Sex Therapists in Kelowna, BC

Photo of Teesha Morgan, Counsellor
Teesha Morgan
Counsellor
Verified Verified
Kelowna, BC V1Y
Dr. Teesha Morgan is a Psychotherapist, published author, adjunct professor, TEDx speaker, and co-founder of the Westland Academy of Clinical Sex Therapy and Westland Therapy Group. Dr. Morgan specializes in Sex Therapy and Couples Counselling and has had a full-time private practice for over 15 years.
Dr. Teesha Morgan is a Psychotherapist, published author, adjunct professor, TEDx speaker, and co-founder of the Westland Academy of Clinical Sex Therapy and Westland Therapy Group. Dr. Morgan specializes in Sex Therapy and Couples Counselling and has had a full-time private practice for over 15 years.
(647) 424-3106 View (647) 424-3106
Photo of Lucy Snider, MA hons, PgDip, MSc, RCC-ACS, COSRT, Counsellor
Lucy Snider
Counsellor, MA hons, PgDip, MSc, RCC-ACS, COSRT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
I also offer clinical supervision for other health professionals, particularly in the areas of sex therapy, relationship therapy and sexual health.
Are you looking for sex therapy, relationship therapy or couples counselling? Are you struggling with a sexual problem and don't know who to talk to? Are you having difficulties in your current relationship or are you worried about previous or future relationships? Are you struggling with a recent STI diagnosis? We all experience difficulties with sex and relationships but it can be hard to discuss these sensitive topics with friends or loved ones. Common issues that bring clients to see me are problems with sexual function or desire, difficulties with communication or conflict resolution or feeling stuck in your relationship.
I also offer clinical supervision for other health professionals, particularly in the areas of sex therapy, relationship therapy and sexual health.
Are you looking for sex therapy, relationship therapy or couples counselling? Are you struggling with a sexual problem and don't know who to talk to? Are you having difficulties in your current relationship or are you worried about previous or future relationships? Are you struggling with a recent STI diagnosis? We all experience difficulties with sex and relationships but it can be hard to discuss these sensitive topics with friends or loved ones. Common issues that bring clients to see me are problems with sexual function or desire, difficulties with communication or conflict resolution or feeling stuck in your relationship.
(778) 860-4552 View (778) 860-4552
Photo of Elaine Walker, RPC, MPCC-S, Counsellor
Elaine Walker
Counsellor, RPC, MPCC-S
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
I work mainly in the areas of depression and anxiety, as well as issues relating to relationships, sexuality and sleep/insomnia.
If you are experiencing relationship issues with your partner, such as communication, co-parenting, sexual intimacy or infidelity, there is always the possibility of improvement. Self esteem issues can be worked on, as can issues with your children, family or co-workers! Cognitive behaviour therapy and other modalities can work well for all of these issues, let me help you make the most of your life! Too busy to attend in person during regular business hours? Flexible online sessions are available 7 days a week, from early morning to late evening. Clinical Supervision for CPCA, ACCT, and CCPCP is also available.
I work mainly in the areas of depression and anxiety, as well as issues relating to relationships, sexuality and sleep/insomnia.
If you are experiencing relationship issues with your partner, such as communication, co-parenting, sexual intimacy or infidelity, there is always the possibility of improvement. Self esteem issues can be worked on, as can issues with your children, family or co-workers! Cognitive behaviour therapy and other modalities can work well for all of these issues, let me help you make the most of your life! Too busy to attend in person during regular business hours? Flexible online sessions are available 7 days a week, from early morning to late evening. Clinical Supervision for CPCA, ACCT, and CCPCP is also available.
(250) 718-6084 View (250) 718-6084
Photo of Heather Cameron, MTC
Heather Cameron
MTC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
It's time to explore what is really going on with your sexuality.
Sex doesn't have to be a chore. It doesn't have to be another thing to scratch off your weekly To-Do List. Is it run of the mill, get it done and move on? Or is it a straight up “don't touch me, I don’t have time for this crap?”. However, your partner keeps saying that sex needs to be a priority in your relationship, or they'll be forced to leave. Or they would like to explore an open relationship. Lingerie, sex toys and endless research hasn’t changed anything and in fact you feel worse than you did before. You still lack any connection and safety in your relationship, which is really what you want, (other than an equal workload).
