Infidelity Therapists in Victoria, BC
Are you considering divorcing your partner because your trust has been deeply violated? Are you scared of losing your relationship and want to reconnect with your partner? We begin with a process of healing that honours the truth of your experience. Where there is disconnection, we create emotional space to be understood. Where there is a cycle of conflict, we build structure that makes productive conversations possible. Together we work towards a relationship that is honestly repaired or consciously redefined. Individuals navigating anxiety, ADHD, or substance use are also welcome, especially when these affect your relationships.
Are you considering divorcing your partner because your trust has been deeply violated? Are you scared of losing your relationship and want to reconnect with your partner? We begin with a process of healing that honours the truth of your experience. Where there is disconnection, we create emotional space to be understood. Where there is a cycle of conflict, we build structure that makes productive conversations possible. Together we work towards a relationship that is honestly repaired or consciously redefined. Individuals navigating anxiety, ADHD, or substance use are also welcome, especially when these affect your relationships.
Are you trying to figure out how to move forward after having your relationship end or discovering your partner's emotional or physical betrayal?
I am a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist trained in betrayal trauma, and I use a variety of interventions, including EMDR therapy in my practice. My goal is to provide a non-judgemental environment where you can feel safe enough to process your grief and trauma, learn how to trust yourself and others, improve your self-worth and find hope for your future.
Are you trying to figure out how to move forward after having your relationship end or discovering your partner's emotional or physical betrayal?
I am a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist trained in betrayal trauma, and I use a variety of interventions, including EMDR therapy in my practice. My goal is to provide a non-judgemental environment where you can feel safe enough to process your grief and trauma, learn how to trust yourself and others, improve your self-worth and find hope for your future.
Relationships are built at the speed of trust and I believe the relationship created between therapist and client is the foundational component in the therapeutic process. I bring 15+years of experience working with families and individuals in various capacities and create a treatment plan specific to your individual needs. I identify as a female from a mixed ancestry- European/French/Indigenous. I work relationally and meet people where they are at. I'm grateful to be able to walk alongside you and support you on your journey. I specialise working with families, of all kinds, and individuals.
Relationships are built at the speed of trust and I believe the relationship created between therapist and client is the foundational component in the therapeutic process. I bring 15+years of experience working with families and individuals in various capacities and create a treatment plan specific to your individual needs. I identify as a female from a mixed ancestry- European/French/Indigenous. I work relationally and meet people where they are at. I'm grateful to be able to walk alongside you and support you on your journey. I specialise working with families, of all kinds, and individuals.
I see people of all ages, struggling with anxiety, fears and phobias. I see individuals and couples struggling with compatibility, sexual issues/ traumas and personal challenges. By combining counselling and hypnotherapy, I help my clients get to the root of their challenges so that they can move forward with greater self-awareness, compassion, respect and desire for change, for themselves and for their relationship. My 6-10 week program allows my clients to move quickly forward in life with a greater understanding of what is needed to feel more fulfilled and content, both individually and as a couple.
I see people of all ages, struggling with anxiety, fears and phobias. I see individuals and couples struggling with compatibility, sexual issues/ traumas and personal challenges. By combining counselling and hypnotherapy, I help my clients get to the root of their challenges so that they can move forward with greater self-awareness, compassion, respect and desire for change, for themselves and for their relationship. My 6-10 week program allows my clients to move quickly forward in life with a greater understanding of what is needed to feel more fulfilled and content, both individually and as a couple.
Feeling alone, disconnected, unworthy? Do you wonder why relationships are so hard? I help women understand how your individual history & gender-role socialization impact your relationships, your ability to trust yourself, to connect with your body, & to fully access joy and pleasure. With couples, we'll work as a team exploring your deep-rooted patterns, cycles of communication, and the stories about love learned in your family of origin, to build compassion, understanding, and skills to break your protective patterns so you can choose how you want to relate.
