Personality Disorders Therapists in Victoria, BC
We all long for and deserve to be seen and known. I offer curious and compassionate witnessing––walking alongside clients as they learn to see themselves in a new light, ask new questions and find meaningful answers.
Clients often initiate therapy in the midst of change. They may be grappling with questions of personal identity, family history or unhelpful patterns of behaviour.
I most often work with attachment injuries, avoidance in relationships, depression, isolation, overwhelming emotions, identity curiosities, challenges in relationships, prenatal/postpartum/parenting struggles, creative blocks and/or childhood trauma.
We all long for and deserve to be seen and known. I offer curious and compassionate witnessing––walking alongside clients as they learn to see themselves in a new light, ask new questions and find meaningful answers.
Clients often initiate therapy in the midst of change. They may be grappling with questions of personal identity, family history or unhelpful patterns of behaviour.
I most often work with attachment injuries, avoidance in relationships, depression, isolation, overwhelming emotions, identity curiosities, challenges in relationships, prenatal/postpartum/parenting struggles, creative blocks and/or childhood trauma.
I have a special interest and training in supporting individuals facing challenges such as personality disorders, suicidal ideation, self-harming behaviors, psychiatric diagnoses like schizophrenia, and substance use issues.
I warmly welcome all clients ages 19 years and older who are hoping to connect with a counsellor who can push you out of your comfort zone. Research tells us that the most effective counsellor is the one you have the best rapport with; I work best with clients who like setting goals - no matter how big or small - and want to be challenged to grow (gently and with the utmost care, of course). I offer a structured approach with a clear treatment plan that we collaborate on together and treat as a living document as your needs grow and change throughout the course of therapy.
I have a special interest and training in supporting individuals facing challenges such as personality disorders, suicidal ideation, self-harming behaviors, psychiatric diagnoses like schizophrenia, and substance use issues.
I warmly welcome all clients ages 19 years and older who are hoping to connect with a counsellor who can push you out of your comfort zone. Research tells us that the most effective counsellor is the one you have the best rapport with; I work best with clients who like setting goals - no matter how big or small - and want to be challenged to grow (gently and with the utmost care, of course). I offer a structured approach with a clear treatment plan that we collaborate on together and treat as a living document as your needs grow and change throughout the course of therapy.
I provide my patients with a safe, warm and judgment-free environment to discuss their most personal and intimate life struggles. Our sense of love and belonging is fundamental to reaching our potential. I work with children, teens, adults, couples, and families who face a range of mental health and relationship concerns including but not limited to; anxiety, depression, panic, Autism, ADHD, ADD, BPD, OCD, eating disorders, Complex/ childhood traumas, PTSD, dissociation, DID, parent-child/family conflict, parenting, self-harm, self-esteem, identity, grief & loss, addictions, burnout, Third Culture Identity & spiritual development.
I provide my patients with a safe, warm and judgment-free environment to discuss their most personal and intimate life struggles. Our sense of love and belonging is fundamental to reaching our potential. I work with children, teens, adults, couples, and families who face a range of mental health and relationship concerns including but not limited to; anxiety, depression, panic, Autism, ADHD, ADD, BPD, OCD, eating disorders, Complex/ childhood traumas, PTSD, dissociation, DID, parent-child/family conflict, parenting, self-harm, self-esteem, identity, grief & loss, addictions, burnout, Third Culture Identity & spiritual development.
My clients are introspective, serious, and determined. They're looking for change and they appreciate my wide experience, my understanding of their lives, and my open ignorance of their situations. I get into your shoes. We make quick progress and lasting changes because we take things from scratch. I'm most interested in what I understand the least, which are the roots of emotion, reason, body, and spirit. I don't know what's good for you; somewhere inside you, you do. Wherever you go, I follow, even when it's crazy, and that's where we want to go. You're always the expert. You deserve to prevail. (Note: my rates are in US$)
My clients are introspective, serious, and determined. They're looking for change and they appreciate my wide experience, my understanding of their lives, and my open ignorance of their situations. I get into your shoes. We make quick progress and lasting changes because we take things from scratch. I'm most interested in what I understand the least, which are the roots of emotion, reason, body, and spirit. I don't know what's good for you; somewhere inside you, you do. Wherever you go, I follow, even when it's crazy, and that's where we want to go. You're always the expert. You deserve to prevail. (Note: my rates are in US$)
I offer evidence based, compassionate and collaborative psychological treatment for teens, adults and couples. I seek to create a safe, nurturing relationship so that my clients can process, explore, and heal from the challenges that are keeping them stuck.
