Couples Counselling Therapists in Burnaby, BC

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Keri Povall
Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
Burnaby, BC V5C
I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor, located in Burnaby, offering individual and couples counselling. My counselling practice provides a safe, confidential and compassionate space to explore your areas of concern as we work together to achieve your treatment goals. I am committed to providing solution-focused and practical tools to assist my clients in becoming stronger, calmer and more self-reliant in their everyday challenges.
I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor, located in Burnaby, offering individual and couples counselling. My counselling practice provides a safe, confidential and compassionate space to explore your areas of concern as we work together to achieve your treatment goals. I am committed to providing solution-focused and practical tools to assist my clients in becoming stronger, calmer and more self-reliant in their everyday challenges.
(778) 654-6411 View (778) 654-6411
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Maybo Lui
Counsellor, MS, RCC
Verified Verified
Burnaby, BC V5C
I'm a Registered Clinical Counsellor with advanced training in Bowen family systems therapy and Gottman method couples therapy.
Welcome! I believe that within each of us lies a wealth of inner strengths and untapped resources that can be used to make profound changes in our own lives. My aim is to empower you to find and utilize these abilities effectively. Through our collaborative efforts, I can help you establish a solid foundation for your journey towards self-discovery, growth and fulfillment. My primary focus is on supporting and guiding adults and couples through the complexities of dating and marital challenges, family conflicts, life transitions, stress, anxiety and depression.
I'm a Registered Clinical Counsellor with advanced training in Bowen family systems therapy and Gottman method couples therapy.
Welcome! I believe that within each of us lies a wealth of inner strengths and untapped resources that can be used to make profound changes in our own lives. My aim is to empower you to find and utilize these abilities effectively. Through our collaborative efforts, I can help you establish a solid foundation for your journey towards self-discovery, growth and fulfillment. My primary focus is on supporting and guiding adults and couples through the complexities of dating and marital challenges, family conflicts, life transitions, stress, anxiety and depression.
(807) 907-3623 View (807) 907-3623
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William K Lee
Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
Burnaby, BC V5C
Our team members have diverse experience working specifically with college students, indigenous populations, couples and families.
Welcome to Strive Counselling; a clinic and space to help you find your direction and reach your potential. If you're here reading this blurb, you're probably interested in seeking help for yourself, or a loved on. At Strive, our goal is to build strong relationships with our clients that rests on the foundation of trust. With trust - regardless of your issue of concern - we can help you achieve the wellness that you're hoping for. With this strong foundation, whether we continue with a solution-focused lens, emotional processing perspective, or somatic-based work, we at Strive can help you create meaningful change in your life.
Our team members have diverse experience working specifically with college students, indigenous populations, couples and families.
Welcome to Strive Counselling; a clinic and space to help you find your direction and reach your potential. If you're here reading this blurb, you're probably interested in seeking help for yourself, or a loved on. At Strive, our goal is to build strong relationships with our clients that rests on the foundation of trust. With trust - regardless of your issue of concern - we can help you achieve the wellness that you're hoping for. With this strong foundation, whether we continue with a solution-focused lens, emotional processing perspective, or somatic-based work, we at Strive can help you create meaningful change in your life.
(226) 798-0891 View (226) 798-0891
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Stuart Daciuk
Counsellor, RCC, MA
Verified Verified
Burnaby, BC V5A
I see individuals but also love seeing couples!.
Life is full of discouraging problems and it's easy to get overwhelmed, ignore the situation, pretend we don't need to change, or quit in frustration. We might hide who we are from others thinking we are unlovable or push others away so they can't see who we are. Counselling focuses on examining our self, our ways of navigating the world and situations, and trying to make changes that let us live happier, more authentically, and more free.
I see individuals but also love seeing couples!.
Life is full of discouraging problems and it's easy to get overwhelmed, ignore the situation, pretend we don't need to change, or quit in frustration. We might hide who we are from others thinking we are unlovable or push others away so they can't see who we are. Counselling focuses on examining our self, our ways of navigating the world and situations, and trying to make changes that let us live happier, more authentically, and more free.
(604) 670-2329 View (604) 670-2329
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Cathy Hill
Psychologist, PhD, RPsych
Verified Verified
Burnaby, BC V5A
Waitlist for new clients
At present I have space available in my upcoming workshop: The Essential Skills of Relationships (the RLT weekend bootcamp designed by Terry Real, creator of RLT). I am a Registered Psychologist and I work with couples at all stages of relationship, and with problems ranging from minor communication difficulties, to coping with affairs, to making decisions about whether to stay or leave. My wait list is open to couples who have taken the workshop (there are on-line versions available as well) and/or are willing to be recorded for my use in supervising and teaching other therapists.
