Marriage Counselling Therapists in Abbotsford, BC

Photo of Dan Bue, Counsellor in Abbotsford, BC
Dan Bue
Counsellor, BA, MA, RCC, Rev
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Abbotsford, BC V2S
Since I have over 40 years of a successful marriage to draw upon, I have been very effective in applying proven & learned principles in helping couples to work through their challenges.
A registered counsellor since 1994, I have worked with a wide array of clients. I have done much work with marriages and relationships and have developed a system that generally makes a significant difference within 6 sessions. For six years, I worked as an elementary school counsellor, working with over 450 children for a wide variety of needs. For 20 years, I worked extensively with Level 3 foster children, mostly teens. I also served as a prison chaplain so am familiar with criminal justice issues and addictions. Because of the diversity of my experience, I can generally relate to most clients.
Since I have over 40 years of a successful marriage to draw upon, I have been very effective in applying proven & learned principles in helping couples to work through their challenges.
A registered counsellor since 1994, I have worked with a wide array of clients. I have done much work with marriages and relationships and have developed a system that generally makes a significant difference within 6 sessions. For six years, I worked as an elementary school counsellor, working with over 450 children for a wide variety of needs. For 20 years, I worked extensively with Level 3 foster children, mostly teens. I also served as a prison chaplain so am familiar with criminal justice issues and addictions. Because of the diversity of my experience, I can generally relate to most clients.
(855) 219-4397 View (855) 219-4397
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Amanda Moule Counselling
Counsellor, RTC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Abbotsford, BC V2T
I have experience working with a variety of presenting concerns including, but not limited to, posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD),(C-PTSD) childhood abuse, attachment styles and bonds, early childhood experiences (ACE’S), marital and relational conflict, emotional dysregulation, flooding of emotions, dissociation, and numbness, depression, anxiety.
Hello, my name is Amanda Moule, Are you struggling with your mental health, relationships, difficult emotions, and or experiences? If you choose, I will journey alongside you in your self-discovery, transformation, and healing. I am able to provide a deep understanding due to having gone through my own healing journey from experiences such as trauma, depression, and anxiety, as well as healing C-PTSD. This gives me the ability to provide a deep level of empathy. My passion is to help others through dark and difficult times with deep compassion. It is your journey and being there walking alongside you is a great honour to me.
I have experience working with a variety of presenting concerns including, but not limited to, posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD),(C-PTSD) childhood abuse, attachment styles and bonds, early childhood experiences (ACE’S), marital and relational conflict, emotional dysregulation, flooding of emotions, dissociation, and numbness, depression, anxiety.
Hello, my name is Amanda Moule, Are you struggling with your mental health, relationships, difficult emotions, and or experiences? If you choose, I will journey alongside you in your self-discovery, transformation, and healing. I am able to provide a deep understanding due to having gone through my own healing journey from experiences such as trauma, depression, and anxiety, as well as healing C-PTSD. This gives me the ability to provide a deep level of empathy. My passion is to help others through dark and difficult times with deep compassion. It is your journey and being there walking alongside you is a great honour to me.
(236) 301-1393 View (236) 301-1393
Gurpal Bamara
Counsellor, MACP, CCC
Verified Verified
Abbotsford, BC V2T
I specialize in working with those experiencing mental health concerns, parent-child conflict resolution, relationship struggles, marriage enhancement, life transitions, complex family dynamics, grief/loss, school related difficulties, behavioral challenges, and trauma recovery.
As a Counsellor who works with youth, adults, and couples, I value a relational approach in our therapeutic alliance. I am a bi-lingual Counsellor fluent in both English and Punjabi. I utilize various modalities based on your special needs including Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT), Emotion Focused Family Therapy (EFFT), Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing (EMDR), utilizing a Person Centered approach.
I specialize in working with those experiencing mental health concerns, parent-child conflict resolution, relationship struggles, marriage enhancement, life transitions, complex family dynamics, grief/loss, school related difficulties, behavioral challenges, and trauma recovery.
