This is beautiful article!
Years ago, I had a friend who's 2 year died from a drowning.
I certainly had no words of comfort for her. All I could do was sit with her. She did eventually open up about how devastated she was.
She was often discouraged from talking about son and she felt like some people wanted her to forget about him like he hadn't existed.
I felt honored when she told me, that by my just listening to her talk about her little boy, that it did more for her, than flowers and prayers offered.