Military OneSource Therapists in Victoria, BC
I am pleased to offer solution-based, action-oriented counselling to individuals, couples, and groups needing assistance with everyday problems. I am especially effective with those who wish to learn skills & strategies that will allow them to make healthy, sustainable changes. I tailor my therapeutic approach to suit your needs, and create a comfort zone where you can come home to your authentic self and the potential within. In other words, I help you get out of your own way! I also bring over 30 years of sports coaching experience to my practice as a psychologist in Victoria BC.
I am pleased to offer solution-based, action-oriented counselling to individuals, couples, and groups needing assistance with everyday problems. I am especially effective with those who wish to learn skills & strategies that will allow them to make healthy, sustainable changes. I tailor my therapeutic approach to suit your needs, and create a comfort zone where you can come home to your authentic self and the potential within. In other words, I help you get out of your own way! I also bring over 30 years of sports coaching experience to my practice as a psychologist in Victoria BC.
It is exhausting to live with a nagging sense that you just aren't quite "good enough." That hidden insecurity messes with everything. It turns simple chats with your partner into big fights. It makes you feel shy or worried about what others think, when you really just want to feel at ease.
It’s time to turn that around. I keep therapy warm, real, and lighthearted. We won’t just talk in circles; we’ll build actual skills to help you feel secure in your life and relationships. Imagine a relationship without the drama, or finally feeling comfortable in your own skin. Let’s get you there.
It is exhausting to live with a nagging sense that you just aren't quite "good enough." That hidden insecurity messes with everything. It turns simple chats with your partner into big fights. It makes you feel shy or worried about what others think, when you really just want to feel at ease.
It’s time to turn that around. I keep therapy warm, real, and lighthearted. We won’t just talk in circles; we’ll build actual skills to help you feel secure in your life and relationships. Imagine a relationship without the drama, or finally feeling comfortable in your own skin. Let’s get you there.
In Sanskrit, the human condition is known as "PurashArth" translated as the meaning of existence. That is we all want to be happy, we work towards being happy, and we seek eternal happiness. In my practice and personal lived experience, I have observed that we all have a desire to be 'seen', and 'heard', this is how we feel included. When these three are missing, we become stuck here and do not know how to step out into our true Self. I strongly believe that once we make that choice to seek our true Self, together the therapist and client evolve toward their goals. To find that peace and joy that is not in the far distance but here.
In Sanskrit, the human condition is known as "PurashArth" translated as the meaning of existence. That is we all want to be happy, we work towards being happy, and we seek eternal happiness. In my practice and personal lived experience, I have observed that we all have a desire to be 'seen', and 'heard', this is how we feel included. When these three are missing, we become stuck here and do not know how to step out into our true Self. I strongly believe that once we make that choice to seek our true Self, together the therapist and client evolve toward their goals. To find that peace and joy that is not in the far distance but here.
Emilie Kemlo Psychologist -Active Practice
Psychologist, MA, R, Psych, ACTIVE, PRACTIC
Victoria, BC V9A
Emilie Kemlo, Psychologist is a dedicated specialist in emotionally based trauma release work for 36 years with all ages,nationalities, and income levels, using a sliding scale fee, low rates and immediate availability. She is registered with College of Psychologists of BC, worked at Counseling Center of Tokyo, Tokyo International University, and in Vancouver and Victoria, B.C. with a deep understanding of all psychological issues, both Western, First Nations and multicultural Asian issues in health, sex, work and relationships. She was a founding teacher of BC School of Art Therapy, Victoria, and uses Bioenergetic Analysis, visual language and various psychotherapeutic approaches.
Emilie Kemlo, Psychologist is a dedicated specialist in emotionally based trauma release work for 36 years with all ages,nationalities, and income levels, using a sliding scale fee, low rates and immediate availability. She is registered with College of Psychologists of BC, worked at Counseling Center of Tokyo, Tokyo International University, and in Vancouver and Victoria, B.C. with a deep understanding of all psychological issues, both Western, First Nations and multicultural Asian issues in health, sex, work and relationships. She was a founding teacher of BC School of Art Therapy, Victoria, and uses Bioenergetic Analysis, visual language and various psychotherapeutic approaches.
With over 11 years of experience, Dr. Natali Carry is a licensed Clinical Psychologist dedicated to helping people work through depression, stress, burnout, trauma, grief, job loss, social anxiety, and fears. She and her team—including licensed psychologists, testing specialists, and a psychiatrist—offer complete support for children and adults facing anxiety, life changes, and emotional struggles. Our BC Ocean Psychology Center provides compassionate, skilled psychotherapists, psychologists, and social workers ready to guide you on your path to healing.