As a Counsellor who works with youth, adults, and couples, I value a relational approach in our therapeutic alliance. I am a bi-lingual Counsellor fluent in both English and Punjabi. I utilize various modalities based on your special needs including Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT), Emotion Focused Family Therapy (EFFT), Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing (EMDR), utilizing a Person Centered approach.
(867) 292-6161 View (867) 292-6161
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Darrin Derksen
Counsellor, BA, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Abbotsford, BC V2T
Live 2B Free offers counselling to men, women, couples, and teens. I specialize in the areas of Sexual Addiction, Trauma/Abuse recovery, Marriage and Family restoration, and Anxiety management. Treatment is also available for Depression, Workplace stress, Crisis management, Bereavement, etc. Whether you are just feeling uneasy about life, or are experiencing a serious trauma or addiction, it is my goal to get your life back on track, so that you can live to be free!
Live 2B Free offers counselling to men, women, couples, and teens. I specialize in the areas of Sexual Addiction, Trauma/Abuse recovery, Marriage and Family restoration, and Anxiety management. Treatment is also available for Depression, Workplace stress, Crisis management, Bereavement, etc. Whether you are just feeling uneasy about life, or are experiencing a serious trauma or addiction, it is my goal to get your life back on track, so that you can live to be free!
(778) 762-1314 View (778) 762-1314
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Angela Herd
Counsellor, MACP, RCC, CCC, RCAT, DipCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Abbotsford, BC V4X  (Online Only)
Mental Health Trainer, EAP Counselling, Marriage/Couple/Family Specialist, Clinical Supervisor with/without Art, Trauma-based Perspective, Career Counselling, Education for art-based pedagogy, Transpersonal & Contemplative Practice.
I am here to help you or your loved ones to cope & develop healthy relationships. I have enjoyed almost 30 years supporting children, youth, couples & families. I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor, Certified Canadian Counsellor, Registered Art Therapist, Clinical Supervisor & University Educator. I am interested in helping you identify & build your strengths to cope & heal from stressors & concerns you are currently facing. With the help of best-practice strategies, tools, creativity & appropriate community referrals, you can experience the freedom to live your best life with confidence!
Mental Health Trainer, EAP Counselling, Marriage/Couple/Family Specialist, Clinical Supervisor with/without Art, Trauma-based Perspective, Career Counselling, Education for art-based pedagogy, Transpersonal & Contemplative Practice.
I am here to help you or your loved ones to cope & develop healthy relationships. I have enjoyed almost 30 years supporting children, youth, couples & families. I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor, Certified Canadian Counsellor, Registered Art Therapist, Clinical Supervisor & University Educator. I am interested in helping you identify & build your strengths to cope & heal from stressors & concerns you are currently facing. With the help of best-practice strategies, tools, creativity & appropriate community referrals, you can experience the freedom to live your best life with confidence!
(778) 400-4650 View (778) 400-4650
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Kelly Hiebert
Counsellor, RTC, MTC, CACII
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Abbotsford, BC V4X
Human beings experience severe life stressors sometimes, and when they do it is not uncommon for their lives to unravel. I have a passion for helping people, who are experiencing difficulties, strengthen their relationships with themselves and others, so they can once again live purposeful, joy-filled lives, while still honouring their past.
Human beings experience severe life stressors sometimes, and when they do it is not uncommon for their lives to unravel. I have a passion for helping people, who are experiencing difficulties, strengthen their relationships with themselves and others, so they can once again live purposeful, joy-filled lives, while still honouring their past.
(778) 400-4058 View (778) 400-4058
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Matthew Herman
Counsellor, MC , CCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Abbotsford, BC V2S
If life feels overwhelming or perhaps feels like you are in emotional pain and are having trouble coping, I meet clients where they are at in their struggles and help them to unpack their emotions and offer strategies for increased resilliancy. I practice from a strength and client-centred approach. I have worked with children and youth for over 8 years and apply this knowledge in my clinical work with children youth and families. Being a father myself, I can relate to some of the hardships that families endure and stand beside my clients to offer support and validation.
