Male Therapists in Surrey, BC
Sometimes we’ve been wounded. We are bitter and end up in hard places. We are in relationships that have grown painful, disappointing, even hopeless. It seems there are insurmountable chasms, and we are stuck with nowhere to go. Sometimes the hard places consume all our joy, and we are simply numb. Our emotions have dried up, and we no longer feel. At other times, the hard places can trigger fear, desperation, or panic attacks.
Sometimes we’ve been wounded. We are bitter and end up in hard places. We are in relationships that have grown painful, disappointing, even hopeless. It seems there are insurmountable chasms, and we are stuck with nowhere to go. Sometimes the hard places consume all our joy, and we are simply numb. Our emotions have dried up, and we no longer feel. At other times, the hard places can trigger fear, desperation, or panic attacks.
To truly understand and identify the intricate patterns in our thoughts and behaviors, we must move beyond the confines of diagnostic labels. These labels can obscure the richness of the human experience. By embracing a high degree of curiosity, intrigue, and empathy, we can together challenge these limitations and uncover the hidden and often uncomfortable truths that lie just beneath the surface, causing us distress.
To truly understand and identify the intricate patterns in our thoughts and behaviors, we must move beyond the confines of diagnostic labels. These labels can obscure the richness of the human experience. By embracing a high degree of curiosity, intrigue, and empathy, we can together challenge these limitations and uncover the hidden and often uncomfortable truths that lie just beneath the surface, causing us distress.
Do you often wake up feeling exhausted, even though you “should” feel grateful — only to have the storm of worry, self-doubt, or regret return before you’ve even had your coffee?
Maybe you’re juggling high expectations at work, doing your best for your family, or carrying the weight of past trauma — but it all leaves you drained, disconnected from yourself, and doubting if “this” is all life has to offer.
Do you often wake up feeling exhausted, even though you “should” feel grateful — only to have the storm of worry, self-doubt, or regret return before you’ve even had your coffee?
Maybe you’re juggling high expectations at work, doing your best for your family, or carrying the weight of past trauma — but it all leaves you drained, disconnected from yourself, and doubting if “this” is all life has to offer.
You may feel overwhelmed by anxiety, stuck in painful relationship patterns, or unsure why emotions escalate so quickly. Perhaps you’re functioning on the outside but feel disconnected, reactive, or exhausted inside. You want clarity, steadier emotions, and relationships that feel safer and more balanced. In therapy, we’ll slow things down and gently explore what’s driving these patterns—without blame or judgment. Together, we’ll work toward greater self-understanding, emotional regulation, and meaningful, lasting change, at a pace that feels right for you.
You may feel overwhelmed by anxiety, stuck in painful relationship patterns, or unsure why emotions escalate so quickly. Perhaps you’re functioning on the outside but feel disconnected, reactive, or exhausted inside. You want clarity, steadier emotions, and relationships that feel safer and more balanced. In therapy, we’ll slow things down and gently explore what’s driving these patterns—without blame or judgment. Together, we’ll work toward greater self-understanding, emotional regulation, and meaningful, lasting change, at a pace that feels right for you.
I am a Registered Psychologist (CHCPBC, 1003), having worked as a Psychologist in British Columbia for over 30 years. I have had a long-time interest and passion involving the treatment and assessment of individuals with chronic pain (and pain-based disability) and related anxiety and mood disorders. I am equally comfortable treating those with a variety of different difficulties. The majority of my work is conducted by secure video conferencing or phone.
I am a Registered Psychologist (CHCPBC, 1003), having worked as a Psychologist in British Columbia for over 30 years. I have had a long-time interest and passion involving the treatment and assessment of individuals with chronic pain (and pain-based disability) and related anxiety and mood disorders. I am equally comfortable treating those with a variety of different difficulties. The majority of my work is conducted by secure video conferencing or phone.
