"Awkward, disgusting, depressing..."

You do know she is still a human being, right? God help someone who is disfigured for any reason because of an accident (which her surgery outcome was), or disease, or burns. God help someone who looks "disgusting", why they might as well crawl in a hole and bury themselves alive. She is still a human being, deserving of dignity and enpathy and compassion.
May someone you love bear the inhumanity forced on those who are judged "disfigured".