Couples Counselling Therapists in Surrey, BC
I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor with over 20 years of experience working with people of all ages including children, youth, adults, couples, families, and groups. If you are dealing with depression, anxiety, trauma, life transitions, or struggles in your relationships with others, know that change, personal growth, and healing are possible. I am passionate about helping people to reconnect with their inner resources and strengths to bring about deep and lasting change, both within one's self and in relationships with others.
I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor with over 20 years of experience working with people of all ages including children, youth, adults, couples, families, and groups. If you are dealing with depression, anxiety, trauma, life transitions, or struggles in your relationships with others, know that change, personal growth, and healing are possible. I am passionate about helping people to reconnect with their inner resources and strengths to bring about deep and lasting change, both within one's self and in relationships with others.
I have a Level 1 Gottman Method Couples Therapy Certification, and I help couples develop effective communication skills to resolve conflicts in a healthy manner.
My name is Jane Mai Ngo (she/her) and I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) and Certified Child Life Specialist (CCLS). I work with people seeking a stronger sense of purpose, increased self-esteem, self-acceptance, and clarity in their lives. I create a healing space for individuals to recover from the relentless effects of intergenerational and childhood trauma, anxiety, depression, and social conditioning that leaves people feeling disconnected from their authentic selves. I will act as a companion on your healing journey, using a strength-based, person-centered, attachment-focused, and culture and trauma-informed lens.
I have a Level 1 Gottman Method Couples Therapy Certification, and I help couples develop effective communication skills to resolve conflicts in a healthy manner.
My name is Jane Mai Ngo (she/her) and I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) and Certified Child Life Specialist (CCLS). I work with people seeking a stronger sense of purpose, increased self-esteem, self-acceptance, and clarity in their lives. I create a healing space for individuals to recover from the relentless effects of intergenerational and childhood trauma, anxiety, depression, and social conditioning that leaves people feeling disconnected from their authentic selves. I will act as a companion on your healing journey, using a strength-based, person-centered, attachment-focused, and culture and trauma-informed lens.
Only within a non-judgemental, empathetic, and warm therapeutic space, can people feel safe to open up and be vulnerable; I hope to create just that for my clients. I am a person-centred counsellor that welcomes collaborative dialogue with my clients as they discover progress, determination, growth, and celebration. Whilst borrowing from various therapeutic modalities to guide my work, I am an avid believer in the power of self-compassion, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and Inner Child work. I am also trained in providing Emotionally-Focused Therapy for couples and individuals.
Only within a non-judgemental, empathetic, and warm therapeutic space, can people feel safe to open up and be vulnerable; I hope to create just that for my clients. I am a person-centred counsellor that welcomes collaborative dialogue with my clients as they discover progress, determination, growth, and celebration. Whilst borrowing from various therapeutic modalities to guide my work, I am an avid believer in the power of self-compassion, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and Inner Child work. I am also trained in providing Emotionally-Focused Therapy for couples and individuals.
Vitality Collective Counselling Centres
Counsellor, MA, RCC, CCC
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Surrey, BC V3S
We believe that therapy is for everyone. With offices located in Surrey, Vancouver, and Chilliwack, our specialized team consists of 20+ clinical counsellors who are uniquely skilled to help you heal and thrive. The research demonstrates that about 70% of what accounts for the change in therapy is based on the therapeutic relationship. It is so important to ensure the right fit; to make sure you feel understood and that you can trust your counsellor to be compassionate, non-judgemental, and professional. We support children, youth, adults, couples, and families to thrive.
We believe that therapy is for everyone. With offices located in Surrey, Vancouver, and Chilliwack, our specialized team consists of 20+ clinical counsellors who are uniquely skilled to help you heal and thrive. The research demonstrates that about 70% of what accounts for the change in therapy is based on the therapeutic relationship. It is so important to ensure the right fit; to make sure you feel understood and that you can trust your counsellor to be compassionate, non-judgemental, and professional. We support children, youth, adults, couples, and families to thrive.
We welcome the opportunity to assist with Depression, Resolving Stress, Anxiety, Fear and Panic, Restoring Relationships for Couples and Families (including Reunification), and Resolution of Trauma in a life changing manner.