It's time to explore what is really going on with your sexuality.
Sex doesn't have to be a chore. It doesn't have to be another thing to scratch off your weekly To-Do List. Is it run of the mill, get it done and move on? Or is it a straight up “don't touch me, I don’t have time for this crap?”. However, your partner keeps saying that sex needs to be a priority in your relationship, or they'll be forced to leave. Or they would like to explore an open relationship. Lingerie, sex toys and endless research hasn’t changed anything and in fact you feel worse than you did before. You still lack any connection and safety in your relationship, which is really what you want, (other than an equal workload).
(709) 910-6841 View (709) 910-6841
Photo of Shauna Burns-Thomson, MSc, RCC, CHyp, Counsellor
Shauna Burns-Thomson
Counsellor, MSc, RCC, CHyp
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Online Only
Shauna is a Registered Clinical Counsellor in good standing with the BC Association of Clinical Counsellors (BCACC), and holds membership with American Association of Sexuality Educators.
With a passion for lifelong learning, Shauna has completed a Master of Science in Psychology and is certified as a Somatic Sex Therapist and Clinical Counselling Hypnotherapist (Trauma Speciality). She has completed Gottman Level 1 and Level 2, as well as EFT Level 1 and 2 training. She has also completed supplementary training in Holistic Health Coaching, Mindfulness, Yoga, San'yas Indigenous Cultural Safety Training, Understanding Emergency Worker Trauma and Understanding Firefighter Culture & Trauma to support her work with first responders. Most recently, Shauna has been pursuing a PhD in the field of Clinical Sexology.
Shauna is a Registered Clinical Counsellor in good standing with the BC Association of Clinical Counsellors (BCACC), and holds membership with American Association of Sexuality Educators.
With a passion for lifelong learning, Shauna has completed a Master of Science in Psychology and is certified as a Somatic Sex Therapist and Clinical Counselling Hypnotherapist (Trauma Speciality). She has completed Gottman Level 1 and Level 2, as well as EFT Level 1 and 2 training. She has also completed supplementary training in Holistic Health Coaching, Mindfulness, Yoga, San'yas Indigenous Cultural Safety Training, Understanding Emergency Worker Trauma and Understanding Firefighter Culture & Trauma to support her work with first responders. Most recently, Shauna has been pursuing a PhD in the field of Clinical Sexology.
(825) 465-0356 View (825) 465-0356
Photo of Julie Wright, DCP, MACP, RCC, ACS, Counsellor
Julie Wright
Counsellor, DCP, MACP, RCC, ACS
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Online Only
If you're struggling in relationships or with anything related to your sexuality, you are in the right place. These topics can be difficult to experience, and scary to discuss, so having a counsellor or therapist who can discuss these topics openly is important. Whether you are attending counselling as an individual or together with another person/people, taking this first step is important. Perhaps the passionate energy is gone, or maybe you don't even recognize the person you sleep next to anymore. Seeking support, this moment right here, is the most important thing you can be doing. You don't have to do this alone.
If you're struggling in relationships or with anything related to your sexuality, you are in the right place. These topics can be difficult to experience, and scary to discuss, so having a counsellor or therapist who can discuss these topics openly is important. Whether you are attending counselling as an individual or together with another person/people, taking this first step is important. Perhaps the passionate energy is gone, or maybe you don't even recognize the person you sleep next to anymore. Seeking support, this moment right here, is the most important thing you can be doing. You don't have to do this alone.
(778) 770-2038 View (778) 770-2038
Photo of Bill Schuilenberg, RPC, MPCC-S, CSAT, Counsellor
Bill Schuilenberg
Counsellor, RPC, MPCC-S, CSAT
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
While helping men recover from problematic sexuality and intimacy challenges, I also help couples rebuild their marriage.
