Couples Therapists in Kelowna, BC

Alexandria Rich
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, BSW, RSW
Kelowna, BC V1Y
Area’s of specialization include working with individuals that have personality disorders or impacted by them, leaving abusive relationships/abusive workplaces, and couples counselling.
Hello there and welcome!! My name is Alexandria and I am a Registered Social Worker. I would welcome the opportunity to offer you support and guidance through any challenging life experience you are currently facing. My specializations include: Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder and Psychopathic Disorder. Alexandria feels many individuals and/or counsellors do not truly understand the magnitude of the damage and devastating effect on others that personality disorders create. Through personal experience she has gained a greater understanding and compassion for those impacted.
Area’s of specialization include working with individuals that have personality disorders or impacted by them, leaving abusive relationships/abusive workplaces, and couples counselling.
Hello there and welcome!! My name is Alexandria and I am a Registered Social Worker. I would welcome the opportunity to offer you support and guidance through any challenging life experience you are currently facing. My specializations include: Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder and Psychopathic Disorder. Alexandria feels many individuals and/or counsellors do not truly understand the magnitude of the damage and devastating effect on others that personality disorders create. Through personal experience she has gained a greater understanding and compassion for those impacted.
(819) 272-4798 View (819) 272-4798
Jocelyn Watson
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW, RCC
12 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
Waitlist for new clients
If you’re living with the pain of religious trauma, complex PTSD, OCD, or a strained relationship with food and your body, you may feel disconnected from yourself, from others, or from your values.
In my work with clients I often use EMDR (working toward level 2 certification), Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP), and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (ECFT). I also integrate CBT techniques for tinnitus or hyperacusis. My style is collaborative and relational - I believe therapy works best when we tailor it to your needs, values, and strengths.
If you’re living with the pain of religious trauma, complex PTSD, OCD, or a strained relationship with food and your body, you may feel disconnected from yourself, from others, or from your values.
In my work with clients I often use EMDR (working toward level 2 certification), Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP), and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (ECFT). I also integrate CBT techniques for tinnitus or hyperacusis. My style is collaborative and relational - I believe therapy works best when we tailor it to your needs, values, and strengths.
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Aftin Jolly
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
Or you love each other but feel more like roommates than partners.
I help couples break the cycles that keep you stuck. From communication that goes nowhere, intimacy that's faded, or resentment that's built up over time. We'll work on the easy & hard stuff (conflict, sex, trust) in a space that's judgment-free & actually feels human. My style is direct & warm. I utilize both Gottman Couples Therapy & Gestalt Therapy.
Or you love each other but feel more like roommates than partners.
I help couples break the cycles that keep you stuck. From communication that goes nowhere, intimacy that's faded, or resentment that's built up over time. We'll work on the easy & hard stuff (conflict, sex, trust) in a space that's judgment-free & actually feels human. My style is direct & warm. I utilize both Gottman Couples Therapy & Gestalt Therapy.
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Emily Verseveldt
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, CCC, RMFTSQ
1 Endorsed
Online Only
You care deeply about your relationships, but something isn’t working.
As a marriage and family therapist, I help parents move beyond reacting to behaviour and begin understanding what’s underneath it. Using EFT/EFFT, I support you in building resilience, strengthening your child’s self-esteem, and creating connection. I also work with couples to rebuild understanding and closeness.
You care deeply about your relationships, but something isn’t working.
As a marriage and family therapist, I help parents move beyond reacting to behaviour and begin understanding what’s underneath it. Using EFT/EFFT, I support you in building resilience, strengthening your child’s self-esteem, and creating connection. I also work with couples to rebuild understanding and closeness.
(431) 304-2908 View (431) 304-2908
Eleanor Wendy McAlpine
Counsellor, MAC, RCC, CCC
1 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
Whether you're healing from trauma, navigating a relationship that feels disconnected, grieving a profound loss, or discovering your neurodivergent identity later in life, therapy can become a place where your story finally makes sense.
First off, we can just talk like people, no psychobabble. I have created a cozy, little space for in-person sessions and offer the convenience of online work as well. Most of my clients are parents, some are even grandparents. We've all got some loss, trauma, faith shifts, role transitions, burnout, ADHD suspicions: nothing is off the table.
Whether you're healing from trauma, navigating a relationship that feels disconnected, grieving a profound loss, or discovering your neurodivergent identity later in life, therapy can become a place where your story finally makes sense.
First off, we can just talk like people, no psychobabble. I have created a cozy, little space for in-person sessions and offer the convenience of online work as well. Most of my clients are parents, some are even grandparents. We've all got some loss, trauma, faith shifts, role transitions, burnout, ADHD suspicions: nothing is off the table.
(579) 987-1843 View (579) 987-1843
Jadon Ward
Counsellor, MA, MA, RCC, CCC
3 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
These stresses and pressures can affect your work, your relationships and your loved ones as well.