Simple, Practical Assistance. We can take the lead, offering treatment plans created with skills and tools, typically during the initial "no obligation" consultation. Our overall goal is to empower you to overcome life's toughest challenges. We listen carefully, so you are heard, and understood. Different therapeutic approaches and strategies are adapted as needed, to help you resolve issues.
We welcome the opportunity to assist with Depression, Resolving Stress, Anxiety, Fear and Panic, Restoring Relationships for Couples and Families (including Reunification), and Resolution of Trauma in a life changing manner.
Simple, Practical Assistance. We can take the lead, offering treatment plans created with skills and tools, typically during the initial "no obligation" consultation. Our overall goal is to empower you to overcome life's toughest challenges. We listen carefully, so you are heard, and understood. Different therapeutic approaches and strategies are adapted as needed, to help you resolve issues.
It takes a lot of support to navigate life transitions on a "good" day - even more so when faced with unmet expectations, infertility, loss, medical concerns, relationship discord or postpartum anxiety and depression.
Sometimes the life we imagined and the reality of the moment we are living, don't line up. This can create some pretty big feelings that might take us by surprise. We might feel stuck, isolated, uncertain and not like our "usual" selves. I work with individuals and couples who are bumping up against unexpected challenges in creating/growing their family, difficulty within pre and postpartum stages and beyond, into the early years of parenting. My clients also include those who might be navigating chronic health concerns, caregiver burnout and compassion fatigue. Reach out for a free consult to see how we may work together.
It takes a lot of support to navigate life transitions on a "good" day - even more so when faced with unmet expectations, infertility, loss, medical concerns, relationship discord or postpartum anxiety and depression.
Sometimes the life we imagined and the reality of the moment we are living, don't line up. This can create some pretty big feelings that might take us by surprise. We might feel stuck, isolated, uncertain and not like our "usual" selves. I work with individuals and couples who are bumping up against unexpected challenges in creating/growing their family, difficulty within pre and postpartum stages and beyond, into the early years of parenting. My clients also include those who might be navigating chronic health concerns, caregiver burnout and compassion fatigue. Reach out for a free consult to see how we may work together.
Now is the time to heal. If you or a loved one desire near-immediate, life-changing results, we can most certainly help. Working with us means your anxiety, depression, PTSD / trauma symptoms, over-thinking, and unwanted patterns of self-sabotage simply disappear. Imagine your emotional distress and frustrations melting like a block of ice under a hot sun. How would that improve your relationships with your partner, family, or yourself? Notice that feeling? Now double it.
Now is the time to heal. If you or a loved one desire near-immediate, life-changing results, we can most certainly help. Working with us means your anxiety, depression, PTSD / trauma symptoms, over-thinking, and unwanted patterns of self-sabotage simply disappear. Imagine your emotional distress and frustrations melting like a block of ice under a hot sun. How would that improve your relationships with your partner, family, or yourself? Notice that feeling? Now double it.
I invite you individually or as a couple to explore your relationship.
Change can be daunting so you stay 'stuck' in situations that no longer serve you. Maybe life feels 'comfortable' but you feel unfulfilled. You wear a mask to hide the anxiety or unhappiness you feel. The emotional pain is blocking you from connecting with those closest to you. It may seem there is no hope, so you continue living an unsatisfied life. Maybe you have learned to get through difficult times alone, but are ready to further explore yourself and the relationships in your life. You want change, and to feel whole again. You want to connect with yourself, and feel confident in who you are.
I invite you individually or as a couple to explore your relationship.
Change can be daunting so you stay 'stuck' in situations that no longer serve you. Maybe life feels 'comfortable' but you feel unfulfilled. You wear a mask to hide the anxiety or unhappiness you feel. The emotional pain is blocking you from connecting with those closest to you. It may seem there is no hope, so you continue living an unsatisfied life. Maybe you have learned to get through difficult times alone, but are ready to further explore yourself and the relationships in your life. You want change, and to feel whole again. You want to connect with yourself, and feel confident in who you are.
