Infertility Therapists in Vancouver, BC
Several times in life we are all hit with something that’s really tough. We feel terrible. We don’t like it. We want it to go away. We do a variety of things in an effort to feel better. Some of us withdraw, hide, or do other things that allow us to avoid the problem. Others speak up, attack, or try to control the situation. These things may help in the short term however, they can also create additional problems and then we find ourselves back where we began, often worse off.
Several times in life we are all hit with something that’s really tough. We feel terrible. We don’t like it. We want it to go away. We do a variety of things in an effort to feel better. Some of us withdraw, hide, or do other things that allow us to avoid the problem. Others speak up, attack, or try to control the situation. These things may help in the short term however, they can also create additional problems and then we find ourselves back where we began, often worse off.
This means I work a lot with clients who are struggling to create their family ( infertility, recurrent pregnancy loss) or are struggling with mental health issues during and/or after pregnancy (depression and anxiety).
I am passionate about my work, and have dedicated the last 15 years of my life to helping people create change. My clients are dealing with real life issues - relationships, fertility struggles, adjustment to parenthood, family of origin dynamics, and major life transitions. I aim to create a space where clients are free to explore their fears, doubts, strengths, and needs. Some clients require a faster, more solution-focused therapy process, while others want to meet regularly and have that person to continually connect with and receive support from. I am open to both and see it as a privilege to be invited into people’s lives.
This means I work a lot with clients who are struggling to create their family ( infertility, recurrent pregnancy loss) or are struggling with mental health issues during and/or after pregnancy (depression and anxiety).
I am passionate about my work, and have dedicated the last 15 years of my life to helping people create change. My clients are dealing with real life issues - relationships, fertility struggles, adjustment to parenthood, family of origin dynamics, and major life transitions. I aim to create a space where clients are free to explore their fears, doubts, strengths, and needs. Some clients require a faster, more solution-focused therapy process, while others want to meet regularly and have that person to continually connect with and receive support from. I am open to both and see it as a privilege to be invited into people’s lives.
Are you trying to get pregnant and struggling with infertility?
My goal is to help you find your inner light and love yourself in the process so that you can experience peace, connection and understanding of self and other. I hope to empower you to realize your potential and work with the obstacles in your way. I specialize in working with those struggling with pregnancy and infant loss, infertility, and miscarriage.
Are you trying to get pregnant and struggling with infertility?
My goal is to help you find your inner light and love yourself in the process so that you can experience peace, connection and understanding of self and other. I hope to empower you to realize your potential and work with the obstacles in your way. I specialize in working with those struggling with pregnancy and infant loss, infertility, and miscarriage.
Often becoming a parent- or struggling to become one- can leave us vulnerable and anxious in a way we have never before experienced. I feel a strong calling to offer help to individuals and families journeying through the reproductive years. I want to support you through struggles with fertility, or the grief after pregnancy loss. I can help with traumatic birth experiences, difficulties transitioning to parenthood, or relationship difficulties associated with any of these events.
Often becoming a parent- or struggling to become one- can leave us vulnerable and anxious in a way we have never before experienced. I feel a strong calling to offer help to individuals and families journeying through the reproductive years. I want to support you through struggles with fertility, or the grief after pregnancy loss. I can help with traumatic birth experiences, difficulties transitioning to parenthood, or relationship difficulties associated with any of these events.
I support adults who are seeking to understand historical and relational trauma and those working to live with more authenticity, clarity, and intention. Many of the people I work with have spent years in survival mode—navigating life the best they could—but are now ready to shift into a more connected and empowered way of being.
I’m here to walk alongside you, to help you uncover and explore what lies within.
I support adults who are seeking to understand historical and relational trauma and those working to live with more authenticity, clarity, and intention. Many of the people I work with have spent years in survival mode—navigating life the best they could—but are now ready to shift into a more connected and empowered way of being.
I’m here to walk alongside you, to help you uncover and explore what lies within.
Having experienced trauma, loss, and infertility grief in my personal life, I know what it feels like to feel stuck, helpless, and worst of all, hopeless.
