Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Therapists in Kelowna, BC

My specializations include: Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder and Psychopathic Disorder.
Area’s of specialization include working with individuals that have personality disorders or impacted by them, leaving abusive relationships/abusive workplaces, and couples counselling. She enjoys supporting couples to improve communication skills, set healthy boundaries, develop closer emotional intimacy, and support each other through life’s transitions.
My specializations include: Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder and Psychopathic Disorder.
Area’s of specialization include working with individuals that have personality disorders or impacted by them, leaving abusive relationships/abusive workplaces, and couples counselling. She enjoys supporting couples to improve communication skills, set healthy boundaries, develop closer emotional intimacy, and support each other through life’s transitions.

Realtionships with narcissistic personalities are confusing.
Online booking available through my website. Accepting NEW Patients. Life can be overwhelming and confusing. We need a compassionate witness to see us and hear us. We need to be validated and understood, challenged, and encouraged. Begin. It's time.
Realtionships with narcissistic personalities are confusing.
Online booking available through my website. Accepting NEW Patients. Life can be overwhelming and confusing. We need a compassionate witness to see us and hear us. We need to be validated and understood, challenged, and encouraged. Begin. It's time.

Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP-I) and Narcissistic Abuse and Antagonistic Relationship Trauma (NATC).
With me, you can expect a warm, non-judgemental and safe space. My approach is gently challenging with a pinch of humour. We will address your current challenges, explore deeper emotions, beliefs and disruptive patterns, experiment with new coping resources, and increase your sense of connection to yourself, your loved ones, and your community.
Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP-I) and Narcissistic Abuse and Antagonistic Relationship Trauma (NATC).
With me, you can expect a warm, non-judgemental and safe space. My approach is gently challenging with a pinch of humour. We will address your current challenges, explore deeper emotions, beliefs and disruptive patterns, experiment with new coping resources, and increase your sense of connection to yourself, your loved ones, and your community.

I specialize in Narcissistic Abuse, Antagonistic Relational Stress and Codependency, offering support for those navigating toxic relationships.
Are You Walking on Eggshells in a Close Relationship?
Do you find yourself constantly avoiding conflict, feeling invisible, or questioning your own reactions in a challenging relationship - whether with a partner, family member or adult child? It can be overwhelming when your responses don't align with your true self, leaving you feeling responsible for someone's moods, reactions or emotional distance.
I specialize in Narcissistic Abuse, Antagonistic Relational Stress and Codependency, offering support for those navigating toxic relationships.
Are You Walking on Eggshells in a Close Relationship?
Do you find yourself constantly avoiding conflict, feeling invisible, or questioning your own reactions in a challenging relationship - whether with a partner, family member or adult child? It can be overwhelming when your responses don't align with your true self, leaving you feeling responsible for someone's moods, reactions or emotional distance.

I have extensive experience working with client's diagnosed with borderline personality disorder and survivors of narcissistic abuse.
My therapeutic style is influenced by Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Experiential Therapy, EMDR, Ego-States, Emotion Focused Therapy, Mindfulness-Based strategies, ACT, and Gottman's approach to couples therapy. I specialize in trauma work and mental health therapy for client's 18 years and older. I also work with couples regarding relationship issues.
I have extensive experience working with client's diagnosed with borderline personality disorder and survivors of narcissistic abuse.
My therapeutic style is influenced by Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Experiential Therapy, EMDR, Ego-States, Emotion Focused Therapy, Mindfulness-Based strategies, ACT, and Gottman's approach to couples therapy. I specialize in trauma work and mental health therapy for client's 18 years and older. I also work with couples regarding relationship issues.

I support women who have been subjected to coercive control and narcissistic abuse in relationships.
I will listen with care to understand how coercive control affects you and your children. Together, we’ll explore its impact and develop strategies for communication, safety, and therapeutic parenting. As your feminist and violence and abuse informed therapist, I’ll connect you to resources and remind you of your strength as you come back to yourself.
I support women who have been subjected to coercive control and narcissistic abuse in relationships.
I will listen with care to understand how coercive control affects you and your children. Together, we’ll explore its impact and develop strategies for communication, safety, and therapeutic parenting. As your feminist and violence and abuse informed therapist, I’ll connect you to resources and remind you of your strength as you come back to yourself.

