Are We Meant For Each Other? Is There a Way to Find Out?

What do couples fight about and are these disagreements inevitable?

Living With No Regrets

Nothing is sadder than to live a life you later wish you had done differently. You can take steps to prevent that now.

Making Time for Intimacy

Intimacy and sex are great when they are part of the same event. They aren't always. Be aware that intimacy needs to be cultivated even when sex takes care of itself.
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How Anger Can Damage Desire

What do you do when you're angry? What does your partner do? And how does it affect your sex life?

Conversations With Yourself: Put-Downs or Pats on the Back

When you talk to yourself do you say "You can do it, kiddo" or "You better not fail again, you loser." Do you habitually use the carrot or the stick, encouragement or insults?

What People Keep Asking Me About Sex and Relationships

Now you'll know what others want to know too, here, and in educational and entertaining essays on every aspect of dating and mating, socializing and sexuality.

How to Get Someone to Like You

Whether you're 15 or 75, securing the affections of your desired loved one is natural to want and challenging to obtain. Is there a secret to it?


Threesomes keep popping up in the media with a given individual's pros and cons. I don't think one can generalize. Each one is unique. Intrigued?

A Life in Balance: A Grownups' 4 H Club

One problem area of your life can disturb all others areas sending everything seriously out of balance. Take an appraising look at these 4 H's. Is your milking stool stable?

Fighting With Your Partner

Some fights may be inevitable but frequent fighting within an intimate relationship is no way to enjoy life.

The Opposite of Jealousy

Is jealousy a natural part of a romantic or sexual relationship? It doesn't have to be.

Intimate Relationships and Electronic Devices

Leaving a paper trail used to be thought of as potentially incriminating. What about an electronic one?

Is Living Together What You Expected?

Living with another person has good and bad aspects, usually both.

Is My Partner Cheating and Should I Care?

Going outside a committed relationship does not necessarily mean what you think it means to either partner and many reactions to this are possible.

My Time, Your Time, Our Time

"Time is of the essence" is written into most legal contracts. It's not, but should be, by most couples as well. How you and your partner allot your time will be critical.

What Do You Want?

You are much more likely to get what you want if you are quite clear of what that might be.

Guidelines For Dealing With A Partner's Affair

Affairs can end the relationship or strengthen it and they are always occasions for re-evaluation.

Baseless Beliefs About Love

Certain baseless beliefs and miserable myths about love and relationships set too many people up for disappointment.

"I Don't Like My Wife"

If you want to know what's going on, ask in such a way that is likely to get you an honest answer.

Sleeping Together: The Intimacy of Sharing a Bed

Intimacy takes many forms. Sharing a bed for sleep is one of them.
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The Case for Looking Up Old Flames

Someone in your past may hold the key to your future. Is it worth a second look?

Finding Your Tribe

Most of us feel we want to belong somewhere. Can we find our crowd or can we create it?

Can You Fall Back in Love With Your Partner?

Falling in love is always exciting, and can be even more so when it's with your own mate.

Is It Normal? Am I?

Whatever you are, have, think about or do, be assured that you are not alone in the universe and that there are likely to be people who admire and desire whatever it is you are worried about.

Sex and Parenting

The comfort of good loving often falls to the bottom of the To Do list, just when it is most needed.

The Right Way to Bring Romance Into Your Life

“Incurable gadget collector.” “Hopeless opera fan.” Even when it’s something appropriate like “incurable cancer” or “hopeless Alzheimer's patient,” a hopeless or incurable anything sounds depressing. Why then take pride in being a hopeless romantic?

Cheating Ethically?

I can think of no circumstance in which cheating of any klind can be ethical. Can you?

What Makes A Great Lover

The ingredients that comprise a great lover may surprise you.

Unnatural Sex

Unnatural sex is absolutely relative. One must ask "Unnatural to whom?"

Ninety Minute Therapy Sessions

Psychtherapy sessions, like other intense encounters, must have a length that satisfies all parties involved.