Open Relationships Non-Monogamy Therapists in Vancouver, BC
Expressive Wellness offers a sliding scale individual and relationship counselling sessions with Masters-level practicum students ($30-100 a session, self chosen rate), as well as counselling by Registered Counsellors and Social Workers. Centring anti-oppressive counselling, we work alongside 2SLGBTQI+ folks, BIPOC folks, sex workers, neurodivergent folks, folks who have experienced traumas, folks who cope with OCD, and poly/kink communities. We provide individual, family and relationship counselling. Practice focuses include EMDR, somatic work, emotion focused therapy, DBT and narrative therapy.
Expressive Wellness offers a sliding scale individual and relationship counselling sessions with Masters-level practicum students ($30-100 a session, self chosen rate), as well as counselling by Registered Counsellors and Social Workers. Centring anti-oppressive counselling, we work alongside 2SLGBTQI+ folks, BIPOC folks, sex workers, neurodivergent folks, folks who have experienced traumas, folks who cope with OCD, and poly/kink communities. We provide individual, family and relationship counselling. Practice focuses include EMDR, somatic work, emotion focused therapy, DBT and narrative therapy.
I am an autistic and ADHD, queer, and bicultural therapist. My practice is focused on anti-oppressive and trauma-informed care for marginalized individuals including QPOC, neurodivergent, immigrant, kink and poly/ENM communities. My values best align with person-centred and humanistic approaches that build upon your strengths and inherent traits. As a certified yoga and movement teacher, I can also offer tools to help deepen your mind-body connection. I like to see myself as a supportive co-collaborator alongside your healing journey.
I am an autistic and ADHD, queer, and bicultural therapist. My practice is focused on anti-oppressive and trauma-informed care for marginalized individuals including QPOC, neurodivergent, immigrant, kink and poly/ENM communities. My values best align with person-centred and humanistic approaches that build upon your strengths and inherent traits. As a certified yoga and movement teacher, I can also offer tools to help deepen your mind-body connection. I like to see myself as a supportive co-collaborator alongside your healing journey.
Darci works with autistic people and those on the ADHD spectrum. Understanding how this impacts your life is crucial to navigating the neurotypical world. Being neurodivergent is harder when the world is designed for different minds.
Whether you are heterosexual, queer, monogamous or not, being on the spectrum can offer a set of unique challenges.
Darci offers a sensory friendly space where self-expression and real talk is encouraged and appreciated.
Darci works with autistic people and those on the ADHD spectrum. Understanding how this impacts your life is crucial to navigating the neurotypical world. Being neurodivergent is harder when the world is designed for different minds.
Whether you are heterosexual, queer, monogamous or not, being on the spectrum can offer a set of unique challenges.
Darci offers a sensory friendly space where self-expression and real talk is encouraged and appreciated.
Erin Davidson, Sex & Relationship Therapist
Counsellor, MA, RCC
5 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
I am judgement-free, compassionate, and fully supportive of people of all gender identities, sexual orientations, and relationship styles including polyamory, non-monogamy.
We are all deserving and capable of enjoying fulfilling romantic and sexual relationships. Connection is the key to a life lived full. Connection to yourself first and foremost— awareness of your emotions, body sensations, values, and needs. Believing fully in your inherent worth, flaws and all. Connecting to others through a practice of empathy, vulnerability, and reliability is how we create strong relationships to our loved ones and the world around us.
I am judgement-free, compassionate, and fully supportive of people of all gender identities, sexual orientations, and relationship styles including polyamory, non-monogamy.
We are all deserving and capable of enjoying fulfilling romantic and sexual relationships. Connection is the key to a life lived full. Connection to yourself first and foremost— awareness of your emotions, body sensations, values, and needs. Believing fully in your inherent worth, flaws and all. Connecting to others through a practice of empathy, vulnerability, and reliability is how we create strong relationships to our loved ones and the world around us.