You don’t have to struggle with what you’re going through alone. Whether you want to heal or push yourself to grow, I want to build a strong relationship with you so that we can better understand your challenges and set you on a path to feeling better. When you feel heard and supported you can find more resilience. Together we will build on the strengths, resources, and wisdom that lies within you so you may feel relief from your struggles and the future becomes brighter.
You don’t have to struggle with what you’re going through alone. Whether you want to heal or push yourself to grow, I want to build a strong relationship with you so that we can better understand your challenges and set you on a path to feeling better. When you feel heard and supported you can find more resilience. Together we will build on the strengths, resources, and wisdom that lies within you so you may feel relief from your struggles and the future becomes brighter.

Welcome! Kathryn Kriitmaa here, I'm grateful that your search has led you here. Many of us experience overwhelming emotions that we can’t make sense of, struggle with unhealthy outlets for emotional safety, have insecurities in our relationships when our needs don’t get met, and find it safer at times to hide our real selves from others. Together, we'll collaborate to expand your self-awareness, take intentional action towards your goals, and gently look inward to deeply nurture the parts of you that need healing. My approach is integrative and holistic, attending to your psychological, emotional, physical, and spiritual wellbeing.
Welcome! Kathryn Kriitmaa here, I'm grateful that your search has led you here. Many of us experience overwhelming emotions that we can’t make sense of, struggle with unhealthy outlets for emotional safety, have insecurities in our relationships when our needs don’t get met, and find it safer at times to hide our real selves from others. Together, we'll collaborate to expand your self-awareness, take intentional action towards your goals, and gently look inward to deeply nurture the parts of you that need healing. My approach is integrative and holistic, attending to your psychological, emotional, physical, and spiritual wellbeing.

Men and women's mental health challenges-including depression, relationship conflicts, self-worth, and sense of self—are qually important. These challenges can leave us feeling stuck, fearful, hopeless, and in pain. Confronting the behaviors, thoughts, and feelings that hold us back takes courage. Sometimes, we need help in addressing the obstacles that prevent us from living our desired life. Whether you’re facing these issues on your own or within a relationship, neither situation feels good. My intent is to help you navigate these obstacles and make sense of your story so you can move forward toward a better tomorrow.
Men and women's mental health challenges-including depression, relationship conflicts, self-worth, and sense of self—are qually important. These challenges can leave us feeling stuck, fearful, hopeless, and in pain. Confronting the behaviors, thoughts, and feelings that hold us back takes courage. Sometimes, we need help in addressing the obstacles that prevent us from living our desired life. Whether you’re facing these issues on your own or within a relationship, neither situation feels good. My intent is to help you navigate these obstacles and make sense of your story so you can move forward toward a better tomorrow.

Hello, my name is Helen Hofer and I am a Registered Professional Counsellor and am a practicing Psychotherapist in Private Practice. I work with individuals, couples and families. Although I specialize in Grief Recovery, I work with a variety of presenting concerns which include depression, anxiety and relationship issues.Thank you for taking a moment to learn how I can help you make some significant and meaningful changes in your life. It is my privilege to help my clients move from a place of dissatisfaction or unhappiness in their relationships, careers, or self-esteem and arrive at a place of joy and success.
Hello, my name is Helen Hofer and I am a Registered Professional Counsellor and am a practicing Psychotherapist in Private Practice. I work with individuals, couples and families. Although I specialize in Grief Recovery, I work with a variety of presenting concerns which include depression, anxiety and relationship issues.Thank you for taking a moment to learn how I can help you make some significant and meaningful changes in your life. It is my privilege to help my clients move from a place of dissatisfaction or unhappiness in their relationships, careers, or self-esteem and arrive at a place of joy and success.

Hello! I am currently taking new clients and can offer short wait times. I work with adults who are seeking help with life changes, relationship challenges, parenting challenges, mental health issues (in themselves or in their partners), or anything that is preventing them from being their best self. Ideally my clients would be interested in getting to the root of their issues, and be committed to several sessions. I know we are all "enough", and that the answers we seek lie within ourselves. Sometimes a counsellor can help you find those answers, and I'd be honored to try.
Hello! I am currently taking new clients and can offer short wait times. I work with adults who are seeking help with life changes, relationship challenges, parenting challenges, mental health issues (in themselves or in their partners), or anything that is preventing them from being their best self. Ideally my clients would be interested in getting to the root of their issues, and be committed to several sessions. I know we are all "enough", and that the answers we seek lie within ourselves. Sometimes a counsellor can help you find those answers, and I'd be honored to try.