If life feels overwhelming or perhaps feels like you are in emotional pain and are having trouble coping, I meet clients where they are at in their struggles and help them to unpack their emotions and offer strategies for increased resilliancy. I practice from a strength and client-centred approach. I have worked with children and youth for over 8 years and apply this knowledge in my clinical work with children youth and families. Being a father myself, I can relate to some of the hardships that families endure and stand beside my clients to offer support and validation.
(778) 763-1426 View (778) 763-1426
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Jaspreet Kaler
Counsellor, MCP, RCC
Verified Verified
Abbotsford, BC V2T
An innate desire to help and understand others, as well as several pivotal points throughout my personal life have led me to pursue a profession in psychotherapy and counselling. I am passionate about supporting individuals wherever they are in their respective journeys. I am dedicated to helping facilitate healthier lives for individuals and families within our community. To begin this journey, I obtained a Bachelor of Arts in Psychology from the University of British Columbia, followed by a Master of Arts in Counselling Psychology from Yorkville University. My professional experience comprises work with adults, teens & children.
An innate desire to help and understand others, as well as several pivotal points throughout my personal life have led me to pursue a profession in psychotherapy and counselling. I am passionate about supporting individuals wherever they are in their respective journeys. I am dedicated to helping facilitate healthier lives for individuals and families within our community. To begin this journey, I obtained a Bachelor of Arts in Psychology from the University of British Columbia, followed by a Master of Arts in Counselling Psychology from Yorkville University. My professional experience comprises work with adults, teens & children.
(365) 659-0634 View (365) 659-0634
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Nat Keeling
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Abbotsford, BC V2S  (Online Only)
Are you an adult who was recently diagnosed with or suspects that you have ADHD and/or Autism? Do you need help living a fulfilling life as a neurodivergent individual in a world designed for neurotypical folks? Are you looking for someone who intimately understands your struggles with Pathological Demand Avoidance/Persistent Drive for Autonomy (PDA), Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD), and your highly sensitive nature? You've come to the right place! I am an AuDHD (w/ PDA) counsellor specializing in working with late-diagnosed, and undiagnosed neurodivergent adults using a neurodiversity-centred and compassion-focused approach.
Are you an adult who was recently diagnosed with or suspects that you have ADHD and/or Autism? Do you need help living a fulfilling life as a neurodivergent individual in a world designed for neurotypical folks? Are you looking for someone who intimately understands your struggles with Pathological Demand Avoidance/Persistent Drive for Autonomy (PDA), Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD), and your highly sensitive nature? You've come to the right place! I am an AuDHD (w/ PDA) counsellor specializing in working with late-diagnosed, and undiagnosed neurodivergent adults using a neurodiversity-centred and compassion-focused approach.
(604) 803-9051 View (604) 803-9051
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Jennifer C Leon
Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
Abbotsford, BC V2S
It can be lonely struggling through mental health problems by yourself. You don't want to burden your family or your support system but you desperately need to connect with someone who understands and who doesn't judge you. I have a strength-based focus which means together we look for what you are doing well and apply similar and new skills to a current problem. You are wired for growth and health! It is in there, but sometimes we need a skilled therapist to help identify problem areas, help us gain awareness, and find what works for the client in any given situation.
It can be lonely struggling through mental health problems by yourself. You don't want to burden your family or your support system but you desperately need to connect with someone who understands and who doesn't judge you. I have a strength-based focus which means together we look for what you are doing well and apply similar and new skills to a current problem. You are wired for growth and health! It is in there, but sometimes we need a skilled therapist to help identify problem areas, help us gain awareness, and find what works for the client in any given situation.