You are always the focus of the counselling session, and I adjust my approach to best meet the your concerns or needs. My specialties are working with stress and anxiety, marriage and relationships, and ADHD symptoms. However, I help people with a range of concerns. I would love to connect with a free consultation if you feel we are a good fit!
These stresses and pressures can affect your work, your relationships and your loved ones as well.
You are always the focus of the counselling session, and I adjust my approach to best meet the your concerns or needs. My specialties are working with stress and anxiety, marriage and relationships, and ADHD symptoms. However, I help people with a range of concerns. I would love to connect with a free consultation if you feel we are a good fit!
(778) 401-3882 View (778) 401-3882
Alyssa Burton
Counsellor, RCC
Kelowna, BC V1Y
Are you struggling with anxiety, depression, difficulties in your relationships, or things that have happened in your childhood?
My clinical understanding of the long-term impact of early adverse experiences informs my approach to support you, which emphasizes nervous system regulation, working on attachment patterns, and exploring deeper patterns that seem to keep popping up for you. I also integrate IFS, EMDR and somatic- based and psychodynamic approaches.
Are you struggling with anxiety, depression, difficulties in your relationships, or things that have happened in your childhood?
My clinical understanding of the long-term impact of early adverse experiences informs my approach to support you, which emphasizes nervous system regulation, working on attachment patterns, and exploring deeper patterns that seem to keep popping up for you. I also integrate IFS, EMDR and somatic- based and psychodynamic approaches.
(709) 398-5172 View (709) 398-5172
Jade Merkley
Counsellor, RCC, MACP
8 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
I provide compassionate therapy for grief & loss, life transitions, identity change, relationships & mental performance.
My approach is compassionate and individualized, using person-centered, emotion-focused, CBT, EMDR and narrative approaches. I support youth, teens, and adults through grief and loss. I also offer The Grief Connection, an 8-week therapeutic Grief Therpy Group for adults and teens in Kelowna, offering connection, guidance, and support.
I provide compassionate therapy for grief & loss, life transitions, identity change, relationships & mental performance.
My approach is compassionate and individualized, using person-centered, emotion-focused, CBT, EMDR and narrative approaches. I support youth, teens, and adults through grief and loss. I also offer The Grief Connection, an 8-week therapeutic Grief Therpy Group for adults and teens in Kelowna, offering connection, guidance, and support.
(778) 924-0110 View (778) 924-0110
Theresa Seefried
Registered Social Worker, RSW, MSW, BSW
5 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
I support youth and adults with ADHD, perfectionism, anxiety/stress, depression, self-harm, relationship concerns, grief, trauma, ASD, school/work stress, life transitions, existential concerns, spirituality, and religious trauma.
I welcome clients of all ages, genders, identities, backgrounds, and beliefs. My specialties are ADHD and Christian counselling. As a woman diagnosed with ADHD in adulthood, I bring both professional and lived understanding of ADHD, including the challenges, strengths, and different ways it can show up across everyday life.
I support youth and adults with ADHD, perfectionism, anxiety/stress, depression, self-harm, relationship concerns, grief, trauma, ASD, school/work stress, life transitions, existential concerns, spirituality, and religious trauma.
I welcome clients of all ages, genders, identities, backgrounds, and beliefs. My specialties are ADHD and Christian counselling. As a woman diagnosed with ADHD in adulthood, I bring both professional and lived understanding of ADHD, including the challenges, strengths, and different ways it can show up across everyday life.
(236) 504-2343 View (236) 504-2343
Izabella Zalewski
Counsellor, BA, MACP, RCC
Kelowna, BC V1W
My ideal client is someone experiencing significant relationship distress.
I work with couples and individuals using Emotionally Focused Therapy and attachment-based approaches to help identify patterns that create emotional distance and distress. I support men and women struggling relationally, as well as those experiencing anxiety or depression, by fostering emotional safety, insight, and practical tools for meaningful change.
My ideal client is someone experiencing significant relationship distress.
I work with couples and individuals using Emotionally Focused Therapy and attachment-based approaches to help identify patterns that create emotional distance and distress. I support men and women struggling relationally, as well as those experiencing anxiety or depression, by fostering emotional safety, insight, and practical tools for meaningful change.
(587) 844-0721 View (587) 844-0721
Erik Olson
Counsellor, MC, RCC
2 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1X
I work with teens and adults, individuals and couples.
I am familiar in a number of modalities including CBT, DBT, ACT, Solution-Focused, Somatic approaches, Person-Centred, Single Session, EMDR, Emotion Focused Family Therapy, and Polyvagal theory. I believe counselling to be a collaborative act. I bring my experience and expertise in counselling and you bring your experience and expertise in who you are.
