Therapists in Abbotsford, BC
I've been in practice for clinical counselling since 2010. Over the course of time, I have adopted a practical and evidence-based approach to clinical counselling. Some of my areas of expertise are anxiety, depression, inter-personal relationships, family of origin challenges, career/work and trauma. I have years of additional training under my belt but I've found that it comes down to the relationship between the counsellor and the client. In this case, it's what you know AND who you want in your corner. I enjoy working with a variety of clients, and most especially those who are ready to do the work to get the life the want!
I've been in practice for clinical counselling since 2010. Over the course of time, I have adopted a practical and evidence-based approach to clinical counselling. Some of my areas of expertise are anxiety, depression, inter-personal relationships, family of origin challenges, career/work and trauma. I have years of additional training under my belt but I've found that it comes down to the relationship between the counsellor and the client. In this case, it's what you know AND who you want in your corner. I enjoy working with a variety of clients, and most especially those who are ready to do the work to get the life the want!
I am a therapist who goes to therapy. Therapy has been instrumental in helping me through the most challenging times in my life. The beauty of this work is that I get to walk alongside folks who are seeking insight, meaning, healing, and looking for new ways to walk through old (or repetitive) problems. In my experience it's so helpful to have someone safe, unbiased, and open to take that journey with. This work is a privilege. I have personal experience working with addiction, the criminal justice system, inner child work, depression and anxiety, trauma, and body image issues and disordered eating.
I am a therapist who goes to therapy. Therapy has been instrumental in helping me through the most challenging times in my life. The beauty of this work is that I get to walk alongside folks who are seeking insight, meaning, healing, and looking for new ways to walk through old (or repetitive) problems. In my experience it's so helpful to have someone safe, unbiased, and open to take that journey with. This work is a privilege. I have personal experience working with addiction, the criminal justice system, inner child work, depression and anxiety, trauma, and body image issues and disordered eating.
I offer counselling in Punjabi and English. I am currently only offering virtual and phone-based counselling. I have experience working with adults and youth (ages 12-18) from a wide range of cultures. Through my experience of working in the social services field for a decade, I have found that counselling is a collaborative journey. Together, we will aim to develop insight and understanding on how to overcome the challenges you are facing. As a counsellor, my job is to tailor the experience to match your needs. I like to use my various interests, such as music, TV shows, video games and more, to help build a relationship.
I offer counselling in Punjabi and English. I am currently only offering virtual and phone-based counselling. I have experience working with adults and youth (ages 12-18) from a wide range of cultures. Through my experience of working in the social services field for a decade, I have found that counselling is a collaborative journey. Together, we will aim to develop insight and understanding on how to overcome the challenges you are facing. As a counsellor, my job is to tailor the experience to match your needs. I like to use my various interests, such as music, TV shows, video games and more, to help build a relationship.
You may be experiencing a range of emotions as you think of going to counselling. You may be fearful or simply relieved. Whatever your experience is, know that you are courageous. Know that it is my purpose to meet you wherever you are at and work together with you in a way that is meaningful, helpful, and healing. Because all of us are unique, it is important for me to work with each client based on their personal needs. I want to tailor counselling to suit you. However, I do draw from a variety of counselling approaches and tools. Some of these include EFT, Person-Centered Therapy, CBT, and Narrative Therapy.
You may be experiencing a range of emotions as you think of going to counselling. You may be fearful or simply relieved. Whatever your experience is, know that you are courageous. Know that it is my purpose to meet you wherever you are at and work together with you in a way that is meaningful, helpful, and healing. Because all of us are unique, it is important for me to work with each client based on their personal needs. I want to tailor counselling to suit you. However, I do draw from a variety of counselling approaches and tools. Some of these include EFT, Person-Centered Therapy, CBT, and Narrative Therapy.
My name is Carrie Lidstone, I am a mom, memaw and wife. I am a queer woman, a generative disrupter, a radical dreamer, and a cultivator of conversations. I co-host the Not so Secret Trauma podcast. I believe in the importance of understanding the language we are using. You are the expert of your story, I am the learner. Together we can navigate through the sticky places in your path, build systems and strategies that will empower you to move forward with confidence.