(778) 762-3564 View (778) 762-3564
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Rebecca Schroeder
Counsellor, MA, RCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Abbotsford, BC V2S
Finding a therapist you trust and feel safe with is foundational to successful counselling. As a therapist, I use compassion, experience, authenticity and insight create a space where you are safe to process your thoughts and feelings, strengths and struggles and to receive support for expressing, connecting with and honouring your deepest values and life goals. Being responsive to clients needs also requires therapeutic education, direction and curiosity. I value asking questions which support you in experiencing your own “ah ha” moments. I will work to help you put language to some of the challenges you have experienced.
Finding a therapist you trust and feel safe with is foundational to successful counselling. As a therapist, I use compassion, experience, authenticity and insight create a space where you are safe to process your thoughts and feelings, strengths and struggles and to receive support for expressing, connecting with and honouring your deepest values and life goals. Being responsive to clients needs also requires therapeutic education, direction and curiosity. I value asking questions which support you in experiencing your own “ah ha” moments. I will work to help you put language to some of the challenges you have experienced.
(604) 330-9209 View (604) 330-9209
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Philip Isaac Henein
Counsellor, MDiv, RCC, RP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Abbotsford, BC V3G  (Online Only)
I have more than 14 years experience in coaching, counselling, and psychotherapy. I am a very compassionate psychotherapist dedicated to helping individuals and couples overcome various challenges through evidence-based therapy modalities. With a Master of Divinity in clinical counselling, I believe I have the education and experience necessary to provide effective, customized treatment plans that meet the unique needs of my clients. I spent the last 14 years working with people in community development, humanitarian work overseas, counselling, and psychotherapy in the most devastated communities overseas and Canada.
I have more than 14 years experience in coaching, counselling, and psychotherapy. I am a very compassionate psychotherapist dedicated to helping individuals and couples overcome various challenges through evidence-based therapy modalities. With a Master of Divinity in clinical counselling, I believe I have the education and experience necessary to provide effective, customized treatment plans that meet the unique needs of my clients. I spent the last 14 years working with people in community development, humanitarian work overseas, counselling, and psychotherapy in the most devastated communities overseas and Canada.
(289) 301-9310 View (289) 301-9310
Photo of Lorne E Pierce, Psychologist in Abbotsford, BC
Lorne E Pierce
Psychologist, MA, RPsych
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Abbotsford, BC V2T
I am interested in helping individuals and couples to set and achieve goals that can assist them to make changes in their lives. Change can be a difficult process, but also one that can be very rewarding and fulfilling. Whether you are suffering from depression, relationship problems, grief, anxiety, trauma, stress, or emotional/behavioural issues, talking about your difficulties in an atmosphere of safety and encouragement can help. I want to encourage meaning and purpose in your life while being sensitive to your religious or cultural orientation.
I am interested in helping individuals and couples to set and achieve goals that can assist them to make changes in their lives. Change can be a difficult process, but also one that can be very rewarding and fulfilling. Whether you are suffering from depression, relationship problems, grief, anxiety, trauma, stress, or emotional/behavioural issues, talking about your difficulties in an atmosphere of safety and encouragement can help. I want to encourage meaning and purpose in your life while being sensitive to your religious or cultural orientation.
(866) 327-0980 View (866) 327-0980
Photo of Christina Henderson, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Abbotsford, BC
Christina Henderson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, BSW, MSW, RSW, RCC
Verified Verified
Abbotsford, BC V3G
It takes a tremendous amount of courage to reach out to a stranger for help and support. I believe we all develop strategies for coping with pain and discomfort that often serve well in the moment but not in the long term. Or, we become overwhelmed and unable to cope with the difficult demands and circumstances life throws our way. Counselling is ultimately a conversation in a safe, non-judgmental space to help you process, validate, heal, reframe, and develop strategies to experience life in a new and more meaningful way. I am an Internal Family Systems therapist with training in EMDR.