I know that healing requires participation and I help you explore your stages of readiness to do the work. By using modalities such as person centered, solution focused, CBT, family systems, IFS, body movement and more, I strive to help you realize and tap into your own inner strength and reach a place of empowerment and hope.
Having experienced trauma, loss, and infertility grief in my personal life, I know what it feels like to feel stuck, helpless, and worst of all, hopeless.
I know that healing requires participation and I help you explore your stages of readiness to do the work. By using modalities such as person centered, solution focused, CBT, family systems, IFS, body movement and more, I strive to help you realize and tap into your own inner strength and reach a place of empowerment and hope.
Many individuals and couples navigating infertility, fertility treatment, miscarriage, and postpartum challenges come to therapy feeling alone and that no one truly understands them.
Using both my professional training and personal experience, I support clients navigating infertility, fertility treatment, and postpartum challenges. I provide a safe space to process complex emotions, support decision-making, and develop tools to cope, feel more grounded, and move forward.
Many individuals and couples navigating infertility, fertility treatment, miscarriage, and postpartum challenges come to therapy feeling alone and that no one truly understands them.
Using both my professional training and personal experience, I support clients navigating infertility, fertility treatment, and postpartum challenges. I provide a safe space to process complex emotions, support decision-making, and develop tools to cope, feel more grounded, and move forward.
Additionally, I support individuals and couples through the emotional aspects of infertility, pregnancy, miscarriage, and postpartum.
My aim is to help you feel more like yourself. That might look like less anxiety, a lighter mood, or a greater sense of calm and clarity. We work together to understand what is driving your experience and to support real change. The connection we build is an important part of that process. I am active and present in sessions. I help you slow things down, stay with what matters, and find your way through it. You know yourself best. I respect your experience and support you in reconnecting with your own strength and direction.
Additionally, I support individuals and couples through the emotional aspects of infertility, pregnancy, miscarriage, and postpartum.
My aim is to help you feel more like yourself. That might look like less anxiety, a lighter mood, or a greater sense of calm and clarity. We work together to understand what is driving your experience and to support real change. The connection we build is an important part of that process. I am active and present in sessions. I help you slow things down, stay with what matters, and find your way through it. You know yourself best. I respect your experience and support you in reconnecting with your own strength and direction.
I bring more than 15 years experience helping clients navigate some of life's most difficult journeys such as anxiety, depression, PTSD/trauma, sexual assault and abuse, infertility, pregnancy loss, perinatal depression and anxiety, chronic illness, grief and loss, facing the end of a relationship and other painful life transitions.
I'm a Certified EMDR therapist. I'm also trained in Internal Family Systems (IFS), grief counselling, CBT, DBT, Gottman Method, and Emotionally Focused Therapy. My goal is to support you in increasing your ability to cope and improve your quality of life. I offer a non-judgmental presence to help you feel relaxed and accepted.
I bring more than 15 years experience helping clients navigate some of life's most difficult journeys such as anxiety, depression, PTSD/trauma, sexual assault and abuse, infertility, pregnancy loss, perinatal depression and anxiety, chronic illness, grief and loss, facing the end of a relationship and other painful life transitions.
I'm a Certified EMDR therapist. I'm also trained in Internal Family Systems (IFS), grief counselling, CBT, DBT, Gottman Method, and Emotionally Focused Therapy. My goal is to support you in increasing your ability to cope and improve your quality of life. I offer a non-judgmental presence to help you feel relaxed and accepted.
As someone who struggled with infertility and then transitioned to being a parent, I know firsthand that the experience can feel lonely and isolating.
Kiren is registered to provide virtual services to individuals and couples residing in Alberta, British Columbia, Nova Scotia, and Ontario. Life can present us with various challenges that can be difficult to work through on our own. I will encourage you to slow down and reflect while offering a curious and compassionate perspective and a safe and non-judgmental space where you feel heard and supported. We will work together to make sense of your experiences and move towards the change you are hoping for in your life.
