Emotionally Focused Therapists in Calgary, AB

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Shelley Ugyan
Counsellor, MA, BAEd
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T2G  (Online Only)
The Science based ground breaking approaches she integrates into your healing are based on proven mind- body science including: EMDR, Clinical Hypnosis, CBT, Imago Dialogue, EFT to name a few.
Shelley Ugyan, RRC, is an acclaimed author, speaker and has over 15 years experience in mental and holistic health. Her evidence based tools including Cognitive Behavioural reconditioning as well as psychodynamic, relational and hypnosis approaches set you on a path to direct healing, starting immediately after the first 90 minute session. Her approach is genuine, empowering and powerful. Healing is probable, and happens as a result of conscious daily actions and unconscious dynamics that shift as a result of this process. Shelley loves to work with individuals who are ready and willing to change their thinking to heal for life.
The Science based ground breaking approaches she integrates into your healing are based on proven mind- body science including: EMDR, Clinical Hypnosis, CBT, Imago Dialogue, EFT to name a few.
Shelley Ugyan, RRC, is an acclaimed author, speaker and has over 15 years experience in mental and holistic health. Her evidence based tools including Cognitive Behavioural reconditioning as well as psychodynamic, relational and hypnosis approaches set you on a path to direct healing, starting immediately after the first 90 minute session. Her approach is genuine, empowering and powerful. Healing is probable, and happens as a result of conscious daily actions and unconscious dynamics that shift as a result of this process. Shelley loves to work with individuals who are ready and willing to change their thinking to heal for life.
(587) 602-1698 View (587) 602-1698
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Olivia Reverie
Registered Provisional Psychologist, BA, MC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T3B
My focus entails collaboration, psycho-education, DBT, Narrative Therapy, ACT, EFT, Gottman Method, inner child healing, trauma-informed, harm-reduction, and sex + pleasure positive based practices.
I am a passionate human who centres on fostering a safe(r) space and practice for all 2SLGBTQ+, BDSM/kinky, BIPOC, abilities, bodies, sex work, and intersecting identities for humans and their experiences. Areas of interest include: relational diversity (poly, open, ENM/CNM), sexuality, BDSM/kink, 2SLGBTQ+ concerns, neurodiversity (ADHD & Autism), assertive communication and boundary setting, life transitions, divorce/separation, addictions, and support for incarceration reintegration/criminal justice involvement.
My focus entails collaboration, psycho-education, DBT, Narrative Therapy, ACT, EFT, Gottman Method, inner child healing, trauma-informed, harm-reduction, and sex + pleasure positive based practices.
I am a passionate human who centres on fostering a safe(r) space and practice for all 2SLGBTQ+, BDSM/kinky, BIPOC, abilities, bodies, sex work, and intersecting identities for humans and their experiences. Areas of interest include: relational diversity (poly, open, ENM/CNM), sexuality, BDSM/kink, 2SLGBTQ+ concerns, neurodiversity (ADHD & Autism), assertive communication and boundary setting, life transitions, divorce/separation, addictions, and support for incarceration reintegration/criminal justice involvement.
(825) 251-9526 View (825) 251-9526
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Jing Liu
Psychologist, MACP, RPsych, CCC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T2P  (Online Only)
I primarily use EMDR, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Mindfulness-based Approach, Body-oriented approach, Polyvagal Informed Therapy, and IFS Informed Therapy.
Do you feel you have been trapped into a negative way of thinking and feeling about yourself and the world you encounter due to past traumas? Have you been feeling insecure about yourself and your relationships with others? Are you struggling with creating healthy boundaries? I am a Registered Psychologist who have worked at a non-profit sector for many years as a mental health clinician, offering counselling services to clients who have complex needs. I provide services for trauma, depression , anxiety, grief and loss, parenting issues, discrimination and oppression, stress, and interethnic marriage struggles.
I primarily use EMDR, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Mindfulness-based Approach, Body-oriented approach, Polyvagal Informed Therapy, and IFS Informed Therapy.
