So you're not a "10" in every which way. But you're probably pretty spectacular in some way, and definitely good enough in most areas of life. If ever there were a time to stop beating yourself up for being human, it is now.
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It might be small-minded, etc
It might be small-minded, etc., but it comes from the same place as exclusion. By exclusion, I also mean in a passive manner.
Limiting ourselves is a personal choice, but at a grander level, it has robust consequences. For example, you are missing out on viewpoint diversity.
American culture is not as pervasive as you think, though. :)