First and foremost, I want to meet and connect with you as a person. I know therapy can feel intimidating or even a little weird at first — that’s normal. My job is to make it feel like a real conversation, not an interrogation. I want to be a witness and collaborator in helping you figure out how to live in a way that actually feels like you, without all the guilt or second-guessing. This means working together to create real change, honouring you where you are with honesty, openness and warmth and fostering a positive relationship between you and your emotions.
First and foremost, I want to meet and connect with you as a person. I know therapy can feel intimidating or even a little weird at first — that’s normal. My job is to make it feel like a real conversation, not an interrogation. I want to be a witness and collaborator in helping you figure out how to live in a way that actually feels like you, without all the guilt or second-guessing. This means working together to create real change, honouring you where you are with honesty, openness and warmth and fostering a positive relationship between you and your emotions.
I am a lesbian therapist that supports non traditional relationships like ENM, polyamory, open relationships and same sex couples/polycules.
As a queer woman of colour you may struggle with finding a balance to live with societal norms while wanting to live authentic to your choices and values. You may often feel like you are the one that doesn't fit in with groups because you challenge the status quo of what's normal and often tell yourself you know you "should" do something but find yourself at a stand still not knowing why you can't move forward but understand why you need to change things.
I am a lesbian therapist that supports non traditional relationships like ENM, polyamory, open relationships and same sex couples/polycules.
As a queer woman of colour you may struggle with finding a balance to live with societal norms while wanting to live authentic to your choices and values. You may often feel like you are the one that doesn't fit in with groups because you challenge the status quo of what's normal and often tell yourself you know you "should" do something but find yourself at a stand still not knowing why you can't move forward but understand why you need to change things.
I’m a sex therapist who's bicultural (Singaporean/Canadian), demisexual, and a ciswoman who is personally familiar with polyamory.
Sexual Wellness & Identity: Desire, libido, kinks, painful sex, and exploring gender/sexuality.
Shame, Trauma & Compulsion: Healing from assault, religious trauma/purity culture, and out-of-control sexual behaviours.
Relationship Dynamics: Navigating polyamory, ethical non-monogamy (ENM), and kink dynamics.
I’m a sex therapist who's bicultural (Singaporean/Canadian), demisexual, and a ciswoman who is personally familiar with polyamory.
Sexual Wellness & Identity: Desire, libido, kinks, painful sex, and exploring gender/sexuality.
Shame, Trauma & Compulsion: Healing from assault, religious trauma/purity culture, and out-of-control sexual behaviours.
Relationship Dynamics: Navigating polyamory, ethical non-monogamy (ENM), and kink dynamics.
My clients work with me because I operate outside the "norm" of what is expected in our sessions. Many describe themselves as being misunderstood or hold fear of judgement and are tired of having to repeat their story over and over. I know how helpful it can be to speak with someone who understands your lived experience without needing to explain the basics. With over 15 years in the mental health field the work we do together extends past the basic homework sheets, into deep exploration, no quick fixes, with a focus on being supported, heard, & celebrated for who you are.
My clients work with me because I operate outside the "norm" of what is expected in our sessions. Many describe themselves as being misunderstood or hold fear of judgement and are tired of having to repeat their story over and over. I know how helpful it can be to speak with someone who understands your lived experience without needing to explain the basics. With over 15 years in the mental health field the work we do together extends past the basic homework sheets, into deep exploration, no quick fixes, with a focus on being supported, heard, & celebrated for who you are.
Relationships can be complex and navigating them can feel daunting, to say the least. When a relationship has been in a state of disconnection for a period of time, it can feel impossible to even know where to begin. It could be that you seem to have the same argument over and over again, your sex life has fizzled out, infidelity, general life changes that have impacted your ability to connect. Or maybe you just feel bored and unsatisfied. I work with people of all genders who are interested in improving their relationships and/or sex life, no matter where they are at. Single, coupled and everywhere in between.