My ideal client is a neurodivergent individual (or any individual) navigating the exhaustion of masking, unmet needs, and the weight of being misunderstood. They often experience anxiety, burnout, or disconnection from themselves and others. They may struggle with unhelpful thought patterns, emotional regulation, and relationships impacted by societal pressures. They want clarity, self-acceptance, and tools to meet their needs without shame. Ultimately, they seek to create meaning, live authentically, and reclaim their agency.
My ideal client is a neurodivergent individual (or any individual) navigating the exhaustion of masking, unmet needs, and the weight of being misunderstood. They often experience anxiety, burnout, or disconnection from themselves and others. They may struggle with unhelpful thought patterns, emotional regulation, and relationships impacted by societal pressures. They want clarity, self-acceptance, and tools to meet their needs without shame. Ultimately, they seek to create meaning, live authentically, and reclaim their agency.

You’re doing your best to hold things together—for your kids, your partner, your family—but lately, it feels like that weight is getting heavier. Maybe you’re struggling to understand your child’s behaviour. Maybe your co-parenting relationship is tense or strained. Maybe you're grieving the time you’ve lost with a child you love deeply. If any of this sounds familiar, I want you to know: there is hope, and you don’t have to figure it out alone.
You’re doing your best to hold things together—for your kids, your partner, your family—but lately, it feels like that weight is getting heavier. Maybe you’re struggling to understand your child’s behaviour. Maybe your co-parenting relationship is tense or strained. Maybe you're grieving the time you’ve lost with a child you love deeply. If any of this sounds familiar, I want you to know: there is hope, and you don’t have to figure it out alone.

Hi there, my name is Laura Belland. I specialize in CBT, self-compassion therapy, and solution-focused therapy. I believe we can often be our own worst enemies and harshest critics, and I hope to help you grow and get past any negative thinking to become your most alive and thriving self; through CBT, compassionate self-care, and mindfulness amongst other strategies. I am passionate about working with clients experiencing anxiety, social anxiety, stress, perfectionism, and depression. I have experience helping those with limiting beliefs about themselves, negative body image, and disordered eating.
Hi there, my name is Laura Belland. I specialize in CBT, self-compassion therapy, and solution-focused therapy. I believe we can often be our own worst enemies and harshest critics, and I hope to help you grow and get past any negative thinking to become your most alive and thriving self; through CBT, compassionate self-care, and mindfulness amongst other strategies. I am passionate about working with clients experiencing anxiety, social anxiety, stress, perfectionism, and depression. I have experience helping those with limiting beliefs about themselves, negative body image, and disordered eating.

Have you been having a hard time processing an impactful or traumatic event that occurred in the past, or have experienced recent trauma? Maybe you just want to understand why you have such big reactions in some situations. I utilize Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART) to help you heal from those events. ART is a treatment similar to EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) that provides relief from symptoms of trauma and PTSD including anxiety, emotional dysregulation, hypervigilence, codependency, grief, job related stress, and more. It is a safe and efficient way to move the traumatic emotions and sensations you feel
Have you been having a hard time processing an impactful or traumatic event that occurred in the past, or have experienced recent trauma? Maybe you just want to understand why you have such big reactions in some situations. I utilize Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART) to help you heal from those events. ART is a treatment similar to EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) that provides relief from symptoms of trauma and PTSD including anxiety, emotional dysregulation, hypervigilence, codependency, grief, job related stress, and more. It is a safe and efficient way to move the traumatic emotions and sensations you feel

What if you could improve the quality of your life and your relationships by changing the way you think, feel and behave? I work with adults who struggle with anxiety, self esteem, stress, and anger issues, to do just that. I help individuals become aware of the thought patterns that keep them stuck and prevent them from living their life to the fullest. I show people how their thoughts, emotions and behaviours are linked and provide the necessary skills to change negative habits that have become normal over time.
What if you could improve the quality of your life and your relationships by changing the way you think, feel and behave? I work with adults who struggle with anxiety, self esteem, stress, and anger issues, to do just that. I help individuals become aware of the thought patterns that keep them stuck and prevent them from living their life to the fullest. I show people how their thoughts, emotions and behaviours are linked and provide the necessary skills to change negative habits that have become normal over time.

Although not all of the last 30+ years of Sandy's professional career has been spent exclusively practicing therapy, Sandy has passionately helped children, families, couples and corporations through her work as an educator, therapist, consultant and ardent volunteer in the area of Mental Health. Sandy develops a therapeutic relationship with her clients that is respectful, and collaborative. She helps clients focus on creating solutions while intensely listening and understanding the individuals thoughts and behaviours within the context of their culture and unique story.
Although not all of the last 30+ years of Sandy's professional career has been spent exclusively practicing therapy, Sandy has passionately helped children, families, couples and corporations through her work as an educator, therapist, consultant and ardent volunteer in the area of Mental Health. Sandy develops a therapeutic relationship with her clients that is respectful, and collaborative. She helps clients focus on creating solutions while intensely listening and understanding the individuals thoughts and behaviours within the context of their culture and unique story.

