Sex Therapists in Calgary, AB
Kehinde Ekpudu
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T3R
I utilize solution focused, strength-based, sex-positive and trauma focused approaches.
Life is messy, complicated and we do not always have the answers to 'fix' problems or issues . However, we have the ability to overcome, survive, process and become a better individual, partner and family member. It is the process that enable us develop the skills, values and the strength to go on with life. Our stories past, present and future are all relevant to who we are and who we want to become! I am equipped to support you in attaining these tools/skills through active listening, maintaining a non-judgemental stance and having a respectful dialogue.
I utilize solution focused, strength-based, sex-positive and trauma focused approaches.
Life is messy, complicated and we do not always have the answers to 'fix' problems or issues . However, we have the ability to overcome, survive, process and become a better individual, partner and family member. It is the process that enable us develop the skills, values and the strength to go on with life. Our stories past, present and future are all relevant to who we are and who we want to become! I am equipped to support you in attaining these tools/skills through active listening, maintaining a non-judgemental stance and having a respectful dialogue.
NOT ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS - My passion for psychology comes from my genuine belief that we have the ability to not only overcome significant challenges, but to transform our lives. As a Registered Psychologist, I work with a wide range of topics including relationship challenges (i.e. intimacy, communication, infidelity, separation/divorce, blended family, etc.), trauma, depression, anxiety, life transitions, grief and loss, and wellness. As an AASECT certified Sex Therapist, I am highly trained in working with sexual(ity) concerns, alternative relationship structures (i.e. open relationship, Poly, Kink), and LGBTQ2S+ challenges.
NOT ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS - My passion for psychology comes from my genuine belief that we have the ability to not only overcome significant challenges, but to transform our lives. As a Registered Psychologist, I work with a wide range of topics including relationship challenges (i.e. intimacy, communication, infidelity, separation/divorce, blended family, etc.), trauma, depression, anxiety, life transitions, grief and loss, and wellness. As an AASECT certified Sex Therapist, I am highly trained in working with sexual(ity) concerns, alternative relationship structures (i.e. open relationship, Poly, Kink), and LGBTQ2S+ challenges.
Vanessa McConnell
Psychologist, RPsych, MC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T2R (Online Only)
I have additional training in sex therapy and love to work with people exploring how to have a healthy relationship to sex and sexuality.
Finding the right fit with a therapist is one of the most important parts of counselling. I work with you to build safety and comfort in exploring areas of your life you want to change. I am dedicated to helping people find ways of being in the world that are authentic to them and enjoy working with the many different challenges people face and how to navigate through them. I love working with people exploring different paths and looking to challenge the status quos in their lives, including those walking non-conforming paths. I am also passionate about supporting people to work through historical trauma and its present day impact.
I have additional training in sex therapy and love to work with people exploring how to have a healthy relationship to sex and sexuality.
Finding the right fit with a therapist is one of the most important parts of counselling. I work with you to build safety and comfort in exploring areas of your life you want to change. I am dedicated to helping people find ways of being in the world that are authentic to them and enjoy working with the many different challenges people face and how to navigate through them. I love working with people exploring different paths and looking to challenge the status quos in their lives, including those walking non-conforming paths. I am also passionate about supporting people to work through historical trauma and its present day impact.
Gaby (Gabriela) Hennig Registered Provisional Psychologist
Registered Provisional Psychologist, MOC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T2R
I work with clients struggling with anxiety, self-esteem, depression, relationship issues, family of origin issues, sexual violence, trauma, and PTSD.
On maternity leave, back summer/2024. Hello, I’m Gaby and I’m a registered provisional psychologist. I believe that we all have the ability to connect with ourselves, no matter how overwhelming it might be, and to be able to go through all the challenges that life throws at us. I want my clients to feel safe in my presence, and to feel comfortable sharing their stories and concerns.
I work with clients struggling with anxiety, self-esteem, depression, relationship issues, family of origin issues, sexual violence, trauma, and PTSD.
On maternity leave, back summer/2024. Hello, I’m Gaby and I’m a registered provisional psychologist. I believe that we all have the ability to connect with ourselves, no matter how overwhelming it might be, and to be able to go through all the challenges that life throws at us. I want my clients to feel safe in my presence, and to feel comfortable sharing their stories and concerns.
Cristina Sherren
Registered Provisional Psychologist, MA
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T2E
I work with concerns about sex, relationships, identity, anxiety, depression, and trauma.