Do you feel you have been trapped into a negative way of thinking and feeling about yourself and the world you encounter due to past traumas? Have you been feeling insecure about yourself and your relationships with others? Are you struggling with creating healthy boundaries? I am a Registered Psychologist who have worked at a non-profit sector for many years as a mental health clinician, offering counselling services to clients who have complex needs. I provide services for trauma, depression , anxiety, grief and loss, parenting issues, discrimination and oppression, stress, and interethnic marriage struggles.
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Michael Enman
Psychologist, PhD, RPsych, CRHSP
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T3R
Located in Calgary, I am a senior Psychologist providing therapy to individuals and couples experiencing emotional and interpersonal challenges, & relationship issues (e.g., affairs, conflict, trust, communication; divorce); mental health disorders, risky/problematic substance use, and/or more general problems of living. I have advanced training in several therapeutic approaches, including, but not limited to: Cognitive-behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavioural Therapy, and couples therapy (Gottman method, Integrative Behavioural Couples Therapy, and Emotionally-focused Therapy). I regularly train PhD students, psychology residents, and provisional psychologists. Additionally, I have expertise working with families (and their adult children), and the assessment/treatment of adult ADHD.
Located in Calgary, I am a senior Psychologist providing therapy to individuals and couples experiencing emotional and interpersonal challenges, & relationship issues (e.g., affairs, conflict, trust, communication; divorce); mental health disorders, risky/problematic substance use, and/or more general problems of living. I have advanced training in several therapeutic approaches, including, but not limited to: Cognitive-behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavioural Therapy, and couples therapy (Gottman method, Integrative Behavioural Couples Therapy, and Emotionally-focused Therapy). I regularly train PhD students, psychology residents, and provisional psychologists. Additionally, I have expertise working with families (and their adult children), and the assessment/treatment of adult ADHD.
(866) 838-5181 View (866) 838-5181
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Zhongxue (Joanna) He
Counsellor, MEng, MC, CCC
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T2N
I integrate concepts and practices from various therapeutic modalities, including SFBT, CBT, DBT, EFT, EMDR, and IFS.
希望可以在你无助、彷徨、痛苦、想要蜕变的时候成为你的陪伴。为你点亮希望,抚平伤痛,打破内心的桎梏,找回那个坚韧、温柔、且智慧自己。I have experience counselling individuals, couples, and families with a wide range of mental health concerns. I aim to provide unwavering support and companionship to my clients during their most challenging moments. My goal is to assist them in discovering hope, inner peace, and happiness by guiding them through the process of healing from their past pains and reconstructing their life patterns. I believe in the inherent strength and potential of each individual, and I am committed to helping them thrive by embracing their true selves.
I integrate concepts and practices from various therapeutic modalities, including SFBT, CBT, DBT, EFT, EMDR, and IFS.
希望可以在你无助、彷徨、痛苦、想要蜕变的时候成为你的陪伴。为你点亮希望,抚平伤痛,打破内心的桎梏,找回那个坚韧、温柔、且智慧自己。I have experience counselling individuals, couples, and families with a wide range of mental health concerns. I aim to provide unwavering support and companionship to my clients during their most challenging moments. My goal is to assist them in discovering hope, inner peace, and happiness by guiding them through the process of healing from their past pains and reconstructing their life patterns. I believe in the inherent strength and potential of each individual, and I am committed to helping them thrive by embracing their true selves.
(825) 254-7744 View (825) 254-7744
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Dr. Kendra Massie
Psychologist, PhD, RPsych
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T2X
My approach is evidence-based and largely informed by attachment, emotionally focused, and cognitive-behavioral treatment modalities.
I am a Clinical Psychologist with a family-focused practice and over 15 years of experience. Children, youth, families, and parents/caregivers often see me when there are concerns about behavior, sleep, anxiety, emotion regulation, family and peer relationships, adjustment (e.g., parental separation, medical diagnosis), and disrupted attachment (e.g., foster care, adoption). Adults seek my services when they have concerns and goals related to relationships, coping, and adjustment. I have worked in diverse settings including children’s hospitals, school districts, a not-for-profit organization, and my private practice.