Feeling alone, disconnected, unworthy? Do you wonder why relationships are so hard? I help women understand how your individual history & gender-role socialization impact your relationships, your ability to trust yourself, to connect with your body, & to fully access joy and pleasure. With couples, we'll work as a team exploring your deep-rooted patterns, cycles of communication, and the stories about love learned in your family of origin, to build compassion, understanding, and skills to break your protective patterns so you can choose how you want to relate.
I work collaboratively with you to navigate what feels stuck, overwhelming, or unclear - and to create movement where you're ready for change. Whether you're working to overcome challenges, process difficult emotions, or find your way through transitions, you already know yourself better than anyone else could. My role is to help you access that knowing, make space for what wants to emerge, and support the progress that matters to you.
I work collaboratively with you to navigate what feels stuck, overwhelming, or unclear - and to create movement where you're ready for change. Whether you're working to overcome challenges, process difficult emotions, or find your way through transitions, you already know yourself better than anyone else could. My role is to help you access that knowing, make space for what wants to emerge, and support the progress that matters to you.
I have been working in the field of helping and healing for over 15 years, 10 of which I have been practicing registered clinical counselling. I offer deep inner personal work to understand and overcome the conditioning and experiences of our past that influence our present realities. This work facilitates release of old patterns (both individual and intergenerational) to empower ourselves to live a life we desire in the present.
I am a fairly ‘directive’ therapist, because I believe it is my job to guide you in the healing process. This work is relational, experiential, educational and process-oriented, & rooted in neuroscience.
I have been working in the field of helping and healing for over 15 years, 10 of which I have been practicing registered clinical counselling. I offer deep inner personal work to understand and overcome the conditioning and experiences of our past that influence our present realities. This work facilitates release of old patterns (both individual and intergenerational) to empower ourselves to live a life we desire in the present.
I am a fairly ‘directive’ therapist, because I believe it is my job to guide you in the healing process. This work is relational, experiential, educational and process-oriented, & rooted in neuroscience.
Trauma-informed, compassionate counselling for trauma/ptsd, depression, anxiety, and much more. I also have many years experience working with ICBC clients. With the use of many treatment approach options, my practice is effective, holistic, warm and collaborative. It takes courage to break free from this cycle and to ask for help. Together we can work towards improving your life in endless ways, resulting in a more meaningful, peaceful, and fulfilling life!
Trauma-informed, compassionate counselling for trauma/ptsd, depression, anxiety, and much more. I also have many years experience working with ICBC clients. With the use of many treatment approach options, my practice is effective, holistic, warm and collaborative. It takes courage to break free from this cycle and to ask for help. Together we can work towards improving your life in endless ways, resulting in a more meaningful, peaceful, and fulfilling life!
Are you dealing with loss, betrayal, anxiety, anger, feeling numb or navigating the complexities of modern dating?
Inviting in curiosity & self-compassion, I support people in understanding & actively shifting patterns that no longer serve them, getting to the root of challenges while supporting nervous system regulation, healthy communication & emotional processing. My approach draws on cognitive, somatic & behavioural tools in order to help people make lasting changes.
Are you dealing with loss, betrayal, anxiety, anger, feeling numb or navigating the complexities of modern dating?
Inviting in curiosity & self-compassion, I support people in understanding & actively shifting patterns that no longer serve them, getting to the root of challenges while supporting nervous system regulation, healthy communication & emotional processing. My approach draws on cognitive, somatic & behavioural tools in order to help people make lasting changes.
Alan works with individuals through a range of concerns, specialising in anxiety, depression, and ADHD. Alan also supports exploration through life stage and relationship issues and through all concerns respects the uniqueness of individual experiences. Alan prioritizes collaboration and connection in his work, recognizes the vulnerability involved in the therapeutic process and aims to maintain safety and warmth throughout.
Alan works with individuals through a range of concerns, specialising in anxiety, depression, and ADHD. Alan also supports exploration through life stage and relationship issues and through all concerns respects the uniqueness of individual experiences. Alan prioritizes collaboration and connection in his work, recognizes the vulnerability involved in the therapeutic process and aims to maintain safety and warmth throughout.
