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I support youth and adults navigating anxiety, trauma, burnout, self-worth struggles, family conflict, grief, and life transitions. Many of my clients come from immigrant, racialized, or high-pressure family environments and are used to being “the strong one” while quietly struggling underneath. My approach is warm, culturally responsive, trauma-informed, and collaborative. Together, we work toward deeper self-understanding, emotional regulation, healthier patterns, and practical tools that help clients feel more grounded, connected, and like themselves again.
I offer culturally responsive, attachment-based counselling that blends warmth, insight, and practical coping strategies. I integrate CBT, DBT, mindfulness, and emotion-focused approaches to support clients with anxiety, trauma, identity concerns, relationships, emotional overwhelm, and burnout.
Starting therapy can feel intimidating, especially if you’re used to carrying everything on your own. You don’t need to have the perfect words or have it all figured out before reaching out. Sometimes therapy starts with “I honestly don’t even know where to begin,” and that’s completely okay.
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My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Surrey, BC V3V

(428) 308-5567
My website
Virtual evening & weekend counselling across BC for busy humans. Bonus: my adorable puppy may occasionally make a cameo.
I specialize in Anxiety, Depression and Self Esteem 
$160 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  
Let's Connect (428) 308-5567
Photo of Brenda Lao, Counsellor, MC, RCC

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Surrey, BC V3V

(428) 308-5567
My website
Virtual evening & weekend counselling across BC for busy humans. Bonus: my adorable puppy may occasionally make a cameo.
I specialize in Anxiety, Depression and Self Esteem 
$160 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $160
  • Couple Sessions $200
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, e-Transfer, Mastercard, Visa
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I aim to make therapy feel accessible, comfortable, and supportive from the start. We can discuss payment options prior to your first session. Receipts are provided for reimbursement through extended health plans covering RCC services.
Photo of Brenda Lao, Counsellor, MC, RCC
Brenda Lao
Counsellor, MC, RCC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (428) 308-5567
"
I aim to make therapy feel accessible, comfortable, and supportive from the start. We can discuss payment options prior to your first session. Receipts are provided for reimbursement through extended health plans covering RCC services.
Photo of Brenda Lao, Counsellor, MC, RCC
Brenda Lao
Counsellor, MC, RCC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (428) 308-5567

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by Province of British Columbia / 23001 Brenda Lao
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 1 year
  • Attended City University of Seattle, Master of Counselling, Graduated 2025
  • Additional Credentials

  • Degree/Diploma from Douglas College Bachelor of Arts in Child and Youth Care / 2020
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I bring over 10 years of experience across government, nonprofit, educational, and community mental health settings supporting youth, adults, and families. My work is grounded in culturally responsive, trauma-informed, and attachment-based care.
Photo of Brenda Lao, Counsellor, MC, RCC
Brenda Lao
Counsellor, MC, RCC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (428) 308-5567
"
I bring over 10 years of experience across government, nonprofit, educational, and community mental health settings supporting youth, adults, and families. My work is grounded in culturally responsive, trauma-informed, and attachment-based care.
Photo of Brenda Lao, Counsellor, MC, RCC
Brenda Lao
Counsellor, MC, RCC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (428) 308-5567

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Self Esteem

Expertise

  • ADHD
  • Behavioural Issues
  • Body Image
  • Caregivers
  • Child
  • Chronic Illness
  • Coping Skills
  • Developmental Disorders
  • Education and Learning Disabilities
  • Emotional Disturbance
  • Family Conflict
  • Grief
  • Life Transitions
  • Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
  • Parenting
  • Peer Relationships
  • Relationship Issues
  • School Issues
  • Stress
  • Trauma and PTSD
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I support clients navigating anxiety, depression, self-worth struggles, family conflict, grief, burnout, and emotional overwhelm. Many of my clients come from immigrant, racialized, or high-pressure family environments and are learning how to balance cultural expectations with their own needs. Together, we work toward healthier patterns, emotional resilience, and feeling more like yourself again.
Photo of Brenda Lao, Counsellor, MC, RCC
Brenda Lao
Counsellor, MC, RCC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (428) 308-5567
"
I support clients navigating anxiety, depression, self-worth struggles, family conflict, grief, burnout, and emotional overwhelm. Many of my clients come from immigrant, racialized, or high-pressure family environments and are learning how to balance cultural expectations with their own needs. Together, we work toward healthier patterns, emotional resilience, and feeling more like yourself again.
Photo of Brenda Lao, Counsellor, MC, RCC
Brenda Lao
Counsellor, MC, RCC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (428) 308-5567

Endorsement

Shantelle Alexandra
Shantelle Alexandra
Counsellor, RCC, CCC
Brenda leads her sessions with kindness, integrity, and an open heart. She excels at building a secure, nurturing environment where her clients feel empowered to embrace their stories and step into their own resilience.

Client Focus

Age

Children (6 to 10) , 
Preteen , 
Teen , 
Adults

Participants

Individuals , 
Couples , 
Family

Ethnicity

Asian

I also speak

Teochew

Age

Children (6 to 10) , 
Preteen , 
Teen , 
Adults

Participants

Individuals , 
Couples , 
Family

Ethnicity

Asian

I also speak

Teochew

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Cognitive Behavioural (CBT)
  • Compassion Focused
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Exposure Response Prevention (ERP)
  • Multicultural
  • Person-Centered
  • Strength-Based
  • Trauma Focused
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My approach is warm, collaborative, and tailored to your needs. I integrate attachment-based, person-centred, and CBT approaches through a culturally responsive lens, helping clients better understand their patterns, build coping skills, and strengthen their relationship with themselves. Therapy with me is supportive, conversational, and grounded in genuine connection.
Photo of Brenda Lao, Counsellor, MC, RCC
Brenda Lao
Counsellor, MC, RCC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (428) 308-5567
"
My approach is warm, collaborative, and tailored to your needs. I integrate attachment-based, person-centred, and CBT approaches through a culturally responsive lens, helping clients better understand their patterns, build coping skills, and strengthen their relationship with themselves. Therapy with me is supportive, conversational, and grounded in genuine connection.
Photo of Brenda Lao, Counsellor, MC, RCC
Brenda Lao
Counsellor, MC, RCC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (428) 308-5567

Location

Primary Location

Surrey, BC V3V

(428) 308-5567

Nearby Areas

Towns/Cities

Postal Codes

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Virtual evening & weekend counselling across BC for busy humans. Bonus: my adorable puppy may occasionally make a cameo.
Photo of Brenda Lao, Counsellor, MC, RCC
Brenda Lao
Counsellor, MC, RCC
Call for a free consultation now - (428) 308-5567
"
Virtual evening & weekend counselling across BC for busy humans. Bonus: my adorable puppy may occasionally make a cameo.
Photo of Brenda Lao, Counsellor, MC, RCC
Brenda Lao
Counsellor, MC, RCC
Call for a free consultation now - (428) 308-5567