My approach is evidence-based and largely informed by attachment, emotionally focused, and cognitive-behavioral treatment modalities.
I am a Clinical Psychologist with a family-focused practice and over 15 years of experience. Children, youth, families, and parents/caregivers often see me when there are concerns about behavior, sleep, anxiety, emotion regulation, family and peer relationships, adjustment (e.g., parental separation, medical diagnosis), and disrupted attachment (e.g., foster care, adoption). Adults seek my services when they have concerns and goals related to relationships, coping, and adjustment. I have worked in diverse settings including children’s hospitals, school districts, a not-for-profit organization, and my private practice.
(825) 508-7016 View (825) 508-7016
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Sandy Ashton
Registered Provisional Psychologist, MFT
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T2X
I also utilize Gottman therapy methods along with Emotionally Focused Therapy methods for couples .
I believe that therapy has the ability to promote healing. Clients who are willing to open themselves to the process, will see themselves grow in their resilience, ability to cope with daily life, and heal from traumatic events.
I also utilize Gottman therapy methods along with Emotionally Focused Therapy methods for couples .
I believe that therapy has the ability to promote healing. Clients who are willing to open themselves to the process, will see themselves grow in their resilience, ability to cope with daily life, and heal from traumatic events.
(825) 797-0523 View (825) 797-0523
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Cherub Dhillon
Registered Provisional Psychologist, MA
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T2Z
Cherub takes a person-centered and integrative approach, primarily drawing upon attachment-based theories, Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT), Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), mindfulness and also uses aspects of Positive Psychology and Cross-Cultural Psychology in her work.
Cherub believes in supporting her clients in a compassionate, empathic and non-judgmental way in their journey of overcoming various life challenges. She aims at creating a strong therapeutic alliance with the client by providing them with a safe and comforting environment where they can feel accepted, supported and understood. She is motivated to help clients in their path of self-discovery, self-acceptance and utilization of their own unique strengths as a means towards healing and positive growth.
Cherub takes a person-centered and integrative approach, primarily drawing upon attachment-based theories, Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT), Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), mindfulness and also uses aspects of Positive Psychology and Cross-Cultural Psychology in her work.
Cherub believes in supporting her clients in a compassionate, empathic and non-judgmental way in their journey of overcoming various life challenges. She aims at creating a strong therapeutic alliance with the client by providing them with a safe and comforting environment where they can feel accepted, supported and understood. She is motivated to help clients in their path of self-discovery, self-acceptance and utilization of their own unique strengths as a means towards healing and positive growth.
(587) 850-3306 View (587) 850-3306
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Abrielle (Abby) Heck
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T2P
Abrielle has extensive experience supporting children (5-18 years old) and their families, who are struggling with emotional regulation, anxiety, loss, trauma, transitions and enhancing parent-child connections. She draws on her knowledge and training in Emotionally Focused Therapy, Trauma-Focused Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, Circle of Security, and Play and Art therapy interventions.
Abrielle has extensive experience supporting children (5-18 years old) and their families, who are struggling with emotional regulation, anxiety, loss, trauma, transitions and enhancing parent-child connections. She draws on her knowledge and training in Emotionally Focused Therapy, Trauma-Focused Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, Circle of Security, and Play and Art therapy interventions.
(825) 250-3546 View (825) 250-3546
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Jodie Purnell
Psychologist, MC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T2J
Waitlist for new clients
Trained in ACT, CBT, narrative therapy, emotion-focused therapy (EFT), the Gottman method, & accelerated resolution therapy (ART).
I provide support and guidance for anxiety, trauma, stress, and relationships. My clients say I am their "safe space." I feel privileged to play that role! I have experience working with adults in various stages of relational and personal development. I am also skilled in working with couples. My approach involves a collaborative process of building a genuine therapeutic relationship, defining goals and values, and addressing obstacles to growth. I use a variety of therapy models, depending on specific needs. I accept you as you are as I join you in your journey.
Trained in ACT, CBT, narrative therapy, emotion-focused therapy (EFT), the Gottman method, & accelerated resolution therapy (ART).