My name is Carrie Lidstone, I am a mom, memaw and wife. I am a queer woman, a generative disrupter, a radical dreamer, and a cultivator of conversations. I co-host the Not so Secret Trauma podcast. I believe in the importance of understanding the language we are using. You are the expert of your story, I am the learner. Together we can navigate through the sticky places in your path, build systems and strategies that will empower you to move forward with confidence.
I am interested in helping individuals and couples to set and achieve goals that can assist them to make changes in their lives. Change can be a difficult process, but also one that can be very rewarding and fulfilling. Whether you are suffering from depression, relationship problems, grief, anxiety, trauma, stress, or emotional/behavioural issues, talking about your difficulties in an atmosphere of safety and encouragement can help. I want to encourage meaning and purpose in your life while being sensitive to your religious or cultural orientation.
I am interested in helping individuals and couples to set and achieve goals that can assist them to make changes in their lives. Change can be a difficult process, but also one that can be very rewarding and fulfilling. Whether you are suffering from depression, relationship problems, grief, anxiety, trauma, stress, or emotional/behavioural issues, talking about your difficulties in an atmosphere of safety and encouragement can help. I want to encourage meaning and purpose in your life while being sensitive to your religious or cultural orientation.
I am graduate student in Counselling Psychology at Yorkville University and an Inclusive Support Teacher with over 25 years of experience in education. I bring expertise in inclusive learning, behavioural intervention, and family school collaboration. My integrative counselling approach draws from family systems, trauma informed, and culturally responsive frameworks. I supports adults, parents, and couples navigating stress, life transitions, and relationship challenges. Grounded in Filipino and Canadian perspectives, I offer a warm, nonjudgmental space that fosters insight and resilience.
I am graduate student in Counselling Psychology at Yorkville University and an Inclusive Support Teacher with over 25 years of experience in education. I bring expertise in inclusive learning, behavioural intervention, and family school collaboration. My integrative counselling approach draws from family systems, trauma informed, and culturally responsive frameworks. I supports adults, parents, and couples navigating stress, life transitions, and relationship challenges. Grounded in Filipino and Canadian perspectives, I offer a warm, nonjudgmental space that fosters insight and resilience.
I work with children, teens, and families who feel overwhelmed, anxious, or exhausted by the demands of daily life. I support individuals who are seeking more peace, balance, and emotional well-being, and families who want to feel more connected, understood, and supported. Together, we create space for healing, resilience, and meaningful change.
I work with children, teens, and families who feel overwhelmed, anxious, or exhausted by the demands of daily life. I support individuals who are seeking more peace, balance, and emotional well-being, and families who want to feel more connected, understood, and supported. Together, we create space for healing, resilience, and meaningful change.
I believe that every individual deserves a safe, supportive, and non-judgmental space to explore their thoughts and emotions. Whether you are feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, navigating life’s transitions, working through relationship challenges, or simply seeking personal growth, my goal is to help you feel heard, understood, and empowered.
I believe that every individual deserves a safe, supportive, and non-judgmental space to explore their thoughts and emotions. Whether you are feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, navigating life’s transitions, working through relationship challenges, or simply seeking personal growth, my goal is to help you feel heard, understood, and empowered.
I enjoy working with adults and youth as they move from a place of surviving to a place of thriving. Freedom is one of my overarching goals for my clients: freedom from shame, anxiety, depression, and anything else holding them back from experiencing life to the full. These struggles are often symptoms we experience as a result of the hard places we have been and the ways we learned to cope with these hard experiences. I love being a part of this work of liberation.
I enjoy working with adults and youth as they move from a place of surviving to a place of thriving. Freedom is one of my overarching goals for my clients: freedom from shame, anxiety, depression, and anything else holding them back from experiencing life to the full. These struggles are often symptoms we experience as a result of the hard places we have been and the ways we learned to cope with these hard experiences. I love being a part of this work of liberation.
