issues like anxiety, depression, grief, trauma, divorce, school refusal, and behaviour problems. I have a warm, supportive, and non-judgmental approach when working with children and their families.
(587) 815-5154 View (587) 815-5154
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Kirsten Reid
Counsellor, BComm, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
Transitions through separation and divorce, sexual and intimacy concerns, anxiety, and depression are areas of specialty.
Currently accepting new clients. Would you like help to find relief and an overall sense of lightness? Whether you believe your life challenges to be major or minor ones, including a specific event or a reoccurring thought pattern(s) that you want help with to enable change, we can work together on your journey to reach a state of optimal functioning. I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) and bring with me a current perspective of today's counselling approaches, along with a passion for helping others move beyond feeling stuck while staying true to their core values and goals.
Transitions through separation and divorce, sexual and intimacy concerns, anxiety, and depression are areas of specialty.
Currently accepting new clients. Would you like help to find relief and an overall sense of lightness? Whether you believe your life challenges to be major or minor ones, including a specific event or a reoccurring thought pattern(s) that you want help with to enable change, we can work together on your journey to reach a state of optimal functioning. I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) and bring with me a current perspective of today's counselling approaches, along with a passion for helping others move beyond feeling stuck while staying true to their core values and goals.
(705) 304-2592 View (705) 304-2592
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Fern Whitfield
Counsellor, MPCC, RPC
Verified Verified
Kamloops, BC V2C  (Online Only)
I'm a down-to-earth, client-centered counsellor that can bring new hope to you and new life to your relationships. If you're struggling with your marriage or relationship, thinking about separation or divorce, facing family problems or parenting challenges, or just needing some individual support, I'm here and ready to listen with warmth, kindness and compassion, without any judgement or criticism. Our lives are filled with challenges...let's find new ways to change them into opportunities and put some peace and joy back into your daily living.
I'm a down-to-earth, client-centered counsellor that can bring new hope to you and new life to your relationships. If you're struggling with your marriage or relationship, thinking about separation or divorce, facing family problems or parenting challenges, or just needing some individual support, I'm here and ready to listen with warmth, kindness and compassion, without any judgement or criticism. Our lives are filled with challenges...let's find new ways to change them into opportunities and put some peace and joy back into your daily living.
(855) 974-4686 View (855) 974-4686
Photo of Flavia Braunstein Markman, Counsellor in British Columbia
Flavia Braunstein Markman
Counsellor, MA, RCC, CCPA, CRP
Verified Verified
Vancouver, BC V6Z
I provide individual, couple, family and group counselling services to adults, youth and children with personal issues such as anxiety, depression and stress, divorce/separation, family dynamics, eating disorders, relationships and other issues.
I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor of BCACC-BC Association of Clinical Counsellors (RCC), Member of CRP- Regional Council of Psychology (Brazilian Psychological Association) - Associate member of SPID- Iracy Doyle Psychoanalytic Society, Brazil (IFPS- International Federation of Psychoanalytic Societies, USA. In almost 3 decades of being a Psychologist/ Psychoanalyst in Brazil, I have provided a wide range of direct and coordinating services through mental health centers, hospitals, universities, and private practice. I also have a projects experience presenting and leading and I continue to participate in teachings and trainings
I provide individual, couple, family and group counselling services to adults, youth and children with personal issues such as anxiety, depression and stress, divorce/separation, family dynamics, eating disorders, relationships and other issues.
I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor of BCACC-BC Association of Clinical Counsellors (RCC), Member of CRP- Regional Council of Psychology (Brazilian Psychological Association) - Associate member of SPID- Iracy Doyle Psychoanalytic Society, Brazil (IFPS- International Federation of Psychoanalytic Societies, USA. In almost 3 decades of being a Psychologist/ Psychoanalyst in Brazil, I have provided a wide range of direct and coordinating services through mental health centers, hospitals, universities, and private practice. I also have a projects experience presenting and leading and I continue to participate in teachings and trainings
(289) 277-5732 View (289) 277-5732
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Vancouver Child Psychology
Psychologist, PhD, RPsych
Verified Verified
Vancouver, BC V5Z
Dr. Limbos is a registered psychologist who specializes in child psychology, working with children, youth and their families. Our objective is to help children realize their full potential through psychological assessment and treatment. Dr. Limbos has a broad range of experience in clinical and school psychology and will conduct a comprehensive assessment, and formulate a treatment plan for children who present with issues including the following: learning disabilities, giftedness, developmental/intellectual disabilities, autism, ADHD, behavior difficulties, depression, anxiety, adjustment difficulties, self-esteem, divorce, and substance abuse. Dr. focuses on providing timely and professional services for children, adolescents and their families.
Dr. Limbos is a registered psychologist who specializes in child psychology, working with children, youth and their families. Our objective is to help children realize their full potential through psychological assessment and treatment. Dr. Limbos has a broad range of experience in clinical and school psychology and will conduct a comprehensive assessment, and formulate a treatment plan for children who present with issues including the following: learning disabilities, giftedness, developmental/intellectual disabilities, autism, ADHD, behavior difficulties, depression, anxiety, adjustment difficulties, self-esteem, divorce, and substance abuse. Dr. focuses on providing timely and professional services for children, adolescents and their families.
(604) 210-1829 View (604) 210-1829
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Dr. Michael Dayan, Family Counsellor
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, RCC, CCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Vancouver, BC V6M
I have acquired over 20,000 hours direct clinical experience. I have run depression-treatment psycho-education groups in Outpatient Psychiatry at Vancouver General Hospital. As a university instructor I taught thousands of graduate and undergraduate students. I have mentored practicum and internship students at the beginning of their careers as well as professionals in development. I have been a consultant on Intergenerational and Intercultural communications. I have spoken at corporate events on burnout, corporate divorce, family succession, major life transitions, high-stakes decision-making, and existential crises.
I have acquired over 20,000 hours direct clinical experience. I have run depression-treatment psycho-education groups in Outpatient Psychiatry at Vancouver General Hospital. As a university instructor I taught thousands of graduate and undergraduate students. I have mentored practicum and internship students at the beginning of their careers as well as professionals in development. I have been a consultant on Intergenerational and Intercultural communications. I have spoken at corporate events on burnout, corporate divorce, family succession, major life transitions, high-stakes decision-making, and existential crises.
(778) 761-4400 View (778) 761-4400
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Melinda Freitas
Counsellor, MACP, RCC
Verified Verified
Vancouver, BC V6B
Areas of specialization include navigating life changes (divorce, grief/loss, change of career), expertise in chronic anxiety/depression, communication skill development/addressing family conflict, stress mgmt for anxiety, panic disorder and burnout prevention/trmt, assessment of self-limiting behaviours and stabilization/safety planning for DV survivors.
Accepting New Clients / Available for supervision (not practicum students). People today are making their mental health a priority. When someone reaches out for counselling, it's usually because of a problem they want to work through, something they hope to change, or an area of their life they desire to grow and develop. My passion is to support & walk alongside my clients at these times in their lives. Counselling is very much a collaborative process. I see my role as creating a therapeutic environment that feels comfortable & safe so clients can explore their lives more fully and come to a greater understanding of who they are.
Areas of specialization include navigating life changes (divorce, grief/loss, change of career), expertise in chronic anxiety/depression, communication skill development/addressing family conflict, stress mgmt for anxiety, panic disorder and burnout prevention/trmt, assessment of self-limiting behaviours and stabilization/safety planning for DV survivors.
Accepting New Clients / Available for supervision (not practicum students). People today are making their mental health a priority. When someone reaches out for counselling, it's usually because of a problem they want to work through, something they hope to change, or an area of their life they desire to grow and develop. My passion is to support & walk alongside my clients at these times in their lives. Counselling is very much a collaborative process. I see my role as creating a therapeutic environment that feels comfortable & safe so clients can explore their lives more fully and come to a greater understanding of who they are.
(587) 848-3278 View (587) 848-3278
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Shannon Lawrence
Counsellor, RPC-C, CYT, Grief
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Langley, BC V3A
Are you stuck at a crossroads and unsure which road to take? Let me assist you in teaching you the skills you need to grow yourself and your children. I can help your child deal with unexpected life struggles and behaviors. Or, are YOU struggling with a recent separation/divorce or anxiety? I have experience in Child Therapy and CBT. Autism, Anxiety, Relationship Concerns, Parenting, and Grief Therapy. I can be utilized as an Associate Counsellor and Child & Youth Therapist. I aim to help you support your child, family, and yourself in your journey right now. Feel free to reach out today.
Are you stuck at a crossroads and unsure which road to take? Let me assist you in teaching you the skills you need to grow yourself and your children. I can help your child deal with unexpected life struggles and behaviors. Or, are YOU struggling with a recent separation/divorce or anxiety? I have experience in Child Therapy and CBT. Autism, Anxiety, Relationship Concerns, Parenting, and Grief Therapy. I can be utilized as an Associate Counsellor and Child & Youth Therapist. I aim to help you support your child, family, and yourself in your journey right now. Feel free to reach out today.
(778) 766-4548 View (778) 766-4548
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Metamorphose Counselling and Consultation Ltd.
Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Coquitlam, BC V3K  (Online Only)
Tricia has extensive experience counselling individuals and families and is skilled in treating: Trauma, Anxiety, Transitional/Career and Relational issues. She works with emerging adults that are dealing with life transitions, needing to explore the past, to uncover patterns that prevent them from living their best life. She also works with couples and families that are going through a separation or divorce, infidelity and need to coordinate parenting a child. She also works with individuals who are looking to make significant relational step, moving in with a partner, getting engaged, or premarital counselling.
Tricia has extensive experience counselling individuals and families and is skilled in treating: Trauma, Anxiety, Transitional/Career and Relational issues. She works with emerging adults that are dealing with life transitions, needing to explore the past, to uncover patterns that prevent them from living their best life. She also works with couples and families that are going through a separation or divorce, infidelity and need to coordinate parenting a child. She also works with individuals who are looking to make significant relational step, moving in with a partner, getting engaged, or premarital counselling.
(778) 764-2399 View (778) 764-2399