Relationships can be complex and navigating them can feel daunting, to say the least. When a relationship has been in a state of disconnection for a period of time, it can feel impossible to even know where to begin. It could be that you seem to have the same argument over and over again, your sex life has fizzled out, infidelity, general life changes that have impacted your ability to connect. Or maybe you just feel bored and unsatisfied. I work with people of all genders who are interested in improving their relationships and/or sex life, no matter where they are at. Single, coupled and everywhere in between.
This work is about helping you connect to your SELF, so you can navigate relationships authentically and meet challenges with compassion and courage. If you want to slow down, get curious, and listen deeply, let's connect!
Our internal body wisdom is a source of information that speaks more than words. The patterns we hold and express reveal meaning and share a legacy of past experiences, often persisting long after they are needed.
Real change is possible when ALL of you feels safe enough to be seen and supported, just as you are. In the relational space we build together, you will discover what you need to move forward.
This work is about helping you connect to your SELF, so you can navigate relationships authentically and meet challenges with compassion and courage. If you want to slow down, get curious, and listen deeply, let's connect!
Our internal body wisdom is a source of information that speaks more than words. The patterns we hold and express reveal meaning and share a legacy of past experiences, often persisting long after they are needed.
Real change is possible when ALL of you feels safe enough to be seen and supported, just as you are. In the relational space we build together, you will discover what you need to move forward.
Life is super hard right now for many, if not all of us. Most of us feel like we're just trying to survive each day. We specialize in helping women cope with everything from anxiety and burnout, grief and loss, to navigating motherhood and other major life changes. We'll support you through it all – big or small. We’re committed to creating an environment that makes you feel comfortable sharing anything that’s on your mind. We’ll never assume anything about you, your circumstances or what’s best for you. Life is full of ups and downs, and we’re here to support and empower you through every stage of it. You’re not alone.
Life is super hard right now for many, if not all of us. Most of us feel like we're just trying to survive each day. We specialize in helping women cope with everything from anxiety and burnout, grief and loss, to navigating motherhood and other major life changes. We'll support you through it all – big or small. We’re committed to creating an environment that makes you feel comfortable sharing anything that’s on your mind. We’ll never assume anything about you, your circumstances or what’s best for you. Life is full of ups and downs, and we’re here to support and empower you through every stage of it. You’re not alone.
“Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare.” - Audre Lorde. Hello, and welcome to Pamati Counselling. Pamati means listen in Cebuano. I am of mixed Asian ancestry, including Filipino, Chinese and Vietnamese. I was born in Toronto, the traditional territory of the Mississaugas of the Credit, the Anishnabeg, the Chippewa, the Haudenosaunee and the Wendat peoples. My pronouns are she/her/they/them and I identify with the LGBTQ2s community. The intersectional movements of MeToo, MMWGI, Black Lives Matter and FreePalestine inform my work.
“Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare.” - Audre Lorde. Hello, and welcome to Pamati Counselling. Pamati means listen in Cebuano. I am of mixed Asian ancestry, including Filipino, Chinese and Vietnamese. I was born in Toronto, the traditional territory of the Mississaugas of the Credit, the Anishnabeg, the Chippewa, the Haudenosaunee and the Wendat peoples. My pronouns are she/her/they/them and I identify with the LGBTQ2s community. The intersectional movements of MeToo, MMWGI, Black Lives Matter and FreePalestine inform my work.
Hello and welcome! I specialize in supporting neurodivergent adults with ADHD, Autism, and High Sensitivity (HSP). My goal is to help you embrace your neurodivergence and identify your strengths.
Hello and welcome! I specialize in supporting neurodivergent adults with ADHD, Autism, and High Sensitivity (HSP). My goal is to help you embrace your neurodivergence and identify your strengths.