What are the unique challenges you face that keep you from living your most vibrant and authentic life? My goal is to help you illuminate these barriers and approach them with a refreshed perspective where you can face them authentically with courage and move through the fear that can get us all stuck at times. I climb mountains because demanding experiences test me, light me up, and ground me simultaneously and I bring this perspective to therapy. I want to help guide you into finding a deep sense of calm amidst your own challenges and make space where you can appreciate just how tenacious you can be and create lasting change.
I work with concerns about sex, relationships, identity, anxiety, depression, and trauma.
What are the unique challenges you face that keep you from living your most vibrant and authentic life? My goal is to help you illuminate these barriers and approach them with a refreshed perspective where you can face them authentically with courage and move through the fear that can get us all stuck at times. I climb mountains because demanding experiences test me, light me up, and ground me simultaneously and I bring this perspective to therapy. I want to help guide you into finding a deep sense of calm amidst your own challenges and make space where you can appreciate just how tenacious you can be and create lasting change.
Madelaine Robillard
Registered Social Worker, BSW, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T2N
Waitlist for new clients
Some of the roots that ground my practice are in working from a trauma-informed, trauma-sensitive, body-centered, intersectional, anti-oppressive, and sex positive approach.
Hello! My name is Madelaine, and I have been working in mental health in the areas of domestic abuse, child welfare, Indigenous services, 2SLGBTQI+ identities, gender and sexuality, education, and healthcare. I also work with couples, poly/CNM relationships and with those living with a disability (ADHD, Autism, Fibromyalgia, etc.,) or chronic illness. My primary location is in SE Airdrie (pictures to come!), but can also offer sessions at Innerlogue in Kensington, or at the As Above shop in Killarney. Therapy for sexual and romantic relationships can be offered to singles, couples, CNM partner(s), kink/BDSM relationships.
Some of the roots that ground my practice are in working from a trauma-informed, trauma-sensitive, body-centered, intersectional, anti-oppressive, and sex positive approach.
Hello! My name is Madelaine, and I have been working in mental health in the areas of domestic abuse, child welfare, Indigenous services, 2SLGBTQI+ identities, gender and sexuality, education, and healthcare. I also work with couples, poly/CNM relationships and with those living with a disability (ADHD, Autism, Fibromyalgia, etc.,) or chronic illness. My primary location is in SE Airdrie (pictures to come!), but can also offer sessions at Innerlogue in Kensington, or at the As Above shop in Killarney. Therapy for sexual and romantic relationships can be offered to singles, couples, CNM partner(s), kink/BDSM relationships.
Specialities: Effective and rewarding relationships including the most important relationship - the one with your Self; self care, work-life balance, pleasure and enjoyable sexuality, general wellness.
Welcome! Thanks for stopping by. You may be looking for support managing stress, improving self-care, reaching an important goal, to improve important relationships in your life, or to gain insight on your own behaviours. Seeking that relationship spark again or your own sparkle? Wanting to overcome communication challenges that have left you feeling stuck in the same old arguments. Building trust and attachment? Together, we can identify your unique needs and goals. From a friendly, warm, and supportive stance, we can highlight your existing strengths and build from there. Small, consistent, thoughtful steps can create big changes!
Specialities: Effective and rewarding relationships including the most important relationship - the one with your Self; self care, work-life balance, pleasure and enjoyable sexuality, general wellness.
Welcome! Thanks for stopping by. You may be looking for support managing stress, improving self-care, reaching an important goal, to improve important relationships in your life, or to gain insight on your own behaviours. Seeking that relationship spark again or your own sparkle? Wanting to overcome communication challenges that have left you feeling stuck in the same old arguments. Building trust and attachment? Together, we can identify your unique needs and goals. From a friendly, warm, and supportive stance, we can highlight your existing strengths and build from there. Small, consistent, thoughtful steps can create big changes!
Dr. Jocelyn Monsma Selby
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, MSW RSW, LCSW, CSAT-S, EMDR
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T2R
As a certified Multiple Addiction Therapist and PhD Clinical Sexologist with over 43 years of clinical practice experience I treat individuals & families with a variety of presentations. Specialising in treating compuslive behavior disorders from all drugs to sexual disfunctions & those accessing child sexual exploitation imagery online (CSEM). I also faciliate multidimensional sex specific forensic evaluations. I offer individual & group treatment for addicts, partners & those accessing CSEM. We collaborate to find solutions that will support positive change.