At present I have space available in my upcoming workshop: The Essential Skills of Relationships (the RLT weekend bootcamp designed by Terry Real, creator of RLT). I am a Registered Psychologist and I work with couples at all stages of relationship, and with problems ranging from minor communication difficulties, to coping with affairs, to making decisions about whether to stay or leave. My wait list is open to couples who have taken the workshop (there are on-line versions available as well) and/or are willing to be recorded for my use in supervising and teaching other therapists.
(866) 679-1903 View (866) 679-1903
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Laurren Iacobellis
Counsellor, MC, MA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Burnaby, BC V5C
I use attachment science to create a healing relationship where you can learn to thrive on your own terms.
I love to help people recover from stress, depression, anxiety, unhealthy relationships, medical struggles and chronic pain. I offer free 20 minute phone consultations and sliding scale fees for people without extended health benefits. Whatever your struggle, you deserve a loving witness.
I use attachment science to create a healing relationship where you can learn to thrive on your own terms.
I love to help people recover from stress, depression, anxiety, unhealthy relationships, medical struggles and chronic pain. I offer free 20 minute phone consultations and sliding scale fees for people without extended health benefits. Whatever your struggle, you deserve a loving witness.
(289) 275-9525 View (289) 275-9525
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Jade Counselling & Wellness
Counsellor, MA, MACP, RCC, EMDR
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Burnaby, BC V5H
I specialize in trauma and relationships. Adult childhood/adulthood trauma, self esteem, confidence and codependency. I also work with couples and families around unresolved attachment, infidelity, sexuality and unconscious toxicity. Other areas of focus: anxiety, depression, procrastination and loss of motivation. I am a registered clinical counsellor RCC, available in person and online. I look forward to working with you to unblock healing, resiliency and health. Let's connect and say "enough" to intense chaos and debilitating struggles. Coverage accepted: private, ICBC, Medavie Blue Cross, Canada Life, Crime Victims Program
I specialize in trauma and relationships. Adult childhood/adulthood trauma, self esteem, confidence and codependency. I also work with couples and families around unresolved attachment, infidelity, sexuality and unconscious toxicity. Other areas of focus: anxiety, depression, procrastination and loss of motivation. I am a registered clinical counsellor RCC, available in person and online. I look forward to working with you to unblock healing, resiliency and health. Let's connect and say "enough" to intense chaos and debilitating struggles. Coverage accepted: private, ICBC, Medavie Blue Cross, Canada Life, Crime Victims Program
(604) 332-3370 View (604) 332-3370
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Dee Gill
Counsellor, MA, RCC, CCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Burnaby, BC V5H
We offer therapy for adults, teens, young adults, couples to help heal past wounds, break through barriers and find greater meaning in their lives.
Do you ever feel so overwhelmed and stuck in a life that you have no idea what to do next or get anxious about making a wrong decision that could worsen things? Worried about your teen's mental health? Suffering from ADHD, PTSD or depression? Struggling in your romantic relationships? We can help improve focus, reduce procrastination, anxiety reduction, improve functioning and mood, increase positive mindset, improve communication and overall well-being.
We offer therapy for adults, teens, young adults, couples to help heal past wounds, break through barriers and find greater meaning in their lives.
Do you ever feel so overwhelmed and stuck in a life that you have no idea what to do next or get anxious about making a wrong decision that could worsen things? Worried about your teen's mental health? Suffering from ADHD, PTSD or depression? Struggling in your romantic relationships? We can help improve focus, reduce procrastination, anxiety reduction, improve functioning and mood, increase positive mindset, improve communication and overall well-being.
(778) 761-3480 View (778) 761-3480
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Carol Hodge
Counsellor, MC, RCC
Verified Verified
Burnaby, BC V5A
Trauma in relationships, developmental trauma, assault, and intimate partner violence.
Hello, and welcome to my profile. I'm so glad you're here! Whether you are looking for relief from anxiety, support in managing grief or loss, coping with trauma, relationship struggles, life transitions, or whatever has brought you to search for a counsellor, I will strive to always meet you where you are at in your own unique process. It is my view, that therapy is best done when in a collaborative process with you- together we co-create your vision of your future and I have the honour and privilege of working alongside you as you courageously move through some of what may be holding you back.
Trauma in relationships, developmental trauma, assault, and intimate partner violence.