I am an experienced Registered Psychologist offering counselling and psychotherapy to individuals, couples, and families. I help people working through challenges in their relationships, careers, and personal lives. Often people come to me for help with depression, anxiety, trauma, or health concerns. I take a practical and mindful approach to counselling, grounded in a strong therapeutic relationship, to help you accomplish your counselling goals in a timely and effective manner. I work with many first responders. www.drjeffmorley.ca www.911resilience.ca www.guardianpsychedelics.ca
I am an experienced Registered Psychologist offering counselling and psychotherapy to individuals, couples, and families. I help people working through challenges in their relationships, careers, and personal lives. Often people come to me for help with depression, anxiety, trauma, or health concerns. I take a practical and mindful approach to counselling, grounded in a strong therapeutic relationship, to help you accomplish your counselling goals in a timely and effective manner. I work with many first responders. www.drjeffmorley.ca www.911resilience.ca www.guardianpsychedelics.ca
Jordan Penner is a Registered Clinical Counsellor working with individuals and families to develop solutions that create lasting change. Jordan has over two decades of experience working with families and individuals to overcome mental health issues. Specializing in Relationships, Interpersonal, Mental Health, Divorce, and High Conflict Co-Parenting Counselling – Jordan will work with you to develop strategies to reach your goals, build healthier relationships, and develop a deeper understanding of yourself.
Jordan Penner is a Registered Clinical Counsellor working with individuals and families to develop solutions that create lasting change. Jordan has over two decades of experience working with families and individuals to overcome mental health issues. Specializing in Relationships, Interpersonal, Mental Health, Divorce, and High Conflict Co-Parenting Counselling – Jordan will work with you to develop strategies to reach your goals, build healthier relationships, and develop a deeper understanding of yourself.
Hello Everyone! I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) with the British Columbia Association of Clinical Counsellors (BCACC). I understand, and respect, the vulnerability affiliated with engaging in the counselling process. I aspire to create a therapeutic space that is warm, compassionate, inclusive, and collaborative. Everyone brings a unique, and complex, narrative into therapy, and they will always be the experts of their lived experiences. I view counselling as a relational process, and I value client collaboration to facilitate sustainable change.
Hello Everyone! I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) with the British Columbia Association of Clinical Counsellors (BCACC). I understand, and respect, the vulnerability affiliated with engaging in the counselling process. I aspire to create a therapeutic space that is warm, compassionate, inclusive, and collaborative. Everyone brings a unique, and complex, narrative into therapy, and they will always be the experts of their lived experiences. I view counselling as a relational process, and I value client collaboration to facilitate sustainable change.
I specialize in providing insight oriented psychotherapy to individuals, both adolescent and adult. My focus is to work collaboratively with my clients to think through problems areas, discover the roadblocks to growth and to facilitate personal development. My goal is to help my clients understand themselves better and thereby improve the quality of their life and relationships. This covers a spectrum of difficulties including anxieties, depression, relational problems, personality disorders etc..
I specialize in providing insight oriented psychotherapy to individuals, both adolescent and adult. My focus is to work collaboratively with my clients to think through problems areas, discover the roadblocks to growth and to facilitate personal development. My goal is to help my clients understand themselves better and thereby improve the quality of their life and relationships. This covers a spectrum of difficulties including anxieties, depression, relational problems, personality disorders etc..
I work with you to untangle the weight of past experiences so you no longer feel discouraged, overwhelmed, or held back by what you’ve carried for years. You’re wanting to feel steady, clear, and able to move forward without repeating the same patterns. Together, we build space for relief, confidence, and a way of living that feels lighter and more aligned with who you want to be. You don’t need to restart your life—just take the next step in a direction that supports your growth, resilience, and sense of possibility.
I work with you to untangle the weight of past experiences so you no longer feel discouraged, overwhelmed, or held back by what you’ve carried for years. You’re wanting to feel steady, clear, and able to move forward without repeating the same patterns. Together, we build space for relief, confidence, and a way of living that feels lighter and more aligned with who you want to be. You don’t need to restart your life—just take the next step in a direction that supports your growth, resilience, and sense of possibility.
It is exhausting trying to move forward when "unfinished business" from the past keeps pulling you back. Whether you are struggling to maintain connections, dealing with anxiety, or just feeling stuck, you deserve a space where you don't have to pretend everything is okay. You are likely seeking more than just a listener, you want to understand why you feel this way and how to change it.
It is exhausting trying to move forward when "unfinished business" from the past keeps pulling you back. Whether you are struggling to maintain connections, dealing with anxiety, or just feeling stuck, you deserve a space where you don't have to pretend everything is okay. You are likely seeking more than just a listener, you want to understand why you feel this way and how to change it.
