Sex Therapists in Calgary, AB
I work with clients to strengthen emotional connection and intimacy, navigate relational dynamics, identity, sexuality, and recognize the changes that often come with growth and life transitions.
My approach is sex-positive, trauma-informed, and rooted in curiosity. I view people as relational beings, wired for connection. My work is grounded in attachment theory and explores how you connect with yourself and others, how you seek closeness and safety, and how fears of rejection or abandonment may show up in vulnerable or intimate moments.
I work with clients to strengthen emotional connection and intimacy, navigate relational dynamics, identity, sexuality, and recognize the changes that often come with growth and life transitions.
My approach is sex-positive, trauma-informed, and rooted in curiosity. I view people as relational beings, wired for connection. My work is grounded in attachment theory and explores how you connect with yourself and others, how you seek closeness and safety, and how fears of rejection or abandonment may show up in vulnerable or intimate moments.
We often face challenges that feel overwhelming to navigate alone. While seeking professional support can be an important part of healing, asking for help isn't easy, and taking that first step can be just as difficult as the challenges we face. I strive to provide a safe, compassionate, and non-judgmental space where you feel truly heard. I work with adults in individual therapy and welcome clients from diverse cultural, ethnic, spiritual, sexual, and gender identities. My practice is LGBTQIA2S+-affirming and grounded in culturally responsive, collaborative care that honours your unique needs and lived experiences.
We often face challenges that feel overwhelming to navigate alone. While seeking professional support can be an important part of healing, asking for help isn't easy, and taking that first step can be just as difficult as the challenges we face. I strive to provide a safe, compassionate, and non-judgmental space where you feel truly heard. I work with adults in individual therapy and welcome clients from diverse cultural, ethnic, spiritual, sexual, and gender identities. My practice is LGBTQIA2S+-affirming and grounded in culturally responsive, collaborative care that honours your unique needs and lived experiences.
We are each on a journey to live a more embodied life. Whether you are an individual struggling with sexual performance or an athlete recovering from a sports injury, I am passionate about helping my clients become more connected and present in their bodies. It takes a great deal of courage to examine the expectations and roles that no longer serve us. I aim to create spaces to talk about things that might seem too personal, taboo, shameful, trivial, or embarrassing to share with others in your life. Let's have those "awkward conversations"!
We are each on a journey to live a more embodied life. Whether you are an individual struggling with sexual performance or an athlete recovering from a sports injury, I am passionate about helping my clients become more connected and present in their bodies. It takes a great deal of courage to examine the expectations and roles that no longer serve us. I aim to create spaces to talk about things that might seem too personal, taboo, shameful, trivial, or embarrassing to share with others in your life. Let's have those "awkward conversations"!
My approach to therapy is compassionate, collaborative, and grounded in the understanding that growth often comes through adversity. I work with clients to explore the experiences that have shaped them while building on their strengths, resilience, and ability to create meaningful change. Together, we focus on developing insight, fostering emotional well-being, and empowerment to move toward a life that feels authentic and fulfilling.
My approach to therapy is compassionate, collaborative, and grounded in the understanding that growth often comes through adversity. I work with clients to explore the experiences that have shaped them while building on their strengths, resilience, and ability to create meaningful change. Together, we focus on developing insight, fostering emotional well-being, and empowerment to move toward a life that feels authentic and fulfilling.
As a sex therapist who supports queer, kinky, & poly people many of my clients describe themselves as misunderstood.
I support people who want to get curious, gain insight, and make the changes to create something better. Whether it's individual or couples therapy, I'm here to support a wide range of relational dynamics. I have personal experience in many of the areas I specialize in and I have spent 15+ years in the mental health field.
As a sex therapist who supports queer, kinky, & poly people many of my clients describe themselves as misunderstood.
I support people who want to get curious, gain insight, and make the changes to create something better. Whether it's individual or couples therapy, I'm here to support a wide range of relational dynamics. I have personal experience in many of the areas I specialize in and I have spent 15+ years in the mental health field.
I also provide evidence based trauma therapy and sex therapy.