I am a dual-licensed Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) and Canadian Certified counsellor (CCC). My own experiences as a first generation immigrant and neurodivergent person greatly shapes my clinical work. Together we will build tangible tools and practices to better manage life's challenges while unpacking the traumatic, emotional and existential burdens that can weigh us down. I promote curiosity, authenticity, and empowerment through rebuilding your trust with yourself.
I am a dual-licensed Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) and Canadian Certified counsellor (CCC). My own experiences as a first generation immigrant and neurodivergent person greatly shapes my clinical work. Together we will build tangible tools and practices to better manage life's challenges while unpacking the traumatic, emotional and existential burdens that can weigh us down. I promote curiosity, authenticity, and empowerment through rebuilding your trust with yourself.
We are an online counselling agency so do not provide services in person. Strength Counselling Services has licensed, experienced therapists who use evidence-based practices, prioritize client needs, and maintain ethical standards. We offer culturally sensitive, affordable services in a supportive environment. We offer a comprehensive goals assessment, regularly assess progress, and collaborate with other professionals. We provide transparency in our fees and for thirteen years now have held a positive reputation of trust, and client success. Lastly, ensuring our clients' privacy and confidentiality are of utmost importance to us.
We are an online counselling agency so do not provide services in person. Strength Counselling Services has licensed, experienced therapists who use evidence-based practices, prioritize client needs, and maintain ethical standards. We offer culturally sensitive, affordable services in a supportive environment. We offer a comprehensive goals assessment, regularly assess progress, and collaborate with other professionals. We provide transparency in our fees and for thirteen years now have held a positive reputation of trust, and client success. Lastly, ensuring our clients' privacy and confidentiality are of utmost importance to us.
I’m a trauma-informed counsellor who helps people heal from complex trauma and CPTSD. If you feel stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected, you’re not alone. In a warm, non-judgmental space, we’ll explore your inner world through an Internal Family Systems (IFS) lens, gently getting to know the parts of you that protect and the ones that carry pain. Together, we’ll build safety, self-compassion, and regulation so you can reconnect with your authentic self and move toward a life of balance, meaning, and wholeness.
I’m a trauma-informed counsellor who helps people heal from complex trauma and CPTSD. If you feel stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected, you’re not alone. In a warm, non-judgmental space, we’ll explore your inner world through an Internal Family Systems (IFS) lens, gently getting to know the parts of you that protect and the ones that carry pain. Together, we’ll build safety, self-compassion, and regulation so you can reconnect with your authentic self and move toward a life of balance, meaning, and wholeness.
I prioritize the safety, dignity and health of my clients in all of our interactions. I consider the work we do together to be a healing space that honors your individual lived experience.
I encourage my clients that connect by phone to engage in a “walk and talk” modality (if physical ability and safety permits). This meets several goals: connection, movement, bilateral stimulation (such as used in EMDR), and a connection to nature and the community.
I’m looking forward to working with you!
I prioritize the safety, dignity and health of my clients in all of our interactions. I consider the work we do together to be a healing space that honors your individual lived experience.
I encourage my clients that connect by phone to engage in a “walk and talk” modality (if physical ability and safety permits). This meets several goals: connection, movement, bilateral stimulation (such as used in EMDR), and a connection to nature and the community.
I’m looking forward to working with you!
I work with adults who are struggling with life transitions, career and education planning, anxiety, stress, relationships, parenting issues, grief & loss, and work/life balance. In my therapeutic practice I strive to provide a safe, non-judgmental counseling relationship that offers compassion and understanding. We will work together to co-create ideas, strategies, things to try, and new ways of doing things to address your concerns and improve the quality of your day-to-day life. More relaxation, enjoyment, slowing down, compassion for yourself and others. Less anxiety, overwhelm, guilt/shame, frustration, and confusion.
