Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in Lake Country, BC
Kelly Stone
Counsellor, MPCC- S, BSc, RPC, RTC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lake Country, BC V4V
Trauma can have a profound impact on our well-being, causing anxiety, depression, and pain. Sharing our story may not always be enough to mitigate these emotions, leaving us feeling hopeless. Even if we remain stable for years, our coping mechanisms may eventually fail. Friends and family may offer well-intentioned but ultimately unhelpful support. For therapists looking to expand their skill set through the progressive lens of psychedelic therapy or somatic experiencing, please get in touch with me for individual, dyadic, or group workshops.
Trauma can have a profound impact on our well-being, causing anxiety, depression, and pain. Sharing our story may not always be enough to mitigate these emotions, leaving us feeling hopeless. Even if we remain stable for years, our coping mechanisms may eventually fail. Friends and family may offer well-intentioned but ultimately unhelpful support. For therapists looking to expand their skill set through the progressive lens of psychedelic therapy or somatic experiencing, please get in touch with me for individual, dyadic, or group workshops.
Elisabeth Avery
Counsellor, RCC, MCP, BSc
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Lake Country, BC V4V
Navigating the complexities of life can often make the world seem unforgiving and overwhelming. In the face of unexpected challenges, it's natural to question our purpose and wonder where we'll find the strength to move forward. My intention is to hold space and embrace the feelings of uncertainty together. Collaboratively, we can unravel the past, navigate the nuances of the present, and chart a course toward a purposeful future.
Navigating the complexities of life can often make the world seem unforgiving and overwhelming. In the face of unexpected challenges, it's natural to question our purpose and wonder where we'll find the strength to move forward. My intention is to hold space and embrace the feelings of uncertainty together. Collaboratively, we can unravel the past, navigate the nuances of the present, and chart a course toward a purposeful future.
Elaine Walker
Counsellor, RPC, MPCC-S, CCATP, CSTIP, CYMHS
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Lake Country, BC V4V
If you're experiencing relationship issues with your partner, such as second marriages, co-parenting, sexual intimacy or infidelity, there is hope, even if you think there is none. Self esteem issues can be worked on, as can issues with your children, family or co-workers! Cognitive behaviour therapy can work well for all of these issues, let me help you make the most of your life! Too busy to attend in person during regular business hours? Flexible online sessions are available 7 days a week, from early morning to late evening (booking a few sessions ahead is definitely recommended).
If you're experiencing relationship issues with your partner, such as second marriages, co-parenting, sexual intimacy or infidelity, there is hope, even if you think there is none. Self esteem issues can be worked on, as can issues with your children, family or co-workers! Cognitive behaviour therapy can work well for all of these issues, let me help you make the most of your life! Too busy to attend in person during regular business hours? Flexible online sessions are available 7 days a week, from early morning to late evening (booking a few sessions ahead is definitely recommended).
Tara Smith
Counsellor, MA, RCC, CCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Lake Country, BC V4V
Hi, I am Registered Clinical Counsellor who does Couples and Family Counselling and Mediation, as well as other integrative modalities for individuals. Through years of experience and practice, I have created an effective skill set to help you grow beyond your current personal and relational struggles toward good relationships and a satisfying life. I can help you with: • Relational conflict and communication skills to recover and deepen intimacy in key relationships •Relationship styles and creating new dialogues •Barriers to life satisfaction and emotional intimacy such as trauma, attachment issues, and more.
Hi, I am Registered Clinical Counsellor who does Couples and Family Counselling and Mediation, as well as other integrative modalities for individuals. Through years of experience and practice, I have created an effective skill set to help you grow beyond your current personal and relational struggles toward good relationships and a satisfying life. I can help you with: • Relational conflict and communication skills to recover and deepen intimacy in key relationships •Relationship styles and creating new dialogues •Barriers to life satisfaction and emotional intimacy such as trauma, attachment issues, and more.
Dan Smith
Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Lake Country, BC V4V
Whether you need support through a significant life event, you're having unkind thoughts about yourself or others and want to work through them, or you are just generally feeling unwell and want to regain balance – therapy allows someone to walk with you on that journey. You may have days where you feel low, nervous, unmotivated, or lost. Those can get in the way of your enjoyment, your relationships, or you just being at your best. I work with individuals, couples, and families from diverse backgrounds, placing intentional focus on folks who identify within the IBPOC, queer, gay/lesbian, trans, and other underserved communities.