As a result of feeling isolated many difficulties can arise such as depression, relationship problems, anxiety and work related problems.
I work as an Integrative therapist using a wide range of approaches with client centred therapy as a base. I feel passionately that when you the client enter into a therapeutic relationship with me that you should feel safe and nurtured. I know how difficult it is to take that first step and I am here to help you to work through whatever issues are affecting your life and to enable you to regain your personal power. Most of us struggle with family of origin issues which if not dealt with can lead to depression, anxiety and other problems.
As a result of feeling isolated many difficulties can arise such as depression, relationship problems, anxiety and work related problems.
I work as an Integrative therapist using a wide range of approaches with client centred therapy as a base. I feel passionately that when you the client enter into a therapeutic relationship with me that you should feel safe and nurtured. I know how difficult it is to take that first step and I am here to help you to work through whatever issues are affecting your life and to enable you to regain your personal power. Most of us struggle with family of origin issues which if not dealt with can lead to depression, anxiety and other problems.
I am an experienced Registered Psychologist offering counselling and psychotherapy to individuals, couples, and families. I help people working through challenges in their relationships, careers, and personal lives. Often people come to me for help with depression, anxiety, trauma, or health concerns. I take a practical and mindful approach to counselling, grounded in a strong therapeutic relationship, to help you accomplish your counselling goals in a timely and effective manner. I work with many first responders. www.drjeffmorley.ca www.911resilience.ca www.guardianpsychedelics.ca
I am an experienced Registered Psychologist offering counselling and psychotherapy to individuals, couples, and families. I help people working through challenges in their relationships, careers, and personal lives. Often people come to me for help with depression, anxiety, trauma, or health concerns. I take a practical and mindful approach to counselling, grounded in a strong therapeutic relationship, to help you accomplish your counselling goals in a timely and effective manner. I work with many first responders. www.drjeffmorley.ca www.911resilience.ca www.guardianpsychedelics.ca
Individuals and couples who come to me often struggle with overwhelming emotions of hurt, uncertainty, loneliness or hopelessness stemming from ongoing conflicts, expectations, or traumas.
The Spaces Between Counselling .....The Power of Perception The greatest growth my clients experience from our work together is a new way of seeing and experiencing their lives. I'll show you how to move from hopelessness, loneliness, frustration, and fear to clarity and peace. We'll use your struggle as your power spot to create change. Although this can be difficult, that discomfort acts as a motivation to change. That is its job. You are at a place where all the possibilities and richness of life are yours to be found. I can help you take your next steps and I'd be honoured to walk with you.
Individuals and couples who come to me often struggle with overwhelming emotions of hurt, uncertainty, loneliness or hopelessness stemming from ongoing conflicts, expectations, or traumas.
The Spaces Between Counselling .....The Power of Perception The greatest growth my clients experience from our work together is a new way of seeing and experiencing their lives. I'll show you how to move from hopelessness, loneliness, frustration, and fear to clarity and peace. We'll use your struggle as your power spot to create change. Although this can be difficult, that discomfort acts as a motivation to change. That is its job. You are at a place where all the possibilities and richness of life are yours to be found. I can help you take your next steps and I'd be honoured to walk with you.
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We are a specialized team of mental health professionals providing high-quality counselling and trauma therapy to individuals and couples. We know that talk therapy is beneficial, but we realized that many of our clients’ problems require a deeper and more integrative approach. Stressful and traumatic experiences leave lasting impacts on peoples’ minds and their bodies, which can make them feel stuck in the same patterns. By integrating neurobiologically-based therapies such as EMDR, OEI and Somatic Experiencing into talk therapy (CBT, narrative), our team specializes in helping people break free from discouragement and overwhelm.
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Dandelion Counselling offers a creative, safe and containing space to explore thoughts and feelings. To be effective, it is not about what I 'do', but, what I can 'be' for the client: meeting wherever you may be in life and gently & empathically co-creating a therapeutic relationship. I am trained in integrative psychotherapeutic counselling with an interest in attachment and developmental trauma. This allows us to move beyond behaviour modification into an biopsychosocial psychotherapeutic understanding of what is happening. The insights from these fields can support a shift to a life where we 'respond' rather than 'react'.
