How to Stop Laying Guilt Trips

When we use guilt trips to get our way we are ultimately getting in our own way!

How to Stop Getting Taken on Guilt Trips

We all know what it feels like to be on the receiving end of a guilt trip. In this article, I show how to not get taken for a ride.

How to Put Your Sexual Fights to Bed!

When couples find themselves locked in Sex Wars, non-sexual issues may actually be fueling the bedroom battles. My Reading Between the Sheets technique can help you determine whether nonsexual issues are stoking your sexual fire--but not in a good way!

Why Honesty Isn't Always the Best Policy

Whether you’re getting it off your chest, venting, expressing yourself, airing your feelings or “just being honest,” the truth about honesty is that honesty is not always the best policy.

Is Paula Deen Suffering from Foot IN Mouth Disease?

Paula Deen’s racist gaffe is symptomatic of the worldwide epidemic of what I call Foot IN Mouth Disease. Speaking in a kinder, gentler way is a skill that can be learned. In this article, Dr. Turndorf (aka Dr. Love) shares her 5-step method for controlling your temper and your tongue.

Saying Goodbye to Bullying, Part 2

Find out what YOU can do to put a stop to bullying in your world.

Saying Goodbye to Bullying, Part 1

Bullying has reached epidemic proportions in our society. In this article, I share what causes it and in part two I discuss what you can do to stamp out bullying in yourself, your immediate family and in the world around you.

Was Adam Lanza an Undiagnosed Schizophrenic?

Many psychiatrists are unaware of research linking autism and schizophrenia. Current diagnostic hierarchy treats these two conditions as distinct, and the majority of professionals are unaware they can co-exist. Since schizophrenia can be linked to violent behavior, mental health professionals need to be informed. Early detection is vital to averting a similar tragedy.

Ten Tips for a Sizzling Sex Life

Stress, overwork, financial worries, relationship distress and emotional and physical ailments all conspire to extinguish the human sex drive. Here's an overview of the major causes of inhibited sexual desire and other sexual dysfunctions and explanations on how to overcome the sexual "anemia" that is epidemic in our modern society.

How to Tell If You're a Fighting Junkie

Are you ready to get the Fighting Junkie Monkey off your back?

Listening with Your Heart

Discover how listening with your heart can resolve your conflicts.

Train Your Brain to Fight For (Not Against) You

If you've followed my previous blogs, you know that heated fighting creates a biochemical imbalance in men—called ANS arousal, or the Fight-Flight response.

How Childhood Wounds Cause Chronic Fighting

How relationship fighting is caused by unhealed childhood wounds

The Chemistry of Conflict

How you can use "Relationship Climate Control" to head off fights.

How to Fight Right

Find out how properly handled anger can transform your relationships and the world.