Hello, and welcome to my profile. I'm so glad you're here! Whether you are looking for relief from anxiety, support in managing grief or loss, coping with trauma, relationship struggles, life transitions, or whatever has brought you to search for a counsellor, I will strive to always meet you where you are at in your own unique process. It is my view, that therapy is best done when in a collaborative process with you- together we co-create your vision of your future and I have the honour and privilege of working alongside you as you courageously move through some of what may be holding you back.
(778) 200-4363 View (778) 200-4363
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Abby McClelland
Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Burnaby, BC V5C
I offer counselling services for individuals, couples and families.
Too often I hear stories of people struggling in silence, battling inner thoughts and not knowing what to do with them. Shrouded in fear and shame, they do their best to navigate their daily lives hoping things will get better, but sometimes the struggle continues. Seeing a counsellor can help ease this burden. Whether it's about relationships, careers, family or personal challenges, talking to a trusted counsellor can be the start of offloading these troubling thoughts and allowing space for clarity, growth and direction.
I offer counselling services for individuals, couples and families.
Too often I hear stories of people struggling in silence, battling inner thoughts and not knowing what to do with them. Shrouded in fear and shame, they do their best to navigate their daily lives hoping things will get better, but sometimes the struggle continues. Seeing a counsellor can help ease this burden. Whether it's about relationships, careers, family or personal challenges, talking to a trusted counsellor can be the start of offloading these troubling thoughts and allowing space for clarity, growth and direction.
(778) 654-4730 View (778) 654-4730
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Marijana Jozic | Somatic Therapy
Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
Burnaby, BC V5C
If you need a safe place to heal the root of your relationship difficulties and learn how to approach your life in ways you feel proud of and serve you, I’m here to help you heal.
Do you long for security, safety, connection and depth in your relationships? Are you struggling with distrust, resentment, anxiety or lack of fulfillment in your current or past relationship? Do you long to express yourself authentically in the world or in your work, but find yourself struggling with overwhelm at conflict, feeling ungrounded, disempowered, self-judgement or shame about your sensitivity or difficulty with communicating? Marijana helps you get to the root of your struggles by applying an integrative approach to support your healing, foster your self-worth & empower your authentic expression in your relationships.
If you need a safe place to heal the root of your relationship difficulties and learn how to approach your life in ways you feel proud of and serve you, I’m here to help you heal.
Do you long for security, safety, connection and depth in your relationships? Are you struggling with distrust, resentment, anxiety or lack of fulfillment in your current or past relationship? Do you long to express yourself authentically in the world or in your work, but find yourself struggling with overwhelm at conflict, feeling ungrounded, disempowered, self-judgement or shame about your sensitivity or difficulty with communicating? Marijana helps you get to the root of your struggles by applying an integrative approach to support your healing, foster your self-worth & empower your authentic expression in your relationships.
(579) 500-5749 View (579) 500-5749
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Tara Gosse
Counsellor, MEd, RCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Burnaby, BC V5A
The therapeutic relationship acts as a profound agent of change and this is the foundation of my work.
Most of us desire to live our lives with a sense of confidence, purpose, and closeness with others, but difficult life experiences can lead us to build walls for protection and safety, and as a result, we can lose our sense of connection with ourselves and others. If you are here, you may be feeling some combination of lost, alone, stuck, anxious, afraid, unsure, frustrated or angry, overwhelmed, grief, worried, low, sad and/or depressed. We can work together to help you bring a greater sense of control, satisfaction, and ease into your life.
The therapeutic relationship acts as a profound agent of change and this is the foundation of my work.
Most of us desire to live our lives with a sense of confidence, purpose, and closeness with others, but difficult life experiences can lead us to build walls for protection and safety, and as a result, we can lose our sense of connection with ourselves and others. If you are here, you may be feeling some combination of lost, alone, stuck, anxious, afraid, unsure, frustrated or angry, overwhelmed, grief, worried, low, sad and/or depressed. We can work together to help you bring a greater sense of control, satisfaction, and ease into your life.
(855) 910-7385 View (855) 910-7385
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Ashley Greensmyth
Counsellor, MCP, RCC
Verified Verified
9 Endorsed
Burnaby, BC V5E  (Online Only)
My therapy style combines Adlerian therapy, mindfulness, EMDR and Lifespan Integration, and I primarily use the Gottman Method for couples.
Do you struggle with anxiety, high stress or want more satisfying relationships? You might have noticed that the "roadmap of life" doesn't really apply these days, so you're navigating uncharted territory with your own compass and notebook. Personal strategies to manage stress, mood and relationship conflicts work well enough until they don't, which can pile on the stress... If you struggle with people pleasing, boundaries, communication, perfectionism or assertiveness and you want to build confidence, you're not alone.