Life can throw us curveballs, and sometimes it helps to navigate these challenges with a mental health professional. I believe therapy is most effective when there is a strong therapeutic relationship and a clear understanding of the factors that underlie a person's concerns. Therefore, I spend time during our initial sessions exploring your personal history, developing a collaborative treatment plan, and helping you get to the root of your concerns.
I also provide evidence based trauma therapy and sex therapy.
Life can throw us curveballs, and sometimes it helps to navigate these challenges with a mental health professional. I believe therapy is most effective when there is a strong therapeutic relationship and a clear understanding of the factors that underlie a person's concerns. Therefore, I spend time during our initial sessions exploring your personal history, developing a collaborative treatment plan, and helping you get to the root of your concerns.
Welcome and thank you for reaching out!
No matter what you are struggling with, it can be that much harder when you feel that you are alone with it. When it comes to sexual difficulty, chronic pain, and the many other losses that go unseen, it can seem like (or perhaps you’ve been told) the only choice is to suffer in silence. I am here to help you see the many other options available, and to move towards those that best suit you! Know that by being here and reading this, you have already taken the first steps.
Welcome and thank you for reaching out!
No matter what you are struggling with, it can be that much harder when you feel that you are alone with it. When it comes to sexual difficulty, chronic pain, and the many other losses that go unseen, it can seem like (or perhaps you’ve been told) the only choice is to suffer in silence. I am here to help you see the many other options available, and to move towards those that best suit you! Know that by being here and reading this, you have already taken the first steps.
I specialize in individuals & couples struggling with trauma, anxiety, depression, stress, sex, intimacy, infidelity, conflict & relationship concerns.
Have you found yourself carrying stressors throughout the day, or find it sneaking into your consciousness at any opportunity? At first it was only a little distressful but manageable, Now, it feels inescapable. You feel trapped, lost, & out of ideas. You feel drained & joy zapped from life. You decide you need to do something about this, it can’t keep going this way. You want a better sense of choice & control within your life, to manifest more joy & peace with who you are, with those in your daily life, & what your future could become. If this sounds like you but you don’t know where to begin, let’s start with a conversation.
I specialize in individuals & couples struggling with trauma, anxiety, depression, stress, sex, intimacy, infidelity, conflict & relationship concerns.
Have you found yourself carrying stressors throughout the day, or find it sneaking into your consciousness at any opportunity? At first it was only a little distressful but manageable, Now, it feels inescapable. You feel trapped, lost, & out of ideas. You feel drained & joy zapped from life. You decide you need to do something about this, it can’t keep going this way. You want a better sense of choice & control within your life, to manifest more joy & peace with who you are, with those in your daily life, & what your future could become. If this sounds like you but you don’t know where to begin, let’s start with a conversation.
I work with teens, adults, and couples navigating trauma, anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, intimacy concerns, sex or porn addiction, desire differences, and emotional disconnection.
If you’re feeling overwhelmed by trauma, anxiety, depression, relationship struggles, intimacy concerns, emotional disconnection, or caregiver burnout, you don’t have to face it alone. You may be seeking healing, clarity, stronger communication, or healthier patterns in your life and relationships. I offer compassionate, trauma-informed therapy for teens, adults, seniors, and couples, drawing on ART, CBT, mindfulness, somatic, and attachment-focused approaches to help you build insight, regulation, resilience, and meaningful change.
I work with teens, adults, and couples navigating trauma, anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, intimacy concerns, sex or porn addiction, desire differences, and emotional disconnection.
If you’re feeling overwhelmed by trauma, anxiety, depression, relationship struggles, intimacy concerns, emotional disconnection, or caregiver burnout, you don’t have to face it alone. You may be seeking healing, clarity, stronger communication, or healthier patterns in your life and relationships. I offer compassionate, trauma-informed therapy for teens, adults, seniors, and couples, drawing on ART, CBT, mindfulness, somatic, and attachment-focused approaches to help you build insight, regulation, resilience, and meaningful change.
I also support clients experiencing distress around their sexuality and/or identity, those undergoing transition, and clients looking to improve their experience of pleasure and healthy sexual relationships.