Dandelion Counselling offers a creative, safe and containing space to explore thoughts and feelings. To be effective, it is not about what I 'do', but, what I can 'be' for the client: meeting wherever you may be in life and gently & empathically co-creating a therapeutic relationship. I am trained in integrative psychotherapeutic counselling with an interest in attachment and developmental trauma. This allows us to move beyond behaviour modification into an biopsychosocial psychotherapeutic understanding of what is happening. The insights from these fields can support a shift to a life where we 'respond' rather than 'react'.
If you are processing a difficult life event, struggling with low self-confidence or are seeking to improve your relationship with yourself and others, I invite you to connect at your convenience.
With a warm and thoughtful approach, I am honoured to support clients in gaining insight and building a foundation for healing, self-discovery, and hope. With gentle guidance, important life issues and emotions can be explored. Feelings such as loneliness, grief, and fear can be acknowledged in a way that deepens self-compassion and strengthens resilience. With genuineness, empathy and respect a strong therapeutic rapport is built that honours your unique needs, goals and experiences.
If you are processing a difficult life event, struggling with low self-confidence or are seeking to improve your relationship with yourself and others, I invite you to connect at your convenience.
With a warm and thoughtful approach, I am honoured to support clients in gaining insight and building a foundation for healing, self-discovery, and hope. With gentle guidance, important life issues and emotions can be explored. Feelings such as loneliness, grief, and fear can be acknowledged in a way that deepens self-compassion and strengthens resilience. With genuineness, empathy and respect a strong therapeutic rapport is built that honours your unique needs, goals and experiences.
Tarnia Pickard
Counsellor, RCC, MEd, BEd, BA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Surrey, BC V4N (Online Only)
I work with Children, Youth, Families, Couples and individuals reaching out can be scary, I am here to help make this easy and welcoming as possible.
Are you feeling on edge? Are you experiencing a sense of loss or confusion of where to go or what to do for relief? Are you a parent or family member needing solutions or support? I am here to assist you in finding your path of reprieve and stability. I see myself as one who helps heal along side with others! Together We will find your strengths and create your inner calm along with unlocking the buried emotional pain you may be struggling with. It took courage and trust to reach out, you have come this far, contact me and we will work on finding your happiness and freedom of distress and chaos. I look forward to connecting with you
I work with Children, Youth, Families, Couples and individuals reaching out can be scary, I am here to help make this easy and welcoming as possible.
Are you feeling on edge? Are you experiencing a sense of loss or confusion of where to go or what to do for relief? Are you a parent or family member needing solutions or support? I am here to assist you in finding your path of reprieve and stability. I see myself as one who helps heal along side with others! Together We will find your strengths and create your inner calm along with unlocking the buried emotional pain you may be struggling with. It took courage and trust to reach out, you have come this far, contact me and we will work on finding your happiness and freedom of distress and chaos. I look forward to connecting with you
Have you recently given birth? Have you suffered a loss? Are you feeling traumatized after your birth experience or feeling overwhelmed and scared navigating the fourth trimester. Are postpartum symptoms taking over? Feeling detached from your spouse, stressed, sleep deprived, self conscious or not like yourself is very unsettling. You feel as though you dont have anyone to talk to; friends and family don't truly understand what you are experiencing. You might be hiding your true thoughts and feelings about how everything you are living through is affecting you.
Have you recently given birth? Have you suffered a loss? Are you feeling traumatized after your birth experience or feeling overwhelmed and scared navigating the fourth trimester. Are postpartum symptoms taking over? Feeling detached from your spouse, stressed, sleep deprived, self conscious or not like yourself is very unsettling. You feel as though you dont have anyone to talk to; friends and family don't truly understand what you are experiencing. You might be hiding your true thoughts and feelings about how everything you are living through is affecting you.