I work with teens and adults, individuals and couples.
I am familiar in a number of modalities including CBT, DBT, ACT, Solution-Focused, Somatic approaches, Person-Centred, Single Session, EMDR, Emotion Focused Family Therapy, and Polyvagal theory. I believe counselling to be a collaborative act. I bring my experience and expertise in counselling and you bring your experience and expertise in who you are.
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Savery Bakker
Counsellor, MPCC-P
2 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
You want clarity, emotional balance, and better relationships, not just to vent, but to actually grow?
I specialize in ADHD, anxiety, trauma, and relationship issues. My sessions are practical and personalized, focused on giving you real tools, not just talk. Whether it’s emotional regulation, self-trust, or communication skills, we’ll work together to create real, lasting change.
You want clarity, emotional balance, and better relationships, not just to vent, but to actually grow?
I specialize in ADHD, anxiety, trauma, and relationship issues. My sessions are practical and personalized, focused on giving you real tools, not just talk. Whether it’s emotional regulation, self-trust, or communication skills, we’ll work together to create real, lasting change.
(343) 321-8349 View (343) 321-8349
Aravis Walters
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
We'll work together to shift your relationship with your emotions and your self, identifying which parts of you are pulling you in which directions, and gradually move towards healing, acceptance, and cohesion.
Hiya! I'm honoured that your search has led you here. I work with adults and children offering play-based, nature-based, and integrative therapeutic techniques in Kelowna. Together, we'll create more awareness, nurture what needs healing, process what is stuck, and move towards the best version of yourself. I believe that we are intrinsically good, that we are all capable of growth and change, and that your very existence means that you are worthy. I want to help you believe that, too.
We'll work together to shift your relationship with your emotions and your self, identifying which parts of you are pulling you in which directions, and gradually move towards healing, acceptance, and cohesion.
Hiya! I'm honoured that your search has led you here. I work with adults and children offering play-based, nature-based, and integrative therapeutic techniques in Kelowna. Together, we'll create more awareness, nurture what needs healing, process what is stuck, and move towards the best version of yourself. I believe that we are intrinsically good, that we are all capable of growth and change, and that your very existence means that you are worthy. I want to help you believe that, too.
(438) 256-8471 View (438) 256-8471
PureInsights Counselling
Counsellor, RPC
1 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
Feeling overwhelmed and not knowing how to cope in your current relationship?
I have over 30 yrs. experience working with addictions, couple and family counselling, attachment based parenting, managing/understanding anger, anxiety, self esteem etc. My years of experience and training help me use many therapeutic modalities in helping individuals, couples and families understand and overcome negative patterns in their lives.
Feeling overwhelmed and not knowing how to cope in your current relationship?
I have over 30 yrs. experience working with addictions, couple and family counselling, attachment based parenting, managing/understanding anger, anxiety, self esteem etc. My years of experience and training help me use many therapeutic modalities in helping individuals, couples and families understand and overcome negative patterns in their lives.
(866) 832-8648 View (866) 832-8648
Katelyn Schouten
Counsellor, MACP, RCC, BSc
2 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
Kate is the owner and a RCC (registered clinical counsellor) at Next Step Counselling group. Kate is a compassionate therapist looking to welcome you to a positive place of healthy change. She's dedicated to helping people in our community foster change and embark upon personal development. She specializes in areas such as stress, anxiety, and depression. Kate can help alleviate the daily challenges that life has to offer. As a busy mom of three, she understands that life can have many challenges, and her goal is to help people navigate through life’s tougher situations. Please get in touch for more information!
Kate is the owner and a RCC (registered clinical counsellor) at Next Step Counselling group. Kate is a compassionate therapist looking to welcome you to a positive place of healthy change. She's dedicated to helping people in our community foster change and embark upon personal development. She specializes in areas such as stress, anxiety, and depression. Kate can help alleviate the daily challenges that life has to offer. As a busy mom of three, she understands that life can have many challenges, and her goal is to help people navigate through life’s tougher situations. Please get in touch for more information!
(778) 761-3453 View (778) 761-3453
Francesca Williams
Counsellor, BSc, RN, MACP, CCC, BCS
1 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V4V
Wellness is a complex combination of mental and physical health. You may be feeling vulnerable and needing to discuss intimate subjects that may be perceived as too shameful or traumatic to share with others. As an RN and therapist, I know that how our bodies work (or don’t) has a huge impact on our well-being Whether your mental health is impacting your physical health or vice versa, it can be difficult to find a therapist who understands both. Whether you are experiencing sexual challenges, perinatal mood shifts or difficulty moving through a trauma, I am here to believe you in your experience and support you in moving forward.
