Couples Counselling Therapists in Kelowna, BC
Let's setup your FREE 15 minute phone consult to see if I am a good fit for you and what you need, either individually for you or for both of you in your relationship.
You deserve and need more connection and joy in your primary relationship. You want better communication so you can stop having the same arguments over and over again. All relationships have times when connection is easy, passion is alive, and love abounds, but also times when trust is broken, regrettable incidents linger, and friendship is barely possible. I help couples and also individuals who are struggling to thrive in relationships. Like a growing garden, relationships need nurturing and focused attention. I want to share new ideas, skills, and tools to enhance your relationship to increase your quality of life.
Let's setup your FREE 15 minute phone consult to see if I am a good fit for you and what you need, either individually for you or for both of you in your relationship.
You deserve and need more connection and joy in your primary relationship. You want better communication so you can stop having the same arguments over and over again. All relationships have times when connection is easy, passion is alive, and love abounds, but also times when trust is broken, regrettable incidents linger, and friendship is barely possible. I help couples and also individuals who are struggling to thrive in relationships. Like a growing garden, relationships need nurturing and focused attention. I want to share new ideas, skills, and tools to enhance your relationship to increase your quality of life.
Adrienne Helgerson
Pre-Licensed Professional, BBA, MACP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1V
I work with youth and adults in navigating life’s challenges, such as relationship and family dynamics, pregnancy and postpartum, parenting, working mothers, burnout, stress, grief, self-esteem, anxiety, depression, and managing health issues. My clients seek a holistic approach that addresses and integrates biopsychosocialspiritual factors. They are motivated to understand and overcome past experiences, enrich their lives, and move forward with knowledge and intention. They value a compassionate, knowledgeable partner to walk beside them on their journey toward healing, growth, and self-mastery.
I work with youth and adults in navigating life’s challenges, such as relationship and family dynamics, pregnancy and postpartum, parenting, working mothers, burnout, stress, grief, self-esteem, anxiety, depression, and managing health issues. My clients seek a holistic approach that addresses and integrates biopsychosocialspiritual factors. They are motivated to understand and overcome past experiences, enrich their lives, and move forward with knowledge and intention. They value a compassionate, knowledgeable partner to walk beside them on their journey toward healing, growth, and self-mastery.
Demographic: Children, Youth, Adults, Couples, Group Therapy, Seniors Focus: Trauma, Anxiety, Depression, Building Self-Confidence, Self-Esteem, and Sense of Self, Parenting, Family, Relationships, Stress Management, Self-Harm, Addiction, LGBTQ+, Thoughts of Suicide, Health and Wellness, Personal Development, Life Transitions, Burnout.
Many of us feel stuck in our daily lives, not knowing exactly how to get the progress that we want. Depression, anxiety, and trauma can hold us back from where we deserve to be and can negatively affect our well-being and relationships. Children and youth may need some guidance and help navigating different life transitions. No two people are the same and it is my goal to help you recognize your own unique strengths, integrating a case-specific approach to create your unique therapy plan. I am here to offer mental health support in a non-judgemental, friendly, and compassionate space.
Demographic: Children, Youth, Adults, Couples, Group Therapy, Seniors Focus: Trauma, Anxiety, Depression, Building Self-Confidence, Self-Esteem, and Sense of Self, Parenting, Family, Relationships, Stress Management, Self-Harm, Addiction, LGBTQ+, Thoughts of Suicide, Health and Wellness, Personal Development, Life Transitions, Burnout.
Many of us feel stuck in our daily lives, not knowing exactly how to get the progress that we want. Depression, anxiety, and trauma can hold us back from where we deserve to be and can negatively affect our well-being and relationships. Children and youth may need some guidance and help navigating different life transitions. No two people are the same and it is my goal to help you recognize your own unique strengths, integrating a case-specific approach to create your unique therapy plan. I am here to offer mental health support in a non-judgemental, friendly, and compassionate space.
Turn Towards Couples Counselling | Sarah Smith
Counsellor, BFA, MACP, CCC, RCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
I provide structured, in-person and online, 90-minute sessions to couples who have the time for, and commitment to, the journey of reclaiming their relationship.
A person’s intimate partner can be one of their greatest sources for pleasure, security, and meaning in life. In such relationships it is NOT normal (or acceptable) to feel isolated, controlled, or demeaned. If this is your experience, I can help. My approach strikes a balance between processing betrayals and regrettable incidents from the past, and ritualising effective practices for building trust, friendship, understanding, and intimacy in the present. I start with a 90-minute assessment, give practical and straight-forward direction, and allow space for each person’s story to unfold.