It takes a tremendous amount of courage to reach out to a stranger for help and support. I believe we all develop strategies for coping with pain and discomfort that often serve well in the moment but not in the long term. Or, we become overwhelmed and unable to cope with the difficult demands and circumstances life throws our way. Counselling is ultimately a conversation in a safe, non-judgmental space to help you process, validate, heal, reframe, and develop strategies to experience life in a new and more meaningful way. I am an Internal Family Systems therapist with training in EMDR.
(855) 212-3815 View (855) 212-3815
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Oakhill Counselling & Mediation Services
Counsellor, MA, MBA, RCC
Verified Verified
Abbotsford, BC V2T
Our therapists help with a variety of presenting issues ranging from depression, anxiety, PTSD, pain management, identity, workplace issues and much more. Oakhill Counselling & Mediation Services utilizes the expertise of master level therapists registered psychologists. We have several offices conveniently located in the Fraser Valley and also offer telehealth. We're easy to find and easy to work with.
Our therapists help with a variety of presenting issues ranging from depression, anxiety, PTSD, pain management, identity, workplace issues and much more. Oakhill Counselling & Mediation Services utilizes the expertise of master level therapists registered psychologists. We have several offices conveniently located in the Fraser Valley and also offer telehealth. We're easy to find and easy to work with.
(778) 764-2364 View (778) 764-2364
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Thinking Couch Counselling
Counsellor, RTC
Verified Verified
Abbotsford, BC V2S  (Online Only)
Adulting is hard! Thinking Couch is a place to sit, to take a breath, and to begin to create YOU the way YOU want to be. It takes time and it takes work, however, I will sit with you, collaborate with you, and help you create the fulfilling world you deserve.
Adulting is hard! Thinking Couch is a place to sit, to take a breath, and to begin to create YOU the way YOU want to be. It takes time and it takes work, however, I will sit with you, collaborate with you, and help you create the fulfilling world you deserve.
(249) 506-6038 View (249) 506-6038
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Laura Jean Gardham
Counsellor, MACP, CCC, RCC
Verified Verified
Abbotsford, BC V2T
As a counsellor I am passionate about supporting children, teens and adults, as well as couples on their life journey: past, present & future. I consider myself an attachment based, trauma-informed and adoption competent counsellor. I also have a heart for helping parents to be the parent their child needs. Providing a safe and non-judgmental space to make sense of your experiences is my primary goal. My strength-based, client-centred approach, aims to support you to: strengthen connections, enhance skills, build resilience, heal from your own experiences, and to enjoy healthy relationships.
As a counsellor I am passionate about supporting children, teens and adults, as well as couples on their life journey: past, present & future. I consider myself an attachment based, trauma-informed and adoption competent counsellor. I also have a heart for helping parents to be the parent their child needs. Providing a safe and non-judgmental space to make sense of your experiences is my primary goal. My strength-based, client-centred approach, aims to support you to: strengthen connections, enhance skills, build resilience, heal from your own experiences, and to enjoy healthy relationships.
(506) 308-2604 View (506) 308-2604
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Theresa Jouan
Counsellor, MSc, BCBA, RCC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Abbotsford, BC V2S
Sometimes we realize a degree of feeling 'stuck' that we want help with and other times it's a feeling of overwhelm or we're at our breaking point; the timing is different for everyone. My approach pulls from many different modalities including: Dialectical Behaviour Therapy, Narrative Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Observed & Experiential Integration. The approach we use in session will be talked through and led by your situation, your style, preferences and your strengths in combination with my expertise. Reach out for your free, initial 15 minute call today so that we can determine if a good fit is there to build on.
Sometimes we realize a degree of feeling 'stuck' that we want help with and other times it's a feeling of overwhelm or we're at our breaking point; the timing is different for everyone. My approach pulls from many different modalities including: Dialectical Behaviour Therapy, Narrative Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Observed & Experiential Integration. The approach we use in session will be talked through and led by your situation, your style, preferences and your strengths in combination with my expertise. Reach out for your free, initial 15 minute call today so that we can determine if a good fit is there to build on.