As someone who struggled with infertility and then transitioned to being a parent, I know firsthand that the experience can feel lonely and isolating.
Kiren is registered to provide virtual services to individuals and couples residing in Alberta, British Columbia, Nova Scotia, and Ontario. Life can present us with various challenges that can be difficult to work through on our own. I will encourage you to slow down and reflect while offering a curious and compassionate perspective and a safe and non-judgmental space where you feel heard and supported. We will work together to make sense of your experiences and move towards the change you are hoping for in your life.
I’m Stephanie Sielmann, My focus is helping individuals and couples navigate the complex and often emotional aspects of life, relationships, reproductive health, family-building, and personal growth. I am committed to creating a compassionate, non-judgmental space where you can explore life’s challenges, find healing, and cultivate resilience. Whether you are here because you are struggling with grief, anxiety, stress or somewhere in between I am here to help.
I’m Stephanie Sielmann, My focus is helping individuals and couples navigate the complex and often emotional aspects of life, relationships, reproductive health, family-building, and personal growth. I am committed to creating a compassionate, non-judgmental space where you can explore life’s challenges, find healing, and cultivate resilience. Whether you are here because you are struggling with grief, anxiety, stress or somewhere in between I am here to help.
My areas of specialization are Infertility, Boundary setting/People Pleasing, Couples and surviving relationships with narcissists.
I help you with the anxiety, anger and unknown of infertility. I have personal experience dealing with the toll of infertility. With boundary setting our focus will be on communication and confidence. We will strengthen your relationship by identifying patterns and creating connection. Understanding traits and setting limits are crucial with narcissists.
My areas of specialization are Infertility, Boundary setting/People Pleasing, Couples and surviving relationships with narcissists.
I help you with the anxiety, anger and unknown of infertility. I have personal experience dealing with the toll of infertility. With boundary setting our focus will be on communication and confidence. We will strengthen your relationship by identifying patterns and creating connection. Understanding traits and setting limits are crucial with narcissists.
Many are navigating infertility, IVF, or pregnancy loss, as well as anxiety, burnout, or relationship strain.
I specialize in infertility counselling, including IVF and pregnancy loss, as well as therapy for high-functioning individuals experiencing anxiety, burnout, and relationship challenges. I also work with expats and those relocating to Mexico. I offer thoughtful, structured support to help clients process complex experiences and make informed decisions.
Many are navigating infertility, IVF, or pregnancy loss, as well as anxiety, burnout, or relationship strain.
I specialize in infertility counselling, including IVF and pregnancy loss, as well as therapy for high-functioning individuals experiencing anxiety, burnout, and relationship challenges. I also work with expats and those relocating to Mexico. I offer thoughtful, structured support to help clients process complex experiences and make informed decisions.
I am a registered psychologist providing individual and couples therapy from a foundation of compassion, clinical knowledge, and genuine human connection. I specialize in sexual health concerns, including sexual pain disorders, and work with clients navigating sexual functioning, identity, orientation, intimacy, infidelity, and relationship repair. My practice is inclusive and affirming of LGBTQ+ clients and ethically non-monogamous relationships, and I strive to create a space where sensitive topics can be discussed openly, thoughtfully, and without shame.
I am a registered psychologist providing individual and couples therapy from a foundation of compassion, clinical knowledge, and genuine human connection. I specialize in sexual health concerns, including sexual pain disorders, and work with clients navigating sexual functioning, identity, orientation, intimacy, infidelity, and relationship repair. My practice is inclusive and affirming of LGBTQ+ clients and ethically non-monogamous relationships, and I strive to create a space where sensitive topics can be discussed openly, thoughtfully, and without shame.
Blair compassionately provides ongoing support to those coping with infertility, miscarriage, and bereavement, respectfully conducts the required counselling and assessments in advance of Egg Freezing and IVF cycles, as well as Donor and Surrogate arrangements, and provides exploratory information about fostering and adoption.
