Male Therapists in Victoria, BC
I see counselling as a collaborative process and believe that therapy offers a chance to heal, grow, and excel in life. I am passionate about helping people see their strengths and recover from limiting beliefs that are often a result of the minor or major traumas that are a part of life. I view symptoms and undesired behaviours as wise, but outdated adaptations that can be transformed. Befriending our mind and finding self acceptance are key tenets that influence my therapy. With a strong emphasis on the therapeutic relationship, I strive to provide a safe, curious, and humorous (at times), space for your personal growth.
I see counselling as a collaborative process and believe that therapy offers a chance to heal, grow, and excel in life. I am passionate about helping people see their strengths and recover from limiting beliefs that are often a result of the minor or major traumas that are a part of life. I view symptoms and undesired behaviours as wise, but outdated adaptations that can be transformed. Befriending our mind and finding self acceptance are key tenets that influence my therapy. With a strong emphasis on the therapeutic relationship, I strive to provide a safe, curious, and humorous (at times), space for your personal growth.
Burnt out, frustrated, worried about the future? What if we're all responding appropriate to unhealthy systems, trying to survive in a world that is suffocating itself. Understanding who we are, where we come from, and where we are going provide us with a tether. With this knowing, we become certain amidst the uncertainty and calm amidst the chaos. When our only choice is to choose how we respond, it is important to know what makes us tick.
Burnt out, frustrated, worried about the future? What if we're all responding appropriate to unhealthy systems, trying to survive in a world that is suffocating itself. Understanding who we are, where we come from, and where we are going provide us with a tether. With this knowing, we become certain amidst the uncertainty and calm amidst the chaos. When our only choice is to choose how we respond, it is important to know what makes us tick.
Is your life cloudy lately? Are you feeling uncomfortable or irritable? Is life losing the meaning it once had? Feeling like a stranger to yourself? In psychological counselling with me, you can turn losses into gains. I can help you get a clearer picture of the patterns which get you stuck - as a spouse, parent, worker, friend - on the course of your unique personal journey. I can teach you some keys to help you get unstuck. Once you've worked with me, you'll have a choice among coping strategies to shift your life in the direction you want, in your relationships, your work, or your personal healing.
Is your life cloudy lately? Are you feeling uncomfortable or irritable? Is life losing the meaning it once had? Feeling like a stranger to yourself? In psychological counselling with me, you can turn losses into gains. I can help you get a clearer picture of the patterns which get you stuck - as a spouse, parent, worker, friend - on the course of your unique personal journey. I can teach you some keys to help you get unstuck. Once you've worked with me, you'll have a choice among coping strategies to shift your life in the direction you want, in your relationships, your work, or your personal healing.
Racialized adults, trauma-exposed professionals, couples in crisis, neurodiverse people, and others. I've noticed a trend... Some people wait as long as they can before getting support, others reach out early, but no one is better off alone. Trauma holds us back. Neurodiversity complicates things (like navigating a society not designed with you in mind!). Grief, Loss, and other Life Transitions pile on extra stress during trying times. With support, I'm confident you'll find your way forward.
Racialized adults, trauma-exposed professionals, couples in crisis, neurodiverse people, and others. I've noticed a trend... Some people wait as long as they can before getting support, others reach out early, but no one is better off alone. Trauma holds us back. Neurodiversity complicates things (like navigating a society not designed with you in mind!). Grief, Loss, and other Life Transitions pile on extra stress during trying times. With support, I'm confident you'll find your way forward.
As a queer trans man with identified/realized neurodivergent wiring and an adoptive parent to a neurodivergent child, I prioritize the importance of seeing people as complex, nuanced, and unique individuals.
I strive to keep my practice flexible, authentic, holistic, and avoid 'one size fits all' approaches that attempt to fit folx into little boxes. Life has probably done this enough already, so you deserve a space that will see you for who you are and your ways of being in the world.
As a queer trans man with identified/realized neurodivergent wiring and an adoptive parent to a neurodivergent child, I prioritize the importance of seeing people as complex, nuanced, and unique individuals.
I strive to keep my practice flexible, authentic, holistic, and avoid 'one size fits all' approaches that attempt to fit folx into little boxes. Life has probably done this enough already, so you deserve a space that will see you for who you are and your ways of being in the world.