My therapy style combines Adlerian therapy, mindfulness, EMDR and Lifespan Integration, and I primarily use the Gottman Method for couples.
Do you struggle with anxiety, high stress or want more satisfying relationships? You might have noticed that the "roadmap of life" doesn't really apply these days, so you're navigating uncharted territory with your own compass and notebook. Personal strategies to manage stress, mood and relationship conflicts work well enough until they don't, which can pile on the stress... If you struggle with people pleasing, boundaries, communication, perfectionism or assertiveness and you want to build confidence, you're not alone.
(604) 305-3147 View (604) 305-3147
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Una Mulhall Nuway Counselling
Counsellor, RCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Burnaby, BC V5H  (Online Only)
Are you worried, stressed or anxious about career planning and substance use? I am experienced in helping people with mental health issues to find employment and to support healthy lifestyle changes. I worked at Pathway Clubhouse as an employment manager for 15 years to help individuals with mental health issues get back on their feet by gaining employment, education, housing and social connections. I am experienced in working with individuals challenged by anxiety, depression, stress, negative self-image, life stressors, interpersonal/relationship difficulties, work/life imbalance, life transitions, and personal development.
Are you worried, stressed or anxious about career planning and substance use? I am experienced in helping people with mental health issues to find employment and to support healthy lifestyle changes. I worked at Pathway Clubhouse as an employment manager for 15 years to help individuals with mental health issues get back on their feet by gaining employment, education, housing and social connections. I am experienced in working with individuals challenged by anxiety, depression, stress, negative self-image, life stressors, interpersonal/relationship difficulties, work/life imbalance, life transitions, and personal development.
(236) 360-5572 View (236) 360-5572
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Angela Zhou
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
Burnaby, BC V5H
Over the course of my education, I have had the honor to work with a range of individuals and couples through an attachment-based and trauma-informed framework.
I believe true healing comes from being heard, being known, and being seen; it is my deepest desire and privilege to come alongside another in this process. My name is Angela Zhou and I am currently an intern at Wishing Wells Counselling (located in Vancouver, British Columbia), completing my Master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy at Trinity Western University. I provide counselling to individuals, couples, and families of all ages.
Over the course of my education, I have had the honor to work with a range of individuals and couples through an attachment-based and trauma-informed framework.
I believe true healing comes from being heard, being known, and being seen; it is my deepest desire and privilege to come alongside another in this process. My name is Angela Zhou and I am currently an intern at Wishing Wells Counselling (located in Vancouver, British Columbia), completing my Master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy at Trinity Western University. I provide counselling to individuals, couples, and families of all ages.
(705) 990-1688 View (705) 990-1688
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Jessica Kalia
Counsellor, RCC, MC, BA
Verified Verified
Burnaby, BC V3N
Counselling offers an opportunity for insight, growth and change. It can be a source of support and hope in times of difficulty or crisis. I believe in having a client- centered and strength based approach as well. I work with families, children, individuals and couples. My specializations include: suicide prevention and assessment, depression, anxiety, trauma, relationship concerns, parenting, grief, and ADHD. As each client is different and unique, I use an approach that works best for you. In my practice, I integrates techniques from cognitive behavioral therapy, narrative therapy, emotion focused therapy and solution focused therapy.
Counselling offers an opportunity for insight, growth and change. It can be a source of support and hope in times of difficulty or crisis. I believe in having a client- centered and strength based approach as well. I work with families, children, individuals and couples. My specializations include: suicide prevention and assessment, depression, anxiety, trauma, relationship concerns, parenting, grief, and ADHD. As each client is different and unique, I use an approach that works best for you. In my practice, I integrates techniques from cognitive behavioral therapy, narrative therapy, emotion focused therapy and solution focused therapy.
(604) 265-9791 View (604) 265-9791
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Johnson Ma
Psychologist, PhD, RPsych
Verified Verified
Burnaby, BC V5H
Waitlist for new clients
I provide assessment and psychotherapy to individuals, couples and family in areas of stress management, loss & grief, vocational issues, relationship problems, abuses, trauma, identity issues, mental health issues and parent-child conflict, anxiety, depression, PTSD, chronic pain, and psychosocial adjustment to neurological injuries (e.
I'm a Chinese Canadian psychologist based in Greater Vancouver area. I have experiences in providing diagnostic assessment and psychotherapy in English, and Mandarin to people of diversity struggling with serious mental illness, complex trauma, addiction, concurrent disorders, rehabilitation from physical injuries and traumatic events. In addition to psychological services, I have developed and presented culturally appropriate psychoeducational workshops for Chinese immigrant groups and local school districts in Greater Vancouver.