As a certified Multiple Addiction Therapist and PhD Clinical Sexologist with over 43 years of clinical practice experience I treat individuals & families with a variety of presentations. Specialising in treating compuslive behavior disorders from all drugs to sexual disfunctions & those accessing child sexual exploitation imagery online (CSEM). I also faciliate multidimensional sex specific forensic evaluations. I offer individual & group treatment for addicts, partners & those accessing CSEM. We collaborate to find solutions that will support positive change.
I specialize in sex and sexuality, relationship and family concerns, couples' conflicts and communication, chronic pain and disease management, adolescent development, parenting concerns, anxiety treatment, clinical hypnosis, pre/peri/post-natal concerns, family planning, behavioural health interventions, and supervision/training of health professionals.
"Insanity: Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results." - Albert Einstein - As a psychologist, I tend to work with people to focus them on what they can change and control to find successes with their problems. Whether working with couples, families, children, youth, or adults, I'd like to be the guy who listens in a way others may have failed to hear you before. My ideal client is anyone craving new skills, new ways of thinking and feeling, and is ready to learn how to think anew about the things they were once sure of.
I specialize in sex and sexuality, relationship and family concerns, couples' conflicts and communication, chronic pain and disease management, adolescent development, parenting concerns, anxiety treatment, clinical hypnosis, pre/peri/post-natal concerns, family planning, behavioural health interventions, and supervision/training of health professionals.
"Insanity: Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results." - Albert Einstein - As a psychologist, I tend to work with people to focus them on what they can change and control to find successes with their problems. Whether working with couples, families, children, youth, or adults, I'd like to be the guy who listens in a way others may have failed to hear you before. My ideal client is anyone craving new skills, new ways of thinking and feeling, and is ready to learn how to think anew about the things they were once sure of.
Megan Oviatt
Registered Provisional Psychologist, MC, BEd
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T2R
I specialize in sex therapy, men's mental health, and supporting first responders.
Counselling serves a million purposes- each as unique as the client who shows up to session. It doesn’t matter what it is to anyone else. What matters to me is what you need it to be for you. As your counsellor, I am here to support you in figuring out what you want and how to get it. The work we do together is only meaningful if it translates into your every day experiences. I will help and encourage you as you gain clarity into who you are and what needs to change for you to have a life you don’t want to escape from.
I specialize in sex therapy, men's mental health, and supporting first responders.
Counselling serves a million purposes- each as unique as the client who shows up to session. It doesn’t matter what it is to anyone else. What matters to me is what you need it to be for you. As your counsellor, I am here to support you in figuring out what you want and how to get it. The work we do together is only meaningful if it translates into your every day experiences. I will help and encourage you as you gain clarity into who you are and what needs to change for you to have a life you don’t want to escape from.
I am a sex and intimacy expert with over 15 years of specialty in relationships and sexuality.
Your relationship is great but you struggle in the bedroom. You (or your partner) have no desire anymore. When you do try it, it’s awkward and unfulfilling. Maybe you experience pain, or feel disconnected. You don’t know how to talk about it, and when you try it turns into a fight or disappointment. You are good friends (and parents) but you feel more like roommates than lovers. You can't remember the last time sex was easy and fun. Or maybe it's the other way around, sex is great, but you can't stop fighting. Or maybe it's both. I'd love to help. I love working with couples who feel they are stuck. Let's get you unstuck.
I am a sex and intimacy expert with over 15 years of specialty in relationships and sexuality.
Your relationship is great but you struggle in the bedroom. You (or your partner) have no desire anymore. When you do try it, it’s awkward and unfulfilling. Maybe you experience pain, or feel disconnected. You don’t know how to talk about it, and when you try it turns into a fight or disappointment. You are good friends (and parents) but you feel more like roommates than lovers. You can't remember the last time sex was easy and fun. Or maybe it's the other way around, sex is great, but you can't stop fighting. Or maybe it's both. I'd love to help. I love working with couples who feel they are stuck. Let's get you unstuck.
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Psychologist, MA, RPsych
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T2N
Have you been experiencing seemingly uncontrollable compulsions and urges to engage in behaviors you know you may regret later? At its core, addiction is defined as continuing doing something despite seeing clearly negative consequences of your behaviors. You feel as if something prevents you from taking decisive actions that are based on your values. I have successfully helped people suffering from sex addictions, alcohol addiction and drug addiction. I believe that you deserve a better life where you regulate your emotions and urges and not the other way around.
Have you been experiencing seemingly uncontrollable compulsions and urges to engage in behaviors you know you may regret later? At its core, addiction is defined as continuing doing something despite seeing clearly negative consequences of your behaviors. You feel as if something prevents you from taking decisive actions that are based on your values. I have successfully helped people suffering from sex addictions, alcohol addiction and drug addiction. I believe that you deserve a better life where you regulate your emotions and urges and not the other way around.