My aim is to provide a trusting, nonjudgmental space in which you feel comfortable sharing your personal story. While there is innate wisdom within all of us, our ability to see the way forward is often clouded when we become overwhelmed. A deep exploration of one’s internal experience can be freeing, and provide valuable insight into (often unconscious) patterns of relating to the self and others. We will work collaboratively through an attachment-based, trauma-informed lens. Drawing connections between your past experiences and your present concerns will help us identify how best to meet your future goals.
My aim is to provide a trusting, nonjudgmental space in which you feel comfortable sharing your personal story. While there is innate wisdom within all of us, our ability to see the way forward is often clouded when we become overwhelmed. A deep exploration of one’s internal experience can be freeing, and provide valuable insight into (often unconscious) patterns of relating to the self and others. We will work collaboratively through an attachment-based, trauma-informed lens. Drawing connections between your past experiences and your present concerns will help us identify how best to meet your future goals.
It’s tough trying to find the right counsellor, especially if your plate's already pretty full. Most people I work with are carrying stress, uncertainty, or an impression that things shouldn’t be this hard. You don’t need perfect words or a clear plan when we meet - just a sense that it’s time for things to go a bit differently. In sessions, you can expect to build skills to take care of yourself, your life, and others with greater clarity and compassion. Regardless of what we focus on, know that you'll be welcomed exactly as you are. You’ll find an environment where all parts of you can be seen, understood, and respected.
It’s tough trying to find the right counsellor, especially if your plate's already pretty full. Most people I work with are carrying stress, uncertainty, or an impression that things shouldn’t be this hard. You don’t need perfect words or a clear plan when we meet - just a sense that it’s time for things to go a bit differently. In sessions, you can expect to build skills to take care of yourself, your life, and others with greater clarity and compassion. Regardless of what we focus on, know that you'll be welcomed exactly as you are. You’ll find an environment where all parts of you can be seen, understood, and respected.
It is important to feel seen and understood. There are lifestyle choices that often don't get the support they need because of the stigma created around it. My lifestyle may mirror those needing that empathy and compassion, having been a serving member of the Canadian Armed Forces for 20 years, being Indigenous, LGBTQ and a single parent and belonging to several other communities which face stigmatization because of the way we live.
It is important to feel seen and understood. There are lifestyle choices that often don't get the support they need because of the stigma created around it. My lifestyle may mirror those needing that empathy and compassion, having been a serving member of the Canadian Armed Forces for 20 years, being Indigenous, LGBTQ and a single parent and belonging to several other communities which face stigmatization because of the way we live.
If you are reading this, you may be looking for change. To heal, to find new passions, to unlock blocked potential. I am here to help you along this journey to self-improvement. Life doesn't always go according to plan and sometimes we need support in getting through the ups and downs. Together we can explore ways to tap into your best self, let go of behaviours that are holding you back, and tap into emotions that can reveal who you truly are and what you need in order to thrive. It is never too late. We will work as a team to build emotional awareness and develop new brain pathways that will lead to a brighter future.
If you are reading this, you may be looking for change. To heal, to find new passions, to unlock blocked potential. I am here to help you along this journey to self-improvement. Life doesn't always go according to plan and sometimes we need support in getting through the ups and downs. Together we can explore ways to tap into your best self, let go of behaviours that are holding you back, and tap into emotions that can reveal who you truly are and what you need in order to thrive. It is never too late. We will work as a team to build emotional awareness and develop new brain pathways that will lead to a brighter future.
Hi, I’m Stephen, a therapist and trained OCD clinician specializing in OCD, anxiety, and related conditions. I was born and raised in South Africa and later moved to Victoria, BC, where I completed my Master of Counselling degree.
My work is informed by both clinical training and my own experience with OCD, anxiety, and body dysmorphic disorder. I understand how overwhelming, scary, confusing, and exhausting these obsessive experiences can feel, and I aim to offer a space grounded in compassion, non-judgment, and real understanding. My approach is collaborative and evidence-based, focused on helping you move toward your goals.
Hi, I’m Stephen, a therapist and trained OCD clinician specializing in OCD, anxiety, and related conditions. I was born and raised in South Africa and later moved to Victoria, BC, where I completed my Master of Counselling degree.
My work is informed by both clinical training and my own experience with OCD, anxiety, and body dysmorphic disorder. I understand how overwhelming, scary, confusing, and exhausting these obsessive experiences can feel, and I aim to offer a space grounded in compassion, non-judgment, and real understanding. My approach is collaborative and evidence-based, focused on helping you move toward your goals.