I provide assessment and psychotherapy to individuals, couples and family in areas of stress management, loss & grief, vocational issues, relationship problems, abuses, trauma, identity issues, mental health issues and parent-child conflict, anxiety, depression, PTSD, chronic pain, and psychosocial adjustment to neurological injuries (e.
I'm a Chinese Canadian psychologist based in Greater Vancouver area. I have experiences in providing diagnostic assessment and psychotherapy in English, and Mandarin to people of diversity struggling with serious mental illness, complex trauma, addiction, concurrent disorders, rehabilitation from physical injuries and traumatic events. In addition to psychological services, I have developed and presented culturally appropriate psychoeducational workshops for Chinese immigrant groups and local school districts in Greater Vancouver.
(604) 670-9580 View (604) 670-9580
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Dorcas Lee
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Burnaby, BC V5H
Conflicts in relationships are inevitable. In healthy relationships, unexpected changes can be destabilizing; in strained relationships, new disagreements and big decisions can feel crippling — grief, anger, anxiety, and trauma obscuring any good way forward. With my support, you will be able to graciously move through conversations that once felt impossibly difficult. Communication with family members — a partner, an aging parent, a sibling, a child or teen — will foster understanding rather than hostility. Healthy resolution will feel possible again, even in the most challenging processes, such as separation, illness, or death.
Conflicts in relationships are inevitable. In healthy relationships, unexpected changes can be destabilizing; in strained relationships, new disagreements and big decisions can feel crippling — grief, anger, anxiety, and trauma obscuring any good way forward. With my support, you will be able to graciously move through conversations that once felt impossibly difficult. Communication with family members — a partner, an aging parent, a sibling, a child or teen — will foster understanding rather than hostility. Healthy resolution will feel possible again, even in the most challenging processes, such as separation, illness, or death.
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Aleksandra Dobric-Stanosevic
Registered Social Worker, BSW, RSW, TAAP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Burnaby, BC V5E
In the course of my professional practice, I have worked mostly with addictions, co-occurring disorders, eating disorders, anxiety, attachment and relationship issues.
The benefits of my approach lie in using different techniques, tailored to the client's unique personality. Some clients like a directive approach, they want to be guided, to be given an almost 'engineering' model explaining our inner life; some prefer a non-directive, client-centered approach, where they would explore their inner landscape with the therapist as a co-traveler. All clients have relational needs which need to be addressed to, and the therapeutic relationship provides safety, validation, 'repaired' parenting, mutuality, client's self-definition and empowerment. Helping clients practice autonomy is my passion!
In the course of my professional practice, I have worked mostly with addictions, co-occurring disorders, eating disorders, anxiety, attachment and relationship issues.
The benefits of my approach lie in using different techniques, tailored to the client's unique personality. Some clients like a directive approach, they want to be guided, to be given an almost 'engineering' model explaining our inner life; some prefer a non-directive, client-centered approach, where they would explore their inner landscape with the therapist as a co-traveler. All clients have relational needs which need to be addressed to, and the therapeutic relationship provides safety, validation, 'repaired' parenting, mutuality, client's self-definition and empowerment. Helping clients practice autonomy is my passion!
(807) 770-4361 View (807) 770-4361
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Rosanne Johnson Couselling
Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
Burnaby, BC V5C
I also offer Equine Assisted Psychotherapy as a way for my clients to overcome issues related to trauma, anxiety, depression, addiction or relationship issues.
As a counsellor I offer therapy to the lesbian, gay, bisexual transgendered and straight community. I understand how important it is to to work with someone who understands the culture and lifestyle. I provide counselling to those struggling with past trauma or emotional pain, anxiety, depression, relationship struggles, problems coming out, or confusion and pain about sexual or gender identity. I use a variety of of proven counselling and therapy techniques to assist those in the LGBT and straight community to create meaningful and rich lives. As a relationship therapist I help people create healthy and fullfiling relationships.
I also offer Equine Assisted Psychotherapy as a way for my clients to overcome issues related to trauma, anxiety, depression, addiction or relationship issues.
As a counsellor I offer therapy to the lesbian, gay, bisexual transgendered and straight community. I understand how important it is to to work with someone who understands the culture and lifestyle. I provide counselling to those struggling with past trauma or emotional pain, anxiety, depression, relationship struggles, problems coming out, or confusion and pain about sexual or gender identity. I use a variety of of proven counselling and therapy techniques to assist those in the LGBT and straight community to create meaningful and rich lives. As a relationship therapist I help people create healthy and fullfiling relationships.
(855) 726-3232 View (855) 726-3232

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Couples Counselling

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.