Hello, I’m here to support you in navigating life’s challenges, whether you’re facing a specific issue or looking for personal growth. I'm passionate about this; life can feel overwhelming at times, and together we can explore your concerns in a safe and compassionate space. My goal is to help you uncover new insights, find healing, and move forward with hope and surprising joy! We’ll work side by side to help you reach a place of greater clarity and well-being.
Hello, I’m here to support you in navigating life’s challenges, whether you’re facing a specific issue or looking for personal growth. I'm passionate about this; life can feel overwhelming at times, and together we can explore your concerns in a safe and compassionate space. My goal is to help you uncover new insights, find healing, and move forward with hope and surprising joy! We’ll work side by side to help you reach a place of greater clarity and well-being.
Life presents many challenges to the various domains of wellbeing. The stressors can manifest through negative or difficult thoughts, overwhelming emotions, and ruptures in our relationships with others and our selves. As a consequence, we may struggle with harmful or addictive behaviors, or overly critical self-talk, which may lead to anxiety, depression, burnout, chronic stress, and many other difficulties. Unfortunately, in the midst of overwhelm we often feel disconnected and isolated from those in our lives. I aim to create a supportive empathetic therapeutic relationship that encourages the growth and wellbeing of each client.
Life presents many challenges to the various domains of wellbeing. The stressors can manifest through negative or difficult thoughts, overwhelming emotions, and ruptures in our relationships with others and our selves. As a consequence, we may struggle with harmful or addictive behaviors, or overly critical self-talk, which may lead to anxiety, depression, burnout, chronic stress, and many other difficulties. Unfortunately, in the midst of overwhelm we often feel disconnected and isolated from those in our lives. I aim to create a supportive empathetic therapeutic relationship that encourages the growth and wellbeing of each client.
Life can throw people into confusion which brings us to a place of seeking consolation and clarity through curiosity. James considers it a privilege to walk alongside people facing internal and interpersonal confusion with compassion. James never takes for granted the challenge change presents for clients and therefore brings warmth and wonder in sessions with clients. James believes that collaboratively the client and counsellor can create an genuine connection for healing and hope with an integrated approach for client health and wholeness. Personal desolation to consolation happens from person to person.
Life can throw people into confusion which brings us to a place of seeking consolation and clarity through curiosity. James considers it a privilege to walk alongside people facing internal and interpersonal confusion with compassion. James never takes for granted the challenge change presents for clients and therefore brings warmth and wonder in sessions with clients. James believes that collaboratively the client and counsellor can create an genuine connection for healing and hope with an integrated approach for client health and wholeness. Personal desolation to consolation happens from person to person.
You're likely here searching for a therapist because you're struggling with something or someone. Perhaps anxiety or depression have become too much to manage on your own. Maybe a relationship has become the source of pain. You may be struggling against a part of yourself that has you thinking or acting in ways you'd like to modify. At Sojourn we believe everyone has the capacity for change and positive growth.
You're likely here searching for a therapist because you're struggling with something or someone. Perhaps anxiety or depression have become too much to manage on your own. Maybe a relationship has become the source of pain. You may be struggling against a part of yourself that has you thinking or acting in ways you'd like to modify. At Sojourn we believe everyone has the capacity for change and positive growth.
I work with a wide range of emotional, behavioral, and personal growth issues, providing counselling and neurotherapy for depression, anxiety, couples' relationships and professional and academic performance. I endeavor to provide a comfortable and supportive atmosphere, to offer a highly personalized approach. Therapy is tailored to each client's needs to help attain the personal growth for which they're striving.
I work with a wide range of emotional, behavioral, and personal growth issues, providing counselling and neurotherapy for depression, anxiety, couples' relationships and professional and academic performance. I endeavor to provide a comfortable and supportive atmosphere, to offer a highly personalized approach. Therapy is tailored to each client's needs to help attain the personal growth for which they're striving.
Simple, Practical Assistance. We can take the lead, offering treatment plans created with skills and tools, typically during the initial "no obligation" consultation. Our overall goal is to empower you to overcome life's toughest challenges. We listen carefully, so you are heard, and understood. Different therapeutic approaches and strategies are adapted as needed, to help you resolve issues.