I provide support and guidance for anxiety, trauma, stress, and relationships. My clients say I am their "safe space." I feel privileged to play that role! I have experience working with adults in various stages of relational and personal development. I am also skilled in working with couples. My approach involves a collaborative process of building a genuine therapeutic relationship, defining goals and values, and addressing obstacles to growth. I use a variety of therapy models, depending on specific needs. I accept you as you are as I join you in your journey.
(587) 507-5338 View (587) 507-5338
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Danielle Henderson
Counsellor, CCC, MACP
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T3E
I use an eclectic approach in counselling that integrates techniques from Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Solution Focused Therapy, Systems Theory, Cognitive Processing Therapy, Narrative Therapy, Bowen's Theory, and Emotionally Focused Therapy.
Hi, my name is Danielle, and I am here to help you build and access the tools to elicit positive change in your life, and to help you navigate through life's difficulties through counselling. I work with adolescents (13 years and up), individuals and couples to help and support with various concerns, such as anxiety, depression, trauma, self-esteem issues, burnout, stress, communication issues, relational distress, emotional detachment, and relational conflict.
I use an eclectic approach in counselling that integrates techniques from Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Solution Focused Therapy, Systems Theory, Cognitive Processing Therapy, Narrative Therapy, Bowen's Theory, and Emotionally Focused Therapy.
Hi, my name is Danielle, and I am here to help you build and access the tools to elicit positive change in your life, and to help you navigate through life's difficulties through counselling. I work with adolescents (13 years and up), individuals and couples to help and support with various concerns, such as anxiety, depression, trauma, self-esteem issues, burnout, stress, communication issues, relational distress, emotional detachment, and relational conflict.
(825) 251-9509 View (825) 251-9509
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Ingenuity Psychological Resources, Inc.
Psychologist, MS, RPsych
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T2T
I am a clinical psychologist in Calgary, and provide individual, family, as well as group therapy. I also provide comprehensive psychological assessment services, as well as consultation to parents, schools, health care providers, and other professionals. My experience includes previous and current employment in the health care and educational sectors, including hospital and community settings. I typically practice from a cognitive-behavioural therapy model, and use a brief, solution focused approach to therapy. My work with couples and families tends to be more emotionally focused, attachment based, and I use a family systems approach.
I am a clinical psychologist in Calgary, and provide individual, family, as well as group therapy. I also provide comprehensive psychological assessment services, as well as consultation to parents, schools, health care providers, and other professionals. My experience includes previous and current employment in the health care and educational sectors, including hospital and community settings. I typically practice from a cognitive-behavioural therapy model, and use a brief, solution focused approach to therapy. My work with couples and families tends to be more emotionally focused, attachment based, and I use a family systems approach.
(866) 942-9394 View (866) 942-9394
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Lyle Gaskell
Psychologist, R Psych
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T2M
I treat anxiety and depression. These conditions often stem from trauma either from childhood or as an adult. I also work with couples via an Emotionally Focused Therapy which is an approach to couples therapy based on attachment. I believe that an integrative approach, focusing on the whole person, as well as their significant relationships which I believe comprise one's total health and wellness.
I treat anxiety and depression. These conditions often stem from trauma either from childhood or as an adult. I also work with couples via an Emotionally Focused Therapy which is an approach to couples therapy based on attachment. I believe that an integrative approach, focusing on the whole person, as well as their significant relationships which I believe comprise one's total health and wellness.
(587) 209-5292 View (587) 209-5292
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Joanna Jewell
Psychologist, MA, RPsych, CSAT, CMAT
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T2R
I am a trained and experienced counsellor for relationship struggles, trauma, grief, chronic pain and health loss, body image and disordered eating concerns, a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist and an experienced Gottman and EFT trained couples therapist who helps couples enrich and strengthen relationships, intimacy and communication.