I offer evidence based, compassionate and collaborative psychological treatment for teens, adults and couples. I seek to create a safe, nurturing relationship so that my clients can process, explore, and heal from the challenges that are keeping them stuck.
Do you wake up in the morning and your anxiety starts to creep in? Do you feel like you have tried everything and you’re losing hope? Are you often triggered emotionally and feel as though you lose control? Do you struggle within your close relationships and wonder “how did I get here?” My approach to therapy is always rooted in compassion and genuine curiosity. I have a mindful and gentle presence, which guides my considerate sensitivity and attunement to each of my clients. Together we can cultivate unique goals and illuminate your wellness path through exploring, connecting, healing, and harnessing strengths.
Do you wake up in the morning and your anxiety starts to creep in? Do you feel like you have tried everything and you’re losing hope? Are you often triggered emotionally and feel as though you lose control? Do you struggle within your close relationships and wonder “how did I get here?” My approach to therapy is always rooted in compassion and genuine curiosity. I have a mindful and gentle presence, which guides my considerate sensitivity and attunement to each of my clients. Together we can cultivate unique goals and illuminate your wellness path through exploring, connecting, healing, and harnessing strengths.
Hello; thank you for viewing my profile. As a Registered Psychologist since 1997, and a therapist for many years before that, I have worked with individuals, couples and families. I will listen to you and support you in managing the issues that bring you to therapy. I deeply appreciate the effort and commitment people demonstrate as they work through their concerns; I consider it a privilege to assist in that process. Having had a diverse, non-traditional life, and having worked with a broad diversity of clients, it is likely I have some experience with issues similar to yours. Please see my website for further information.
Hello; thank you for viewing my profile. As a Registered Psychologist since 1997, and a therapist for many years before that, I have worked with individuals, couples and families. I will listen to you and support you in managing the issues that bring you to therapy. I deeply appreciate the effort and commitment people demonstrate as they work through their concerns; I consider it a privilege to assist in that process. Having had a diverse, non-traditional life, and having worked with a broad diversity of clients, it is likely I have some experience with issues similar to yours. Please see my website for further information.
Life can throw challenges our way that feel overwhelming and unmanageable. Coming to a realization that we could use help, and seeking a therapist are big steps. The therapeutic relationship offers a unique space to look at and discuss deeply personal content in a safe, non-judgmental environment. It can feel like a big risk to open up about our struggles. I encourage anyone seeking therapy to search for a therapist that they feel comfortable with. I believe it is my job to foster trust and safety so that we can work through difficult feelings. From my perspective, there is no definitive ranking of problems.
Life can throw challenges our way that feel overwhelming and unmanageable. Coming to a realization that we could use help, and seeking a therapist are big steps. The therapeutic relationship offers a unique space to look at and discuss deeply personal content in a safe, non-judgmental environment. It can feel like a big risk to open up about our struggles. I encourage anyone seeking therapy to search for a therapist that they feel comfortable with. I believe it is my job to foster trust and safety so that we can work through difficult feelings. From my perspective, there is no definitive ranking of problems.
Kimberley Hopwood
Counsellor, BScPsyc, MCouns, RCC
2 Endorsed
Victoria, BC V9B
Waitlist for new clients
I love my work! For over 20 years I've been helping individuals and couples create a life they love with proven, measurable, effective and fast methods to break through old patterns, get past limiting beliefs, and create possibilities they never knew existed. This isn't therapy like you've seen it on TV or in the movies, it doesn't have to take years. If you're tired of the "same old, same old" you deserve to feel better.
I love my work! For over 20 years I've been helping individuals and couples create a life they love with proven, measurable, effective and fast methods to break through old patterns, get past limiting beliefs, and create possibilities they never knew existed. This isn't therapy like you've seen it on TV or in the movies, it doesn't have to take years. If you're tired of the "same old, same old" you deserve to feel better.