Many of my clients are men with personal and relational challenges, such as sexual addiction, infidelity, compulsive pornography use and intimacy challenges. Depression, addiction and anxiety are often linked with relationship difficulties. Working with you to measure your psychological health, we then find solutions by integrating your psycho-education with your strengths to find a positive way forward. I look forward to helping you reclaim your life from the damage of compulsive sexual behaviours. Online and in-person sessions available.
While helping men recover from problematic sexuality and intimacy challenges, I also help couples rebuild their marriage.
Many of my clients are men with personal and relational challenges, such as sexual addiction, infidelity, compulsive pornography use and intimacy challenges. Depression, addiction and anxiety are often linked with relationship difficulties. Working with you to measure your psychological health, we then find solutions by integrating your psycho-education with your strengths to find a positive way forward. I look forward to helping you reclaim your life from the damage of compulsive sexual behaviours. Online and in-person sessions available.
(778) 760-9071 View (778) 760-9071
Photo of Barb Gladue, MA, SRT, CPC, CT, EMDR, Counsellor
Barb Gladue
Counsellor, MA, SRT, CPC, CT, EMDR
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
She is also a certified Sex Addiction Therapist.
Barb Gladue is invested in providing client centered counselling both in person and/or online. Information is woven through each session in order to prevent further breakdown in the individual, their relationships and/or their work performance. Barb's focus is on helping you find your authentic self. She can guide you through a process of taking a look at your current foundation to see where there may be cracks in it.
She is also a certified Sex Addiction Therapist.
Barb Gladue is invested in providing client centered counselling both in person and/or online. Information is woven through each session in order to prevent further breakdown in the individual, their relationships and/or their work performance. Barb's focus is on helping you find your authentic self. She can guide you through a process of taking a look at your current foundation to see where there may be cracks in it.
(866) 416-9029 View (866) 416-9029
Photo of David Hersh - Dr. David Hersh - Hersh Ctr for Sexual Wellness, EdD, LMFT, CST, ABS, FAACS
Dr. David Hersh - Hersh Ctr for Sexual Wellness
EdD, LMFT, CST, ABS, FAACS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
Do you want more/less sex than your partner? Do you have little or no sexual desire? Are you having trouble with sexually explicit media? Do you argue about what sexual activities are acceptable? Does sex feel like an addiction? Has there been a breach of trust with secretive, extra-marital sex? Are you having difficulty getting or maintaining an erection?.
My specialty is Human Sexuality. I'm a Certified Sex Therapist, Psychotherapist and am a mostly retired, formerly Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT). I have 50+ years experience. I was trained, mentored and supervised by Dr. Wardell Pomeroy of the Kinsey Institute. I help my patients achieve their greatest sexual and relationship potential, beyond diagnosis and treatment of their concerns, to reach the most exciting levels of an intimate relationship. I see many patients online. It is efficient and effective, and it permits the intimacy and immediacy of an in-office consultation, from the comfort of your home or office.
Do you want more/less sex than your partner? Do you have little or no sexual desire? Are you having trouble with sexually explicit media? Do you argue about what sexual activities are acceptable? Does sex feel like an addiction? Has there been a breach of trust with secretive, extra-marital sex? Are you having difficulty getting or maintaining an erection?.
My specialty is Human Sexuality. I'm a Certified Sex Therapist, Psychotherapist and am a mostly retired, formerly Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT). I have 50+ years experience. I was trained, mentored and supervised by Dr. Wardell Pomeroy of the Kinsey Institute. I help my patients achieve their greatest sexual and relationship potential, beyond diagnosis and treatment of their concerns, to reach the most exciting levels of an intimate relationship. I see many patients online. It is efficient and effective, and it permits the intimacy and immediacy of an in-office consultation, from the comfort of your home or office.
(403) 606-3183 View (403) 606-3183
Photo of Heather Mitchell, MCP, RCC, Counsellor
Heather Mitchell
Counsellor, MCP, RCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1P
My name is Heather, and my counselling approach is centred on genuine connection and creating safety for the folks I get to work with. I could be a good fit for you if you are looking to address substance use, trauma symptoms, relationship struggles, curiosities around sex/ sexuality, and/or general mental health concerns. My clients have described me as calm and compassionate while also holding people accountable to their therapy goals. I work from an emotion focused, relational, and experiential framework. You are in the driver's seat and I am here to support you with compassion and curiosity. Looking forward to connecting!