Is your life all you want it to be? Are you struggling to make changes on your own and it just ISN'T working? I offer skilled and compassionate counselling in a non-judgmental, safe and confidential environment where you can share your concerns, gain perspective and learn specific, targeted tools to help you navigate life's challenges, improve wellness and heal and move past life's difficulties. Working from a person-centered, holistic approach I blend cognitive-behavioral, psychodynamic (including attachment focused) and interpersonal therapies to individualize the best care for you.
I am a trained and experienced counsellor for relationship struggles, trauma, grief, chronic pain and health loss, body image and disordered eating concerns, a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist and an experienced Gottman and EFT trained couples therapist who helps couples enrich and strengthen relationships, intimacy and communication.
Is your life all you want it to be? Are you struggling to make changes on your own and it just ISN'T working? I offer skilled and compassionate counselling in a non-judgmental, safe and confidential environment where you can share your concerns, gain perspective and learn specific, targeted tools to help you navigate life's challenges, improve wellness and heal and move past life's difficulties. Working from a person-centered, holistic approach I blend cognitive-behavioral, psychodynamic (including attachment focused) and interpersonal therapies to individualize the best care for you.
(587) 412-2710 View (587) 412-2710
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Katrina Shaw
Psychologist, RPsych
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T2S
I work from several therapeutic approaches, including Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT) for individual & couples, Sensorimotor therapy, NLP, EMDR, & Somatic Attachment for the resolution of trauma and past relational wounds.
I have experience working with a variety of client challenges, including relationship challenges (e.g. family conflict, polyamory/open, infidelity, sexuality, attachment patterns), anxiety, depression, identity concerns, life purpose, and transition. I have specialized experience in suicide bereavement, and my predominant areas of practice include grief, attachment, and trauma. My training in somatic attachment is rooted in rewiring the patterning of our interpersonal relationships, which directly impacts how we emotionally process and behave within these relationships.
I work from several therapeutic approaches, including Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT) for individual & couples, Sensorimotor therapy, NLP, EMDR, & Somatic Attachment for the resolution of trauma and past relational wounds.
I have experience working with a variety of client challenges, including relationship challenges (e.g. family conflict, polyamory/open, infidelity, sexuality, attachment patterns), anxiety, depression, identity concerns, life purpose, and transition. I have specialized experience in suicide bereavement, and my predominant areas of practice include grief, attachment, and trauma. My training in somatic attachment is rooted in rewiring the patterning of our interpersonal relationships, which directly impacts how we emotionally process and behave within these relationships.
(587) 801-4306 View (587) 801-4306
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Sara Ludu
Psychologist, RPsych
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T3H
I bring extensive experience in many treatment modalities including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Humanistic-Existential and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy.
I want to help you tap into your innate capacity to heal - help you become open to experience, learn to trust yourself, develop an internal evaluation of yourself and have a willingness to continue growing. In private practice, I provide individual, family, marital/relationship, and group counselling. I treat people across the lifespan including children, adolescents (e.g. navigating identity), adults (e.g. working through relationships, parenting, and career issues), and the elderly (grief and life transitions).
I bring extensive experience in many treatment modalities including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Humanistic-Existential and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy.
I want to help you tap into your innate capacity to heal - help you become open to experience, learn to trust yourself, develop an internal evaluation of yourself and have a willingness to continue growing. In private practice, I provide individual, family, marital/relationship, and group counselling. I treat people across the lifespan including children, adolescents (e.g. navigating identity), adults (e.g. working through relationships, parenting, and career issues), and the elderly (grief and life transitions).
(587) 317-6482 View (587) 317-6482
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Dustin Hrycun
Psychologist, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T3C
CBT, EFT) the artist/creative in me also enjoys bringing in art, mindfulness, imagery/metaphor, and sandtray to the experience.
I aim to meet my clients apart from the pretension and stigmas of the psychology world, as well as the norms of culture/society in general. Creating a space apart from all the things we think we need to be and should be allows for an authenticity to engage the obstacles in life in a new way. Therapy should not be “one size fits all” and so with the expertise that you have of your life, combined with my skills and training, we can work together to get past both the internal and external things keeping you from being more of the human you were meant to be; creating a new mental space where you can continue to grow and thrive.