When confronted with challenging times - whether it is struggling with mental health, your relationships, addiction, identity or just not knowing what to do - feelings of despair, loneliness, desperation, and fear can overwhelm hope.
When confronted with challenging times - whether it is struggling with mental health, your relationships, addiction, identity or just not knowing what to do - feelings of despair, loneliness, desperation, and fear can overwhelm hope.
You may be feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or exhausted from trying to hold everything together. Life’s journey can be beautiful—but also incredibly hard, filled with moments that leave us questioning our worth, our direction, or our capacity to keep going. If you’re here, it means you’re ready for something to shift.
Whether you’re navigating the echoes of trauma, the weight of anxiety or depression, or the complexities of relationships, you don’t have to face it on your own. You deserve a space where you feel seen, heard, and supported—where you can explore your story at your own pace and begin to move toward healing.
You may be feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or exhausted from trying to hold everything together. Life’s journey can be beautiful—but also incredibly hard, filled with moments that leave us questioning our worth, our direction, or our capacity to keep going. If you’re here, it means you’re ready for something to shift.
Whether you’re navigating the echoes of trauma, the weight of anxiety or depression, or the complexities of relationships, you don’t have to face it on your own. You deserve a space where you feel seen, heard, and supported—where you can explore your story at your own pace and begin to move toward healing.
I provide compassionate counselling that champions your strengths, honours your journey, and creates space where you feel truly seen and supported.
My counselling approach draws from my personal experience living with a chronic illness, as well as by Disability Justice, narrative, person-centred, and strength-based perspectives that honour your unique experiences, celebrate your strengths, and empower your journey toward healing.
I provide compassionate counselling that champions your strengths, honours your journey, and creates space where you feel truly seen and supported.
My counselling approach draws from my personal experience living with a chronic illness, as well as by Disability Justice, narrative, person-centred, and strength-based perspectives that honour your unique experiences, celebrate your strengths, and empower your journey toward healing.
Clients deserve to feel safe and have their emotional pain fully understood. I am adept at being able to resonate with my clients and help them feel seen. We all have such an important need to be validated.
Clients deserve to feel safe and have their emotional pain fully understood. I am adept at being able to resonate with my clients and help them feel seen. We all have such an important need to be validated.
As a counsellor, I tend to focus on couples and relationships, neurodivergent clients and adults who are experiencing stagnation or going through large life changes. My main goal is that you feel heard, seen, and understood. I am not here to judge you in any way but to help guide you to explore the places that have often been unconsciously repressed, while supporting that process with connection and expertise.
As a counsellor, I tend to focus on couples and relationships, neurodivergent clients and adults who are experiencing stagnation or going through large life changes. My main goal is that you feel heard, seen, and understood. I am not here to judge you in any way but to help guide you to explore the places that have often been unconsciously repressed, while supporting that process with connection and expertise.
As a queer trans immigrant from Latin America, I bring over twenty-five years of experience as a licensed clinical social worker in the U.S., and I am now a registered clinical social worker in British Columbia. My practice is rooted in an anti-oppressive framework and shaped by a deep commitment to cultural safety, collective care, and affirming therapeutic relationships—especially for 2SLGBTQ+ folks, BIPOC communities, and immigrants navigating complex systems and histories.
As a queer trans immigrant from Latin America, I bring over twenty-five years of experience as a licensed clinical social worker in the U.S., and I am now a registered clinical social worker in British Columbia. My practice is rooted in an anti-oppressive framework and shaped by a deep commitment to cultural safety, collective care, and affirming therapeutic relationships—especially for 2SLGBTQ+ folks, BIPOC communities, and immigrants navigating complex systems and histories.
I am a Registered Psychologist (CPBC #1774) who sees adult clients in Victoria, BC. I work with clients to develop coping skills to face challenges and accept limitations. I believe that clients benefit most from therapy when it matches their unique needs for emotional and personal growth. I use several research-supported approaches (e.g., Cognitive-Behaviour Therapy, Interpersonal Therapy, EMDR, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy) to address: depression, social anxiety, panic, phobias, obsessions and compulsions (OCD), adjustment to chronic pain, trauma, anger management, stress management, life transitions, parenting, and family relationships.