Hello, I’m Gaby and I’m a Registered Psychologist. I believe that we all have the ability to connect with ourselves, no matter how overwhelming it might be, and to overcome all the challenges that life throws at us. My goal is to create a space where you feel safe and supported, allowing you to comfortably share your story and concerns.
I also support clients experiencing distress around their sexuality and/or identity, those undergoing transition, and clients looking to improve their experience of pleasure and healthy sexual relationships.
Hello, I’m Gaby and I’m a Registered Psychologist. I believe that we all have the ability to connect with ourselves, no matter how overwhelming it might be, and to overcome all the challenges that life throws at us. My goal is to create a space where you feel safe and supported, allowing you to comfortably share your story and concerns.
I primarily draw on my training and experience in Internal Family Systems Therapy (parts work), Hakomi Therapy (mindfulness-based and body-centered), Ancestral Lineage Healing, and Somatic Sex Education.
Welcome to my page! What if it was possible to heal and transform the painful feelings we carry and experience expanded states of compassion, connection, joy, and peace in our lives? This is often a gradual process but one that I experience in my own life and lives of clients regularly. Together we can explore the roots of whatever is currently calling your attention - be it safe emotional expression, self-compassion, healthy relating, embodied sexual and erotic expression, spirituality, and/or racial identity. These roots can span across multiple generations, often inviting us to tune in to our ancestral history.
I primarily draw on my training and experience in Internal Family Systems Therapy (parts work), Hakomi Therapy (mindfulness-based and body-centered), Ancestral Lineage Healing, and Somatic Sex Education.
Welcome to my page! What if it was possible to heal and transform the painful feelings we carry and experience expanded states of compassion, connection, joy, and peace in our lives? This is often a gradual process but one that I experience in my own life and lives of clients regularly. Together we can explore the roots of whatever is currently calling your attention - be it safe emotional expression, self-compassion, healthy relating, embodied sexual and erotic expression, spirituality, and/or racial identity. These roots can span across multiple generations, often inviting us to tune in to our ancestral history.
You want care that’s justice-rooted, trauma-informed, sex-positive, radically affirming, and tailored just for you.
I provide sex therapy and relationship therapy for individuals, couples, and polyamorous / CNM relationships, including sessions with multiple partners. I support 2SLGBTQI folks, the kink/BDSM community, and those navigating neurodiversity, spirituality, or intuitive gifts. My approach is personalized to give you autonomy and help embrace your authenticity.
You want care that’s justice-rooted, trauma-informed, sex-positive, radically affirming, and tailored just for you.
I provide sex therapy and relationship therapy for individuals, couples, and polyamorous / CNM relationships, including sessions with multiple partners. I support 2SLGBTQI folks, the kink/BDSM community, and those navigating neurodiversity, spirituality, or intuitive gifts. My approach is personalized to give you autonomy and help embrace your authenticity.
I specialize in helping individuals and couples navigate identity, loss, sex, and relationships — the deeply personal parts of life that often go unspoken.
Hi, I’m Gio! You're probably here because you're ready for something to change, even if you're not quite sure what that looks like yet. That’s okay. Therapy isn’t about perfection; it’s about connection. And the right therapeutic relationship can be a powerful space for healing, insight, and growth. You might be feeling anxious, overwhelmed, stuck, or grieving. Maybe your relationships feel complicated, or your identity and values are shifting. My goal is to meet you where you are with curiosity, compassion, and collaboration, and help you move toward where you want to be. I offer a free consultation because the connection matters.
I specialize in helping individuals and couples navigate identity, loss, sex, and relationships — the deeply personal parts of life that often go unspoken.
Hi, I’m Gio! You're probably here because you're ready for something to change, even if you're not quite sure what that looks like yet. That’s okay. Therapy isn’t about perfection; it’s about connection. And the right therapeutic relationship can be a powerful space for healing, insight, and growth. You might be feeling anxious, overwhelmed, stuck, or grieving. Maybe your relationships feel complicated, or your identity and values are shifting. My goal is to meet you where you are with curiosity, compassion, and collaboration, and help you move toward where you want to be. I offer a free consultation because the connection matters.
I work with clients who may be struggling with relationships, parenting, sex, and sexuality issues, self-esteem, depression, anxiety, trauma, ADHD, OCD, phobias, grief, and life transitions.