My name is Heather, and my counselling approach is centred on genuine connection and creating safety for the folks I get to work with. I could be a good fit for you if you are looking to address substance use, trauma symptoms, relationship struggles, curiosities around sex/ sexuality, and/or general mental health concerns. My clients have described me as calm and compassionate while also holding people accountable to their therapy goals. I work from an emotion focused, relational, and experiential framework. You are in the driver's seat and I am here to support you with compassion and curiosity. Looking forward to connecting!
(778) 601-6699 View (778) 601-6699
Photo of Catherine Pennington, BA HSD, Masters, CCPCP-R, Counsellor
Catherine Pennington
Counsellor, BA HSD, Masters, CCPCP-R
Verified Verified
Kelowna, BC V1V
Be it crisis, life decisions, conflict, body image issues, health, career, life transitions, infidelity or sexuality, my approach will help you to make the best decisions for yourself or family.
Experienced counsellor / certified professional coach with a proven history in social services / mental health care field. Skilled in Counselling, Executive Coaching, Individual / Couples Counselling and Mental Health Care. Studied at University of Victoria, University of Regina, Queen’s University, London School of Economics and graduate studies in counselling at Thompson Rivers University. Erickson ICF trained coach. I’m a solution focused counsellor with an integrated approach. With corporate and executive leadership experience, I understand the pressure of career & business on individuals and families. 20+ years experience.
Be it crisis, life decisions, conflict, body image issues, health, career, life transitions, infidelity or sexuality, my approach will help you to make the best decisions for yourself or family.
Experienced counsellor / certified professional coach with a proven history in social services / mental health care field. Skilled in Counselling, Executive Coaching, Individual / Couples Counselling and Mental Health Care. Studied at University of Victoria, University of Regina, Queen’s University, London School of Economics and graduate studies in counselling at Thompson Rivers University. Erickson ICF trained coach. I’m a solution focused counsellor with an integrated approach. With corporate and executive leadership experience, I understand the pressure of career & business on individuals and families. 20+ years experience.
(438) 500-1753 View (438) 500-1753
Photo of Kate Kemp, MSW, RSW, Registered Social Worker
Kate Kemp
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
Hi, I’m Kate. I understand that seeking counselling can take a lot of courage, so I am glad you’re here to explore ways to achieve your well-being and personal growth. From my own experiences, I’ve developed a strong passion for supporting others. My own journey through counselling has shown me just how powerful therapy can be. I genuinely believe that everyone, no matter what they've been through, has incredible inner strength and the potential to heal and live a fulfilling life.
Hi, I’m Kate. I understand that seeking counselling can take a lot of courage, so I am glad you’re here to explore ways to achieve your well-being and personal growth. From my own experiences, I’ve developed a strong passion for supporting others. My own journey through counselling has shown me just how powerful therapy can be. I genuinely believe that everyone, no matter what they've been through, has incredible inner strength and the potential to heal and live a fulfilling life.
(236) 309-3579 View (236) 309-3579
Photo of Jenni Radmacher, MACP, RCC, BSN, CSTIP, Counsellor
Jenni Radmacher
Counsellor, MACP, RCC, BSN, CSTIP
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
Many of us have challenges that prevent us from being our best self, such as depression, anxiety, emotional difficulties, relationship issues, or trauma. Whether you need support to battle your inner demons or the past that haunts you, Jenni can help you discover what you need to not only cope, but to heal and eventually thrive. Jenni will guide you to safely look within and develop a compassionate understanding of yourself.
Many of us have challenges that prevent us from being our best self, such as depression, anxiety, emotional difficulties, relationship issues, or trauma. Whether you need support to battle your inner demons or the past that haunts you, Jenni can help you discover what you need to not only cope, but to heal and eventually thrive. Jenni will guide you to safely look within and develop a compassionate understanding of yourself.