Taking that first step towards healing takes courage. I want to honour that and walk alongside of you while we work towards your wellness goals. The reality is that not many people are taught the skills to deal with life’s wear and tear. More often than not, we find ourselves in situations where we simply do not know how to work through things on our own. The good news is that we don't have to! Warmth and acceptance are key tenants of my practice, and sessions will be collaborative, judgment free and open to exploring whatever you bring to the table.
Taking that first step towards healing takes courage. I want to honour that and walk alongside of you while we work towards your wellness goals. The reality is that not many people are taught the skills to deal with life’s wear and tear. More often than not, we find ourselves in situations where we simply do not know how to work through things on our own. The good news is that we don't have to! Warmth and acceptance are key tenants of my practice, and sessions will be collaborative, judgment free and open to exploring whatever you bring to the table.
Life can feel overwhelming at times — especially when we’re navigating transitions, grief, anxiety, depression, or challenges in our relationships and family dynamics. As a counsellor, I’m here to walk alongside you with curiosity and compassion. Together, we can explore the parts of you that may feel hidden, stuck, or unheard, and begin uncovering new ways forward that feel aligned and meaningful. You don’t have to carry it all on your own.
Life can feel overwhelming at times — especially when we’re navigating transitions, grief, anxiety, depression, or challenges in our relationships and family dynamics. As a counsellor, I’m here to walk alongside you with curiosity and compassion. Together, we can explore the parts of you that may feel hidden, stuck, or unheard, and begin uncovering new ways forward that feel aligned and meaningful. You don’t have to carry it all on your own.
Whether you're dealing with emotions, thoughts, life changes, addiction, trauma, loss or grief, I am here to provide a safe, compassionate and non-pathologizing space where you can explore who you are and work towards healing. I invite you to take a moment and reflect on what led you here. What areas of your life seem out of balance, and what does balance look like for you? I would love to hear more about your story and how I can support you on your journey.
Whether you're dealing with emotions, thoughts, life changes, addiction, trauma, loss or grief, I am here to provide a safe, compassionate and non-pathologizing space where you can explore who you are and work towards healing. I invite you to take a moment and reflect on what led you here. What areas of your life seem out of balance, and what does balance look like for you? I would love to hear more about your story and how I can support you on your journey.
Divorce Coach, Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC), Coercive Control & Intimate Partner Violence–Informed:
Divorce can feel overwhelming, emotionally, practically, and relationally; especially when children, high conflict, or power imbalances are involved. As a Divorce Coach and Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) with over a decade of experience, I support individuals navigating separation and divorce with clarity, steadiness, and compassion, particularly in situations where coercive control or intimate partner violence are present or have been part of the relationship.
Divorce Coach, Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC), Coercive Control & Intimate Partner Violence–Informed:
Divorce can feel overwhelming, emotionally, practically, and relationally; especially when children, high conflict, or power imbalances are involved. As a Divorce Coach and Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) with over a decade of experience, I support individuals navigating separation and divorce with clarity, steadiness, and compassion, particularly in situations where coercive control or intimate partner violence are present or have been part of the relationship.
I offer evidence based, compassionate and collaborative psychological treatment for teens, adults and couples. I seek to create a safe, nurturing relationship so that my clients can process, explore, and heal from the challenges that are keeping them stuck.
I offer evidence based, compassionate and collaborative psychological treatment for teens, adults and couples. I seek to create a safe, nurturing relationship so that my clients can process, explore, and heal from the challenges that are keeping them stuck.
Our Clinical Director offers free matching sessions to support you to choose a counsellor based on your individual concerns, preferences, schedule and more. One of the greatest predictors of a meaningful counselling experience is the fit between you and your counsellor. Let us help you find the right fit. We have a team of therapists who bring diverse life experience, education, training, and counselling methods to our practice. We offer counselling services to children (5-12), teenagers (13-19), adults, seniors (65+), families, and couples of all ethnicities, religions, genders, sexual orientations, and relationship structures.