Welcome.
Life can feel overwhelming sometimes, filled with moments that leave us feeling lost or unsure of what to do next. Reaching out for support—especially through therapy—can be a big and brave step, particularly if it’s unfamiliar territory. My goal is to offer you a space where you feel truly seen, heard, and supported. Whether you're beginning your therapeutic journey for the first time or returning because life has brought new challenges, we'll take things one step at a time, always at a pace that feels right for you.
I work with clients who may be struggling with relationships, parenting, sex, and sexuality issues, self-esteem, depression, anxiety, trauma, ADHD, OCD, phobias, grief, and life transitions.
Welcome.
Life can feel overwhelming sometimes, filled with moments that leave us feeling lost or unsure of what to do next. Reaching out for support—especially through therapy—can be a big and brave step, particularly if it’s unfamiliar territory. My goal is to offer you a space where you feel truly seen, heard, and supported. Whether you're beginning your therapeutic journey for the first time or returning because life has brought new challenges, we'll take things one step at a time, always at a pace that feels right for you.
Mountain Air Psychology offers psychological and counselling services for individuals & couples facing concerns regarding trauma, PTSD, BPD, depression, anxiety, stress management, conflict management & emotional regulation (managing emotions & processing), burnout, adrenal fatigue, imposter syndrome, increasing intimacy (emotional and sexual), affairs, betrayals, & missed expectations, desire discrepancies (low/high libido), sexual function, eroticism and sex as we age, life transitions, grief and loss.
Have you found yourself carrying stressors throughout the day, or find it sneaking into your consciousness at any opportunity? At first, it was only a little distressful, but manageable. Now, it feels inescapable. You feel trapped, lost, & out of ideas. You feel drained & joy zapped from life. You have decided you need to do something, you want better.
Mountain Air Psychology offers psychological and counselling services for individuals & couples facing concerns regarding trauma, PTSD, BPD, depression, anxiety, stress management, conflict management & emotional regulation (managing emotions & processing), burnout, adrenal fatigue, imposter syndrome, increasing intimacy (emotional and sexual), affairs, betrayals, & missed expectations, desire discrepancies (low/high libido), sexual function, eroticism and sex as we age, life transitions, grief and loss.
Have you found yourself carrying stressors throughout the day, or find it sneaking into your consciousness at any opportunity? At first, it was only a little distressful, but manageable. Now, it feels inescapable. You feel trapped, lost, & out of ideas. You feel drained & joy zapped from life. You have decided you need to do something, you want better.
Hi! I'm Al, and I am a Psychotherapist, Sexologist and Clinical Counsellor practising in Calgary, Alberta. I have over 20 years of mental health, addictions, crisis and outreach work in a variety of counselling settings. I share my time between my family, my private practice and various volunteer positions in and around the Calgary area.
Hi! I'm Al, and I am a Psychotherapist, Sexologist and Clinical Counsellor practising in Calgary, Alberta. I have over 20 years of mental health, addictions, crisis and outreach work in a variety of counselling settings. I share my time between my family, my private practice and various volunteer positions in and around the Calgary area.
I specialize in couples counselling (communicaton, intimacy, and arguments), sex therapy (concerning arousal, desire, pain, orgasm), discernment counselling (helping couples gain clarity when they are considering divorce; max: 5 sessions), premarital counselling (preparing you for the best set up in marriage), and indiviudal counselling.
Relationships rarely fall apart overnight. Whether you're struggling with communication, trust, emotional connection, recurring conflict, sexual concerns, or wondering if your marriage can survive, seeking help can feel overwhelming—especially when you're unsure what comes next.
I specialize in working with couples and individuals facing relationship challenges. Many of the people I see are navigating difficult questions about commitment, faith, family, and the future of their relationship. Some are looking to strengthen their connection, while others are uncertain whether they should stay together at all.
I specialize in couples counselling (communicaton, intimacy, and arguments), sex therapy (concerning arousal, desire, pain, orgasm), discernment counselling (helping couples gain clarity when they are considering divorce; max: 5 sessions), premarital counselling (preparing you for the best set up in marriage), and indiviudal counselling.