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Divorce Counsellors

How does therapy for people affected by a divorce work?

Individuals may feel a number of emotions following a divorce, such as shock, guilt, grief, anger, and fear. Therapists offer a non-judgmental space for individuals to talk about what they’ve experienced and process their emotions. Therapists will help clients develop coping strategies. They can also help a client rebuild their sense of self and self-worth and talk about what a happier future might look like.

What’s the most common type of therapy following a divorce?

There are several types of therapy that may be useful for divorce, including cognitive behavioural, acceptance and commitment, solution-focused brief, and mindfulness-based therapies. Many therapy types are talk-therapy based, which is typically the most popular option for individuals dealing with divorce. Cognitive behavioural therapy is a widely-used talk therapy, however, there’s no specific therapy type that’s designed to help people with divorce, and different types will work depending on the person.

When should an individual seek help due to a divorce?

When the feelings of a divorced individual, or an individual going through the process of divorce, begin to disrupt healthy daily functioning, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not performing at work due to problems with anxiety or motivation, if they’re no longer seeing friends due to feelings of shame, or if they’re not properly taking care of themselves as a result of depression, speaking to a professional could help.

How do you encourage someone to go to therapy due to a divorce?

It’s helpful to express concern and love for the individual while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Sharing how the individual appears to be suffering, and what effects it has on them or on their children, should be done with compassion and empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.