You’ve tried pushing through. You’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, tried to handle it differently, or maybe even bury the past — but it feels like nothing’s changing. Maybe you’re an adult holding it all together on the outside, while inside, you feel like you’re running on empty — burned out, emotionally drained, overwhelmed by perfectionism or chronic pain. Or maybe you're a parent watching your child shut down or spiral, feeling helpless as anxiety, school refusal, or emotional outbursts take over your home. You're not weak or failing. You're exhausted — and understandably so.
You’ve tried pushing through. You’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, tried to handle it differently, or maybe even bury the past — but it feels like nothing’s changing. Maybe you’re an adult holding it all together on the outside, while inside, you feel like you’re running on empty — burned out, emotionally drained, overwhelmed by perfectionism or chronic pain. Or maybe you're a parent watching your child shut down or spiral, feeling helpless as anxiety, school refusal, or emotional outbursts take over your home. You're not weak or failing. You're exhausted — and understandably so.
I enjoy working with all persons; however, I have found that working with men between the ages of 18-65 to be some of my most fulfilling work. From my experience, many men struggle in silence with their mental health and often find it difficult to discuss what is bothering them. I aim to help these men open up the doors to their experiences and help navigate with them the inner workings of what is distressing. When we have built a safe connection vulnerable sharing can begin. It beings me tremendous joy to watch the transformation of my client when they begin to accept themselves for who they are!
I enjoy working with all persons; however, I have found that working with men between the ages of 18-65 to be some of my most fulfilling work. From my experience, many men struggle in silence with their mental health and often find it difficult to discuss what is bothering them. I aim to help these men open up the doors to their experiences and help navigate with them the inner workings of what is distressing. When we have built a safe connection vulnerable sharing can begin. It beings me tremendous joy to watch the transformation of my client when they begin to accept themselves for who they are!
Sometimes we realize a degree of feeling 'stuck' that we want help with and other times it's a feeling of overwhelm or we're at our breaking point; the timing is different for everyone. My approach pulls from many different modalities including: Dialectical Behaviour Therapy, Narrative Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Observed & Experiential Integration. The approach we use in session will be talked through and led by your situation, your style, preferences and your strengths in combination with my expertise. Reach out for your free, initial 15 minute call today so that we can determine if a good fit is there to build on.
Sometimes we realize a degree of feeling 'stuck' that we want help with and other times it's a feeling of overwhelm or we're at our breaking point; the timing is different for everyone. My approach pulls from many different modalities including: Dialectical Behaviour Therapy, Narrative Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Observed & Experiential Integration. The approach we use in session will be talked through and led by your situation, your style, preferences and your strengths in combination with my expertise. Reach out for your free, initial 15 minute call today so that we can determine if a good fit is there to build on.
In my practice, I work with individuals experiencing anxiety, OCD, and depression who feel stuck in unhelpful patterns of thinking and behavior. They may struggle with overwhelming thoughts, avoidance, or feelings of isolation. My goal is to provide tools, support, and a safe space for exploring these challenges. Together, we work to build resilience, develop healthier thought patterns, and create meaningful, value-driven change to help clients feel more empowered and connected in their lives.
For caregivers, I offer Emotion-Focused Family Therapy specifically tailored to caring for individuals with OCD.
In my practice, I work with individuals experiencing anxiety, OCD, and depression who feel stuck in unhelpful patterns of thinking and behavior. They may struggle with overwhelming thoughts, avoidance, or feelings of isolation. My goal is to provide tools, support, and a safe space for exploring these challenges. Together, we work to build resilience, develop healthier thought patterns, and create meaningful, value-driven change to help clients feel more empowered and connected in their lives.
For caregivers, I offer Emotion-Focused Family Therapy specifically tailored to caring for individuals with OCD.
My family history is one of resilience, ethnically Teochew Chinese, my parents were displaced by civil conflict in Vietnam and came to Canada as refugees. I understand the challenges of building a new life while striving to honour the past. My counselling approach integrates emotional, physiological, and social pathways to support lasting positive change.
