What went wrong with this office friendship?

A year ago I entered into a relationship with a man who works at the same institute as me. His ex-girlfriend also works there and we have friends in common. 

Ditched by a Best Friend

I've had a great best friend for about 6 1/2 years now. We were always depending on each other, hanging out together practically every week. She's been in a new relationship for about a year now and doesn't want to hang out with me. She says that she wants to be selfish and focus on herself, but I see her hanging out with his friends and other people.

How to handle a BFF who hits on your husband

Hi Irene,My best friend since first grade has an obvious crush on my husband.

Her 'other' best friend

My friend just moved here during the summer, and ever since then we've been really good friends. I feel like I can tell her anything and talk about anything. I think we hit Best Friend Status, but I really don't know because she's always talking about her best friend where she used to live..

Getting Rid of an Old Grudge

I was in my best friend's wedding 25 years ago and then never heard from her again, no returned calls---nothing. She had been distancing herself from me for a while so it didn't come as a surprise. But it hurt terribly.  

Changing places and changing friendships

Dear Irene,I have never been the type to initiate friendships, although I can usually guess pretty accurately whether I'll end up being friends with someone from the moment we meet. I just wait for the friendship to 'happen' or for them to make the effort. 

Too desperate for friends at college?

I've been trying to make friends. But every one I meet and click with HAS friends already. I don't. I NEED friends and therefore, when I meet people it's not casual, it's survival.

Left out of happy hour

I was so glad to find this blog. This past year, I've gone through a breakup with a group of work friends and it continues to sting. The problem began when I befriended a new co-worker, whom at first I didn't trust.

Feeling deserted when housemates move out

For the past sixteen months I've lived with two very vibrant, interesting, artistic women in a lovely house in the Toronto Beaches. Two days ago they moved out and I've been crying non-stop. 

Learning from a Facebook tragedy

What would you do if you saw the following status post from a friend on your Facebook feed?"Took all my pills be dead soon bye bye everyone."  

When work and friendship are a volatile mix

Hi Dr. Levine,I'm 28 years old and have had a major relationship bust up. I worked for someone named Risa on and off for a year. She's a graphic designer with her own business. It was a very up and down relationship. She could be very abusive at times and tough to work with but she had days when she could be sweet as an angel.  

Teen daughter without one close friend

Dear Irene,I read another post on your blog regarding a daughter who felt like an outcast. My own daughter was in tears last night because she does not have any close friends.

Finding Friends in the Middle of NOWHERE

We recently retired to the middle of nowhere in Illinois. No neighbors, no friends. My husband is very happy playing with tractors and hunting. I feel like I am just waiting to die.

Friendship: When three's a crowd

For whatever reasons, my friend's friend, Amy, hates me. Although we are all adults (in our 40's!), she acts like a jealous kid in school. She rolls her eyes when I talk, ignores me, constantly takes phone calls during meals out (and it is usually her mother on the phone), and dominates the conversation.

Top Ten Friendship Posts of 2010

The "rules" or etiquette about how to best adapt to a changed friendship are often murky. Friends struggle with doing right by their once-BFFs while remaining true to themselves.

Housebound and lonely: What advice would you give this reader?

I'm 63 years old, and housebound due to health and mobility problems. My family works so they can't come every day. I find myself sitting alone in the house day after day and would love to have someone visit, and sit and talk to me 

Why did my best friend dump me?

In Sunday's UK Mail, journalist Mandy Francis wrote about her experience of being dumped by a friend without warning or explanation. Years later, she still feels the hurt.

The most wonderful time of the year? Not for everyone

Think everyone's feeling jolly this holiday season? Think again. Actually, the time between Thanksgiving and New Year's tends to be stressful for many.

Best friends: Until business does us part

Our best friends, who have no money, wanted to go into business with us. They asked us for a large sum to open an immersion preschool-3rd grade and we said no... 

Handling a 'friend' who doesn’t get the message

While I was in graduate school I worked on a project with a classmate named Mindy. We hung out a few times and I realized that I had little in common with her...

The Work Spouse: Indispensable Friend or Playing with Fire?

With more women entering the workplace, it's not surprising that many develop extraordinarily close ties with colleagues, both male and female. To learn more about these relationships, I spoke to psychiatrist Dr. Jacqueline Olds:

Guest Post: Learning from Elizabeth Edwards

 I am saddened by the Elizabeth Edwards' death. I never knew her personally, but whenever I saw Elizabeth Edwards on television, or read something she wrote, or saw her from afar during her husband's days in D.C., I couldn't help but think that she is one of those women who I'd want to have as my friend. 

Your platonic friend…she’s just not that into you~

Dear Irene,I have read and been told by female friends that when a man is friends with a woman and all of a sudden wants to take it to a romantic level, the woman will "freak out" and get turned off. 

Could she be suffering from friendship fatigue? Could you?

Lately though, I am feeling weary about friendship. That probably sounds odd. But I think I might need some kind of a break from friends, people, and all the effort and confusion that goes into relationships. Don't get me wrong--I'm not about to go live in a cave--and other aspects of my life (work, marriage) are going well.

Handling a friend who needs to have the upper hand

I'm 18 years old and my best friend and I have been friends for seven years. We went to middle school and high school together and even though we aren't at the same college, we are still very close. In the past year or so my best friend has developed a few obnoxious habits that have made me want to avoid her.

Men of A Certain Age: The Real Bromance Behind the Scenes

The groundbreaking TNT comedy-drama, Men of A Certain Age, returns for a second season on Monday, December 6 at 10AM (9PM central). Starring Ray Romano, Scott Bakula, and Andre Braugher, the show really is must-see TV---for men and women.

Helping a 10-year-old deal with bullies

My 10-year-old daughter has been having a lot of trouble with friends recently. Some of the problems are caused by boy drama, and the "he said, she said" game. Kids have been spreading rumors about her, and I just don't know what to do.

When you've co-signed a lease with the roommate from hell

My roommate and I have been friends since high school. We've been living together for only two and a half months now. In that short time, I've learned she has mood issues and that she doesn't forgive easily. We had one big fight that I thought we had resolved.

What do you consider a 'friendship-killer'?

There have been times in the past when I've felt let down by this person - cancelling things at last minute, not reciprocating favors of all kinds - but I always decided I would just take the good with the bad. 

Who deserves the DWTS BFF trophy?

When Jennifer Grey waltzed away with the mirrorball trophy in the Dancing With The Stars (DWTS) finale, it was more than a win. It was an affirmation of the power of female friendship and the important role that our girlfriends play as cheerleaders