I provide structured, in-person and online, 90-minute sessions to couples who have the time for, and commitment to, the journey of reclaiming their relationship.
A person’s intimate partner can be one of their greatest sources for pleasure, security, and meaning in life. In such relationships it is NOT normal (or acceptable) to feel isolated, controlled, or demeaned. If this is your experience, I can help. My approach strikes a balance between processing betrayals and regrettable incidents from the past, and ritualising effective practices for building trust, friendship, understanding, and intimacy in the present. I start with a 90-minute assessment, give practical and straight-forward direction, and allow space for each person’s story to unfold.
Jess Holtslander
Counsellor, MSW, RSW, RCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
Waitlist for new clients
I am a Registered Social Worker, Registered Clinical Counsellor, and Grief Recovery Specialist, passionate about helping individuals navigate their grief journey as well as supporting individuals who are neurodivergent. I work with people who have a suspected, recent, or late diagnosis of Autism/ADHD; have a partner/a child who is Autistic/ADHD; are grieving for various reasons (e.g., life change, chronic pain, loss of a loved one); and/or want to become more comfortable with their uncomfortable emotions.
I am a Registered Social Worker, Registered Clinical Counsellor, and Grief Recovery Specialist, passionate about helping individuals navigate their grief journey as well as supporting individuals who are neurodivergent. I work with people who have a suspected, recent, or late diagnosis of Autism/ADHD; have a partner/a child who is Autistic/ADHD; are grieving for various reasons (e.g., life change, chronic pain, loss of a loved one); and/or want to become more comfortable with their uncomfortable emotions.
If you’re struggling with trauma, abuse, PTSD, depression, anxiety, self esteem issues, difficulty coping, relationship challenges, parenting challenges or just feeling stuck? Coleen will help you to learn a variety of tools that will help you to overcome your current challenges and be better equipped to cope with anything life throws your way in the future.
With over 25 years experience in health care, Coleen is passionate about empowering and helping clients to regain peace of mind and find balance in their lives. She is non-judgemental, empathetic, and provides a safe and trustworthy environment that lends well to building a trusting therapeutic relationship with her clients. Using an all encompassing approach, she looks at every aspect of her clients lives, including their physical and mental health as well as their social supports to create a unique individualized treatment plan for each client. Coleen uses a trauma informed lens to help her client who struggle with trauma & more.
If you’re struggling with trauma, abuse, PTSD, depression, anxiety, self esteem issues, difficulty coping, relationship challenges, parenting challenges or just feeling stuck? Coleen will help you to learn a variety of tools that will help you to overcome your current challenges and be better equipped to cope with anything life throws your way in the future.
With over 25 years experience in health care, Coleen is passionate about empowering and helping clients to regain peace of mind and find balance in their lives. She is non-judgemental, empathetic, and provides a safe and trustworthy environment that lends well to building a trusting therapeutic relationship with her clients. Using an all encompassing approach, she looks at every aspect of her clients lives, including their physical and mental health as well as their social supports to create a unique individualized treatment plan for each client. Coleen uses a trauma informed lens to help her client who struggle with trauma & more.
If your relationship is struggling, we will move past what appears to be the issue, so that you can feel fully seen, heard and loved.
Do you wake up in the morning with dread and little energy at the thought of getting up and facing the day, or feel anxious and overwhelmed when facing daily tasks that seem simple to everyone else? Do you find yourself repeating patterns of thought or behavior to calm yourself from thoughts of incoming dread and wonder if if it's OCD? Or perhaps it feels like all you and your partner seem to do lately is argue, feel impatient with one another and seem to misunderstand what each of you is trying to communicate. Do you look at your partner, feel disconnected and lonely and wonder "what happened to us?"
If your relationship is struggling, we will move past what appears to be the issue, so that you can feel fully seen, heard and loved.
Do you wake up in the morning with dread and little energy at the thought of getting up and facing the day, or feel anxious and overwhelmed when facing daily tasks that seem simple to everyone else? Do you find yourself repeating patterns of thought or behavior to calm yourself from thoughts of incoming dread and wonder if if it's OCD? Or perhaps it feels like all you and your partner seem to do lately is argue, feel impatient with one another and seem to misunderstand what each of you is trying to communicate. Do you look at your partner, feel disconnected and lonely and wonder "what happened to us?"