Wellness is a complex combination of mental and physical health. You may be feeling vulnerable and needing to discuss intimate subjects that may be perceived as too shameful or traumatic to share with others. As an RN and therapist, I know that how our bodies work (or don’t) has a huge impact on our well-being Whether your mental health is impacting your physical health or vice versa, it can be difficult to find a therapist who understands both. Whether you are experiencing sexual challenges, perinatal mood shifts or difficulty moving through a trauma, I am here to believe you in your experience and support you in moving forward.
(450) 924-5973 View (450) 924-5973
Lakeside Clinical Counselling Kelowna
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
10 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
We are a small team of warm, approachable master’s level therapists supporting children, teens, adults, couples, and families through real-life challenges.
We support clients of all ages navigating anxiety, depression, trauma, addictions, mental health, relationships. divorce, and parenting challenges. We offer play therapy, EMDR, CBT, EFT, somatic approaches, Autism and ADHD support, Gottman therapy, addictions, co-parenting and separation counselling, family and couples counselling.
We are a small team of warm, approachable master’s level therapists supporting children, teens, adults, couples, and families through real-life challenges.
We support clients of all ages navigating anxiety, depression, trauma, addictions, mental health, relationships. divorce, and parenting challenges. We offer play therapy, EMDR, CBT, EFT, somatic approaches, Autism and ADHD support, Gottman therapy, addictions, co-parenting and separation counselling, family and couples counselling.
(236) 201-1827 View (236) 201-1827
Litt Wellness & Psychotherapy
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), CCC, MACP
4 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1W
Whether you're navigating anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship struggles, or life transitions, we are here to walk alongside you with empathy and understanding.
I have extensive experience working with non-profit organizations, supporting marginalized populations. In addition to my private practice, I am committed to serving the community as a counsellor with Fraser Health. We celebrate diversity and support individuals from all backgrounds, cultures, and identities.
Whether you're navigating anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship struggles, or life transitions, we are here to walk alongside you with empathy and understanding.
I have extensive experience working with non-profit organizations, supporting marginalized populations. In addition to my private practice, I am committed to serving the community as a counsellor with Fraser Health. We celebrate diversity and support individuals from all backgrounds, cultures, and identities.
(289) 217-2186 View (289) 217-2186
Kendra Arthurs
Registered Social Worker, BSc, MSW, RSW
7 Endorsed
Kelowna, BC V1Y
I support children, youth, adults and couples navigating anxiety, trauma, and relationship challenges.
I help individuals understand patterns in how they relate to themselves, others, and emotions, while building self-awareness, coping skills, and reducing overthinking and self-doubt. With couples, I support the building of conflict resolution and communication skills. I also offer EMDR trauma therapy to reduce the impact of difficult experiences.
I support children, youth, adults and couples navigating anxiety, trauma, and relationship challenges.
I help individuals understand patterns in how they relate to themselves, others, and emotions, while building self-awareness, coping skills, and reducing overthinking and self-doubt. With couples, I support the building of conflict resolution and communication skills. I also offer EMDR trauma therapy to reduce the impact of difficult experiences.
(450) 634-1900 View (450) 634-1900
Iris Wagner-Ritzmann
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, RPC, MPCC
Kelowna, BC V1Y
You’re doing your best to hold things together—for your kids, your partner, your family—but lately, it feels like that weight is getting heavier.
I help parents, couples, and families heal relationships—especially when connection feels lost. Whether it's tension with a child, co-parenting struggles, or feeling distant from a partner, I meet you with empathy and honesty to help you reconnect and move forward, even through conflict or major life transitions.
You’re doing your best to hold things together—for your kids, your partner, your family—but lately, it feels like that weight is getting heavier.
I help parents, couples, and families heal relationships—especially when connection feels lost. Whether it's tension with a child, co-parenting struggles, or feeling distant from a partner, I meet you with empathy and honesty to help you reconnect and move forward, even through conflict or major life transitions.
(581) 517-5095 View (581) 517-5095

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FAQ - About Couples Therapy
When should a couple seek counselling?
Couples can benefit from counselling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

What can a couples therapist help with?
A therapist can help a couple navigate a wide array of challenges, including balance in the relationship, communication and conflict, boundaries, intimacy and sex, parenting and conflicts with children, family dynamics, life transitions, stressors, job losses, deception, affairs, grief, alcohol or substance use, mental or physical illnesses, general unhappiness, and separation or divorce.

What therapy types are most suitable for couples counselling?
Couples counselling encompasses many effective techniques, including emotionally focused therapy (changing emotional responses to improve attachment), the Gottman method (solving problems and building intimacy), Imago relationship therapy (unearthing childhood experiences), narrative therapy (exploring narratives about the individuals and the relationship), solution-focused therapy (creating a plan for change), and cognitive behavioural therapy (targeting problematic thoughts to change behaviour).

Does couples counselling work?
Research shows that couples counselling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.