What Are You Resisting?

It is easy to accept life’s beautiful things. It is the hard things in life that are hard to accept. The sweet spot is both by accepting the fact that they are what they are.

Love Your Neighbor

Compassion and kindness expresses an inner freedom. 

Love Someone

At a time when you may feel powerless about the wider world, at least locally, here and now, you can make a real difference. Love is never defeated. Heart after heart after heart.

Beware Of Anger

In small and passing quantities, anger can be like medicine, but in large and lasting quantities it poisons the mind and relationships.

Feed the Wolf of Love

The wolf of hate today breeds alienation, anger, and conflicts with others. The wolf of love is fed with our hearts and with hopes.

What Happens When You Look at Someone?

Though fast and efficient this process has lots of problems. As our ancestors evolved, rapid sorting of friend or foe was very useful but is it still.

Trust Yourself

Be your whole self; it's your whole self that you can trust. See what happens when you let yourself fall backward into your own arms, trusting that they will catch you.

How Do You Love?

Love is in our nature, woven into our DNA. Love is a natural wellspring inside us all. It doesn't need to be pushed or pumped. It needs to be released.

Are You Exaggerating Sticks While Downplaying Carrots?

When we wake up and see the facts and live in the light, we feel so much freer, at ease, unthreatened, confident, overflowing, loved, and loving.

What Doesn't Change?

Stillness is a relief from bustle and a source of clarity and peace. Find some quiet amidst the noise. Give yourself space and permission, to be still, at least in your mind.

What Are You Bracing Against?

When criticism does come, will it actually be the terrible experience you dread? Usually not. Try to roll with it, take what's useful, learn and move on.

Are You All Over The Place?

There is a deeper place that is undisturbed, your center. As you deepen your sense of connection with this core of your being, you'll be more resilient, happier, and at ease.

Are You Doing Too Much?

Sometimes you have to give up the rewards of a new thing for the greater rewards of making some space in your life.

Feeling A Little Sour?

Take responsibility for your tone and its impacts, and recommit to a clearer, cleaner, more direct way of expressing yourself.

Who Are You Resisting?

See what it feels like to stop resisting what another person is like while also taking care of your own needs in the relationship. Acceptance is a gift that gives back.

Is It Truly Urgent?

Pressure activates ancient motivational circuits that were very effective in keeping our ancestors alive but even at best, there is an inherent collateral damage.

What Is Your Sense Of Peace?

Enjoy peacefulness. When you experience peace, enjoy it, which will help it sink into you, weaving its way into your brain so it increasingly becomes the habit of your mind.

What Makes Your Life?

We are hungry for love and need others. Let this truth in. Accepting your inherent dependence brings you into harmony with the way life is.

What's Up With These People?

It’s natural for others to want things from you, but it can be stressful. But, there’s a sweet spot from which you can respond to their wants with an internal sense of autonomy.

Can You Come Home to Yourself?

Meditation is the quintessential training of attention. Getting better control of your attention is the foundation of changing your brain, and thus your life, for the better.

Do You Bear a Grudge?

Ill will creates negative, vicious cycles. But that means that goodwill can create positive cycles. Plus, goodwill cultivates wholesome qualities in you.

Do People Ever Make You Mad?

Ill will creates negative, vicious cycles. But that means that good will can create positive cycles. Plus good will cultivates wholesome qualities in you.

Juggling Bricks?

In a way, everything is a cloud, made of parts. Enjoy the clouds. Relax.

To What Is Your Mind Given?

Return to reliable rewards of feeling already full. Savor pleasure, move, lift your eyes to the horizon, enjoy art, feel the core of your body, and come into the present moment.

Wishing Well?

Practice benevolence toward others; look for good things in them. Know what the act and attitude of blessing feels like, and take in the experience to call upon it in the future.

What Can I Do?

We all know that the needs in this world are great. And so are the opportunities to make a big difference to the ones we touch.

What Do Others Want?

You have to actively look for good intentions. You'll find them all around you - the deep goodness in every being. Practice looking for good intentions that may make you happier.

Are We Really So Separate?

When you love the world, you appreciate and care for it. Each of these actions makes you feel good, they help you preserve and improve everything you depend on: air, food, etc.

Mirror, on the Wall, What're the Deepest Wants of All?

Responsive and Reactive modes of living are the foundation of human nature. We have no choice about the vital aims they serve nor about the brain’s capacity to be in either mode.

What Are Your Intentions Towards Others?

It's natural to move between Green and Red. In Green, we are benevolent toward ourselves and the world. In Red we avoid threats and the fight-or-flight nervous system activates.

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