Whether you need support through a significant life event, you're having unkind thoughts about yourself or others and want to work through them, or you are just generally feeling unwell and want to regain balance – therapy allows someone to walk with you on that journey. You may have days where you feel low, nervous, unmotivated, or lost. Those can get in the way of your enjoyment, your relationships, or you just being at your best. I work with individuals, couples, and families from diverse backgrounds, placing intentional focus on folks who identify within the IBPOC, queer, gay/lesbian, trans, and other underserved communities.
Anne Chronnell
Counsellor, BFA, RTC, RPC, HBCE
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Lake Country, BC V4V
I specialize in working with women going through Life's varying transitions - in particular with our "role" changes such as pregnancy, motherhood, menopause and also identity/self worth and esteem struggles. Life can stir up anxiety, depression, disempowerment, and loss of Self. I work to help ground you back to your inner strength, to Who You Are, and help you find ways to navigate the rough waters.
I specialize in working with women going through Life's varying transitions - in particular with our "role" changes such as pregnancy, motherhood, menopause and also identity/self worth and esteem struggles. Life can stir up anxiety, depression, disempowerment, and loss of Self. I work to help ground you back to your inner strength, to Who You Are, and help you find ways to navigate the rough waters.
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Alisa Weninger
Counsellor, PhD*, MCP-AT, RCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1V
When our experiences become too overwhelming, confusing or distressing to navigate alone, therapy can be one of the most powerful containers offered to us. Together, we uncover patterns that no longer serve you, identifying the narratives that are healing or unhelpful, and learn to balance the tension of opposites. To be human is to suffer. We can learn to be in relationship with our pain by learning to be with our bodies. When we listen from within, we can step into our fullest selves with dignity, grace and consciousness. It's my privilege to walk your unique path of purpose and acceptance.
When our experiences become too overwhelming, confusing or distressing to navigate alone, therapy can be one of the most powerful containers offered to us. Together, we uncover patterns that no longer serve you, identifying the narratives that are healing or unhelpful, and learn to balance the tension of opposites. To be human is to suffer. We can learn to be in relationship with our pain by learning to be with our bodies. When we listen from within, we can step into our fullest selves with dignity, grace and consciousness. It's my privilege to walk your unique path of purpose and acceptance.
Daniel Jacob Self
MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1V (Online Only)
Deep inside of you is the awareness of what you need to heal. I help facilitate and unearth that inner wisdom with individuals, couples, and groups. Together, we'll practice tuning into your own unique embodied awareness. From there, we can translate that increased clarity into tangible action that aligns with your greatest, most authentic wellbeing. Our bodies exist within larger systems — many of which can disconnect us from ourselves and each other. We'll look together at the messages we've internalized from these systems in order to unearth the ones that are no longer helpful.
Deep inside of you is the awareness of what you need to heal. I help facilitate and unearth that inner wisdom with individuals, couples, and groups. Together, we'll practice tuning into your own unique embodied awareness. From there, we can translate that increased clarity into tangible action that aligns with your greatest, most authentic wellbeing. Our bodies exist within larger systems — many of which can disconnect us from ourselves and each other. We'll look together at the messages we've internalized from these systems in order to unearth the ones that are no longer helpful.
Natalia Sarmiento
Counsellor, RTC
Verified Verified
Okanagan Centre, BC V4V (Online Only)
I am passionate about self-discovery, embodiment, creativity, and conscious living. My goal is to support my clients on their journey back to their truest, most embodied selves. I offer different modalities to explore and help bring awareness to our deepest wants and needs, and to open space for expansion and genuine self-expression. I believe that a truthful, embodied life involves body, mind, and spirit, so I strive to create a safe, welcoming space where every aspect of our complex inner lives can come to light and be witnessed with compassionate curiosity.
I am passionate about self-discovery, embodiment, creativity, and conscious living. My goal is to support my clients on their journey back to their truest, most embodied selves. I offer different modalities to explore and help bring awareness to our deepest wants and needs, and to open space for expansion and genuine self-expression. I believe that a truthful, embodied life involves body, mind, and spirit, so I strive to create a safe, welcoming space where every aspect of our complex inner lives can come to light and be witnessed with compassionate curiosity.
Patricia Langlais
Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
Kelowna, BC V4V
Within family units, the need for each member to feel heard cannot be overstated. My approach to couples counselling places emphasis on effective communication while resolving damage done to the relationship by unfair fighting, infidelity or other relationship-based challenges preventing the couple from realizing the benefits of healthy coupling.
Within family units, the need for each member to feel heard cannot be overstated. My approach to couples counselling places emphasis on effective communication while resolving damage done to the relationship by unfair fighting, infidelity or other relationship-based challenges preventing the couple from realizing the benefits of healthy coupling.
