If you take your "unrealistic" ideas and remind yourself the stakes are high for following through and focus on completion, you can make your own reality. Stop shooting yourself in the foot by pretending the stakes are not high.
The challenge of being friends with someone who is diagnosed with ADHD is that if you take his or her behavior personally, the relationship may be hard to sustain. What looks stand-offish can be distraction. An ADD adult impulsively makes commitments he may have trouble keeping.
Many people are stopped in pursing their sweet spot by thinking, “How can I take myself seriously if I don’t have any awards or the right degree?” Sometimes it is this one thought that stands between you and the life of your dreams.
This story tells us the power each one of has to give another person a bigger dream. It took zero time for Mr. Fremuth to give me this vision. He never explained to me why he called me Dr. Honos. Those few milliseconds of encouragement created a fantasy that became a reality.
Some people get a vague idea of what they want and they go after it in the easiest, most convenient way possible. What if you got really precise about what you wanted and took the time to create a plan to go after it?
Your Sweet Spot is where your passion meets your purpose. It’s the thing that you love to do that comes easy to you. It’s where your biggest gifts are. Sometimes our biggest gifts are those things that come as easy to us as falling off a log.
Most of us understand that in deciding to stay in a relationship, the most important thing to consider is going to be the Core Essence of a person. The problem is that it can be really hard to figure out what is the Core Essence of a person and what is the Superficial Side and what is the Daily Dose.