Blair Wexler-Singer (BSC, MSW, RSW) is a registered social worker and psychotherapist licensed in Ontario, Alberta, and British Columbia, specializing in reproductive counselling. With over 19 years of experience, she has worked extensively with individuals impacted by trauma, grief and loss, addiction, mental health challenges, and attachment issues. She holds a certificate in Perinatal Grief and Loss and brings both clinical expertise and deep empathy to her practice. Having been a Gestational Carrier for friends, Blair is warm-hearted, open-minded, and strongly believes in an inclusive and anti-discriminatory approach to care.
Blair compassionately provides ongoing support to those coping with infertility, miscarriage, and bereavement, respectfully conducts the required counselling and assessments in advance of Egg Freezing and IVF cycles, as well as Donor and Surrogate arrangements, and provides exploratory information about fostering and adoption.
Blair Wexler-Singer (BSC, MSW, RSW) is a registered social worker and psychotherapist licensed in Ontario, Alberta, and British Columbia, specializing in reproductive counselling. With over 19 years of experience, she has worked extensively with individuals impacted by trauma, grief and loss, addiction, mental health challenges, and attachment issues. She holds a certificate in Perinatal Grief and Loss and brings both clinical expertise and deep empathy to her practice. Having been a Gestational Carrier for friends, Blair is warm-hearted, open-minded, and strongly believes in an inclusive and anti-discriminatory approach to care.
I’ve faced my share of adversities, including loss, death of a parent, trauma, and, infertility, which has given me a profound understanding of what it means to hit rock bottom and find the strength to rise again.
I offer therapy through an anti-racist, anti-oppressive lens, ensuring that all clients receive fair, quality, and equal mental health services. My specialties include cultural identity & racial trauma, intergenerational trauma, reproductive trauma & infertility, and relationship issues.
I’ve faced my share of adversities, including loss, death of a parent, trauma, and, infertility, which has given me a profound understanding of what it means to hit rock bottom and find the strength to rise again.
I offer therapy through an anti-racist, anti-oppressive lens, ensuring that all clients receive fair, quality, and equal mental health services. My specialties include cultural identity & racial trauma, intergenerational trauma, reproductive trauma & infertility, and relationship issues.
As someone who struggled with infertility and then transitioned to being a parent, I know firsthand that the experience can feel lonely and isolating.
Kiren is registered to provide virtual services to individuals and couples residing in Alberta, British Columbia, Nova Scotia, and Ontario. Life can present us with various challenges that can be difficult to work through on our own. I will encourage you to slow down and reflect while offering a curious and compassionate perspective and a safe and non-judgmental space where you feel heard and supported. We will work together to make sense of your experiences and move towards the change you are hoping for in your life.
As someone who struggled with infertility and then transitioned to being a parent, I know firsthand that the experience can feel lonely and isolating.
Kiren is registered to provide virtual services to individuals and couples residing in Alberta, British Columbia, Nova Scotia, and Ontario. Life can present us with various challenges that can be difficult to work through on our own. I will encourage you to slow down and reflect while offering a curious and compassionate perspective and a safe and non-judgmental space where you feel heard and supported. We will work together to make sense of your experiences and move towards the change you are hoping for in your life.
You may feel overwhelmed, emotionally exhausted, and uncertain, and are spending lots of time thinking, second guessing yourself, and searching for meaning. Perhaps you feel like you can't think anymore; that you are too depleted to go beyond your essential day-to-day tasks. You might be struggling to conceive and experiencing self-doubt, jealousy, and a lack of control. Or, perhaps you are pregnant or already a parent, and are feeling pulled along an emotional roller coaster where you're not in the driver's seat. You might remember a time when you felt more confident, clear, and connected, and are wondering how to get back there.
You may feel overwhelmed, emotionally exhausted, and uncertain, and are spending lots of time thinking, second guessing yourself, and searching for meaning. Perhaps you feel like you can't think anymore; that you are too depleted to go beyond your essential day-to-day tasks. You might be struggling to conceive and experiencing self-doubt, jealousy, and a lack of control. Or, perhaps you are pregnant or already a parent, and are feeling pulled along an emotional roller coaster where you're not in the driver's seat. You might remember a time when you felt more confident, clear, and connected, and are wondering how to get back there.