My family history is one of resilience, ethnically Teochew Chinese, my parents were displaced by civil conflict in Vietnam and came to Canada as refugees. I understand the challenges of building a new life while striving to honour the past. My counselling approach integrates emotional, physiological, and social pathways to support lasting positive change.
At times, we all wonder if our present day realities are aligned with our intended paths. Was it the right time? The right job? The right relationship? Is this as good as it gets? Am I happy? Am I fulfilled? If you experience anxiety, depression, confusion or simply feel alone, counselling can offer opportunities for a deeper sense of connection to yourself, your relationships and your life. I am here to walk alongside of you, to listen to your goals, desires and needs. Whether it is sharing long kept secrets, traumas or personal revelations I am here to connect with you.
At times, we all wonder if our present day realities are aligned with our intended paths. Was it the right time? The right job? The right relationship? Is this as good as it gets? Am I happy? Am I fulfilled? If you experience anxiety, depression, confusion or simply feel alone, counselling can offer opportunities for a deeper sense of connection to yourself, your relationships and your life. I am here to walk alongside of you, to listen to your goals, desires and needs. Whether it is sharing long kept secrets, traumas or personal revelations I am here to connect with you.
An innate desire to help and understand others, as well as several pivotal points throughout my personal life have led me to pursue a profession in psychotherapy and counselling. I am passionate about supporting individuals wherever they are in their respective journeys. I am dedicated to helping facilitate healthier lives for individuals and families within our community. My professional experience comprises work with couples, adults, teens & children.
An innate desire to help and understand others, as well as several pivotal points throughout my personal life have led me to pursue a profession in psychotherapy and counselling. I am passionate about supporting individuals wherever they are in their respective journeys. I am dedicated to helping facilitate healthier lives for individuals and families within our community. My professional experience comprises work with couples, adults, teens & children.
Each of us hold the answers and the strength needed to navigate even the most difficult circumstances. Still, we may benefit from support in uncovering this inner strength and the solutions within it. I work with adults, youth and families to address traumas still held in the body/mind, anxiety, depression, self-discovery and relationships. My passion is working with families. I focus on the power of emotion and attachment and their role in the well being of families and the emotional development of children. My goal will be to support you in building healthier relationships that can survive difficult experiences in the future.
Each of us hold the answers and the strength needed to navigate even the most difficult circumstances. Still, we may benefit from support in uncovering this inner strength and the solutions within it. I work with adults, youth and families to address traumas still held in the body/mind, anxiety, depression, self-discovery and relationships. My passion is working with families. I focus on the power of emotion and attachment and their role in the well being of families and the emotional development of children. My goal will be to support you in building healthier relationships that can survive difficult experiences in the future.
As a social worker and counsellor for many years I have walked with people as they have journeyed through grief and loss, processed trauma, and learned to think differently about anxiety and depression. If you are interested in making a change in your life or working through challenging past events, please reach out.
As a social worker and counsellor for many years I have walked with people as they have journeyed through grief and loss, processed trauma, and learned to think differently about anxiety and depression. If you are interested in making a change in your life or working through challenging past events, please reach out.
There’s a reason you feel the way you do. The mind and body remember what the conscious self often tries to forget. Reactions that seem “too much,” patterns that feel stuck, emotions that come out of nowhere—they’re not flaws. They’re signals. They’re the language of your nervous system, shaped by experiences that may never have been processed. Healing begins with curiosity, not judgment. When we understand the logic behind our pain, we begin to loosen its grip and reclaim our ability to choose how we move forward.
There’s a reason you feel the way you do. The mind and body remember what the conscious self often tries to forget. Reactions that seem “too much,” patterns that feel stuck, emotions that come out of nowhere—they’re not flaws. They’re signals. They’re the language of your nervous system, shaped by experiences that may never have been processed. Healing begins with curiosity, not judgment. When we understand the logic behind our pain, we begin to loosen its grip and reclaim our ability to choose how we move forward.