(250) 718-9291 View (250) 718-9291
Photo of Alayna Annett, Counsellor
Alayna Annett
Counsellor
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I offer sessions for $50+GST/50 minutes, as a Counselling Student Intern. I believe that everyone is deserving of a life of freedom filled with pleasure, joy, and love. I would love to work with you to navigate the challenges you're experiencing and explore what it means for you to lead an empowered and fulfilling life. I have a passion for sexual health and wellbeing, and my practice is grounded in trauma-informed care. Offering a safe, authentic and judgement-free space, I show up with curiosity and humility to meet you where you are, and we work together each session to work on the concerns that have brought you to counselling.
I offer sessions for $50+GST/50 minutes, as a Counselling Student Intern. I believe that everyone is deserving of a life of freedom filled with pleasure, joy, and love. I would love to work with you to navigate the challenges you're experiencing and explore what it means for you to lead an empowered and fulfilling life. I have a passion for sexual health and wellbeing, and my practice is grounded in trauma-informed care. Offering a safe, authentic and judgement-free space, I show up with curiosity and humility to meet you where you are, and we work together each session to work on the concerns that have brought you to counselling.
(639) 387-6218 View (639) 387-6218
Photo of Deana Van Fleet - Okanagan Christian Counselling, RTC, Counsellor
Okanagan Christian Counselling
Counsellor, RTC
Verified Verified
Kelowna, BC V1Y
Families, Marriages/Divorces, Individuals (Adults, Teens, Children) Welcome to your journey to a new and improved you! We believe that healthy relationships/marriages, healthy individuals, healthy families, and healthy children come from healthy hearts, healthy minds, healthy boundaries, healthy pregnancies and raising kids, and doing the healthy personal work necessary to be your best for yourself and for those in your life. You are important, and you taking the time to work on YOU and your relationships is important to your (and their) quality of life.
Families, Marriages/Divorces, Individuals (Adults, Teens, Children) Welcome to your journey to a new and improved you! We believe that healthy relationships/marriages, healthy individuals, healthy families, and healthy children come from healthy hearts, healthy minds, healthy boundaries, healthy pregnancies and raising kids, and doing the healthy personal work necessary to be your best for yourself and for those in your life. You are important, and you taking the time to work on YOU and your relationships is important to your (and their) quality of life.
(855) 756-7612 View (855) 756-7612
Photo of Robin Gabert, RCC, MA, Counsellor
Robin Gabert
Counsellor, RCC, MA
Verified Verified
Kelowna, BC V1X
Hi, I’m Robin and I consider myself to be a wellness enthusiast who is passionate about helping others navigate their life journey. My years of clinical practice, coupled with over 25 years of marriage, 4 children and a blended family provide me a realistic perspective of successful strategies to manage life. As a clinician, I am honoured to walk along side, supporting clients in paving a richer, more peaceful way of being.
Hi, I’m Robin and I consider myself to be a wellness enthusiast who is passionate about helping others navigate their life journey. My years of clinical practice, coupled with over 25 years of marriage, 4 children and a blended family provide me a realistic perspective of successful strategies to manage life. As a clinician, I am honoured to walk along side, supporting clients in paving a richer, more peaceful way of being.
(579) 996-5441 View (579) 996-5441
Photo of Virginie Fostroy, MSW, RSW, Registered Social Worker
Virginie Fostroy
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Kelowna, BC V1Y
I am a neuroqueer Latina therapist with European ancestry who immigrated to Canada over a decade ago. I firmly believe that therapy must take context and systems of oppression into account in order to be helpful. If this is your first time seeking therapy, I may be a particularly good fit for you as I am passionate about translating knowledge and teaching skills in a client-centered manner. I offer therapy in English, French, Spanish, and any combination thereof (e.g. spanglish). If you often feel like other people were given an instruction manual for life that you didn’t receive, I might be able to help you bridge the gap.