I am currently accepting new clients! I am a warm, empathetic, supportive, and open-minded counsellor, who provides a safe and welcoming environment. I work collaboratively with my clients and provide therapy, support, and psychoeducation throughout counselling. My aim is to give you the coping tools to help you help yourself. I offer in-person, virtual, and telephone appointments, and have a flexible schedule to accommodate your busy life. I am a registered provider of First Nations Health Authority, ICBC, CVAP, EAP, and Autism Funding.
I am currently accepting new clients! I am a warm, empathetic, supportive, and open-minded counsellor, who provides a safe and welcoming environment. I work collaboratively with my clients and provide therapy, support, and psychoeducation throughout counselling. My aim is to give you the coping tools to help you help yourself. I offer in-person, virtual, and telephone appointments, and have a flexible schedule to accommodate your busy life. I am a registered provider of First Nations Health Authority, ICBC, CVAP, EAP, and Autism Funding.

Cynthia is now accepting new clients in B.C. and Alberta via ONLINE (Monday through Thursday) and IN-PERSON (Tuesdays and Wednesdays). Her office is located at 3001 Tutt Street, Kelowna, B.C. Cynthia believes in helping clients achieve greater happiness by improving their emotional, psychological, and social well-being.
Cynthia is now accepting new clients in B.C. and Alberta via ONLINE (Monday through Thursday) and IN-PERSON (Tuesdays and Wednesdays). Her office is located at 3001 Tutt Street, Kelowna, B.C. Cynthia believes in helping clients achieve greater happiness by improving their emotional, psychological, and social well-being.

I am looking to support individuals who are facing Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), ADHD challenges, and those in frontline responder roles. I’m skilled in guiding clients through grief and anger management, with a particular focus on helping men build resilience and personal growth. I’m also passionate about supporting couples in strengthening their relationships, as well as providing guidance in parenting and navigating separation or divorce. In addition to my work in personal growth and mental wellness, I’m highly skilled in addictions counselling.
I am looking to support individuals who are facing Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), ADHD challenges, and those in frontline responder roles. I’m skilled in guiding clients through grief and anger management, with a particular focus on helping men build resilience and personal growth. I’m also passionate about supporting couples in strengthening their relationships, as well as providing guidance in parenting and navigating separation or divorce. In addition to my work in personal growth and mental wellness, I’m highly skilled in addictions counselling.
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What type of therapy is best for narcissistic personality disorder?
Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is best treated with talk therapy, which could involve cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, schema therapy, gestalt therapy, or similar approaches. A therapist will help a patient uncover the feelings that may drive their behavior and discover how to engage with themselves and those around them with greater empathy and understanding, fewer demands, and less defensiveness, with the goal of developing a more authentic sense of self that enables healthier relationships.
How do therapists treat NPD?
By developing a strong therapeutic relationship, and continually focusing patients on relationships, community, and connection, a therapist, through talk therapy, may be able to help someone with NPD change. In sessions, a therapist will help an individual achieve relief from their current stressors, including the treatment of co-occurring conditions such as anxiety or depression. A therapist may also help an individual to recognize unhealthy coping mechanisms, learn new ways of interacting with others, and eventually become able to feel and display empathy.
Can a narcissist be cured with therapy?
Therapy can be effective. After a serious setback or great loss, someone with NPD may be forced to recognize that they are not immune to life’s challenges. That can spur feelings of melancholy and depression that lead them to seek professional help. Once an individual decides to seek help, they have already taken a step that the majority of those with NPD never will. Still, people with NPD often quit therapy as they naturally resist feeling vulnerable, being challenged, or admitting to flaws.
How can you get narcissistic personality disorder treatment for someone?
It is notoriously difficult to convince someone with NPD to seek help. With their feelings of superiority, they may be unlikely to recognize or acknowledge that they have a problem, or that their problem is narcissism. Sometimes, they are aware that they are arrogant and that others resent them but they don’t see it as a problem because they are convinced of their superiority. People with NPD have trouble maintaining relationships, but family members and others who do feel close to them, and whose presence they value, may be able to encourage them to seek therapy.