Hopeful Pathways Counselling - Dr. Zoë Sehn
Counsellor, RCC, CCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
Therapy can provide education, support and coping skills as individuals and couples manage the process in a safe, empathic environment.
Please note: If you have not received a response, please check your spam folder. Areas of counselling: reproductive counselling (including reproductive choices such as the use of donor, surrogacy, or adoption, as well as exploring personal dilemmas that may be experienced when considering reproductive choices), counselling for in/fertility challenges during treatment, helping clients to explore family options beyond fertility treatment, reproductive counselling specific to single women and LGBTQ couples, perinatal counselling including: postpartum depression, postpartum anxiety, grief, loss, and couples counselling.
Therapy can provide education, support and coping skills as individuals and couples manage the process in a safe, empathic environment.
Please note: If you have not received a response, please check your spam folder. Areas of counselling: reproductive counselling (including reproductive choices such as the use of donor, surrogacy, or adoption, as well as exploring personal dilemmas that may be experienced when considering reproductive choices), counselling for in/fertility challenges during treatment, helping clients to explore family options beyond fertility treatment, reproductive counselling specific to single women and LGBTQ couples, perinatal counselling including: postpartum depression, postpartum anxiety, grief, loss, and couples counselling.
Counselling techniques that are offered are but not limited to is Child Play Therapy, working with adults and children who are neurodivergent, crisis and suicide risks, assessments and interventions, depression, anxiety, grief, addictions abuse and domestic violence, group counselling techniques and counselling for families and couples.
My mission in life is to help people grow and thrive in their environments. Life can be difficult and hard to navigate. Whether you're dealing with pain from the loss of a loved one. Or a recent job loss or career change. The family dynamics that can be a surprise. The feelings that can come from being lonely or afraid. The crippling anxiety that can come from something new and strange happening in your life. Our passion is to help people maneuver through all of the obstacles with compassion and empathy in an open and calm setting. Being open to help people in all age groups is something we all strive for.
Counselling techniques that are offered are but not limited to is Child Play Therapy, working with adults and children who are neurodivergent, crisis and suicide risks, assessments and interventions, depression, anxiety, grief, addictions abuse and domestic violence, group counselling techniques and counselling for families and couples.
My mission in life is to help people grow and thrive in their environments. Life can be difficult and hard to navigate. Whether you're dealing with pain from the loss of a loved one. Or a recent job loss or career change. The family dynamics that can be a surprise. The feelings that can come from being lonely or afraid. The crippling anxiety that can come from something new and strange happening in your life. Our passion is to help people maneuver through all of the obstacles with compassion and empathy in an open and calm setting. Being open to help people in all age groups is something we all strive for.
Cultivate an intentional loving relationship with self and others.
Are you tired of being stuck? Tired of beating yourself up? Board with the same old strategies that don't work? Are you ready for change? Many people experience times in their lives when they begin to feel overwhelmed and have difficulty coping. Feelings of shame, fear, loneliness, anger and hurt can have us feeling trapped and like we will never be okay. Counselling can often help people to transition to a place of balance, where they are much better able to cope, and not feel as overwhelmed. Not only will they be better able to cope, they can develop strategies that can make their lives more manageable and balanced in the future.
Cultivate an intentional loving relationship with self and others.
Are you tired of being stuck? Tired of beating yourself up? Board with the same old strategies that don't work? Are you ready for change? Many people experience times in their lives when they begin to feel overwhelmed and have difficulty coping. Feelings of shame, fear, loneliness, anger and hurt can have us feeling trapped and like we will never be okay. Counselling can often help people to transition to a place of balance, where they are much better able to cope, and not feel as overwhelmed. Not only will they be better able to cope, they can develop strategies that can make their lives more manageable and balanced in the future.
Next Step Counselling is a group practice comprised of compassionate, goal oriented therapists looking to welcome you to a positive place of healthy change. Next Step is dedicated to helping people in our community foster change and embark upon personal development. We specialize in areas such as stress, anxiety, depression, couples, and marital problems. Next Step can help alleviate the daily challenges that life has to offer. We are highly trained RCC's and understand that life can have many challenges, and our goal is to help people navigate through life’s tougher situations. Please get in touch for more information!
Next Step Counselling is a group practice comprised of compassionate, goal oriented therapists looking to welcome you to a positive place of healthy change. Next Step is dedicated to helping people in our community foster change and embark upon personal development. We specialize in areas such as stress, anxiety, depression, couples, and marital problems. Next Step can help alleviate the daily challenges that life has to offer. We are highly trained RCC's and understand that life can have many challenges, and our goal is to help people navigate through life’s tougher situations. Please get in touch for more information!