CBT, EFT) the artist/creative in me also enjoys bringing in art, mindfulness, imagery/metaphor, and sandtray to the experience.
I aim to meet my clients apart from the pretension and stigmas of the psychology world, as well as the norms of culture/society in general. Creating a space apart from all the things we think we need to be and should be allows for an authenticity to engage the obstacles in life in a new way. Therapy should not be “one size fits all” and so with the expertise that you have of your life, combined with my skills and training, we can work together to get past both the internal and external things keeping you from being more of the human you were meant to be; creating a new mental space where you can continue to grow and thrive.
(844) 292-2044 View (844) 292-2044
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Assured Psychology
Psychologist
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T2N
Emotionally Focused Therapy is the primary approach, with additional therapies based on the client’s needs.
First and foremost we see our clients as human-beings trying to do the best they can with what they have truly accessible to them at the time. At Assured Psychology we are blessed to be able to provide counselling services for individuals (adults/older teens) and couples. We are also able to offer family counselling if needed. No matter the mental health or relationship concern, we approach every client from a de-stigmatizing supportive approach.
Emotionally Focused Therapy is the primary approach, with additional therapies based on the client’s needs.
First and foremost we see our clients as human-beings trying to do the best they can with what they have truly accessible to them at the time. At Assured Psychology we are blessed to be able to provide counselling services for individuals (adults/older teens) and couples. We are also able to offer family counselling if needed. No matter the mental health or relationship concern, we approach every client from a de-stigmatizing supportive approach.
(587) 705-0779 View (587) 705-0779
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Oi-Wah Whitbourne
Counsellor, MA, CPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T2E
My latest learning of Emotionally Focused Therapy is the amazing way to help individuals and couples.
Over 30 years, I have the privilege of talking to, listening to, walking with and praying for women & couples who struggle with their family, marital, and interpersonal relationships. In 2002, I graduated with a MA in counselling. Since then I have been counselling formally in the Calgary area. I love to help women to reconnect with God in their spiritual struggles and work on their relationships with others. I have journeyed with many women who experience domestic abuse. The vicious cycle has kept many in terrifying living situations. I also enjoy working with couples who love each other but have a hard time getting along.
My latest learning of Emotionally Focused Therapy is the amazing way to help individuals and couples.
Over 30 years, I have the privilege of talking to, listening to, walking with and praying for women & couples who struggle with their family, marital, and interpersonal relationships. In 2002, I graduated with a MA in counselling. Since then I have been counselling formally in the Calgary area. I love to help women to reconnect with God in their spiritual struggles and work on their relationships with others. I have journeyed with many women who experience domestic abuse. The vicious cycle has kept many in terrifying living situations. I also enjoy working with couples who love each other but have a hard time getting along.
(855) 818-0910 View (855) 818-0910
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Pooja R. Sohal
Registered Provisional Psychologist, MSc
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T3A
I draw from Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Solution-Focused Therapy (SFT), Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT), and Acceptance Commitment Therapy (ACT).
I believe everyone has strengths, support, and a desire for growth. Such support needs to encompass unconditional positive regard and understanding. It is important to meet clients where they are and strive towards their goals with compassion, while gently challenging beliefs. I believe that all clients have a unique perspective of their situation, which is rooted in their identity, values, and culture. My previous work with disadvantaged populations and clients on their grief journey taught me that the challenges individuals face are contextualized to their sociocultural positionality, identity, and relationship dynamics.
I draw from Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Solution-Focused Therapy (SFT), Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT), and Acceptance Commitment Therapy (ACT).
I believe everyone has strengths, support, and a desire for growth. Such support needs to encompass unconditional positive regard and understanding. It is important to meet clients where they are and strive towards their goals with compassion, while gently challenging beliefs. I believe that all clients have a unique perspective of their situation, which is rooted in their identity, values, and culture. My previous work with disadvantaged populations and clients on their grief journey taught me that the challenges individuals face are contextualized to their sociocultural positionality, identity, and relationship dynamics.
(825) 798-0304 View (825) 798-0304

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Emotionally Focused Counsellors

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.