With over 11 years of experience, Dr. Natali Carry is a licensed Clinical Psychologist dedicated to helping people work through depression, stress, burnout, trauma, grief, job loss, social anxiety, and fears. She and her team—including licensed psychologists, testing specialists, and a psychiatrist—offer complete support for children and adults facing anxiety, life changes, and emotional struggles. Our BC Ocean Psychology Center provides compassionate, skilled psychotherapists, psychologists, and social workers ready to guide you on your path to healing.
You are someone who handles things. You always have. But lately, handling things has started to feel like surviving them and you are tired of surviving.
The stress has become structural. The anxiety lives in your body now, not just your mind. You push through because stopping feels impossible. You push through because everything you have built depends on you continuing to function. You are not broken. You are a high-performing person carrying more than high performance was designed to hold.
I am Iffy Nwankwo, Registered Counselor (CCC) and founder of Hartwell Counselling Therapy Group-offering virtual therapy in BC.
You are someone who handles things. You always have. But lately, handling things has started to feel like surviving them and you are tired of surviving.
The stress has become structural. The anxiety lives in your body now, not just your mind. You push through because stopping feels impossible. You push through because everything you have built depends on you continuing to function. You are not broken. You are a high-performing person carrying more than high performance was designed to hold.
I am Iffy Nwankwo, Registered Counselor (CCC) and founder of Hartwell Counselling Therapy Group-offering virtual therapy in BC.
You are a deep thinker, a seeker of truth, and you yearn for a life filled with meaning and authenticity. Whether you're exploring your sexual identity, navigating complex relationships, or seeking to understand your emotional patterns, you’ve likely felt the tension between your desires and the limitations placed on you by unconscious drives or societal expectations. You’re ready to break free from these constraints and live your fullest, most liberated life.
You are a deep thinker, a seeker of truth, and you yearn for a life filled with meaning and authenticity. Whether you're exploring your sexual identity, navigating complex relationships, or seeking to understand your emotional patterns, you’ve likely felt the tension between your desires and the limitations placed on you by unconscious drives or societal expectations. You’re ready to break free from these constraints and live your fullest, most liberated life.
I support youth (14+), adults, and couples navigating challenges like anxiety, relationship issues, life transitions, and ADHD. I believe therapy should be as unique as the individual, and my approach is tailored to help you explore your inner world, overcome barriers, and take meaningful steps toward lasting change.
As a Certified ADHD Clinical Services Provider (ADHD-CCSP), I offer specialized, evidence-informed support for individuals navigating ADHD. I take a non-judgmental, compassionate approach that embraces neurodiversity and honours each person’s unique strengths.
I support youth (14+), adults, and couples navigating challenges like anxiety, relationship issues, life transitions, and ADHD. I believe therapy should be as unique as the individual, and my approach is tailored to help you explore your inner world, overcome barriers, and take meaningful steps toward lasting change.
As a Certified ADHD Clinical Services Provider (ADHD-CCSP), I offer specialized, evidence-informed support for individuals navigating ADHD. I take a non-judgmental, compassionate approach that embraces neurodiversity and honours each person’s unique strengths.
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It is with deep gratitude that Gillian offers a safe, supportive space for individuals seeking counselling to be heard, understood, and respected. She aspires to help those who are suffering reconnect with hope and increase the joy and meaning in their lives. Her counselling approach prioritizes safety, comfort, and individualized support, allowing clients to work toward their goals at a pace that feels right for them. Gillian believes that healing happens most effectively within a foundation of trust, creativity, and compassion, and she is committed to helping each person feel genuinely supported on their journey.
It is with deep gratitude that Gillian offers a safe, supportive space for individuals seeking counselling to be heard, understood, and respected. She aspires to help those who are suffering reconnect with hope and increase the joy and meaning in their lives. Her counselling approach prioritizes safety, comfort, and individualized support, allowing clients to work toward their goals at a pace that feels right for them. Gillian believes that healing happens most effectively within a foundation of trust, creativity, and compassion, and she is committed to helping each person feel genuinely supported on their journey.
I work with adults, older adults, youth 16+, and couples navigating ADHD, anxiety, low self-esteem, relationship difficulties, grief, and major life transitions. I also have a particular interest in men’s mental health and the challenges that can arise around relationships, fatherhood, separation, identity, work, and finding direction or meaning. My approach is collaborative and practical, helping clients better understand the patterns shaping their lives, develop useful strategies, and make changes that reflect who they are and what matters to them.