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By exploring your relationship with self, we can uncover a transformative path and empower you to live your best life, both within yourself and in your relationships.
Life can present us with challenges, and it's my passion to bridge the gap between where you are now and where you want to be. I'm deeply invested in your well-being and committed to helping you thrive on your healing journey. As a trauma-informed therapist, I strive to empower my clients with the skills and tools they need to cultivate healthy relationships—with themselves, others, their partners, or their relationship with substances.
By exploring your relationship with self, we can uncover a transformative path and empower you to live your best life, both within yourself and in your relationships.
Life can present us with challenges, and it's my passion to bridge the gap between where you are now and where you want to be. I'm deeply invested in your well-being and committed to helping you thrive on your healing journey. As a trauma-informed therapist, I strive to empower my clients with the skills and tools they need to cultivate healthy relationships—with themselves, others, their partners, or their relationship with substances.
The beliefs and behaviours that result may have been effective then but may now be standing in the way of healthy relationship dynamics.
Within family units, the need for each member to feel heard cannot be overstated. My approach to couples counselling places emphasis on effective communication while resolving damage done to the relationship by unfair fighting, infidelity or other relationship-based challenges preventing the couple from realizing the benefits of healthy coupling.
The beliefs and behaviours that result may have been effective then but may now be standing in the way of healthy relationship dynamics.
Within family units, the need for each member to feel heard cannot be overstated. My approach to couples counselling places emphasis on effective communication while resolving damage done to the relationship by unfair fighting, infidelity or other relationship-based challenges preventing the couple from realizing the benefits of healthy coupling.
Renewed Hope Counselling Services
Counsellor, BA, MACP, RCC, CCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor and have training in: Dialectical Behaviour Therapy Cognitive Behaviour Therapy Gottman Couples Method Recognizing and Responding to Suicide Risk Trauma Informed Practices.
Welcome to Renewed Hope Counselling Services. It is my HOPE that you will find what you need in this part of your life journey through seeking support for whatever challenge you are facing. My name is Alyssa Jackson and I am a mental health therapist specializing in individual therapy. I come with 19 years of professional experience in the field and have life experiences that allow me to have empathy, understanding, insight, patience and encouragement for helping others through challenging and emotionally draining times. I have lived experiences that have allowed me to learn, grow, change and have RENEWED HOPE
I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor and have training in: Dialectical Behaviour Therapy Cognitive Behaviour Therapy Gottman Couples Method Recognizing and Responding to Suicide Risk Trauma Informed Practices.
Welcome to Renewed Hope Counselling Services. It is my HOPE that you will find what you need in this part of your life journey through seeking support for whatever challenge you are facing. My name is Alyssa Jackson and I am a mental health therapist specializing in individual therapy. I come with 19 years of professional experience in the field and have life experiences that allow me to have empathy, understanding, insight, patience and encouragement for helping others through challenging and emotionally draining times. I have lived experiences that have allowed me to learn, grow, change and have RENEWED HOPE
The effectiveness of therapy is primarily based on building trust and safety in our therapeutic relationship.
My expertise is working with people-pleasing tendencies, boundary-setting, and assertiveness. I specialize primarily in anxiety and depression. I prefer a holistic, humanistic, and existential approach to therapy. I have earned a Bachelor’s degree in psychology from UBC and a Master of Counselling from City University of Seattle. I have over seven years of experience as a Mental Health Worker for various non-profit organizations and continue with ongoing training and workshops. My style is direct, warm, and client-centered. Please reach out for a free 15-minute consult if you have further questions.
The effectiveness of therapy is primarily based on building trust and safety in our therapeutic relationship.
My expertise is working with people-pleasing tendencies, boundary-setting, and assertiveness. I specialize primarily in anxiety and depression. I prefer a holistic, humanistic, and existential approach to therapy. I have earned a Bachelor’s degree in psychology from UBC and a Master of Counselling from City University of Seattle. I have over seven years of experience as a Mental Health Worker for various non-profit organizations and continue with ongoing training and workshops. My style is direct, warm, and client-centered. Please reach out for a free 15-minute consult if you have further questions.
Dolores is passionate about working with individuals whom have experienced any form of trauma, intimate partner violence, sexual assault/abuse, workplace bullying, grief & loss, expected and unexpected life and health transitions. Dolores also enjoys working with couples experiencing difficulties in their relationships and is experienced in supporting couples through family and relationship challenges.