Our Clinical Director offers free matching sessions to support you to choose a counsellor based on your individual concerns, preferences, schedule and more. One of the greatest predictors of a meaningful counselling experience is the fit between you and your counsellor. Let us help you find the right fit. We have a team of therapists who bring diverse life experience, education, training, and counselling methods to our practice. We offer counselling services to children (5-12), teenagers (13-19), adults, seniors (65+), families, and couples of all ethnicities, religions, genders, sexual orientations, and relationship structures.
Welcome to Cedar Cove Counselling! I'm happy to meet with anyone experiencing a wide range of concerns. My areas of interest and experience are anxiety, relationships (romantic, platonic, parental), divorce/separation (co-parenting, step-parenting), and peri- and post-partum mental health. I have experience with and work with all age groups from 12 years old and up. If you're not happy with the way you're feeling, you feel "stuck", or you're unsure how to go about communicating or expressing your needs and concerns, we can explore strategies and interventions to help support you with your goals.
Welcome to Cedar Cove Counselling! I'm happy to meet with anyone experiencing a wide range of concerns. My areas of interest and experience are anxiety, relationships (romantic, platonic, parental), divorce/separation (co-parenting, step-parenting), and peri- and post-partum mental health. I have experience with and work with all age groups from 12 years old and up. If you're not happy with the way you're feeling, you feel "stuck", or you're unsure how to go about communicating or expressing your needs and concerns, we can explore strategies and interventions to help support you with your goals.
I work with individuals experiencing anxiety, relationship challenges, workplace concerns, ADHD symptoms, and those navigating the various ups and downs of life. With so much on our plates these days, it's easy to feel stuck, exhausted or unsure of how to move forward. This is where I can help – you don’t have to do it alone..
I work with individuals experiencing anxiety, relationship challenges, workplace concerns, ADHD symptoms, and those navigating the various ups and downs of life. With so much on our plates these days, it's easy to feel stuck, exhausted or unsure of how to move forward. This is where I can help – you don’t have to do it alone..
I believe in an individualized, caring and respectful approach when working with clients to become more resilient and effective in their lives. Many people believe that the skills and motivation needed to maneuver all of life’s obstacles are automatically within all of us. But many of us learn ineffective ways of communicating, develop unhealthy patterns or find ourselves stuck with no idea of how to move forward. Having a dedicated time to examine patterns, build skills and develop a deeper understanding of ones’ strengths can help build a greater sense of wellness and clarity in our lives.
I believe in an individualized, caring and respectful approach when working with clients to become more resilient and effective in their lives. Many people believe that the skills and motivation needed to maneuver all of life’s obstacles are automatically within all of us. But many of us learn ineffective ways of communicating, develop unhealthy patterns or find ourselves stuck with no idea of how to move forward. Having a dedicated time to examine patterns, build skills and develop a deeper understanding of ones’ strengths can help build a greater sense of wellness and clarity in our lives.
Welcome! I am a registered clinical counsellor providing services in the province of British Columbia. In my practice, I am committed to meeting you exactly where you are on your journey. I understand that each individual's path is unique, and I value the importance of creating a safe and non-judgmental space where you feel comfortable expressing yourself. Together we will identify your goals and build a path that leads you toward a life that resonates with your authentic self. We will recognize what is already working in your life and what is getting in your way of where you wish to be.
Welcome! I am a registered clinical counsellor providing services in the province of British Columbia. In my practice, I am committed to meeting you exactly where you are on your journey. I understand that each individual's path is unique, and I value the importance of creating a safe and non-judgmental space where you feel comfortable expressing yourself. Together we will identify your goals and build a path that leads you toward a life that resonates with your authentic self. We will recognize what is already working in your life and what is getting in your way of where you wish to be.
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How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.