I am also an expert in sexuality and relationship concerns.
I am here to help. I embrace the "4C's" of my profession, an acronym that stands for caring, compassionate, competent, and well connected. You deserve the best, and that is all I offer. My ideal client is someone serious about improving, growing, and overcoming (or least better managing) whatever it is you need help with now. Please note that I live in Calgary and I offer live in-person sessions here, but I do see clients across Alberta via high-quality video software. BOOK APPOINTMENT: Click icon called "Website" on left side. My 83-second promotional video is at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-vOKqotpeaM
I am also an expert in sexuality and relationship concerns.
I am here to help. I embrace the "4C's" of my profession, an acronym that stands for caring, compassionate, competent, and well connected. You deserve the best, and that is all I offer. My ideal client is someone serious about improving, growing, and overcoming (or least better managing) whatever it is you need help with now. Please note that I live in Calgary and I offer live in-person sessions here, but I do see clients across Alberta via high-quality video software. BOOK APPOINTMENT: Click icon called "Website" on left side. My 83-second promotional video is at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-vOKqotpeaM
My particular areas of specialty include: couples and relationship issues, infidelity, sex and sexuality, intimacy, and sexual orientation.
Are you ready to make lasting change within your life? I believe that everyone is deserving of and able to live the best possible life that they can imagine. If you are searching for greater happiness and control within your life, if you are looking to take steps to live your best possible life, please start a conversation with me. I am committed to working with you creatively and compassionately, to understand you, your concerns, and your goals. I can help you to achieve your most vivid dreams and goals for yourself.
My particular areas of specialty include: couples and relationship issues, infidelity, sex and sexuality, intimacy, and sexual orientation.
Are you ready to make lasting change within your life? I believe that everyone is deserving of and able to live the best possible life that they can imagine. If you are searching for greater happiness and control within your life, if you are looking to take steps to live your best possible life, please start a conversation with me. I am committed to working with you creatively and compassionately, to understand you, your concerns, and your goals. I can help you to achieve your most vivid dreams and goals for yourself.
Lauren's focuses on sexuality.
Walker Psychological offers specialized services in sexuality, relationships, trauma, anxiety and body image. Chelsea Anderson, an associate at Walker Psych, is now offering 1:1 therapy in person and online. We offer evidence-based treatments and use a relaxed and affirming approach to therapy, catered to your goals. Dr. Lauren has a waitlist for individual or couples sexuality-based referrals, but is accepting new clients for sexuality workshops, and group-based mindfulness therapy for women with sexual concerns.
Lauren's focuses on sexuality.
Walker Psychological offers specialized services in sexuality, relationships, trauma, anxiety and body image. Chelsea Anderson, an associate at Walker Psych, is now offering 1:1 therapy in person and online. We offer evidence-based treatments and use a relaxed and affirming approach to therapy, catered to your goals. Dr. Lauren has a waitlist for individual or couples sexuality-based referrals, but is accepting new clients for sexuality workshops, and group-based mindfulness therapy for women with sexual concerns.
But that doesn’t mean sex, loss, and anger are not part of the mix.
Hi, I’m Gio (they/them), and if you're reading this I'm assuming you're looking for a therapist. I hate to break it to you, but the "perfect" therapist doesn't exist. However, we could build a therapeutic relationship together that is the perfect solution to the reasons you're looking for a therapist. You might be feeling anxious, depressed, or scared - but you're also feeling ready for change. Try a free consultation with me and let's see if we'd make a good team to tackle some of those worries together.
But that doesn’t mean sex, loss, and anger are not part of the mix.
Hi, I’m Gio (they/them), and if you're reading this I'm assuming you're looking for a therapist. I hate to break it to you, but the "perfect" therapist doesn't exist. However, we could build a therapeutic relationship together that is the perfect solution to the reasons you're looking for a therapist. You might be feeling anxious, depressed, or scared - but you're also feeling ready for change. Try a free consultation with me and let's see if we'd make a good team to tackle some of those worries together.
Mary-Jean Malyszka - Clinical Sex Therapist
Psychologist, MA, RPsych, DAACS
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T2T
With a specialization in clinical sex therapy and sex addiction, I work with people on challenges surrounding sexual intimacy, increasing sexual desire and function, sexual compulsivity, exploring sexual lifestyles, infertility support, and gender identity.