Francesca Williams
Counsellor, BSc, RN, MACP, CCC, BCS
Verified Verified
Kelowna, BC V4V (Online Only)
Wellness is a complex combination of mental and physical health. You may be feeling vulnerable and needing to discuss intimate subjects that may be perceived as too shameful or traumatic to share with others. As an RN and therapist, I know that how our bodies work (or don’t) has a huge impact on our well-being Whether your mental health is impacting your physical health or vice versa, it can be difficult to find a therapist who understands both. Whether you are experiencing sexual challenges, perinatal mood shifts or difficulty moving through a trauma, I am here to believe you in your experience and support you in moving forward.
Wellness is a complex combination of mental and physical health. You may be feeling vulnerable and needing to discuss intimate subjects that may be perceived as too shameful or traumatic to share with others. As an RN and therapist, I know that how our bodies work (or don’t) has a huge impact on our well-being Whether your mental health is impacting your physical health or vice versa, it can be difficult to find a therapist who understands both. Whether you are experiencing sexual challenges, perinatal mood shifts or difficulty moving through a trauma, I am here to believe you in your experience and support you in moving forward.
Paige Hollingsworth
Counsellor, MA
Verified Verified
Kelowna, BC V1V (Online Only)
I specialize in relationship counselling and individual counselling. Have you noticed that worrying is negatively impacting your life or your relationships? Are you feeling hijacked by worry, distressing thoughts, or rumination? Perhaps you are feeling overwhelmed, have difficulty falling asleep, or are feeling stuck in life. Are you and your partner no longer feeling connected and supported by each other? Do you look at your partner and wonder where the person you committed to went? Do you feel like your partner is a stranger, and experience loneliness? Are you looking for a change? I can help.
I specialize in relationship counselling and individual counselling. Have you noticed that worrying is negatively impacting your life or your relationships? Are you feeling hijacked by worry, distressing thoughts, or rumination? Perhaps you are feeling overwhelmed, have difficulty falling asleep, or are feeling stuck in life. Are you and your partner no longer feeling connected and supported by each other? Do you look at your partner and wonder where the person you committed to went? Do you feel like your partner is a stranger, and experience loneliness? Are you looking for a change? I can help.
Soul Centered Counselling & Holistic Services
Counsellor, RTC, BST
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1V
I work with those who are motivated, yet uncertain of their next steps. They desire or need someone trustworthy & integral to support them through their changes and growth. They are willing to put the action & effort into themselves for it. They are willing to risk stepping into the unknown. My ideal client wants a guide to their power and to move away from self-punishment. They are those who have become lost, wandering in circles of their hurt -- confused or disconnected from life in & around them - For these I am in service.
I work with those who are motivated, yet uncertain of their next steps. They desire or need someone trustworthy & integral to support them through their changes and growth. They are willing to put the action & effort into themselves for it. They are willing to risk stepping into the unknown. My ideal client wants a guide to their power and to move away from self-punishment. They are those who have become lost, wandering in circles of their hurt -- confused or disconnected from life in & around them - For these I am in service.
Jesse Ray-Contreras
Counsellor, MCP, RCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1V
While there is no doubt moving through life is hard and uncertain, we are all deserving of peace and clarity. No matter if you've struggled with body image and food, grapple with the lasting effects of religious trauma, or are on a journey exploring your identity, with support and a safe space finding a solid footing in life is possible. One where your skills and strengths are just as clear as your challenges, and you feel grounded as you navigate the uncertainties and painful moments that come with being human.
While there is no doubt moving through life is hard and uncertain, we are all deserving of peace and clarity. No matter if you've struggled with body image and food, grapple with the lasting effects of religious trauma, or are on a journey exploring your identity, with support and a safe space finding a solid footing in life is possible. One where your skills and strengths are just as clear as your challenges, and you feel grounded as you navigate the uncertainties and painful moments that come with being human.
Wayfinding Psychology by Dr. Megan Suehn, R. Psych
Psychologist, PhD, RPsych
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Okanagan Centre, BC V4V (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Affirming LGBTQIA+ people of all ethnicities and backgrounds. Recovery from grief, & life transitions of career shifts or immigration. Revitalization from burnout and trauma. Strengthening marriages, families, & other relationships for success. Supporting front line workers like police, nurses, doctors, therapists, & other caregivers. I help you integrate aspects of your identity and learn to navigate more comfortable, safer, and healthier relationships with family, friends, and community. Helping you grow into your favourite self: from one member of the queer community to another. (Please note: I only offer online counselling).