You may be carrying the impacts of trauma, addiction, or attachment wounds—experiences that can leave you feeling overwhelmed, isolated, or unsure how to move forward. Perhaps relationships feel difficult to sustain, or emotions like grief, shame, and fear weigh heavily. You may also be exploring your sexual orientation or gender identity and seeking a safe, affirming space. My ideal clients are those longing for change - wanting to heal past hurts, build healthier relationships, or simply feel more at ease in themselves. reclaim your voice, and live with self-compassion, authenticity, and connection.
You may be carrying the impacts of trauma, addiction, or attachment wounds—experiences that can leave you feeling overwhelmed, isolated, or unsure how to move forward. Perhaps relationships feel difficult to sustain, or emotions like grief, shame, and fear weigh heavily. You may also be exploring your sexual orientation or gender identity and seeking a safe, affirming space. My ideal clients are those longing for change - wanting to heal past hurts, build healthier relationships, or simply feel more at ease in themselves. reclaim your voice, and live with self-compassion, authenticity, and connection.
Welcome, I understand how much courage it can take to ask for help and I’m glad that you are here to find support and start your healing journey. In my work I offer a safe, non-judgmental space, where you can share your feelings and thoughts. As we learn more about you, your behaviours, patterns, needs, and dreams we can also establish and start to work on your goals. I’m an MA Therapist (Europe) and an MA Registered Clinical Counsellor (BC, Canada) with 15+ years of experience working in mental health fields. My expertises are trauma, childhood trauma, anxiety, depression, ADHD, autism, boundaries, self-esteem, grief, abuse
Welcome, I understand how much courage it can take to ask for help and I’m glad that you are here to find support and start your healing journey. In my work I offer a safe, non-judgmental space, where you can share your feelings and thoughts. As we learn more about you, your behaviours, patterns, needs, and dreams we can also establish and start to work on your goals. I’m an MA Therapist (Europe) and an MA Registered Clinical Counsellor (BC, Canada) with 15+ years of experience working in mental health fields. My expertises are trauma, childhood trauma, anxiety, depression, ADHD, autism, boundaries, self-esteem, grief, abuse
Currently accepting new clients. Are you having difficulties managing stress, processing your thoughts and emotions, or wanting to improve your mental health and adjust to challenging life experiences. I provide a welcoming, non-judgmental, and confidential environment for you to explore and process your experiences. My experiences have taught me that it can be easy to fall into cycles that keep us stuck while our lives continue to move forward. From this, we can utilize your strengths, set goals, and build resiliency to help facilitate healthy mechanisms to break these vicious cycles and develop tools to help you move forward.
Currently accepting new clients. Are you having difficulties managing stress, processing your thoughts and emotions, or wanting to improve your mental health and adjust to challenging life experiences. I provide a welcoming, non-judgmental, and confidential environment for you to explore and process your experiences. My experiences have taught me that it can be easy to fall into cycles that keep us stuck while our lives continue to move forward. From this, we can utilize your strengths, set goals, and build resiliency to help facilitate healthy mechanisms to break these vicious cycles and develop tools to help you move forward.
Are yourself asking "now what?" Maybe you're feeling stuck in the midst of life transitions, relationship challenges, or your own personal growth journey? If any of this resonates with you, I would love to connect. Whether you have yet to build a tool kit of effective coping mechanisms or you have a great set of tools that isn't working for you right now, life often throws things at us that require a new way of working through or coping with challenges. Sometimes this means we need extra help discovering those tools. I like to help make overwhelming problems feel a little bit more manageable.
Are yourself asking "now what?" Maybe you're feeling stuck in the midst of life transitions, relationship challenges, or your own personal growth journey? If any of this resonates with you, I would love to connect. Whether you have yet to build a tool kit of effective coping mechanisms or you have a great set of tools that isn't working for you right now, life often throws things at us that require a new way of working through or coping with challenges. Sometimes this means we need extra help discovering those tools. I like to help make overwhelming problems feel a little bit more manageable.