(289) 278-8661 View (289) 278-8661
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Jas Hundal
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, RCC, RCSW, MSW, BSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Abbotsford, BC V2S
I remember my first experience with a counselor…at first, I was overwhelmed, anxious, and a bit apprehensive. As I shared my story, my skepticism decreased and I was comforted by the thought that I was in control of my life. There are many challenges that can get in the way of healthy relationships with others and our own self, but you don't have to face these issues alone. I believe that a counselor is a guide in a clients journey of healing and self-awareness. My practice is rooted in a holistic approach and I utilize techniques that integrate physical, mental, social, emotional and spiritual health. I speak Punjabi & English.
I remember my first experience with a counselor…at first, I was overwhelmed, anxious, and a bit apprehensive. As I shared my story, my skepticism decreased and I was comforted by the thought that I was in control of my life. There are many challenges that can get in the way of healthy relationships with others and our own self, but you don't have to face these issues alone. I believe that a counselor is a guide in a clients journey of healing and self-awareness. My practice is rooted in a holistic approach and I utilize techniques that integrate physical, mental, social, emotional and spiritual health. I speak Punjabi & English.
(778) 767-2189 View (778) 767-2189
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Inicio Counselling.....Inspired New Beginnings
Registered Therapeutic Counsellor Candidate, RTC-c
Verified Verified
Abbotsford, BC V2S
Maybe your feeling lost, not sure who you are anymore. Starting over, empty nester, getting divorced, not nice to yourself when you make a mistake, you worry about everything. You compare yourself; you have been called a people-pleaser. You'd like to put yourself higher on your priority list, but that feels really uncomfortable. Is there something missing in your relationship like trust, intimacy or good communication? Do the same problems and arguments keep coming up? Has there been a betrayal or an affair? Do you struggle to communicate, ask for what you need and accept help from others?
Maybe your feeling lost, not sure who you are anymore. Starting over, empty nester, getting divorced, not nice to yourself when you make a mistake, you worry about everything. You compare yourself; you have been called a people-pleaser. You'd like to put yourself higher on your priority list, but that feels really uncomfortable. Is there something missing in your relationship like trust, intimacy or good communication? Do the same problems and arguments keep coming up? Has there been a betrayal or an affair? Do you struggle to communicate, ask for what you need and accept help from others?
(236) 904-0431 View (236) 904-0431

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Marriage Counselling

How does marriage counseling work?

Marriage counseling works by teaching couples concrete skills to communicate with one another and solve disagreements in healthy ways. A trained mental health professional works with both members of a couple to explore difficulties the couple may be having and helps them develop skills to address these matters. Couples who don’t have any difficulties but want to prepare for marriage may develop skills for the future.

How long does marriage counseling typically last?

Marriage counseling is a short-term form of therapy; the process may last between four and eight sessions. Other forms of relationship guidance from mental health professionals, such as couples therapy, are longer lasting, may focus on the past rather than just the present, and are tailored to the individual couple and their emotions, history, and patterns in the relationship. Couples therapy often lasts for 12 weeks or longer.

Is marriage counseling effective?

Marriage counseling helps many couples develop relationship skills that may not have been acquired or tested in a relationship; partners may be better able to communicate and address conflict following counseling. However, there are many different forms of marriage counseling, and this form of counseling does not have as strong an evidence base as other modalities such as couples therapy.

Is marriage counseling effective if only one partner wants to go?

Yes, marriage counseling can still be effective if one partner convinces the other to engage in the process. Of course, whether counseling is effective depends on the couple’s commitment to work on their relationship; however, the short-term, skills-based nature of marriage counseling makes it a relatively easy “ask” of a partner, and the hesitant individual may see its value once counseling begins.