Please note, as of September 15, 2023 I have moved to Suite 502, 933 17th Ave. S.W., Calgary AB T2T 5R6. Relationships have different seasons and cycles. Challenges can arise however when great sex (or any intimacy at all) is a distant memory, communication becomes stuck, and a feeling of closeness is longed for again. These are all signs that a different approach is needed to end the frustration and created a renewed aliveness. The desire for intimacy, to feel connected, and to matter are key aspects of who we are as human beings.
With a specialization in clinical sex therapy and sex addiction, I work with people on challenges surrounding sexual intimacy, increasing sexual desire and function, sexual compulsivity, exploring sexual lifestyles, infertility support, and gender identity.
Please note, as of September 15, 2023 I have moved to Suite 502, 933 17th Ave. S.W., Calgary AB T2T 5R6. Relationships have different seasons and cycles. Challenges can arise however when great sex (or any intimacy at all) is a distant memory, communication becomes stuck, and a feeling of closeness is longed for again. These are all signs that a different approach is needed to end the frustration and created a renewed aliveness. The desire for intimacy, to feel connected, and to matter are key aspects of who we are as human beings.
Going to therapy can feel vulnerable; especially when exploring sexuality and your relationship with body and pleasure.
I am an experienced counselling therapist and sexuality educator who is passionate about helping people feel empowered to enjoy pleasure, their bodies and sexuality. I believe that connecting to ourselves through sensual pleasure can enhance our overall well-being and build confidence and comfort in ourselves. My skills and expertise lie in working with women, non-binary, and trans folks who want to explore and improve their relationship with their body, pleasure, and sexuality. I also offer pregnancy options and abortion support.
Going to therapy can feel vulnerable; especially when exploring sexuality and your relationship with body and pleasure.
I am an experienced counselling therapist and sexuality educator who is passionate about helping people feel empowered to enjoy pleasure, their bodies and sexuality. I believe that connecting to ourselves through sensual pleasure can enhance our overall well-being and build confidence and comfort in ourselves. My skills and expertise lie in working with women, non-binary, and trans folks who want to explore and improve their relationship with their body, pleasure, and sexuality. I also offer pregnancy options and abortion support.
As a registered psychologist and sex therapist, I offer individual and couple’s therapy in a non-judgemental environment that is LGBTQ and polyamory/LS Lifestyle/kink affirming, with a focus on healthy relationships and freedom in sexual expression.
Relationships, intimacy, and sexual expression are key to our existence as humans. We thrive on connection. Often from our earliest connections, we learn patterns and coping mechanisms for survival that can get in the way of presence with ourselves and with others and how we want to express ourselves in this world. Learn to communicate in ways that get your needs and wants met. Set boundaries and limits to create peace in your relationships. Work through issues to find the emotional connection, sexual intimacy, and expression that you desire. Release sexual/body/pleasure shame to express yourself fully in this world.
As a registered psychologist and sex therapist, I offer individual and couple’s therapy in a non-judgemental environment that is LGBTQ and polyamory/LS Lifestyle/kink affirming, with a focus on healthy relationships and freedom in sexual expression.
Relationships, intimacy, and sexual expression are key to our existence as humans. We thrive on connection. Often from our earliest connections, we learn patterns and coping mechanisms for survival that can get in the way of presence with ourselves and with others and how we want to express ourselves in this world. Learn to communicate in ways that get your needs and wants met. Set boundaries and limits to create peace in your relationships. Work through issues to find the emotional connection, sexual intimacy, and expression that you desire. Release sexual/body/pleasure shame to express yourself fully in this world.
Kara-Leah Gonty
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, MEd, RSW, CCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T3G
My goal is to create an expansive space dedicated to offering compassionate, ethical, queer-inclusive individual, couples and sex therapy.
My areas of interest include supporting clients when navigating the challenges of relationships, sexuality, family, separation, and divorce. Specifically, I have a strong interest in sexual expansion and empowerment, affirming sexual expression, identity, and orientation, increasing intimacy, trust and sexual satisfaction through communication and exploration.
My goal is to create an expansive space dedicated to offering compassionate, ethical, queer-inclusive individual, couples and sex therapy.
My areas of interest include supporting clients when navigating the challenges of relationships, sexuality, family, separation, and divorce. Specifically, I have a strong interest in sexual expansion and empowerment, affirming sexual expression, identity, and orientation, increasing intimacy, trust and sexual satisfaction through communication and exploration.
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Who is sex therapy for?
Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.
Why do people need sex therapy?
Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.
What happens in sex therapy?
People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.
What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?
Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.