I am a neuroqueer Latina therapist with European ancestry who immigrated to Canada over a decade ago. I firmly believe that therapy must take context and systems of oppression into account in order to be helpful. If this is your first time seeking therapy, I may be a particularly good fit for you as I am passionate about translating knowledge and teaching skills in a client-centered manner. I offer therapy in English, French, Spanish, and any combination thereof (e.g. spanglish). If you often feel like other people were given an instruction manual for life that you didn’t receive, I might be able to help you bridge the gap.
(587) 416-6621 View (587) 416-6621
Photo of Amanda Dewar - Strength Counselling Services, MEd, RCC, CCC, RSW, RP, Counsellor
Strength Counselling Services
Counsellor, MEd, RCC, CCC, RSW, RP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
We are an online counselling agency so do not provide services in person. Strength Counselling Services has licensed, experienced therapists who use evidence-based practices, prioritize client needs, and maintain ethical standards. We offer culturally sensitive, affordable services in a supportive environment. We offer a comprehensive goals assessment, regularly assess progress, and collaborate with other professionals. We provide transparency in our fees and for thirteen years now have held a positive reputation of trust, and client success. Lastly, ensuring our clients' privacy and confidentiality are of utmost importance to us.
We are an online counselling agency so do not provide services in person. Strength Counselling Services has licensed, experienced therapists who use evidence-based practices, prioritize client needs, and maintain ethical standards. We offer culturally sensitive, affordable services in a supportive environment. We offer a comprehensive goals assessment, regularly assess progress, and collaborate with other professionals. We provide transparency in our fees and for thirteen years now have held a positive reputation of trust, and client success. Lastly, ensuring our clients' privacy and confidentiality are of utmost importance to us.
(873) 363-1012 View (873) 363-1012
Photo of Francesca Williams, BSc, RN, MACP, CCC, BCS, Counsellor
Francesca Williams
Counsellor, BSc, RN, MACP, CCC, BCS
Verified Verified
Online Only
Wellness is a complex combination of mental and physical health. You may be feeling vulnerable and needing to discuss intimate subjects that may be perceived as too shameful or traumatic to share with others. As an RN and therapist, I know that how our bodies work (or don’t) has a huge impact on our well-being Whether your mental health is impacting your physical health or vice versa, it can be difficult to find a therapist who understands both. Whether you are experiencing sexual challenges, perinatal mood shifts or difficulty moving through a trauma, I am here to believe you in your experience and support you in moving forward.
Wellness is a complex combination of mental and physical health. You may be feeling vulnerable and needing to discuss intimate subjects that may be perceived as too shameful or traumatic to share with others. As an RN and therapist, I know that how our bodies work (or don’t) has a huge impact on our well-being Whether your mental health is impacting your physical health or vice versa, it can be difficult to find a therapist who understands both. Whether you are experiencing sexual challenges, perinatal mood shifts or difficulty moving through a trauma, I am here to believe you in your experience and support you in moving forward.
(450) 924-5973 View (450) 924-5973
Photo of Siarra Sens, MA, Pre-Licensed Professional
Siarra Sens
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Verified Verified
Online Only
Using a depth-psychodynamic approach, I help you get to the root of the issues in your life to make lasting positive changes. A depth (or Jungian) perspective looks into the unconscious forces at play while a psychodynamic perspective allows us to see how your past is playing out in your present relationships. I have an eye for spotting the patterns that are limiting your growth then I use a compassionate yet challenging approach and gentle confrontation to get you unstuck and out of shame, confusion, and depression. Above all, my focus is to empower and reconnect you with your inner truth and authentic confidence.
Using a depth-psychodynamic approach, I help you get to the root of the issues in your life to make lasting positive changes. A depth (or Jungian) perspective looks into the unconscious forces at play while a psychodynamic perspective allows us to see how your past is playing out in your present relationships. I have an eye for spotting the patterns that are limiting your growth then I use a compassionate yet challenging approach and gentle confrontation to get you unstuck and out of shame, confusion, and depression. Above all, my focus is to empower and reconnect you with your inner truth and authentic confidence.
(587) 317-1548 View (587) 317-1548
1

See more therapy options for Kelowna

Nearby Sex Therapy Counsellors Searches for Kelowna

See More Sex Therapy Counsellors
Sex Therapy Counsellors

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.