Simple, Practical Assistance. We can take the lead, offering treatment plans created with skills and tools, typically during the initial "no obligation" consultation. Our overall goal is to empower you to overcome life's toughest challenges. We listen carefully, so you are heard, and understood. Different therapeutic approaches and strategies are adapted as needed, to help you resolve issues.
Life can be challenging! While suffering is a universal human experience, each person navigates it in their own way. Many of us are searching for support from a caring individual who can acknowledge our struggles and guide us on our journey to living the life we were designed for.
My name is Andy Notice, and I am an intern therapist at Soul Matters Counselling. I hold a BA in Psychology from Trinity Western University and a Master of Theological Studies (MTS) from Tyndale Seminary. I am currently finalizing a Master's in Clinical Psychotherapy. Additionally, I am a certified Prepare and Enrich pre-marriage counsellor
Life can be challenging! While suffering is a universal human experience, each person navigates it in their own way. Many of us are searching for support from a caring individual who can acknowledge our struggles and guide us on our journey to living the life we were designed for.
My name is Andy Notice, and I am an intern therapist at Soul Matters Counselling. I hold a BA in Psychology from Trinity Western University and a Master of Theological Studies (MTS) from Tyndale Seminary. I am currently finalizing a Master's in Clinical Psychotherapy. Additionally, I am a certified Prepare and Enrich pre-marriage counsellor
Hello and a warm welcome! I'm Rahul Minhas, a Registered Clinical Counsellor and EMDR therapist dedicated to helping individuals navigate life's challenges. I specialize in supporting youth, adults, families, and first responders in areas such as addictions, depression, grief and loss, primarily obsessional and obsessive-compulsive disorder OCD, childhood trauma, general anxiety, anger challenges, sports and social anxiety, PTSD, relationship challenges, life transitions, and more. In addition to this, I offer family counselling, drawing from my experience as a school counsellor for the Surrey School District.
Hello and a warm welcome! I'm Rahul Minhas, a Registered Clinical Counsellor and EMDR therapist dedicated to helping individuals navigate life's challenges. I specialize in supporting youth, adults, families, and first responders in areas such as addictions, depression, grief and loss, primarily obsessional and obsessive-compulsive disorder OCD, childhood trauma, general anxiety, anger challenges, sports and social anxiety, PTSD, relationship challenges, life transitions, and more. In addition to this, I offer family counselling, drawing from my experience as a school counsellor for the Surrey School District.
I try to help individuals find their inner worth and strengths. I believe that people can continue to learn, grow and change. It is important for you to feel comfortable with the therapist you decide to see. One of the things that I value the most within therapy is the importance of building an honest and genuine relationship. I try to meet people where they are at and offer services from a strengths-based and positive approach.
I try to help individuals find their inner worth and strengths. I believe that people can continue to learn, grow and change. It is important for you to feel comfortable with the therapist you decide to see. One of the things that I value the most within therapy is the importance of building an honest and genuine relationship. I try to meet people where they are at and offer services from a strengths-based and positive approach.
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FAQ - Therapist Gender
As a man, why might I want to see a male therapist?
There are many reasons a man might wish to work with a male therapist, including a degree of shared identity, which may help client and therapist connect to each other and allow for a more free-flowing discussion of issues that can be deeply personal. Some men may feel more comfortable talking to a male therapist about relationship concerns, the pressures they feel around the roles society and family place on men, career or job challenges, self-esteem, or anger problems. For some men who have not had a male role models in their lives, a good male therapist may be especially helpful.
How can I find out about a therapist’s experience treating men?
Individuals looking for treatment should feel comfortable directly asking a therapist about their history treating men overall and the issues that arise in therapy with men. A good therapist will be happy to discuss such matters as well as their educational background, approach to treatment, and how they think they can aid a prospective client.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist of the same gender?
Therapy is not gender-specific, but some men as well as women feel more comfortable opening up about their experiences and history with therapists of a specific gender. An individual may feel that they have to explain less background information and be on the same page more quickly, particularly when discussing gender-specific challenges. That said, a good clinician can transcend most if not all gender concerns. Ultimately, the most important factor in therapy is the connection and trust the client is able to build with the practitioner.
Would a male therapist have specific training in treating men?
Generally, no. There are no certifications for treating men specifically, but there are continuing education classes that therapists may take that focus on treating men as a group. There are many therapists who focus on men and male issues in their treatment and therefore have experience and expertise in this domain.