I provide support to folks who feel stuck, anxious, overwhelmed, burnt out, or caught in old patterns of self-doubt, people-pleasing, or perfectionism. Through a warm, relational, and trauma-informed approach, I offer a space to slow down, build connection, and feel more grounded, supported, and at ease in yourself. Together, we’ll make sense of your experiences, and move toward greater self-trust.
If you're struggling with self-esteem, navigating a transition, or noticing patterns you can't seem to change, therapy can offer relief. You don't have to go through it alone. We can explore what is going on and tools that can help.
I provide support to folks who feel stuck, anxious, overwhelmed, burnt out, or caught in old patterns of self-doubt, people-pleasing, or perfectionism. Through a warm, relational, and trauma-informed approach, I offer a space to slow down, build connection, and feel more grounded, supported, and at ease in yourself. Together, we’ll make sense of your experiences, and move toward greater self-trust.
If you're struggling with self-esteem, navigating a transition, or noticing patterns you can't seem to change, therapy can offer relief. You don't have to go through it alone. We can explore what is going on and tools that can help.
EMDR trauma therapist in Victoria BC helping individuals regain control over their life, while dealing with past traumas, recovery, anxiety relief, and PTSD issues.
Couples counselling and marriage therapy for partners dealing with relationship and family issues, communication style differences, trust, attachment and sexual intimacy issues.
Individual therapy for depression, grief, anger management, addictions and recovery, body image issues, eating disorders, fatigue, and existential concerns.
I work with teenagers and adults of all ages to overcome mental health difficulties, past traumas and distressing life challenges.
EMDR trauma therapist in Victoria BC helping individuals regain control over their life, while dealing with past traumas, recovery, anxiety relief, and PTSD issues.
Couples counselling and marriage therapy for partners dealing with relationship and family issues, communication style differences, trust, attachment and sexual intimacy issues.
Individual therapy for depression, grief, anger management, addictions and recovery, body image issues, eating disorders, fatigue, and existential concerns.
I work with teenagers and adults of all ages to overcome mental health difficulties, past traumas and distressing life challenges.
I have 25 years of experience and I can help you achieve your goals. I am knowledgeable and skilled in a variety of effective counseling practices including psycho-dynamic, solution- focused and cognitive-behavioral therapy. I will work with you to find the most effective approach that is best suited to your situation. I am compassionate, non-judgmental and will provide you with a safe place to explore your issues. My focus is on you the whole person. My approach is active, goal-directed and collaborative. I can help you feel better and gain a new perspective.
I have 25 years of experience and I can help you achieve your goals. I am knowledgeable and skilled in a variety of effective counseling practices including psycho-dynamic, solution- focused and cognitive-behavioral therapy. I will work with you to find the most effective approach that is best suited to your situation. I am compassionate, non-judgmental and will provide you with a safe place to explore your issues. My focus is on you the whole person. My approach is active, goal-directed and collaborative. I can help you feel better and gain a new perspective.
Connection with others can be both the most important and the most painful aspect of life. You may feel conflicted: yearning for more rewarding relationships while being repeatedly hurt or disappointed by them. Perhaps you have grown tired of making sacrifices in your family or community without seeming to get anything back in return. Chronic disappointment is important to pay attention to, as it can impact mental, physical, and spiritual health. I am an experienced clinician who can help you identify and process thoughts, feelings and body sensations in order to transform them from depletion to vitality.
Connection with others can be both the most important and the most painful aspect of life. You may feel conflicted: yearning for more rewarding relationships while being repeatedly hurt or disappointed by them. Perhaps you have grown tired of making sacrifices in your family or community without seeming to get anything back in return. Chronic disappointment is important to pay attention to, as it can impact mental, physical, and spiritual health. I am an experienced clinician who can help you identify and process thoughts, feelings and body sensations in order to transform them from depletion to vitality.
Are you trying to support someone struggling with mental health or substance use and feeling overwhelmed by everything that comes with it? Many people in this position live in a constant state of worry—feeling helpless, guilty, and grieving the person their loved one once was. Trying to navigate systems while carrying this emotional weight can leave you exhausted and alone. I understand how difficult this can be. Together, we focus on helping you regain your footing—building healthy boundaries, coping with uncertainty, and finding ways to support your loved one while also protecting your own well-being.