Dolores is passionate about working with individuals whom have experienced any form of trauma, intimate partner violence, sexual assault/abuse, workplace bullying, grief & loss, expected and unexpected life and health transitions. Dolores also enjoys working with couples experiencing difficulties in their relationships and is experienced in supporting couples through family and relationship challenges.
I'm here to help you deal with life's challenges, whether it's managing ADHD, anxiety, depression, navigating relationship difficulties or dealing with grief or trauma. I will help you find understanding and compassionate support to feel truly heard and valued. I aim to enhance your emotional well-being, build coping strategies, and foster healthier relationships. I am a warm, empathetic and direct guide to help you on your journey toward personal growth and fulfillment by helping you apply practical tools, proven methods, and encouragement to thrive and reach your full potential.
I'm here to help you deal with life's challenges, whether it's managing ADHD, anxiety, depression, navigating relationship difficulties or dealing with grief or trauma. I will help you find understanding and compassionate support to feel truly heard and valued. I aim to enhance your emotional well-being, build coping strategies, and foster healthier relationships. I am a warm, empathetic and direct guide to help you on your journey toward personal growth and fulfillment by helping you apply practical tools, proven methods, and encouragement to thrive and reach your full potential.
While I specialize in relationship issues, I also see a wide range of clients, with many different situations.
If you're experiencing relationship issues with your partner, such as communication, co-parenting, sexual intimacy or infidelity, there is always the possibility of improvement. Self esteem issues can be worked on, as can issues with your children, family or co-workers! Cognitive behaviour therapy and other modalities can work well for all of these issues, let me help you make the most of your life! Too busy to attend in person during regular business hours? Flexible online sessions are available 7 days a week, from early morning to late evening.
While I specialize in relationship issues, I also see a wide range of clients, with many different situations.
If you're experiencing relationship issues with your partner, such as communication, co-parenting, sexual intimacy or infidelity, there is always the possibility of improvement. Self esteem issues can be worked on, as can issues with your children, family or co-workers! Cognitive behaviour therapy and other modalities can work well for all of these issues, let me help you make the most of your life! Too busy to attend in person during regular business hours? Flexible online sessions are available 7 days a week, from early morning to late evening.
Male mental health challenges such as depression, relationship conflict and anxiety are not that much different than women's. These challenges can hold us in place, in fear, in hopelessness, in pain. Confronting behaviours, thinking and feelings that may be the root of a life not lived well takes courage. Sometimes we need help doing that to move us forward and improve the quality of our life. You may be struggling on your own or in a relationship. It doesn't matter neither place feels good. My intent is to help you navigate the obstacles and make sense of your story so you can get to where you want to be sooner.
Male mental health challenges such as depression, relationship conflict and anxiety are not that much different than women's. These challenges can hold us in place, in fear, in hopelessness, in pain. Confronting behaviours, thinking and feelings that may be the root of a life not lived well takes courage. Sometimes we need help doing that to move us forward and improve the quality of our life. You may be struggling on your own or in a relationship. It doesn't matter neither place feels good. My intent is to help you navigate the obstacles and make sense of your story so you can get to where you want to be sooner.
Life events that are overwhelming to our systems such as car accidents, relationship ruptures, grief, and transitions can appear as depression, anxiety, and chronic pain.
How are you navigating these challenging times? Are you ready to gently shift through depression, anxiety, trauma, and relational difficulty? Are you motivated to become more regulated, connected, and centered? My approach is to hold a healing space that is compassionate, safe, experiential, and collaborative. My focus is to gently guide my clients towards a renewed sense of aliveness and to restore clarity, wholeness, and hope. I also help couples and individuals work to improve their communication, boundaries, and resilience. I also support those dealing with the intense feelings of betrayal trauma, separation and divorce.
Life events that are overwhelming to our systems such as car accidents, relationship ruptures, grief, and transitions can appear as depression, anxiety, and chronic pain.
How are you navigating these challenging times? Are you ready to gently shift through depression, anxiety, trauma, and relational difficulty? Are you motivated to become more regulated, connected, and centered? My approach is to hold a healing space that is compassionate, safe, experiential, and collaborative. My focus is to gently guide my clients towards a renewed sense of aliveness and to restore clarity, wholeness, and hope. I also help couples and individuals work to improve their communication, boundaries, and resilience. I also support those dealing with the intense feelings of betrayal trauma, separation and divorce.
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Couples Counselling
Does couples counseling work?
Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.
When should a couple seek counseling?
Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.
How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?
The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.
How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?
The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.