Are you feeling the weight of being stuck, despite your best efforts? You’ve had some success but also feel exhausted. Life's hurdles have felt overwhelming, adding to the stress and disconnection you're experiencing. You long to rediscover a sense of connection and presence, to feel whole again. While you know deep down that change is possible, the journey seems daunting, especially when facing it alone. That's why you're seeking support, a safe and nurturing environment where judgment is left at the door. I work with teens, adults and couples as well as those finding they need support as partners, caregivers and parents.
Are you feeling the weight of being stuck, despite your best efforts? You’ve had some success but also feel exhausted. Life's hurdles have felt overwhelming, adding to the stress and disconnection you're experiencing. You long to rediscover a sense of connection and presence, to feel whole again. While you know deep down that change is possible, the journey seems daunting, especially when facing it alone. That's why you're seeking support, a safe and nurturing environment where judgment is left at the door. I work with teens, adults and couples as well as those finding they need support as partners, caregivers and parents.
Life could be challenging at times when we need a listening ear, emphatic listener to show us the alternative ways to view it. At that point it is important to seek professional help. I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor with 26 years of experience providing counselling to Individuals , Families and couples. I strive to provide client focused services in a very safe and confidential environment. I have extensive experience working with culturally diverse clients. I am fluent in English, Punjabi , Hindi and Urdu languages. I am approved provider with FNHA, CVAP, ICBC and EAP services.
Life could be challenging at times when we need a listening ear, emphatic listener to show us the alternative ways to view it. At that point it is important to seek professional help. I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor with 26 years of experience providing counselling to Individuals , Families and couples. I strive to provide client focused services in a very safe and confidential environment. I have extensive experience working with culturally diverse clients. I am fluent in English, Punjabi , Hindi and Urdu languages. I am approved provider with FNHA, CVAP, ICBC and EAP services.
Bel (Baljit) Chhokar
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Surrey, BC V3W (Online Only)
Do you feel like you’re constantly negotiating your own identity amongst challenges and responsibilities in your life? From defining your role as a parent or a partner, to living within a multi-generational/multi-family home, relationships can become a source of ongoing stress.Unexpected changes such as a health crisis or separation can send you into a world of healthcare or social programs that can make you feel overwhelmed.As someone who identifies as BIPOC, and who lives with a chronic illness, I have lived experience in negotiating these worlds. I invite you to work with me to develop strategies to help you cope, heal and grow.
Do you feel like you’re constantly negotiating your own identity amongst challenges and responsibilities in your life? From defining your role as a parent or a partner, to living within a multi-generational/multi-family home, relationships can become a source of ongoing stress.Unexpected changes such as a health crisis or separation can send you into a world of healthcare or social programs that can make you feel overwhelmed.As someone who identifies as BIPOC, and who lives with a chronic illness, I have lived experience in negotiating these worlds. I invite you to work with me to develop strategies to help you cope, heal and grow.
I use CBT and a person-centered approach, and work on supporting my clients through a therapeutic relationship built on trust, acceptance safety, and empathy.
Hello and thank you for visiting my page! My name is Kiran Dosanjh. I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor with the BC Association of Clinical Counsellors (BCACC) and I want to support you on your journey towards wellness. Life is a journey of ups and downs and, sometimes we may feel stuck and hopeless. Sometimes we just need someone to listen, support, and guide us in life. Whether you are dealing with anxiety, stress, or the demands of everyday life, parenting, or grieving the loss of a loved one; I can be there to support you and help you navigate through this difficult time of your life.
I use CBT and a person-centered approach, and work on supporting my clients through a therapeutic relationship built on trust, acceptance safety, and empathy.
Hello and thank you for visiting my page! My name is Kiran Dosanjh. I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor with the BC Association of Clinical Counsellors (BCACC) and I want to support you on your journey towards wellness. Life is a journey of ups and downs and, sometimes we may feel stuck and hopeless. Sometimes we just need someone to listen, support, and guide us in life. Whether you are dealing with anxiety, stress, or the demands of everyday life, parenting, or grieving the loss of a loved one; I can be there to support you and help you navigate through this difficult time of your life.
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Couples Counselling
Does couples counseling work?
Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.
When should a couple seek counseling?
Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.
How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?
The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.
How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?
The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.