I am a Registered Psychologist (CPBC #1774) who sees adult clients in Victoria, BC. I work with clients to develop coping skills to face challenges and accept limitations. I believe that clients benefit most from therapy when it matches their unique needs for emotional and personal growth. I use several research-supported approaches (e.g., Cognitive-Behaviour Therapy, Interpersonal Therapy, EMDR, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy) to address: depression, social anxiety, panic, phobias, obsessions and compulsions (OCD), adjustment to chronic pain, trauma, anger management, stress management, life transitions, parenting, and family relationships.
From the outside, it might seem like you have your life together. But inside, you might be feeling differently, possibly worn down, disconnected, or quietly struggling for longer than you'd like to admit. Anxious energy rolling around can strain relationships and make life feel more complicated, and old wounds can resurface in ways that are hard to make sense of. As a man, whether straight, gay, or queer, we're often taught to appear capable while we feel somewhat lost underneath. If you've wondered whether therapy is really for you, you're not alone.
From the outside, it might seem like you have your life together. But inside, you might be feeling differently, possibly worn down, disconnected, or quietly struggling for longer than you'd like to admit. Anxious energy rolling around can strain relationships and make life feel more complicated, and old wounds can resurface in ways that are hard to make sense of. As a man, whether straight, gay, or queer, we're often taught to appear capable while we feel somewhat lost underneath. If you've wondered whether therapy is really for you, you're not alone.
I am a Registered Counselling Therapist (RCT). My counselling approach is built on something called unconditional positive regard. I am a non-judgemental listener who likes to use kindness, support and sometimes even humour to build relationships with my clients. We can use a wide range of counselling practices depending on your personal or professional needs. Any person or group wrestling with an aspect of your personal or professional life is welcome to work with me. I have many years of experience in education and professional practice and have helped individuals, families, and businesses solve challenges they are facing.
I am a Registered Counselling Therapist (RCT). My counselling approach is built on something called unconditional positive regard. I am a non-judgemental listener who likes to use kindness, support and sometimes even humour to build relationships with my clients. We can use a wide range of counselling practices depending on your personal or professional needs. Any person or group wrestling with an aspect of your personal or professional life is welcome to work with me. I have many years of experience in education and professional practice and have helped individuals, families, and businesses solve challenges they are facing.
Are you considering separating from your partner because trust has been deeply violated? Are you scared of losing your relationship and want to reconnect with your partner? We begin with a process of healing that honours the truth of your experience. Where there is disconnection, we create emotional space to be understood. Where there is a cycle of conflict, we build structure that makes productive conversations possible. Together we work towards a relationship that is honestly repaired or consciously redefined. I also specialize in anxiety, ADHD, and substance use.
Are you considering separating from your partner because trust has been deeply violated? Are you scared of losing your relationship and want to reconnect with your partner? We begin with a process of healing that honours the truth of your experience. Where there is disconnection, we create emotional space to be understood. Where there is a cycle of conflict, we build structure that makes productive conversations possible. Together we work towards a relationship that is honestly repaired or consciously redefined. I also specialize in anxiety, ADHD, and substance use.
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As a man, why might I want to see a male therapist?
There are many reasons a man might wish to work with a male therapist, including a degree of shared identity, which may help client and therapist connect to each other and allow for a more free-flowing discussion of issues that can be deeply personal. Some men may feel more comfortable talking to a male therapist about relationship concerns, the pressures they feel around the roles society and family place on men, career or job challenges, self-esteem, or anger problems. For some men who have not had a male role models in their lives, a good male therapist may be especially helpful.
How can I find out about a therapist’s experience treating men?
Individuals looking for treatment should feel comfortable directly asking a therapist about their history treating men overall and the issues that arise in therapy with men. A good therapist will be happy to discuss such matters as well as their educational background, approach to treatment, and how they think they can aid a prospective client.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist of the same gender?
Therapy is not gender-specific, but some men as well as women feel more comfortable opening up about their experiences and history with therapists of a specific gender. An individual may feel that they have to explain less background information and be on the same page more quickly, particularly when discussing gender-specific challenges. That said, a good clinician can transcend most if not all gender concerns. Ultimately, the most important factor in therapy is the connection and trust the client is able to build with the practitioner.
Would a male therapist have specific training in treating men?
Generally, no. There are no certifications for treating men specifically, but there are continuing education classes that therapists may take that focus on treating men as a group. There are many therapists who focus on men and male issues in their treatment and therefore have experience and expertise in this domain.