Affirming LGBTQIA+ people of all ethnicities and backgrounds. Recovery from grief, & life transitions of career shifts or immigration. Revitalization from burnout and trauma. Strengthening marriages, families, & other relationships for success. Supporting front line workers like police, nurses, doctors, therapists, & other caregivers. I help you integrate aspects of your identity and learn to navigate more comfortable, safer, and healthier relationships with family, friends, and community. Helping you grow into your favourite self: from one member of the queer community to another. (Please note: I only offer online counselling).
Haida Gaede
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, RCC, MSW RSW, PgDip, BEd, BA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1V
Available evenings & weekends. I’m Haida, a dedicated Clinician specialized in helping people navigate life's intricacies with empathy and understanding. I provide an inclusive and non-judgmental space where each person can feel deeply valued for who they are as they explore their unique thoughts, feelings, and experiences. In my view, therapy is not just about addressing problems, but also cultivating personal growth. Whether you are facing issues related to mental health, school difficulties, identity, relationships, or simply needing a nurturing environment to express yourself, I'm here to support you.
Available evenings & weekends. I’m Haida, a dedicated Clinician specialized in helping people navigate life's intricacies with empathy and understanding. I provide an inclusive and non-judgmental space where each person can feel deeply valued for who they are as they explore their unique thoughts, feelings, and experiences. In my view, therapy is not just about addressing problems, but also cultivating personal growth. Whether you are facing issues related to mental health, school difficulties, identity, relationships, or simply needing a nurturing environment to express yourself, I'm here to support you.
Online Therapists
Michael Jeffery
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Verified Verified
Nelson, BC V1L
Thank you for taking a big step to empower yourself by seeking counselling. I love working with diverse clients and issues, but specialize in sex and relationships, sexual and gender orientation questions and men's issues/ issues with men. If you are struggling with what it means to be masculine or to be in a relationship with a man, dealing with sexual or romantic issues or exploring ways of relating outside of the box like polyamory, kink or queerness I am here for you.
Thank you for taking a big step to empower yourself by seeking counselling. I love working with diverse clients and issues, but specialize in sex and relationships, sexual and gender orientation questions and men's issues/ issues with men. If you are struggling with what it means to be masculine or to be in a relationship with a man, dealing with sexual or romantic issues or exploring ways of relating outside of the box like polyamory, kink or queerness I am here for you.
Melissa Hooper
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, RP
Verified Verified
West Kelowna, BC V4T (Online Only)
Hello. My practice specializes in issues with sexuality, sexual dysfunction, infidelity, infertility, couple dynamics and the often connected feelings of anxiety, depression and shame. I offer respectful, judgment free compassionate care to clients experiencing troubling emotions and behaviours and work to release and heal feelings of guilt/fear/hurt related to sexual dysfunction, intimacy and identity. I work extensively with both individuals and couples in the areas of high/low sexual desire, arousal/orgasm disorders and Erectile Dysfunction, among others. My practice is LGBTQIA2S+Kink and Ethical non-monogamy supportive.
Hello. My practice specializes in issues with sexuality, sexual dysfunction, infidelity, infertility, couple dynamics and the often connected feelings of anxiety, depression and shame. I offer respectful, judgment free compassionate care to clients experiencing troubling emotions and behaviours and work to release and heal feelings of guilt/fear/hurt related to sexual dysfunction, intimacy and identity. I work extensively with both individuals and couples in the areas of high/low sexual desire, arousal/orgasm disorders and Erectile Dysfunction, among others. My practice is LGBTQIA2S+Kink and Ethical non-monogamy supportive.
Julie Wright
Counsellor, MACP, RCC
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y (Online Only)
I am kink-fluent and have helped many clients open their relationships in a safe, ethical way.
If you're struggling in relationships or with anything related to your sexuality, you are in the right place. These topics can be difficult to experience, and scary to discuss, so having a counsellor or therapist who can discuss these topics openly is important. Whether you are attending counselling as an individual or together with another person/people, taking this first step is important. Perhaps the passionate energy is gone, or maybe you don't even recognize the person you sleep next to anymore. Seeking support, this moment right here, is the most important thing you can be doing. You don't have to do this alone.
I am kink-fluent and have helped many clients open their relationships in a safe, ethical way.
If you're struggling in relationships or with anything related to your sexuality, you are in the right place. These topics can be difficult to experience, and scary to discuss, so having a counsellor or therapist who can discuss these topics openly is important. Whether you are attending counselling as an individual or together with another person/people, taking this first step is important. Perhaps the passionate energy is gone, or maybe you don't even recognize the person you sleep next to anymore. Seeking support, this moment right here, is the most important thing you can be doing. You don't have to do this alone.
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counsellors
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialised knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organisations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.
How can individuals recognise a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognise a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.