And there are wounds that cut across culture entirely — infertility, pregnancy loss, miscarriage — where the pain is compounded by the weight of of expectations.
Have you ever wondered why, despite all your efforts, certain emotional struggles just won't heal? Nervous system dysregulation is often at the heart of the problem. The body carries not just personal history, but cultural history too. Racing thoughts, zoning out, crying uncontrollably, shutting down — these are all signs of a nervous system stuck in survival. But the shape that survival takes is never generic. It's shaped by where you come from, what your family was allowed to feel, and what the world around you has expected of you. And that can feel like a heavy burden to bear.
And there are wounds that cut across culture entirely — infertility, pregnancy loss, miscarriage — where the pain is compounded by the weight of of expectations.
Have you ever wondered why, despite all your efforts, certain emotional struggles just won't heal? Nervous system dysregulation is often at the heart of the problem. The body carries not just personal history, but cultural history too. Racing thoughts, zoning out, crying uncontrollably, shutting down — these are all signs of a nervous system stuck in survival. But the shape that survival takes is never generic. It's shaped by where you come from, what your family was allowed to feel, and what the world around you has expected of you. And that can feel like a heavy burden to bear.
Whether you’re untangling the past or searching for more alignment in your present life, healing can feel like stepping into the unknown. Like most, this can cause us to avoid the process altogether. The more we avoid, the more misaligned we start to feel in ourselves.
I believe healing isn’t meant to be a solo process. I offer a grounded & open-minded space where you have permission for this process to be messy + disorganized. You don’t need to arrive with answers; we’ll slow things down & get there together. My hope for you is to come back to yourself in a way that honours all of you; even the parts that may not make sense yet.
Whether you’re untangling the past or searching for more alignment in your present life, healing can feel like stepping into the unknown. Like most, this can cause us to avoid the process altogether. The more we avoid, the more misaligned we start to feel in ourselves.
I believe healing isn’t meant to be a solo process. I offer a grounded & open-minded space where you have permission for this process to be messy + disorganized. You don’t need to arrive with answers; we’ll slow things down & get there together. My hope for you is to come back to yourself in a way that honours all of you; even the parts that may not make sense yet.
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Infertility Counsellors
How can infertility affect couples and their relationship?
Clients who are dealing with infertility may experience conflict and communication problems. It’s not unusual for shame, blame, and guilt to arise in cases of infertility, whether the source of the problem is one partner or both. This means that clients are upset and pulling away from their partner just when they need them the most. Some clients may find it difficult to spend time around friends and family who are pregnant. Friends and family can also make hurtful comments that increase tension during this time.
How does therapy for infertility issues work?
The therapist will begin by gathering information about the client or couple and make a treatment plan for their specific concerns. In addition to addressing common mental health issues, such as anxiety, depression, and trauma reactions or PTSD, therapists can help clients improve their decision-making and deal with stressors unique to infertility. Some examples include coping with the “two-week wait” before a pregnancy test, the distress associated with a failed attempt or miscarriage, and the shame and blame sometimes associated with reproductive concerns.
What type of therapy is best for infertility issues?
Many therapists offer psychotherapy for individuals and couples who are dealing with infertility issues. Some helpful therapeutic approaches include cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), which can aid clients in reframing negative thoughts about their situation. Expressive writing and art therapy can help clients process difficult feelings. Clients might also benefit from group therapy to experience support from others who are dealing with the same problems.
How long does therapy for infertility issues take?
There is no set length for therapy that addresses infertility or reproductive concerns. Some clients might find it helpful to continue therapy during their pregnancy to have healthy ways to cope with any associated stress, anxiety, depression, or trauma. Some clients who decide not to pursue fertility treatments might benefit from the support of a therapist. The duration of therapy varies depending on the individual client’s specific needs and goals.

