After Commitment

Polyamory

The Problem Isn’t Consensual Non-Monogamy—It’s the Judgment

Rebecca J Cobb Ph.D. on July 9, 2025

Many people have sexual or romantic relationships with more than one person at a time; maybe it’s time to let go of Western society’s cherished monogamy ideals.

Sex

Sex Toys Are More Than Fun for One

Rebecca J Cobb Ph.D. on February 14, 2025

Bored or hoping to boost your sexual satisfaction? Using sex toys with your partner might be the excitement you’re looking for.

Relationships

Positive Illusions Protect Couples From Insecurity

Rebecca J Cobb Ph.D. on February 9, 2024

Men who tend to avoid emotional intimacy can have happier relationships if they have exaggerated views of their partner’s empathy.

Sex

Self-Compassion Can Reduce the Sting of Sexual Problems

Rebecca J Cobb Ph.D. on April 9, 2021

Feeling worried or anxious about your sex life? Being kind to yourself can reduce the sting of sexual problems.

Sex

Have You and Your Partner Defined Your Relationship?

Rebecca J Cobb Ph.D. on February 3, 2019

Defining relationship exclusivity might be important, but it might be risky for some couples.

Body Image

It’s Not Your Body, It’s Your Body Image

Rebecca J Cobb Ph.D. on December 10, 2018

Worried about how you look? Your fears might be ruining your sex life.

Sex

Why Is It so Hard to Talk About Sex?

Rebecca J Cobb Ph.D. on July 30, 2018

Want something different from your partner in bed? Overcoming fears of talking about sexual desires is critical for a satisfying sex life.