I work with adults who are struggling with life transitions, career and education planning, anxiety, stress, relationships, parenting issues, grief & loss, and work/life balance. In my therapeutic practice I strive to provide a safe, non-judgmental counseling relationship that offers compassion and understanding. We will work together to co-create ideas, strategies, things to try, and new ways of doing things to address your concerns and improve the quality of your day-to-day life. More relaxation, enjoyment, slowing down, compassion for yourself and others. Less anxiety, overwhelm, guilt/shame, frustration, and confusion.
When one individual tries to solve multiple problems at the same time, things can easily get overwhelming. My sessions focus on helping my clients narrow down their problems to manageable goals, help them detangle their thoughts and gain clarity on their situation. I help them manage overwhelming emotions, such as anxiety, guilt and shame, and gain a sense of direction when dealing with life transitions. My approach helps my clients focus on parts of their problem that are within their control, while making sure that these changes have a trickle effect on aspects they want to change, but have no control over.
When one individual tries to solve multiple problems at the same time, things can easily get overwhelming. My sessions focus on helping my clients narrow down their problems to manageable goals, help them detangle their thoughts and gain clarity on their situation. I help them manage overwhelming emotions, such as anxiety, guilt and shame, and gain a sense of direction when dealing with life transitions. My approach helps my clients focus on parts of their problem that are within their control, while making sure that these changes have a trickle effect on aspects they want to change, but have no control over.
Struggling in your relationship and at a crossroads? Just out of or going into a new relationship and struggling with that? Experiencing a huge life transition and stuck in fear, confusion and pain? My approach is very clear and pragmatic. I support you in identifying what your challenges are; what's really going on. We collaborate on goals for our work together because 'winging it' simply isn't helpful and a total waste of your money. I give tools and strategies specific to your goals and support you in achieving them as quickly as possible. I offer a free 30 minute no-obligation consultation, virtually or in-person.
Struggling in your relationship and at a crossroads? Just out of or going into a new relationship and struggling with that? Experiencing a huge life transition and stuck in fear, confusion and pain? My approach is very clear and pragmatic. I support you in identifying what your challenges are; what's really going on. We collaborate on goals for our work together because 'winging it' simply isn't helpful and a total waste of your money. I give tools and strategies specific to your goals and support you in achieving them as quickly as possible. I offer a free 30 minute no-obligation consultation, virtually or in-person.
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Open Relationships Non-Monogamy Counsellors
Why might an individual want to see a therapist specialising in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?
A client seeking help with an open or consensually non-monogamous relationship will prefer to talk with a professional whom they can count on to be nonjudgmental. Talking with a supportive therapist may on its own help relieve some of the stigma and challenges partners face. That said, the most important factor in the success of any type of therapy is the ability of the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond. For this reason, an individual or couple could find success with a therapist who does not specialise in non-monogamous relationships but with whom they can build trust.
When should open or consensually non-monogamous partners seek counselling?
Like other couples, polyamorous partners typically seek counseling when they face relationship challenges they can’t solve themselves. In non-monogamous relationships, this could include breaches of trust, including infidelity; unclear rules or violations of boundaries; jealousy of outside partners; the stress of juggling the needs of multiple partners; or the effect of high partner turnover on children. Like those of other couples, polyamorous bonds can be threatened by increasingly frequent arguments, poor or dysfunctional communication, diminished emotional or physical intimacy, or the feeling that something is wrong, even if they don’t know what it is.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?
No, but individuals seeking help with non-monogamous relationships would most likely consult a licensed professional with specific training in couples counseling or couples therapy. Couples counselling and couples therapy both involve teaching concrete strategies to navigate conflict in relationships. A good therapist can engage both partners as they explain these approaches but can also work with a single partner.
How long does therapy for consensually non-monogamous couples typically last?
Couples therapy for any type of couple, tends to be relatively time-limited, lasting around 12 weeks on average. A good therapist will tailor sessions to the individual partners’ emotions and sometimes their past, along with patterns found to be repeating in the relationship. In many cases, clients should expect their therapist to assign “homework” between weekly sessions.