I work with adults, older adults, youth 16+, and couples navigating ADHD, anxiety, low self-esteem, relationship difficulties, grief, and major life transitions. I also have a particular interest in men’s mental health and the challenges that can arise around relationships, fatherhood, separation, identity, work, and finding direction or meaning. My approach is collaborative and practical, helping clients better understand the patterns shaping their lives, develop useful strategies, and make changes that reflect who they are and what matters to them.
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You long for deeper connection with yourself, your partner, or the people you love, but find yourself caught in patterns that leave you feeling alone, misunderstood, or emotionally overwhelmed. Perhaps you're struggling with trauma, anxiety, shame, grief, relationship challenges, or the lasting impact of painful experiences. Together, we explore the emotions, needs, and patterns beneath your struggles, helping you make sense of your experiences, reconnect with your strengths, and create more fulfilling relationships with yourself and others.
You long for deeper connection with yourself, your partner, or the people you love, but find yourself caught in patterns that leave you feeling alone, misunderstood, or emotionally overwhelmed. Perhaps you're struggling with trauma, anxiety, shame, grief, relationship challenges, or the lasting impact of painful experiences. Together, we explore the emotions, needs, and patterns beneath your struggles, helping you make sense of your experiences, reconnect with your strengths, and create more fulfilling relationships with yourself and others.
You may be feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or simply tired of carrying everything on your own. Whether you’re navigating anxiety, stress or burnout, relationship challenges, difficult emotions, trauma, or a major life transition, counselling can offer a space to slow down and make sense of what you’re going through. I support individuals across the lifespan, including children, teens, adults, and older adults, as well as families.
My approach is warm, collaborative, and tailored to you. Together, we can explore the patterns, emotions, and experiences that may be keeping you stuck, while building practical tools to move forward.
You may be feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or simply tired of carrying everything on your own. Whether you’re navigating anxiety, stress or burnout, relationship challenges, difficult emotions, trauma, or a major life transition, counselling can offer a space to slow down and make sense of what you’re going through. I support individuals across the lifespan, including children, teens, adults, and older adults, as well as families.
My approach is warm, collaborative, and tailored to you. Together, we can explore the patterns, emotions, and experiences that may be keeping you stuck, while building practical tools to move forward.
Do you feel like you’ve reached your breaking point, yet aren’t breaking through to the next level? Maybe you fluctuate between feeling scattered or paralyzed when it comes down to keeping up with everything. You might feel stuck when it comes to improving your relationships, career, or self-care. From the outside it can look like you don’t care enough, lack motivation, or are just not trying. We know that isn’t true. You are self-aware, especially about the kind of life you want, and who you’d love to be.
Do you feel like you’ve reached your breaking point, yet aren’t breaking through to the next level? Maybe you fluctuate between feeling scattered or paralyzed when it comes down to keeping up with everything. You might feel stuck when it comes to improving your relationships, career, or self-care. From the outside it can look like you don’t care enough, lack motivation, or are just not trying. We know that isn’t true. You are self-aware, especially about the kind of life you want, and who you’d love to be.
한국어 설명은 위 "한국어" 를 클릭하세요. From birth to death, we constantly move between the spectrum of stability and fragility. No one’s always firm, and no one’s always vulnerable. No one’s entirely powerless or one hundred percent stoic in the face of challenging circumstances. Counselling cannot immediately alter the external factors of your situation, but it can encourage a better response from you. I wish, through counselling, you will find opportunities for growth and change.
한국어 설명은 위 "한국어" 를 클릭하세요. From birth to death, we constantly move between the spectrum of stability and fragility. No one’s always firm, and no one’s always vulnerable. No one’s entirely powerless or one hundred percent stoic in the face of challenging circumstances. Counselling cannot immediately alter the external factors of your situation, but it can encourage a better response from you. I wish, through counselling, you will find opportunities for growth and change.
Do you ever find yourself feeling stuck in the same emotional patterns, no matter how hard you try to change? Maybe you notice anxiety, sadness, or old wounds from relationships resurfacing in ways that affect your connections today. If this sounds familiar, I invite you to reach out and explore how counselling can help you find clarity, healing, and lasting change. As a Registered Clinical Counsellor with BCACC, I bring over 15 years of experience supporting mental health and well-being across both community and clinical settings.