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Number of Counsellors in Abbotsford, BC
200+
Average cost per session
$150
Counsellors in Abbotsford, BC who prioritize treating:
| 92% | Anxiety |
| 87% | Depression |
| 79% | Self Esteem |
| 78% | Relationship Issues |
| 77% | Stress |
| 75% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 72% | Grief |
Average years in practice
7 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 53% | Pacific Blue Cross |
| 52% | Green Shield Canada |
| 52% | CVAP | Crime Victim |
How Counsellors in Abbotsford, BC see their clients
| 83% | In Person and Online | |
| 17% | Online Only |
Gender breakdown
| 79% | Female | |
| 20% | Male | |
| 1% | Non-Binary |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counselling
How can I find a therapist in Abbotsford?
Search for nearby therapists or counsellors by inputting your city, postal code, or a provider’s name into the search bar. From there, you can filter providers by the issues they treat, cost, insurance, gender, and other factors to find providers who are well-suited to your needs. To navigate between locations within the same country, enter a new city or postal code into the search bar.
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
Most Counsellors and Psychotherapists listed in the directory are certified by one of the main professional associations, mainly the Canadian Counselling and Psychotherapy Association (CCPA), and will have a Certified Canadian Counsellor (CCC) designation with their name. Social Workers listed in the directory must be registered members of the college specific to their province. To be listed in the directory, Psychologists must be registered with the psychological college specific to their province or territory.
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given the considerable variation in professional regulation and prerequisites across Canadian provinces, some providers may possess significant professional qualifications without necessarily holding professional memberships or being obliged to acquire them. As a result, they may be selectively included without the "Verified" seal.
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given the considerable variation in professional regulation and prerequisites across Canadian provinces, some providers may possess significant professional qualifications without necessarily holding professional memberships or being obliged to acquire them. As a result, they may be selectively included without the "Verified" seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counsellor?
Psychologists, counsellors, psychotherapists and social workers can all provide counselling or talking therapy and have credentials and supervised, practical experience that enable them to do so in Canada.
Psychologists have a master's and/or doctoral degree and have passed both written and oral exams. Psychologists are able to complete mental health assessments and provide diagnostic information to clients as well as provide counselling therapy or psychotherapy. Counsellors and psychotherapists are expected to have a master's or doctoral degree in counselling psychology, social work, or a related mental health discipline and certification by a professional association, such as the Canadian Counselling and Psychotherapy Association. Registered Social Workers possess a Bachelor's or Master's degree in Social Work and where possible must be licensed or certified by the provincial government and/or regulatory college.
Psychologists have a master's and/or doctoral degree and have passed both written and oral exams. Psychologists are able to complete mental health assessments and provide diagnostic information to clients as well as provide counselling therapy or psychotherapy. Counsellors and psychotherapists are expected to have a master's or doctoral degree in counselling psychology, social work, or a related mental health discipline and certification by a professional association, such as the Canadian Counselling and Psychotherapy Association. Registered Social Workers possess a Bachelor's or Master's degree in Social Work and where possible must be licensed or certified by the provincial government and/or regulatory college.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, the cost of a therapy session in Canada could be between $100 and $200. If you have insurance, the expense of mental health care is typically lower, but it varies based on your insurance plan details and whether you choose an in-network or out-of-network mental healthcare provider.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. Some types of outpatient mental health services are covered by Medicare, provided these are performed by a licensed mental health professional in the provinces or territory you reside in and who accepts the assignment.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. Some types of outpatient mental health services are covered by Medicare, provided these are performed by a licensed mental health professional in the provinces or territory you reside in and who accepts the assignment.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your postal code.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Professionals licensed by regulatory colleges and those certified by associations such as the Canadian Counselling and Psychotherapy Association are obligated to uphold client confidentiality unless there is a legal reason that requires them to disclose information. Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship and only under specific circumstances, such as when there is the potential or known harm to the client or others, or a court order, will a therapist be obligated to break the agreement. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed during the initial consultation.