Are you trying to support someone struggling with mental health or substance use and feeling overwhelmed by everything that comes with it? Many people in this position live in a constant state of worry—feeling helpless, guilty, and grieving the person their loved one once was. Trying to navigate systems while carrying this emotional weight can leave you exhausted and alone. I understand how difficult this can be. Together, we focus on helping you regain your footing—building healthy boundaries, coping with uncertainty, and finding ways to support your loved one while also protecting your own well-being.
Opening up can feel frightening, especially if you’ve tried therapy before and still feel stuck. You may carry trauma, anxiety, or overwhelm in ways talk therapy alone can’t reach. Some pain lives deeper in the body and nervous system, shaped by early experiences and unmet needs. With gentle curiosity, we’ll uncover the protective patterns that once kept you safe and help you return to a more connected, authentic version of yourself. If you’re seeking a trauma therapist who works in a depth-oriented, relational, and embodied way—someone who honours your pace and supports nervous system healing, I'd love to connect!
Opening up can feel frightening, especially if you’ve tried therapy before and still feel stuck. You may carry trauma, anxiety, or overwhelm in ways talk therapy alone can’t reach. Some pain lives deeper in the body and nervous system, shaped by early experiences and unmet needs. With gentle curiosity, we’ll uncover the protective patterns that once kept you safe and help you return to a more connected, authentic version of yourself. If you’re seeking a trauma therapist who works in a depth-oriented, relational, and embodied way—someone who honours your pace and supports nervous system healing, I'd love to connect!
My ideal clients are individuals and couples impacted by trauma, PTSD, or relationship struggles who are ready to create change. They may feel overwhelmed by anxiety, grief, or disconnection, yet remain open to support. Many are seeking a safe, non-judgmental space to process experiences, rebuild trust, and strengthen resilience. Whether addressing painful memories, navigating workplace stress, or improving communication, they are motivated to find healing, growth, and a deeper connection with themselves and others. I specialize in helping first responders, crash victims, and military veterans with trauma counselling.
My ideal clients are individuals and couples impacted by trauma, PTSD, or relationship struggles who are ready to create change. They may feel overwhelmed by anxiety, grief, or disconnection, yet remain open to support. Many are seeking a safe, non-judgmental space to process experiences, rebuild trust, and strengthen resilience. Whether addressing painful memories, navigating workplace stress, or improving communication, they are motivated to find healing, growth, and a deeper connection with themselves and others. I specialize in helping first responders, crash victims, and military veterans with trauma counselling.
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What are the common treatment options for personality disorders?
Personality disorders are typically treated with psychotherapy, sometimes in conjunction with medication. Therapy can help people with personality disorders develop skills to tolerate difficult emotions, navigate interpersonal relationships, and solidify their sense of self. Medications can treat symptoms that co-occur with the disorder, such as depression, anger, aggression, and impulsivity.
When to seek treatment for personality disorders?
Even though treatment for personality disorders can be an uphill battle, it’s best to seek help if you suspect that you or a loved one is struggling with one, because personality disorders can create substantial problems in life. Symptoms depend on the specific disorder, but overall signs of personality disorders include consistent difficulty maintaining close relationships, dramatic variations in self-esteem, and an unstable sense of identity.
How long does therapy take for personality disorders?
The timeline for treating personality disorders isn’t as clear-cut as it is for other disorders. Change can be difficult, taking from around one year to five, 10, or more. The key is finding a therapist who has extensive experience treating the relevant disorder. For example, a psychologist who specialises in narcissistic personality disorder has specific communication strategies that allow them to sustain the relationship and be more effective with narcissistic patients.
Can therapy help people with personality disorders?
Research suggests that for those who are motivated to address concerns or interpersonal conflict related to a personality disorder, therapy is far more effective than no treatment, and that most people in therapy see improvements. However, since personality disorders involve entrenched elements of identity, they are less responsive to treatment than are other mental health conditions. Finding an expert who has extensive experience working with a given personality disorder is one factor that increases the likelihood of successful treatment.