Do you ever find yourself feeling stuck in the same emotional patterns, no matter how hard you try to change? Maybe you notice anxiety, sadness, or old wounds from relationships resurfacing in ways that affect your connections today. If this sounds familiar, I invite you to reach out and explore how counselling can help you find clarity, healing, and lasting change. As a Registered Clinical Counsellor with BCACC, I bring over 15 years of experience supporting mental health and well-being across both community and clinical settings.
Dear clients, I am sending you my warmest greetings as you take this incredible step of showing up for yourself here. Life could be unbearable and confusing at times. I believe that the complexity of life is sometimes beyond words, but never beyond love and the desire to connect with ourselves. It is my hope to meet you and honor your life stories with compassion, love, and a true desire to listen. I look forward to going on this amazing journey with you, one in which we explore the peace, love, and light within you through developing practical ways of healing that suit you the most.
Dear clients, I am sending you my warmest greetings as you take this incredible step of showing up for yourself here. Life could be unbearable and confusing at times. I believe that the complexity of life is sometimes beyond words, but never beyond love and the desire to connect with ourselves. It is my hope to meet you and honor your life stories with compassion, love, and a true desire to listen. I look forward to going on this amazing journey with you, one in which we explore the peace, love, and light within you through developing practical ways of healing that suit you the most.
You’re caught in cycles that feel familiar but draining—overthinking, shutting down, or grappling with emotions that hit hard and fast. You strive for high standards, yet beneath it all, anxiety, self-doubt, or the weight of past trauma make it tough to feel in control. You’re not broken—you’re resilient, but you’re tired of just surviving. You’re ready to understand what drives these patterns and gain tools to live with confidence and connection.
You’re caught in cycles that feel familiar but draining—overthinking, shutting down, or grappling with emotions that hit hard and fast. You strive for high standards, yet beneath it all, anxiety, self-doubt, or the weight of past trauma make it tough to feel in control. You’re not broken—you’re resilient, but you’re tired of just surviving. You’re ready to understand what drives these patterns and gain tools to live with confidence and connection.
You may be feeling disconnected from your partner, stuck in recurring conflict, or unsure how to repair trust after hurt or emotional distance. You might be navigating a major relationship transition such as commitment decisions, premarital preparation, separation, or rebuilding after betrayal. You may notice the same patterns repeating and want help understanding what is happening beneath the surface. Ultimately, you want more emotional closeness, clearer communication, and a relationship that feels secure, respectful, and supportive rather than exhausting, tense, or confusing.
You may be feeling disconnected from your partner, stuck in recurring conflict, or unsure how to repair trust after hurt or emotional distance. You might be navigating a major relationship transition such as commitment decisions, premarital preparation, separation, or rebuilding after betrayal. You may notice the same patterns repeating and want help understanding what is happening beneath the surface. Ultimately, you want more emotional closeness, clearer communication, and a relationship that feels secure, respectful, and supportive rather than exhausting, tense, or confusing.
Sometimes love isn't gone. Sometimes it's buried under the hurt.
You can love someone deeply and still feel completely lost with them.
The arguments become repetitive.
The silence becomes heavier.
You keep saying things you don't mean.
And eventually, one of you says, “Maybe we're better off apart.”
But beneath the anger, there can still be hurt.
Beneath the hurt, there can still be love.
And beneath the distance, there may still be a relationship worth fighting for.
Sometimes love isn't gone. Sometimes it's buried under the hurt.
You can love someone deeply and still feel completely lost with them.
The arguments become repetitive.
The silence becomes heavier.
You keep saying things you don't mean.
And eventually, one of you says, “Maybe we're better off apart.”
But beneath the anger, there can still be hurt.
Beneath the hurt, there can still be love.
And beneath the distance, there may still be a relationship worth fighting for.
Shahrzad understands how easily we can get stuck and how profoundly the stories and wounds from the past can impact our current relationships, situations and outcomes. She believes that building a relationship with her clients based on compassion, trust, empathy and mutual respect is essential to the counselling process. Within this relationship and safe environment, clients feel heard and cared for which allows them to create positive change in their lives.
Shahrzad understands how easily we can get stuck and how profoundly the stories and wounds from the past can impact our current relationships, situations and outcomes. She believes that building a relationship with her clients based on compassion, trust, empathy and mutual respect is essential to the counselling process. Within this relationship and safe environment, clients feel heard and cared for which allows them to create positive change in their lives.
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