Relationships rarely fall apart overnight. Whether you're struggling with communication, trust, emotional connection, recurring conflict, sexual concerns, or wondering if your marriage can survive, seeking help can feel overwhelming—especially when you're unsure what comes next.
I specialize in working with couples and individuals facing relationship challenges. Many of the people I see are navigating difficult questions about commitment, faith, family, and the future of their relationship. Some are looking to strengthen their connection, while others are uncertain whether they should stay together at all.
Maybe you're stuck in the same arguments, feel more like roommates than lovers, or sex has become awkward, painful, or disappeared altogether.
I specialize in relationships, intimacy, and sexuality, with over 15 years of experience. I help couples communicate better, resolve conflict, rebuild intimacy, navigate desire discrepancy, reconnect after sexless relationships, and feel truly seen, heard, and understood. I also offer premarital counselling and tantra-informed intimacy work.
Maybe you're stuck in the same arguments, feel more like roommates than lovers, or sex has become awkward, painful, or disappeared altogether.
I specialize in relationships, intimacy, and sexuality, with over 15 years of experience. I help couples communicate better, resolve conflict, rebuild intimacy, navigate desire discrepancy, reconnect after sexless relationships, and feel truly seen, heard, and understood. I also offer premarital counselling and tantra-informed intimacy work.
I utilize solution focused, strength-based, sex-positive and trauma focused approaches.
Life is messy, complicated and we do not always have the answers to 'fix' problems or issues . However, we have the ability to overcome, survive, process and become a better individual, partner and family member. It is the process that enable us develop the skills, values and the strength to go on with life. Our stories past, present and future are all relevant to who we are and who we want to become! I am equipped to support you in attaining these tools/skills through active listening, maintaining a non-judgemental stance and having a respectful dialogue.
I utilize solution focused, strength-based, sex-positive and trauma focused approaches.
Life is messy, complicated and we do not always have the answers to 'fix' problems or issues . However, we have the ability to overcome, survive, process and become a better individual, partner and family member. It is the process that enable us develop the skills, values and the strength to go on with life. Our stories past, present and future are all relevant to who we are and who we want to become! I am equipped to support you in attaining these tools/skills through active listening, maintaining a non-judgemental stance and having a respectful dialogue.
Dr. Jocelyn Monsma Selby
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, MSW RSW, LCSW, CSAT-S, EMDR
Calgary, AB T2R
As a Sex therapist I provide a safe, supportive space for individuals and couples to explore sexual concerns, including intimacy challenges, relationship dynamics, communication difficulties, performance anxiety, mismatched libidos, and navigating intimacy after life transitions—supporting overall sexual well‑being.
When life feels emotionally complex, reaching out takes courage. I provide trauma informed, attachment focused therapy for adults, couples, and families healing from trauma, addiction, problematic sexual behaviors involving pornography & the "life style". With 45 years of clinical practice in Calgary and internationally, I integrate evidence-based approaches including EMDR, ART, and Murray Method trauma treatment to support safety, stabilization, and meaningful change. I offer treatment for sexual dysfunctions & forensic assessment when clinically appropriate—helping clients reduce shame, restore safety, and build lasting recovery.
As a Sex therapist I provide a safe, supportive space for individuals and couples to explore sexual concerns, including intimacy challenges, relationship dynamics, communication difficulties, performance anxiety, mismatched libidos, and navigating intimacy after life transitions—supporting overall sexual well‑being.
When life feels emotionally complex, reaching out takes courage. I provide trauma informed, attachment focused therapy for adults, couples, and families healing from trauma, addiction, problematic sexual behaviors involving pornography & the "life style". With 45 years of clinical practice in Calgary and internationally, I integrate evidence-based approaches including EMDR, ART, and Murray Method trauma treatment to support safety, stabilization, and meaningful change. I offer treatment for sexual dysfunctions & forensic assessment when clinically appropriate—helping clients reduce shame, restore safety, and build lasting recovery.
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Who is sex therapy for?
Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.
Why do people need sex therapy?
Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.
What happens in sex therapy?
People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.
What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?
Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.